In an era where LGBTQ+ visibility is at an all-time high, it’s tempting to think that the fight for gay spaces is behind us. Same-sex marriage has been legal in the UK for over a decade, Pride festivals attract record numbers, and even your local high street might have rainbow bunting in June. But for many gay men, especially post-pandemic, there’s a growing recognition that visibility alone isn’t enough—we still need places where we can truly belong.
For years, there’s been talk of the “death of the gay bar.” With the rise of dating apps and more integrated social scenes, many LGBTQ+ venues across the UK—from Manchester’s Canal Street to London’s Soho—have closed their doors. But now, something interesting is happening: a quiet but powerful resurgence of queer spaces.
More and more, queer spaces are becoming cultural hubs. Nights out aren’t just about drinks and dancing—they’re about drag bingo, queer cabaret, LGBTQ+ film nights, Rock Painting or just a place to sit with a friend and feel seen.
The vibe is shifting from survival to celebration.
And in 2025, celebration is political. As conversations around identity become more complex, and occasional headlines still stir up anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric, there’s real value in being surrounded by people who understand your story without needing an explanation.
So this summer, go beyond the apps. Head to that Pride picnic, check out the local gay pub, or support a queer-run event in your city.
These aren’t just nights out—they’re lifelines, full of laughter, history, and possibility.
Gay spaces in the UK aren’t fading—they’re evolving. And they still matter. Maybe now more than ever.
Does it ever feel like you actually run out of stuff to watch on Netflix?
Trouble is, Netflix can feel like a bit of an iceberg, only a fraction of the available content is easy to find right there on the front page. The rest, the hidden 90 per cent, can feel like a taunting and neverending task of endless searching.
Strangely enough using Netflix.com can be easier to find the content you’re looking for, rather than Fire TV or the dreaded Apple TV.
Weirdly depending on what device you’re using, searching Netflix for that next great find can either simple or an hours worth of wasted time. We’ve used a number of devices ranging from the simplest (iPad) to the mediocre (Fire TV) to the downright unstable (Apple TV gen 2) .
For the record, using Netflix’s website to find content is always much easier. So you might want log in there first using your laptop or iPad find something that looks good then go back to your browsing device and use the search to manually type in the title.
Luckily Netflix has tagged all of its content quite well and we’re happy to report that gay content has been divided into sub-genres to help you get the exact kind of content you’re in the mood for.
Don’t spend hours and hours blindly searching. Use these links to find exactly what you’re looking for.
So what are these secret links? Well, all gay films can be found on genre link 5977, while TV shows can be found on link 65263. If you were looking for a foreign language LGBT+ film you’d be able to find the full list of content on link 8243.
Here’s all the links to get you to exactly what you’re looking for
Step aside, chestnuts roasting on an open fire – it’s time for a Big Gay Christmas playlist that’s dripping in glitter and wrapped in a rainbow bow. We’re diving into the most fabulous, the most extra, and the undeniably gayest Christmas songs that have ever jingled their way into our festive hearts. From diva duets to campy carols, get ready for a sleigh ride through a wonderland where tinsel is the only acceptable accessory, and Mariah Carey reigns supreme. It’s a gay celebration of holiday tunes that would make even the most stoic sugar plum fairy twirl with joy. Let the gayest Christmas playlist commence! 🌈🎄✨ #SlayBellsRing #QueerHolidayHarmony
Mariah and Ariana with Jennifer Hudson: Oh Santa
Why this track is topping the list: Because let’s face it, every gay couldn’t stop raving about Mariah and Ari’s epic whistle harmony. It’s the diva duet we didn’t know we needed, and now we can’t get enough! 🌟🎤 #WhistleGoals #MariahAndAriMagic
Lady Gaga: Christmas Tree
Why this bop made the cut: Serving major The Fame vibes (hello, 2008 throwback!), this track is the ultimate cheeky delight. With lines like “Ho ho ho, under the mistletoe / Yes, everybody knows / We will take off our clothes” and “My Christmas tree is delicious,” it’s a festive feast of sass straight from the pop queen herself. 🎄🎶 #GagaVibes #CheekyChristmasJams
Ariana Grande: Santa Tell Me
Why this anthem earns its spot: Because, let’s be real, every fabulous soul can vibe with the “Santa, tell me if you’re really there / Don’t make me fall in love again if he won’t be here next year” chorus. It’s the queer holiday mood we’ve all felt at least once! 🎅❤️🌈 #SantaSpillTheTea #RelatableJams
WHAM!: Last Christmas
Why this classic earns its spot: Because, let’s be real, this timeless masterpiece sounds just as hauntingly beautiful today as it did over three decades ago. Plus, it’s the Christmas anthem that sparked a gazillion covers. It’s the gift that keeps on giving, darling. 🎄🎶 #TimelessTunes #CoverWorthyClassic
Kelly Clarkson: Underneath The Tree
Why this track secures its spot: Because Kelly is sneakily making a play for Mariah’s Queen of Christmas throne. The vocals are fierce, the holiday vibes are strong, and somewhere in the festive universe, there’s a diva duel for the crown. 👑🎄 #KellyVsMariah
Amy Winehouse: I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus
Why this song is on this list: Because every Amy song we have is a treasure.
