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  • Bananarama: Really Say Quite A Lot.

    Bananarama: Really Say Quite A Lot.

    Rating: 4 out of 5.

    What has literally lasted 40 years, started with a Swahili song, made with different collaborators and producers, gone on to make 11 albums to date, have an entry in the Guinness Book of Records, looks to have no signs of slowing down and in my eyes at least, the envy of many groups?

    Bananarama that is what. 2020 has been a funny year and to help while away the time, Sara Dallin and Keren Woodward sat down to write their story and what a story.

    It’s a blanket and PJ book for a cold day. Written in a style that reads as though the girls are with you for a cozy chat about the past and present, it starts before they even knew they would be famous or forge an enviable back catalogue of music and memories. To top this there is also a friendship that makes you the reader both happy and wishful that you too can have one as close as this. Some of it captured in 47 pages of pictures.

    Coming from a time before the internet gave you “access all areas” of a celebrities life, it was quite shocking to read that Keren was pregnant during the True Confessions album. I can’t proclaim to be a super fan, to be honest, personal details of celebrities I admire the most don’t really both me, so this was a surprise to me. And the revelations kept coming. 

    Along the way we had snippets of time where the girls would mingle and hang out with the likes of the late George Michael and Keith Flint. All stories affectionately told. It’s a glimpse into the life they have as pop royalty. 

    The warts-n-all come with Keren confessing about her struggle with mental health. She has been been surrounded by it since childhood with her own mother suffering badly from it at a time when there were no self-help books or support groups. 

    They talk about their struggles from bedsit living to the glamour of getting a council flat where they held a brief conversation with Robert DeNiro before agreeing to meet him. And the struggles of not really being taken seriously.  It’s easy to dismiss girl groups in the male dominated industry and this topic is mentioned throughout the book. And you can be forgiven for thinking that they just turned up and sang songs. Delve in deeper and you discover they are more than pretty musical things. Bananarama write most of their songs. 

    What is apparent is the almost absence of mentioning Siobhan Fahey and Jacquie O’Sullivan. Not really a criticism because when you strip back the banana skin, Bananarama has been a 2 piece girl group for 30 years. Hard to really compute that they were only a 3 piece for 1 decade. It’s in this book that for me as a reader, my mind is blown away. You simply forget they are a 2 piece.

    So is this a book about the end? Not a chance. At 58 and 59 respectively, the Banana’s give zero hints that they will be hanging up the microphones soon and personally I’m glad about that. I’m quite sure they really have something more to say. Book 2? I suspect so. In the meantime, you need to read this one first.

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  • BOOK REVIEW | Two Jeeps, An American Road-Trip by Alex Kefford 

    BOOK REVIEW | Two Jeeps, An American Road-Trip by Alex Kefford 

    Rating: 5 out of 5.

    Have you ever wanted to take to the interstates of America in a vehicle of your choosing and explore the land of the free? That is exactly what author Alex and good friend Vince did with a few twists and turns more worthy of most tricky off-roading courses for any 4×4 out there.

    With the idea set into their minds in somewhere in 1998 where our intrepid travellers met as office workers, it wasn’t until much later that the idea started to become a reality when it was discovered Vince needed to be in Utah for a wedding. A plan to travel coast to coast across America in 2 Jeeps taking in as many national parks as they could was hatched.

    The twist, to import 2 UK righthand drive Jeeps to the starting line in Connecticut. The turn was to turn their UK road-ready Jeeps into weapons for the broken tracks they would encounter in the USA. The reasons for this was in the economies of scale it simply proved to be far more economical to have the Jeeps modified in the US by a company that had access to the many Jeep parts needed. And for the love of the mechanical appliance, there is something quite emotive about taking your own vehicle on holiday.

    So Alex (and Vince) starts the tale with a fraught check-in at Heathrow and cutting it to the wire with an unforgiving schedule that doesn’t stop over the next 17 of the 18 chapters, 222 pages and 5572 miles across 15 states of America. 

