I do it every Christmas period. For some unbeknown reason, usually around Boxing Day, I decide it might be a good idea to go in search of a husband. I don’t know what comes over me. It must be the […]
It has to be said. I’m a never-nude. While my boyfriend takes almost every possible moment to whip his clothes off, I’m happy to keep it AbFab Saffy. He says I’m the only person he knows who dresses up to […]
The past was deeply homophobic. It drove would be out gays, lesbians and bisexual people deep underground and now is their time to walk, heads held high into the light. When I used to volunteer for an LGBT+ helpline, our […]
For years, my friends have been nagging me to get some gay friends. Apparently they’re concerned that my circle consists of straight ladies, their husbands and my gaggle of old dears from the church. “You’ll never find a life partner […]
My first 3 With Christmas just gone I look back to the winter of 1981 where my driving career started. I’ve been rather fortunate with a recent eBay purchase that I hadn’t actually gone looking for and to be honest, […]
You would have thought that I’d learnt my lesson about venturing outside of London for dates. But no, ever the glutton for punishment, when my latest beau, Kevin suggested a day trip to Brighton, I jumped at the chance. Kevin […]
After a long-term, online, long-distance relationship with a guy that turned out to be transgender, THE UNDATEABLE GAY goes to meet the man of his dreams… I’ve deleted all my dating apps. There’s not one to be found on my […]
The world is various shades of grey and there isn’t a ‘universally agreed’ rule book on behaviour everyday behaviour. What you see as something despicable others may well not see as that bad. They may even see you as the villain and this other person the ‘hero’.
When it comes to sex, I’ve always found myself to be plain and simple. Not boring, I would like to point out immediately. But I’m not one for these chains and whips activities. I mean, I’ve got nothing against anyone […]
Amsterdam Pride is an LGBT+ festival held annually in Amsterdam during the first weekend of August.
This week, The Undateable Gay goes to prison… Not as an inmate, but to run a social event for gay and bi prisoners.