Katy Perry: Cosy Little Christmas
Why this track sleighs on our list: Because Katy Claus gifted us a quirky and up-tempo holiday anthem — complete with a campy music video to jingle all the way. It’s festive, it’s fab, and it’s Katy in her holiday prime! 🎄🎁 #KatyClausMagic #CampyChristmasVibes
Sia: Santa’s Coming For US
Why this bop is on the list: Because it’s not just a dancy delight; it’s the ultimate test of gay lyrical prowess. Watch the fabulous spectacle as fellow queers try to keep up with the lyrics and realize they’re in for a jolly challenge. It’s the perfect blend of dancefloor magic and lyrical hilarity! 💃🎤 #DanceAndLyricStruggles #GayKaraokeRealness
Jake Hook: Hey Santa! Bring My Baby Back.
One of our own… I mean he’s singing about being a good boy…. purlease. We know the score honey.
Eartha Kitt: Santa Baby
Why this classic graces our list: Because, darlings, nearly every pop diva has taken a swing at this tune, but not a single one has twirled close to the enchanted original by Eartha Kitt. Her rendition is a bewitching spell that no cover can quite replicate. 🌟🎤 #EarthaMagic #OriginalDivaDelight
Cher and Rosie O’Donald: Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)
Why this anthem made the cut: Because it’s basically “Believe” dressed up in a fabulously glittery Christmas ensemble! Cher, but make it festive. 🌟🎄 #BelieveInChristmasMagic #GlitteryTunes
Britney: My Only Wish This Year
Why this tune reigns supreme on the list: Because in that extra fabulous corner of gay heaven, this song is on a festive loop during the holiday season. It’s the heavenly anthem that keeps the gay joy flowing in style. 🌈🎄 #GayHeavenPlaylist #FestiveFabulosity
With Christmas looking a lot different to normal years in 2020, we thought we’d put together a fun True or False game that you can play over Zoom for a virtual Christmas day get-together.
1) Queer as Folk first aired on BBC 2 in the UK
2) The first-ever gay hardcore porn to be released in the UK was in 2004
3) Homosexuality became legal in the UK in 1969 the same year as the Stonewall Riots
4) There have been 4 LGBT+ winners of Big Brother in the UK
5) To the nearest million how much did The Birdcage starring Nathan Lane and Robin Williams gross world-wide a) $1,240,000 b) $12,400,000 c) $124,000,000
6) According to a poll conducted by THEGAYUK, what percentage of British Gay men, said they were comfortable being called “Queer” was it a) 7% b) 60%
7) There are 9 stripes in the original Gilbert Baker rainbow flag
8) The World AIDS Day Red Ribbon was first seen in 1990
9) The Conservative party ended Section 28 in England and Wales
10) One of the UK’s most prominent LGBT+ activists, Peter Tatchell will be 70 in 2021
11) WHAM’s “Last Christmas” has been a Number 1 3 times since its release in 1984
12) Idina Menzel sings ‘let it go’ 21 times in ‘Let It Go’ from Frozen
13) The first Prowler store opened in 1997
14) In 2016 Prince Harry made history by becoming the first Royal to be a cover star of a gay magazine
15) The most used emoji on Grindr is
16) Grindr was launched in what year?