    Interspersed within the book are the joyless searches for various motels, the fact that Vince can’t handle his alcohol, the vast array of pancakes eaten and a nice touch of historical relevance to the places visited. It’s these little historical touches that help mark this out to be not another ‘man drives across America’ book. The chapters themselves are relatively short being around a dozen or so pages each and this is broken down into the journey, little snippets of fun in the narrative that carry the reader from one State to another. 

    With all States having their own peculiar ways not just in rules of the road but the local constabulary, the unfathomable way fuel is distributed and some of the crazy laws of the local eating establishments. It makes for an easy and interesting read like Alex is with you telling you the story first hand in a pub garden.

    “Two Jeeps” makes for a lovely travel companion too. It also goes some way into doing the route leg-work if this is something you planned on doing yourselves. You can access this from the website www.twojeeps.com. Fear not however because nothing about the book or the journey is given away on it.

    Within the chapters come the reason why they went through all they did to get here. To drive through the various national parks with their breathtaking views in vehicles capable of a lot more. The main focus for this comes halfway through the book but it is here were the short travelog of stories could be somewhat elaborated into a more in-depth talk about the surrounding land and the perilous passes endured. That is my only criticism of “Two Jeeps”.

    The ending is coming close for them and you the reader at chapter 15. In Hollywood fashion, they must depart Moab as a storm of unknown magnitude is brewing that could be seen in the distance and there are still over 700 miles to travel.

    So did they make it out past the storm and into LAX on time to depart for Blighty? The Cherokee had given trouble motoring along the way while the Wrangler had been free of problems. It would be telling to give away the outcome over the last 3 chapters but it is here that the reading intensifies to the books ends. So I suggest you buy the book and find out for yourself. 

    Available in paperback, ebook and audiobook from most notable online book retailers, including Amazon. More information on the website www.twojeeps.com

    Photos: Alex Kefford / PR SUPPLIED

  • BOOK & EXHIBITION REVIEW | Modern Couples: Art, Intimacy and the Avant-garde

    BOOK & EXHIBITION REVIEW | Modern Couples: Art, Intimacy and the Avant-garde

    ★★★★★ | Modern Couples: Art, Intimacy and the Avant-Guarde

    WET DREAMS DIVERSITY!

    BOOK & EXHIBITION: Modern Couples: Art, Intimacy & the Avant-Garde (Prestel Publishing, £45) 5 Stars! Eclectic Eroticism! 

    What is love? A closeted wank in a glory hole? Romeo and Juliet’s death pact? Bosie and Wilde’s co-dependency? Or – more unusually – gay star Lou Reed’s liaison with MTF transwoman Rachel? None of these? Oh, get real – me, I say all of them! How dare any single human being, institution or government have the audacity to dictate the shape, form and expression of pure, mutual bliss?

    But – inexplicably – every known form of unorthodox love is under unprecedented assault by a savage tsunami of spiritual and social bigotry masquerading as sacred self-righteousness. In Brazil, Bolsonaro’s freshly reinvigorated cutting-edge fascism, Russia and Chechnya enact vile, anti-gay torture pogroms, while Trump’s shockingly irrational resistance to trans rights and gay marriage threatens sexual freedom itself.

    In every case, there’s a suspiciously defensive denial of human sexual plurality, that latent potential in every individual ever born, whether blinded by self-induced, MAGA myopia or not.

    So, praise indeed to London’s Barbican, currently flipping two highly assertive and aesthetic fingers up to the furious intolerance threatening to drown sexual diversity discourse. The event? Modern Couples; Art, Intimacy and the Avant-Garde, which ran to January 27th, a startlingly innovative exhibition superbly replicated in the accompanying book from Prestel Publishing.

    And Modern Couples couldn’t be more culturally appropriate. With referrals soaring in every gender clinic worldwide, and gender-variant, non-binary and agender platforms mushrooming exponentially, it’s a perfect moment to artistically challenge sexual and biological essentialist stereotypes.

    Quite frankly, there haven’t been such fruitful, virtuoso assaults on patriarchy and chauvinism since Bowie’s Ziggy Stardust rock-messiah intrigued the pan-curious genitals of 1970s teenagers worldwide. And what shockingly exotic pansexual prophets we’re currently gifted with; leading the pack, there’s Lady Gaga, stealing the crown of polymorphous perversity from previous scene-queen Madonna, and Bitch! Dyke! Fag-Hag! Whore!, Penny Arcade’s perpetually relevant rite of interactive, sexual awakening and liberation. The UK’s equally blessed; we have the gloriously unfettered epiphanies of agender diva David Hoyle, the high-fashion media frenzies sparked by Monroe Bergdorf, and – less interestingly but arguably as provocative – the timid, opportunistic, non-binary cliche on autopilot, Travis Alabanza. I mean, come on – a burger thrown, with allegedly transphobic intent, hardly matches Tennessee Williams’ scathing dissections of performative divas as subject matter!

    So let’s applaud the Barbican’s exemplary, multisexual and multicultural values which have led to such a startlingly on-trend celebration of sexual diversity. But, be prepared – the book, as was the exhibition, is exhaustive, not to mention exhausting, so ration yourselves to brief bedtime reading to avoid genital options overload!

    Sadly, it’s impossible to do full -or even partial – justice to such overwhelming subject matter, especially in a brief review, so I’ve chosen to focus on just four of the marvellously atypical couples out of the total fifty-seven. First, there are the life-long, lesbian liaisons of Romaine Brooks, a pivotal member of salon doyenne Natalie Barney’s infamous Parisian, ladies-only soirees, which, intriguingly, included Dolly Wilde, Oscar Wilde’s knock-out drops addicted niece.

    Brookes – quite fittingly – was obsessed with the Marchesa Casati, a fabulously wealthy, freakishly tall socialite who’d dedicated her life to becoming an eccentric, living work of art, and was as elegantly emaciated as a filigree dildo. There’s a rivetingly severe, full-length painting of a nude Casati that exemplifies Brook’s style, painted with such luscious attention to skin textures one can almost relive Brook’s velvet, probing tongue cascading back and forth in Casati’s trembling, point-of orgasm crevice. It’s a lush, but suggestively non-specific art that echoes lesbian desire itself, a haptic, tactile exploration where ego and one-sided selfishness are submerged in an ocean of mutual pleasuring.

    How very different, then, to gay male lust, almost inevitably sparked and ignited by visual cues, as in the arrestingly modern photo-studies of George Platt Lynne. A huge influence on, and comprehensively anticipating Robert Mapplethorpe by decades, his aggressively sexual chiaroscuros – suggestive erotic shadowing – make his loving studies of Greek-god perfect hunks throb with the immediacy of superb, arthouse porn.

    Frankly, it’s the blatant need in these shots – so furiously kinetic and psychologically pumping – that so shrewdly captures and freezes textbook male lust on the page; it’s as in one’s face as a patiently erect penis dribbling with pre-cum waiting its’ turn at a bath-house orgy. Who, possibly, could resist the charms of Lynne’s angelically louche rentboys, posed to sensuous perfection? Utilising a forensic finesse worthy of fine art, Lynne legitimised and consolidated the notion of transcendent, homosexual love in an aesthetic lineage stretching back to the pre-Wilde concepts of ‘Uranian’ thinking, and the mutually male love poetry of Walt Whitman. Impressed? You should be – Lynne was the killer Caravaggio of lens-fuelled libidos, the master voyeur of vicarious arousal!

    Pleasingly, Modern Couples takes its’ inclusivity very seriously, so what a delight to have the singular story of Gerda Wegener and Lili Elbe – famous from the recent movie The Danish Girl – properly explored. A nascent transsexual – not even self-diagnosed until adulthood – Lili Elbe’s pioneering, gender voyage was initiated by her female lover, Gerda Wegener, encouraging her to dress en femme for portrait modelling. With an unsuspected, psychological femininity now fully untapped, Lili eventually progressed to primitive ovary implantation, the complications from which eventually killed her.