17) The average length of an erect penis in the UK is 5.5 inches
18) There are just under 90 prides in the UK
19) Will & Grace had how many episodes a) 180 b) 300 c) 246
20) Sam Smith has had a Christmas number 1
Answers
1) False it aired on Channel 4 in 1999.
2) True, up until 2004 the only gay porn allowed to be produced in the UK was softcore porn
3) False it was actually decriminalised in the UK two years before the Stonewall Riots in the US.
4) True. The first was Brian Dowling, followed by Nadia Almada, then Luke Anderson, the final series was won by Cameron Cole
5) c
6) a) 60% of people said it was “unacceptable”
7) False, there are 8. Hot Pink, Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Cyan, Royal Blue, Purple
8) False it was 1991 when the Red Ribbon made its debut
9) False it was under Tony Blair’s Labour which ended Section 28.
10) False he will actually be 69 in January 2021
11) False Despite it’s popularity, Last Christmas has never been a UK number 1
12) True – she sings it 21 times!
13) True it opened in 1997
14) False it was actually his brother, Prince William
15) False it’s actually the
16) It was launched in 2009
17) True. According to stats released in 2015, the average erect penis is 5.5 inches in the UK – apparently in the US, it’s 5.2 inches!
18) False at last count there were over 152 prides in the UK
19) B 246 episodes over 11 seasons
20) True although it was part of an ensemble. Sam sung on Do They Know It’s Christmas Band Aid 30.
There’s a whole lot of gay going down at Edinburgh this year, here’s our top picks for what LGBTQ+ people should look out for whilst out at the fringe.
Stephanie Martin (Juniper and Jules; Joy) who is bringing her new comedy DID YOU MEAN TO FALL LIKE THAT? about expectations we place on ourselves through the lens of modern-day masculinity and the sexual as well as personal awakenings that might arise when life hasn’t quite gone according to plan. In this one-man show, James McGregor (Harry Potter And The Cursed Child, The Palace Theatre; Pride, Pathé) will take on the role of Charlie, who is on a journey of healing whilst rejecting the pressures from society and embracing sexual fluidity.
WHERE AND WHEN: Pleasance Courtyard (Bunker 3), Wednesday 31st July – Monday 26th August 2024, 11:35
PILLOCK has ADHD and is trying to keep his head above water, but he is drowning in loneliness, hook-up culture and medical role-plays. Then he meets Eugene – but will he be Mr Right or Mr Right Now? Pillock wants to trust his gut, but with his lactose intolerance, his can’t even handle a Muller Corner. Capturing the essence of the ADHD experience, Pillock is a darkly hilarious coming-of-age remix following a young man who is struggling with ADHD while dreaming of something bigger and wanting more from life.
WHERE AND WHEN: Assembly George Square (Front Room), 1st – Monday 26th August 2024, 18:25
SECONDS TO MIDNIGHT explores queer friendship, platonic love and nuclear anxiety, following Jo and Eddie through the first seven minutes of their friendship – and the final seven hours of the world. With most queer stories on stage and screen focussed around romance, Love Song Productions set out to fill the gap by making a show about queer friendship. While female friendship is often written about, very few stories have been told about the unique dynamic between queer men and women when the possibility of attraction is taken away.
WHERE AND WHEN: Pleasance Courtyard (Bunker One), Wednesday 31st July – Monday 26th August 2024 (not 7th, 14th, 21st), 11.45am
A new play by Rachel E. Thorn, which was longlisted for the Kenneth Branagh Award, is coming to Pleasance Courtyard this Edinburgh Fringe festival, and it’s all about the utter selfishness of true love. ME FOR YOU tackles the fundamental paradox of modern life – we want to be good people but we’re just so bloody self-absorbed. The play is about a gay couple who join Extinction Rebellion in a bid to save the planet. In the process, they have to face the fact that we do good things for personal gain. After all, what could be more selfish than being in love?