    Still, what’s often dismissed by bigoted critics as crude, surgical manifestation of deluded gender convictions – aka sex reassignment surgery – has since saved tens of thousands from once suicidal despair. And truthfully, Wegener’s portraits of Lili stunningly capture an ineffable androgyny, a jaw-dropping wonderland of the fascinating borderlands – and their gradual, transitional erasure – between strict definitions of male and female. In Wegenger’s canvases, one glimpses a sexuality thrillingly cut loose from genital specifics, an all-encompassing, erotic miasma that can colour an entire world with sensual potentials.

    One further lesbian couple – Claude Cahun and Marcel Moore – both prefigure and make redundant the modern rise of titillating, sexual selfie culture. Who needs a non-stop tidal wave of desperate dicks and flabby breasts and butts? Adopting a far healthier psychological perspective – dignity – Cahun and Moore bewitchingly transformed their mutual, life-long arousal into bravura, photographic icons of their then marginal, and socially dispossessed, sexuality. And early shots of the couple, especially, transpose their fleshy liaison into maverick, outsider tropes; specifically, characters from the Commedia del’arte, the theatrical epitome of misrule and disrupting the prevailing, social status quo.

    Strikingly timeless, the images brand themselves on our watching minds with the cheeky aplomb of a youthful Jean-Paul Gautier, who Cahun, quite uncannily, resembles in one shot. Unsurprisingly, both Cahun and Moore’s picture studies drip with erotic mystique; after all, who but a woman would instinctively know another woman’s gateways to shockingly sexual joy?

    And that same, charged magic is apparent in every example of Modern Couples’ gay, male partners; arguably, only male fingers can infallibly detonate the explosive euphoria of a fondled penis-tip. Forget bigoted dismissals of same-sex love as pathetic, narcissistic examples of arrested development, and proxy masturbation to one’s mirror image; on the contrary, there’s a pitch-perfect resonance of desire, arousal and consummation, one unfettered by pointless guilt or mismatched, biological imperatives that so often jar the intimacy between opposite sexes.

    Quite triumphantly, gay relationships are often stories of hugely soaring passions – hello, Oscar and Bosie. Almost effortlessly, they defy not only social and religious bigotry, but the arid reductionism of reproductive lust, and create ingenious alternatives to the dull limitations of functional, male/female sexual frictions. And surely, don’t the only limits to eroticism lie in the imagination itself – or its’ absence? Ah, dear, dear sexual diversity – it’s the perfect mindset for human happiness!

    Available to purchase now | Information on the Barbican’s Exhibition

    Photos by permission/supplied

  • BOOK REVIEW | Alfa Romeo Giulietta 1978 – 1985

    BOOK REVIEW | Alfa Romeo Giulietta 1978 – 1985

    ★★★★★ | Alfa Romeo Giulietta 1978 – 1985

    For any Alfa Romeo fan or ‘Alfisti’ as they call themselves, Matteo Licata’s book on the much ignored Giulietta from 77 – 85 is an absolute must. I like the Giulietta and have looked forward to reading a copy since he broadcasted it to his Twitter followers this year.

    Matteo is a lover of sports cars in general and he has a fondness for automotive lost causes. Full-time lover of good life, blogger and writer on Twitter, he’s an automobile enthusiast firstly. He carved a career in car design, graduating from Turin’s Istituto Europeo di Design in 2006. He’s even contributed to the 2006 Giulietta of 2010. So we are in good hands.

    The Giulietta, in general, has been largely overlooked. It was for Alfa Romeo, a short-lived car and as a result has only ever been mentioned in a paragraph or berated for being a cheaper shorter car based on the Alfetta. One of my first books on cars was on Alfa Romeo and that only had a one-page colour spread with two shots of a Giulietta on it. This has finally been addressed.  

    This is Matteo’s first book and l have to say l am impressed with the level of information this book is packed with. As a general rule of thumb, most books on Alfa Romeo are rich in page numbers. For the 58 pages in Matteo’s book, each page packs a punch with knowledge on the Giulietta. It comes in bite-size snippets of information and it works for me. The book is particularly good at capturing the data that you as an enthusiast want without waffle.

    In the beginning, there was a lovely snapshot of the history of Alfa Romeo. Even after all these years of being an ‘Alfisti’ myself, some of it was new news to me. After this, there are eight chapters covering everything from the launch to evolution and ending with the geeky satisfaction in vital statistics.

    Things l had forgotten about Giulietta (read that as didn’t know) was that there were three series in production. Subtle changes here and there are covered along with the confusing array of engine line-ups across Italy and the rest of Europe. And then there are rare photos throughout the book of the car itself including six very rare and spacial models like the Fiorucci Giulietta “Punk” of ’78. It beggars belief!

    A worthy read and addition to your Alfa Romeo library? YES.

    Follow Matteo on twitter: @Roadster_life or on his blog: https://www.roadster-life.com

    Available from Amazon books for £21.87.

  • My Ramones by Danny Fields reviewed

    My Ramones by Danny Fields reviewed

    Sasha Selavie reviews My Ramones by Danny Fields, a photo memoir of Punk Rock’s rawest Royal Family.

    Shocking Pink – Punk Perfection.

    Why do modern boybands suck so bad? Is their blatant, musical mediocrity a mirror image of our plunging expectations as LGBT pop fans? It wasn’t always the case. Once – in common with the marginal, semi-legal and barely-tolerated status of homosexuality in the UK itself – our idols were OTT and singular, role-model keys to experiences undreamt of by Joe and Jill Average. But ironically, maybe because of full, civil rights for our LGBT communities – our current idols have lost any extreme, lifestyle edge and signifiers, and become interchangeable, mainstream pop pap. It’s not surprising – in a 21st century inaugurated by 9/11, how could any performers hope to shock or surprise?

    Ah, but like sex, isn’t it the intensity of an experience that matters, and not that it’s served up in some arbitrary, on-trend, drag de jour? So, peel back your panties and preconceptions, and prepare to feast on possibly the hottest, unintentional pop erotica released the year – writer and author Danny Fields’ My Ramones.

    Never heard of Da Brudders Ramone, as they’re known colloquially in the rough-as-guts, NYC borough of Queens they hail from? Oh, then reader, don’t delay – Netflix and Google the boys today! And, no, they’re not remotely related, the name ‘Ramone’ being simply a cheeky tribute to Paul McCartney’s secret identity way back in the day. But please, screw the super-scrubbed, fluffy idiocy of Zayn Malik and his ilk – the Ramones’ aesthetic, especially contrasted with their contemporary, mainstream rivals, the Osmonds and Jackson Five- was pure badass motherf*ckers from no-hope avenue! Frankly, the boys spelled troubled from the get-go, and though gay punters have always adored pretty boys, there’s also another, undeniable aphrodisiac that seriously ignites panting, penile lust- rough trade!

    Still, I’m mindful that the Ramones – and the punk scene they so electrifyingly crystallised -are ancient history for most readers, so here comes instant context. Musically, 1974 was dead in the water, the pop charts choked with stodgy, overblown ballads, and toothsome pop stars barely more substantial than cream puffs. But, over in NYC, a certain Debbie Harry was forming a nascent Blondie, while four conflicted, working-class guys obsessed with pure, chemical kicks translated that rush into fierce, two-minutes tops, socially disadvantaged anthems, like nothing ever heard on purely pedestrian Planet Earth! Think a jackhammer doubling as lead guitar and maybe, just maybe, you’d be halfway there, but overnight, the Ramones kicked pop in the balls and dragged it screaming to their unique, fantastically abandoned level!

    Still, even that majestic, stone-killer sound would have meant absolutely nothing without the simmering, homoerotic beauty of the boys themselves. Like a fanatical leather queen’s horniest wet-dream made sullen, pouting reality, here were four guys uniformly dressed in perfect, 42nd Street, male hustler drag – white T-shirts, tight jeans, motorcycle jackets and sneakers, all irresistibly spiced by lashings of anti-social attitude.

    Were the boys knowingly channelling a specific, gay iconography that referenced stars as game-changing as James Dean and the casually bisexual Marlon Brando? Whatever the answer, they looked and behaved with the quasi-criminal swagger of Jean Genet’s hugely idealised prison inmate lovers, and, not surprisingly, lit admiring sparks in the intuitive gaydar of besotted fans. And those fans were, in one sense, completely on the money – Dee Dee Ramone, the band’s chief lyricist and composer, had unabashedly served time as a male prostitute and semi-fictionalised his escapades in his vividly noir novel, Chelsea Horror Hotel.