WHERE AND WHEN: Pleasance Courtyard (The Green), Thursday 1st – Saturday 25th August 2024 (not 7th and 13th), 18:10
THINGS BETWEEN HEAVEN AND EARTH is a psychological thriller that depicts the aftermath of a widow discovering her husband’s affair and murder through a book written by their close friend, exposing everything to the whole world. From a global majority perspective of East Asian culture, LGBTQ rights may seem integrated to Western countries, but elsewhere, a profound stigma persists. Things Between Heaven and Earth delves into the persistent taboo surrounding homosexual relationships, prevalent not only in the 64 countries that still criminalise them but also within immigrant communities locally.
WHERE AND WHEN: Underbelly Bristo Square (Jersey), Thursday 8th – Monday 26th August (not 13th), 13:00
With six actors, six roles and one story – There are hundreds of combinations for the audience to choose as they direct the love story of the summer. REJECT ME ALREADY provides a space of endless possibilities with pairing across gender and sexuality. From newcomer Paul Richard Keegan comes this light-hearted yet sincere romcom that gives the audience the chance to develop the characters and story and build the world around them, even as they watch.
WHERE AND WHEN: Greenside (Lime Studio), Friday 2nd – Saturday 24th August, 19.40
IN DEFIANCE OF GRAVITY: Ezra Montefiore is the greatest psychic to have ever lived. He’s a master of the séance, telekinesis, and spirit summoning. Eyewitnesses swear he can raise the dead, heal the sick, and levitate 70 feet into the air. He defies all scientific explanations. But when an unexpected encounter with Prince Felix Yusupov catapults Ezra into the world of Russia’s aristocracy, he finds himself entangled in a dangerous game of power, seduction, and political intrigue. As rumours of his affair with both the prince and his wife reach the ears of Rasputin, Ezra faces an impossible choice: denounce himself as a fraud or commit political murder.
WHERE AND WHEN: Summerhall (Demonstration Room), 1 Summerhall, Edinburgh EH9 1PL. Thursday 1st August –Monday 26thAugust 2024(not 12th, 19th), 21:15
In the midst of contemporary London, Adam (played by Andrew Scott) experiences a serendipitous meeting with his enigmatic neighbour, Harry (portrayed by Paul Mescal), one night in his sparsely populated tower block. This encounter disrupts Adam’s usual routine, leading to the blossoming of a relationship between them. However, Adam becomes consumed by memories of the past, prompting him to revisit the suburban town of his upbringing and his childhood home. There, he is confronted with a perplexing discovery: his parents (depicted by Claire Foy and Jamie Bell) seem to be frozen in time, inhabiting their lives exactly as they were thirty years earlier, on the day of their tragic demise.
This award-winning and Sundance Festival-selected film is an intricate look at the lives of two men who enter into a relationship in 90s New York.
Erik is a Danish documentary film-maker who meets Paul via a telephone chat-line. Erik is anxious about commitment and lawyer Paul has a steady girlfriend. What starts off as a casual sexual relationship develops into something more meaningful and romantic. The film charts the two lovers throughout their turbulent ten-year relationship.
The two main characters’ lives take on unexpected turns and as Erik becomes more responsible and committed, Paul’s more orderly life spirals out of control as his recreational drug abuse becomes a destructive habit. The relationship enters a series of cycles of damage and renewal as the film charts their lives.
The film is beautiful to watch but also painful to view in places, but ultimately provides a meaningful glimpse into the areas of both lightness and shade which relationships can pass through. The balance of the film is such that the story never feels too bleak but is balanced with erotic tension, a compelling storyline and occasional bursts of humour. Strong performances from the cast add to the emotional intensity of the film.
Highly recommended for a moving and fascinating insight into the life cycle of a relationship.
Are you a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community with a penchant for tarot readings? Well, brace yourself because the ultimate fusion of queerness and tarot landed in your vibrant shopping universe last year and it’s still making our queer little hearts sing!