    I mean, come on, who hasn’t been thrilled by the thuggish, sexual aplomb of low-life, so much more, shockingly visceral than flirting with some clueless, clean-cut yuppie? Watching the Ramones, you’d be deliriously transported picturing rock-hard pricks straining against filthy denim, not airy, David Cassidy kisses. And visually, fronted by the freakishly tall, pipe-cleaner thin, 6’ 7’ Joey, the Ramones came across like a crack squadron of bullet-headed, sexual storm-troopers, the quintessence of Tennessee Williams’ Stanley Kowalski, shagging first and talking after!

    It’s that raw, blue-collar, erotic charisma that’s so beautifully, and blatantly, captured by My Ramones, an exceptional photo-memoir documenting the band at their peak, created by the band’s joint manager and head photographer at the time, Danny Fields. Such is the fierce, libidinous energy of even the most innocuous shots, that you’d be entirely forgiven for regarding My Ramones as an inadvertent stroke-book; the barely contained boy-flesh on view screams ‘touch me!’ to even the most constrained penis lurking in a reader’s pants.

    So, please, immediately dismiss thoughts of fellow photographers David La Chappelle’s baroque showboating, or Rankin’s achingly-ersatz authenticity. Rather, Fields deploys a stark, forensic honesty of photographic purpose, one that excludes anything but an ultra-candid, emotional honesty in any given shot. It’s an approach that recalls the deadpan clarity of an Andy Warhol, and – scrupulously removing any hint of intruding egotism – Fields lets his subjects powerfully speak for themselves. This, mercifully, is portraiture predating the utterly corporate, cynically-staged ‘controversies’ dominating current pop-star imagery, and these are shots that virtually sweat, breathe and spit with shockingly refreshing intimacy.

    Technically, too, we’re in the presence of a rare talent, one understanding negative space and black-and-white composition with the panache of a Helmut Newton or David Bailey. Jee-zuss, in 2018, living as we do with a hair-trigger fear of terrorism, it’s simply unthinkable pop-stars could even contemplate impromptu, unstaged shoots against national monument backdrops, but Fields’ images – like the Ramones’ music itself – are fierce, tasty, and totally focused!

    Still, there’s far more to Fields than his hugely impressive lenscraft – like the similarly shrewd Malcolm McLaren with the Sex Pistols, Fields’ fingers were firmly pressed on the cultural pulse. Who else could take shocking pink – a garish, almost puke-making shade invented by the surrealistic couturier Elsa Schiaparelli, and normally used to sedate female toddlers – and redeploy it as a violently aggressive design element for the Ramones’ Rocket To Russia album?

    In one simply extraordinary, cross-cultural flourish, Fields breathtakingly fused the US, slang overtones of ‘punk’ – a passive male partner in prison – with raw, rock ‘n’ roll raunchiness and socially disenfranchised sex-appeal. Forget Jackie Onassis or Bianca Jagger- briefly, in 1974, NYC’s straight and gay worlds bowed down to kiss the butts of faux brain-dead brilliance. And if that thrilling sexual democracy has a name, it’s My Ramones, the still jaw-dropping, cultural legacy of Danny Fields! Do yourselves a favour and feast on the man’s work ASAP!

    My Ramones By Danny Fields RAP Reel Art Press. £29.99

  • Want To Stop Drinking? This Book Might Help You

    Want To Stop Drinking? This Book Might Help You

    The Book That Changed My Life

    No More Hangovers review
    CREDIT: Allen Carr

    There aren’t many books that lay claim to changing a life, but Allen Carr’s No More Hangovers is one that can claim first prize.

    Now, I’m not an alcoholic, but I did like a drink at wine time, usually at around 6:00 pm, if not GMT then it was always six somewhere in the world – and in amongst the press conferences, the champagne receptions, the tastings and press trips I had been taking in 2014, it occurred to me that I was perhaps drinking just a little too much.

    I knew that I should cut down, my once trim 30-inch waistline was telling me that. But I just didn’t think that I could. It felt as though I lived for the Champs and nibbles at the various dos I’d attend… and also wouldn’t people think me odd, not drinking, especially when the wine and gins would flow so freely?

    I’ve never been a ‘just have one’ type of guy, it’s all or nothing with me – and while that in itself can create crazy stories, which my friends are always happy to remind me of ‘what went down’. It’s not classy, to say the least.

    However, one night, when I was alone and I started to drink by myself and after the first half a bottle of Malibu, or whatever it was I was drinking, a thought popped into my head. What am I doing and why am I doing this? I wasn’t happy and jolly, I wasn’t being the life and soul of any parties and I certainly wasn’t looking, feeling or acting the sexy beast that I know myself to be. Looking into the mirror, I saw how miserable I had actually become.

    It occurred to me, in my slightly tipsy stupor that I wasn’t drinking socially, to be funny, or to fit in. I was drinking as a crutch. A coping mechanism perhaps. I’m not sure, but I definitely wasn’t happy – and I definitely wasn’t enjoying the drinking that I was doing.

    That was nearly three years ago. And not a drop of the poison has touched my lips since reading the book, and I’m not sure it ever will again. Ask any of my friends and they are quite amazed. I’ve had fully inclusive holidays, years of of press events and family functions, where drinking used to be an absolute, and I can, hand on heart say, I’ve not missed the wine, not once.

    I don’t know what the book does, but it changed me and if you’re looking to make a positive change in your life with regards to drinking, No More Hangovers, for me, has achieved full marks.

     

    Buy Allen Carr’s No More Hangovers at Amazon

  • BOOK REVIEW | The History Of Us

    BOOK REVIEW | The History Of Us

    Jonathan Harvey is a writer with stature. He penned the gay classic Beautiful Thing and writes for Coronation Street as well as creating the high camp sit-coms Gimme Gimme Gimme and Beautiful People. Sadly, this novel doesn’t live up to his prior reputation.

    The History of Us Book review

     

    Based in Harvey’s hometown of Liverpool, the story follows three friends at two points in time. In 1985, teenage Adam is dreaming of a writing career, Jocelyn wants to be a singer whilst Kathleen’s dreams are a bit more mundane: she wants to be an embalmer. It’s all mooning over boys (Adam’s gay), mooching around and listening to Alison Moyet in teenage bedrooms. Fast-forward to 2015 and Adam’s writing career has floundered, Kathleen is a failed flight attendant who has a drink problem and Jocelyn has met a sticky end after a career as a professional bitch and celebrity Twitter troll (think Katy Hopkins but meaner).

    The strongest sections of the book are the in the first half where the narrative switches between the back streets of Liverpool and Adam and Kathleen’s current lives in London. The humour is twisted and wry and when it works raises the odd snigger but never a real belly laugh. The problem comes in with the arc of the story line. It starts to peter out and feels woolly and unfocused and the humour drops down a notch or two until by the end of the novel it’s non-existent. This gradual shedding away of the comedy to reveal something darker would work well if the story line didn’t fizzle out along with it.

    Harvey’s knack is often in presenting unsympathetic characters but the ones in this novel feel wooden and tired. The story switches between characters but their individual voices don’t feel strong enough to carry the plot. It’s a book that doesn’t find its place at all. It sits neither as effective comedy, drama or thriller.

    A disappointing dud of a book.

    Out 8th September 2016, Order from Amazon

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  • BOOK REVIEW | Straight Jacket: How To Be Gay And Happy, Matthew Todd

    BOOK REVIEW | Straight Jacket: How To Be Gay And Happy, Matthew Todd

    ★★★★ | Straight Jacket: How to Be Gay and Happy

    There’s a problem with gay men. There’s definitely a problem with gay men. We’re legal now with an equal age of consent. We can get married and adopt children, dance in the streets at Pride events and hold hands in Central London. We even pop-up on television dramas from time to time looking as far removed from the stereotypical 1970’s mincing queens as is possible. Yet, we have higher than average rates of mental illness, addiction and suicide; often struggle to maintain relationships and many are filled with corrosive self-hatred.