Ash & Chess, the powerhouse behind The Gay Agenda and a stellar LGBTQ+-owned stationery brand, has unveiled the highly anticipated Queer Tarot deck.
After months of teasing on their social media channels, the dynamic duo, Ashley Molesso and Chess Needham, a queer and trans couple, graced us with an utterly gay tarot deck back in 2022.
This deck is a kaleidoscope of bold colours and pride-flag imagery, fulfilling the desires of our gay hearts that have been yearning for such a creation. While some modern decks feature LGBT+ representation in select cards, the Queer Tarot goes above and beyond, portraying exclusively gay, trans, and queer individuals in every single card. It’s a challenge to articulate, but fellow LGBTQ+ individuals will undoubtedly recognize the indescribable magic that this deck captures—the essence of queer joy.
Trust me, there’s not a single straight vibe in sight.
Curious to know what I, a gay tarot card reader, really think about this wonderfully queer deck?
Well, I’m head over heels for it. I love the colours, the vibe and the overall feel of this tarot pack. If you’ve been on the hunt for a tarot deck that authentically reflects you and your community, your quest officially concludes here.
Keep scrolling to dive into the vibrant world of the Queer Tarot. 🏳️🌈🔮✨
What’s in the box?
Created by queer and trans artists, this reimagining of the classic figures in the Major and Minor Arcana showcases a wide range of gender expressions and sexual orientations and incorporates queer history and iconography throughout.
Each card in Queer Tarot is based on real LGBTQ+ people and celebrates a full range of races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, sizes, and abilities.
THE PRIDE SHOP sells this item cheaper than most shops including Amazon. You can get it under the RRP here. Plus you’ll be supporting an LGBTQ+ company.
Fuming fans took to X formerly Twitter to vent about not getting Girls Aloud tickets last week, as a number of fans were left queuing for hours on Ticketmaster for the site to then crash. To add salt to the wound, overpriced resale tickets for the pop group’s reunion are already sweeping social media.
With many left with no choice but to turn to resale sites to buy their tickets, they could become prime targets for scammers. The experts at Scams.info have provided some helpful tips on how to detect a scam to ensure you don’t fall for one.
Top 5 useful ways to avoid a reseller site scam…
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Pay attention to the payment method
When shopping for resold tickets online, it is crucial to make payments through the actual website itself. Often online scammers might put pressure on a buyer not to use a site’s secure payment methods, and instead pay through a bank transfer before the product has been seen or received. Such seller practices should always raise a red flag. Try to avoid sellers advertising through social platforms such as Facebook, X [Twitter], and Instagram.
Demand current photos of the product
Whatever ticket you’re trying to purchase, request that the seller send you a recent photo of it or a screenshot of the ticket confirmation. Ask them to set the printed-out ticket(s) or confirmation next to a piece of paper with your name written on it, for example. If they’re unwilling to do so, chances are they don’t have the product at all, so don’t proceed with the transaction.
Look out for extremely low-priced products
Tickets sold for unbelievably low prices are a definite warning sign. Do your research and look around other websites to check the average price of the tickets you’d like to buy. With the demand for sold-out shows always set to be so high, resold tickets will most likely be overpriced. Remember: if the price seems way too good to be true, it most likely is.
Check the seller’s profile
Ideally, the seller should have reviews on their profile from previous buyers that you can read. Also be aware of too many positive reviews which sound the same. Inspect the profile carefully for anything that might look suspicious and if you see something, don’t risk buying from that seller.
Decline overpayments if you’re the seller
While it might not happen too often, scammers may target sellers as well. They may pay more than the set price and then say they’ve made a mistake before asking for a partial refund. The seller will send the refund, only to discover the original payment had been cancelled. If a person is acting suspiciously when you decline an overpayment and ask for the correct amount, it could mean they’re a scammer!