    I’m a self confessed gay man with issues. Like a lot of people, gay or straight, I’ve cycled through a few addictions before reaching middle age. Prescription medications, a car-crash relationship with alcohol and a lot of not always fun casual sex were my main vices. I’ve suffered with depression and anxiety and am an expert at obsessive thinking who’s had a shed load of therapy.

    When I heard about this book by Matthew Todd (the witty and wise ex Attitude editor and writer of the play Bells and Whistles) I embraced it with open arms. Luckily, it definitely hugged me back.

    Todd certainly knows his stuff. He uses statistics, case studies, anecdotes and interviews to present his argument and it’s a compelling one. Intermingled with this is Todd’s own story and the book is part memoir, part discourse on the problems facing gay men in 21st century life. Todd grew up in 1970’s Croydon, escaped and lived to tell the tale.

    He also struggled to rein his life in after becoming too dependent on alcohol to numb the pain of his darker thoughts.

    Todd’s main premise is that our culture and society leads gay men to live with deep-seated feelings of shame and then offers wonky solutions such as casual sex and alcohol. He examines the ways this affects us and focuses on how having low self-esteem can lead to problems such as over-eating, gym addictions and drug abuse. His scope is wide ranging and it’s a fascinating read. This isn’t a dry tome and is never preachy but is compelling and readable with a perceptive gaze. It’s a warm and caring book but one that’s also disturbing.

    There are frequent reminders too that it’s not all issues and problems. Lots of gay men are happy and healthy. We don’t all indulge in risky behaviour and walk around under black clouds. Some of us enjoy drugs and alcohol in moderation. There’s no disapproval or moralising here. Even if you’re one of the luckier ones and are beautifully balanced, it’s an enlightening study.

    The final portion of the book loses focus and momentum a little but is still worth perusing. Overall this is an important book and is relevant, resonant and reassuring. I’d recommend this to every gay man or to everyone who knows one.

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  • BOOK REVIEW: Our Young Man

    BOOK REVIEW: Our Young Man

    Edmund White has been the grand chronicler of the lives of gay men since the early 1970s. His seminal work ‘A Boy’s Own Story’ is a literary classic that is essential reading for every gay man or indeed everyone who can turn a page. ★★★★

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  • BOOK REVIEW | Gay Life Stories

    BOOK REVIEW | Gay Life Stories

    ★★★★ | Gay Life Stories

    Gay Life Stories

    A book about gay and lesbian history could easily be a dark and painful read. It would be a huge understatement to say that the LGBT community haven’t had an easy ride throughout world history and a retrospective of people’s stories could be depressing and bleak.

    Robert Aldrich, a professor of European History, has, however, managed to produce a compendium of a selection of fascinating life stories that is often inspirational and joyful to read.

    The book is beautifully presented with paintings, drawings and reproduced archival documents. Aldrich has chosen key figures from history including figures from the art, politics and literature amongst many others.

    The range is comprehensive and sometimes surprising. The figures described range from the ancient world to the twentieth century and from the well-known to the more obscure. Each chosen historical figure gets a short but comprehensive and well-written chapter. Aldrich outlines the stories of over 80 figures in 289 pages.

    There’s such a wide range of people in the book from the expected and well-known (Frederick the Great, Harvey Milk and Michelangelo) to the less well documented (the first man to be burned at the stake for sodomy, for example).

    It’s not a book that is easy to sit and read cover to cover but one that you’re more likely to dip in and out of.

    Depending on your interests then some of the sections will vie for your attentions more than others but Aldrich’s skill is to make each story feel relevant and a part of the rich history of gay and lesbian culture. This is a must read for any LGBT person.

     

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  • BOOK REVIEW | Robot Takeover

    BOOK REVIEW | Robot Takeover

    There’s something a little bit camp about robots isn’t there? From the buxom 1950’s homeliness of The Jetsons’ Rosey to the inane clatter and chatter of C3PO from Star Wars, to the out and out diva that is Borg Queen from Star Trek.

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