November brings a spark of passion, Aries. You’re feeling confident and ready to pursue your desires. Your boldness is your charm, so embrace it. Love may come your way when you least expect it, so keep your heart open.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20):
Taurus, this month, focus on nurturing the connections that matter most to you. Your loyalty and steadfastness can lead to deep and meaningful relationships. Keep the home fires burning with your love.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20):
Communication is your strong suit, Gemini. November is an excellent time for candid conversations. Whether you’re dating or in a relationship, talk openly about your desires and build connections through words and wit.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22):
Your intuition is your guiding star this month, Cancer. Trust your feelings and let your emotions lead you. Deep emotional connections are on the horizon, so allow vulnerability to strengthen your relationships.
Leo (July 23 – August 22):
You’re the life of the party, Leo, and November is no exception. Your confidence and charisma will draw people to you. Enjoy the attention and let love find you while you’re shining in the spotlight.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22):
Attention to detail serves you well, Virgo. This month, focus on the little things that make your relationships special. Your practicality and thoughtfulness create lasting bonds.
Libra (September 23 – October 22):
Balance and harmony are your goals, Libra. November is an ideal time to work on creating equilibrium in your relationships. Express your feelings and work toward compromise for a harmonious love life.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21):
It’s your birthday season, Scorpio! Your magnetic energy is at its peak. Embrace your sensuality, and you’ll have admirers flocking to you. Be selective in choosing those who deserve your intense love and passion.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21):
Happy birthday, Sagittarius! Your free spirit and optimism shine brightly. November may bring opportunities for new beginnings in love. Embrace adventure and explore new connections with an open heart.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19):
Capricorn, your determination in love is unwavering. This month, set your sights on your relationship goals. Your persistence can lead to a deep and lasting connection.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18):
Your unique outlook on life makes you intriguing, Aquarius. Share your quirks and ideals with those who appreciate them. November encourages connections that celebrate individuality.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20):
Your compassion is your superpower, Pisces. This month, your caring nature can create strong emotional bonds. Dive deep into the waters of love and let your intuition guide you to meaningful connections.
Enjoy your November journey of love and self-discovery! 🏳️🌈💖
Welcome to your fabulously gay astrological forecast! In these gay-tastic horoscopes, we’re spilling the cosmic tea on love, relationships, and everything fabulous. Whether you’re an LGBTQ+ trailblazer or just here for some celestial sass, we’ve got the stars’ scoop on your romantic rainbow ride. So, grab your glitter, check your charts, and let’s sashay into the fabulous world of gay horoscopes
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Aries (March 21 – April 19):
This month, Aries, love is in the air for you. Your enthusiasm and boldness will help you connect with someone special. Just be sure to give them the space they need too.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20):
Your patience will pay off this month, Taurus. Keep an open heart, and you might find a connection that’s strong and enduring. It’s all about trust.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20):
Geminis, your charm and wit are your secret weapons. Use them to their fullest this month to make new connections and deepen existing ones.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22):
Your emotional depth, Cancer, is your strength. This month, embrace your nurturing side and create a safe haven for love to flourish.
Leo (July 23 – August 22):
You’re the star of the show, Leo. Use your charisma and generosity to light up your love life. Your radiant energy will attract admirers.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22):
Details matter, Virgo. Pay attention to the small things in your relationships this month. Your analytical skills will lead you to meaningful connections.
Libra (September 23 – October 22):
Balance is your motto, Libra. Find harmony in your relationships this month by communicating openly and listening actively. Your grace shines through.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21):
Your intensity and passion are your strengths, Scorpio. Embrace them to deepen your emotional connections. This month, let your guard down a bit.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21):
Your sense of adventure is attractive, Sagittarius. Embrace your free spirit, and you’ll attract like-minded individuals who appreciate your zest for life.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19):
Capricorn, your determination and ambition extend to your relationships. Focus on building a stable foundation for lasting love this month.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18):
Your unique and unconventional approach to love sets you apart, Aquarius. Embrace your individuality and connect with those who appreciate your quirkiness.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20):
Pisces, your empathy and sensitivity make you a natural lover. This month, trust your intuition and let your heart guide you to deeper connections.
Remember, these horoscopes are just for fun and entertainment. Love is a complex and individual experience that can’t be determined solely by your zodiac sign. Enjoy the journey of love in all its forms!
