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  • Gay couple and two friends beaten by a “group of 15” on Christmas day

    Gay couple and two friends beaten by a “group of 15” on Christmas day

    It is being reported that a gay couple and their two friends, in North Yorkshire, were beaten by a group of up to 15 in a homophobic incident.

    Homophobic attack Thornaby Yorkshire
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    A gay couple and their two friends were left needing medical attention, after an attack by “group of about 15” outside a pub in Thornaby, North Yorkshire by what they call a “homophobic gang”.

    Jayson Homer and his partner, 21, and two friends, Marc Vasey and a female friend, allege that the incident started at around 8:30 PM inside the pub, where they were enjoying a festive drink. Jayson’s partner, who wished to remain anonymous, says that he was questioned about his religion by another group at the pub. The debate escalated to verbal abuse when he said that the group started calling him homophobic slurs.

    Speaking to the Gazette Live the anonymous victim said,

    “At first a girl in the group started taking the mick out of me for being Jewish. Then another lad from the group came over saying being Jewish was a race.

    “I was disagreeing with him and it was just a little debate really at first. But then the girl started shouting ‘queer’ at me. Every time I went to the toilet someone said it while I was walking past.”

    Eventually, the couple and their two friends decided to leave the pub at 11.15 PM, when they say they were set upon and physically attacked by “a group of about 15” on Thornaby Road.

    Jayson said that he was bottled in the face and had to have a CT scan at the hospital to check for brain damage. His partner suffered bruising and a black eye.

    Jayson said that the attack has left him feeling suicidal and petrified to leave his own home.

    He said,

    “To tell the truth it left me feeling suicidal. I was petrified to go out of my front door but I’m not going to let it stop me living my life.”

    According to Gazette Live this is the second homophobic attack in less than a week in Thornaby. On Wednesday 21st December a 30-year-old cyclist was assaulted, following a homophobic verbal attack by two men. His attackers were travelling in a white Mercedes, when they pulled over, shouted homophobic abuse at him, got out of their car and attacked him.

    In January a teenager was attacked by two men who approached him after he alighted the 1C bus on Knaresborough Road, Harrogate, in North Yorkshire. As he walked passed the men, the victim was grabbed by one who held his arms behind his back whilst being punched and kicked in the head.

    Cleveland Police are investigating the attack and are urging anyone with information to call 101 or Crimestoppers on 0800 555111.

     

  • Carrie Fisher dies 60

    Carrie Fisher dies 60

    Mental health advocate, actor and icon, Carrie Fisher, has died at the age of 60 a spokesperson for her family has confirmed.

    Carrie Fisher
    By Riccardo Ghilardi photographer (Own work) [CC BY-SA 3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0) or GFDL (http://www.gnu.org/copyleft/fdl.html)], via Wikimedia Commons

    The actor, Carrie Fisher has died at the age of 60, days after it was revealed that she had suffered a heart attack.

    A family statement expressed a “very deep sadness” hours after her death. She had taken ill on a flight from London to LA on Friday.

    The statement released on behalf of her family read,

    “It is with a very deep sadness that Billie Lourd confirms that her beloved mother Carrie Fisher passed away at 8:55 this morning.”

    “She was loved by the world and she will be missed profoundly. Our entire family thanks you for your thoughts and prayers.”

    She became famous for her role as Princess Leia in the Star Wars film franchise. She also appeared in The Blues Brothers, When Harry Met Sally and Hannah and Her Sisters.

    Carrie was born to actress Debbie Reynolds and singer Eddie Fisher in 1956.

     

     

     

  • Audience applauds Richard Hammond’s “casual homophobia” on Amazon’s Grand Tour

    Audience applauds Richard Hammond’s “casual homophobia” on Amazon’s Grand Tour

    An Amazon Prime Grand Tour live studio audience applauded a comment made by Richard Hammond which insinuated that eating ice cream was gay.

    Richard Hammond
    CREDIT: Amazon Prime

    Responding to a comment made by Jeremy Clarkson on the Amazon Prime show, Grand Tour, about being unable to eat an ice cream inside of a car’s interior, co-presenter, Richard Hammond replied,

    “It’s all right, I don’t eat ice cream. It’s something to do with being straight.”

    The studio audience after a few laughs erupted into applause. Questioning the applause Jeremy Clarkson, who looks slightly stunned by the comments asks the audience,

    “Why are you applauding him? What do you mean? You’re saying all children are homosexual?”

    Richard Hammond replies,

    “What? What? Ice cream is a bit – you know… There’s nothing wrong with it, but a grown man eating an ice cream – it’s that way, rather than that way.”

     

    The conversation then dives into a not so subtle joke about 69ing and a chocolate flake.

    Many users of Twitter blasted the presenter calling him out on what they called his “casual homophobia” and demanded that he stop normalising homophobia. Some suggested the clip was aired to boost an underperforming show.

     

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    The comments were made on the sixth episode of the Amazon Prime show, which was called “Happy Finnish Christmas”. It was released on 23 December.

    THEGAYUK reached out to Amazon Prime for comment.

    In 2015 Jeremy Clarkson caused offence when he tweeted a picture about fudge packing.  Jeremy  uploaded a picture of himself and Richard Hammond standing outside a fudge factory with the caption “We have got jobs at last. Here. As packers.”

     

  • New Year’s Recognitions 2017 vote now

    New Year’s Recognitions 2017 vote now

    THEGAYUK announces its 2017 New Year’s Recognition nomination list, to acknowledge the massive support and campaigning efforts that companies, organisations and individuals have made to the LGBT community in the UK.

    To celebrate the contribute to LGBT+ life in the UK here are your nominees. Vote at the bottom of the page.

     

    Nominees

    Activism, Awareness and Politics

    Mhairi Black

    Mhairi Black
    By Scottish National Party (SNP) (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=klq9GBqRsFU) [CC BY 3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

    Mhairi Black is a Scottish politician. She has been the Member of Parliament for Paisley and Renfrewshire South since 2015, when she defeated Labour Shadow Foreign Secretary Douglas Alexander. She is the youngest openly lesbian MP to ever be elected into British politics.


    Rabbi Lionel Blue

    Rabbi Lionel Blue Was the first openly gay Rabbi in the UK. He died at the age of 86. The rabbi was a regular speaker on the BBC’s Thought For The Day on Radio 4. He came out as gay officially in 1981 in a book he wrote called Godly And Gay. He had been open about his sexuality since the 1960s.


    Asifa Lahore

    CREDIT: Monty McKinnen for THEGAYK

    Britain’s first Muslim Drag Queen. Shot to fame in 2015 during a Channel 4 documentary which highlighted the Asian LGBT scene in Britain. Asifa has gone on to become a strong and vocal LGBT activist and advocate for gay, lesbian, bisexual and trans Muslims.


    Past recipients: Stephen Fry, Shane Bitney Crone, PinkNews, Allout.org, C4EM, David Cameron


    Health

    GMFA

    GFMA is one of the UK’s leading sexual health charities which was founded in 1992. It was created to promote safer sexual health amongst gay and bisexual men during the height of the HIV/AIDS epidemic. It was founded by a group of gay men who felt that not enough was being done in HIV prevention.


    Darren Batey

    CREDIT: Darren Batey / Twitter

    Darren Batey was hailed as a community hero for Bolton Pride before his death in December last year. He was described as being instrumental to Bolton’s first pride event in October 2015.


    Court of Appeal

    The Court of Appeal upheld a High Court judgement that ruled that NHS England has the legal power to fund PrEP. After numerous legal battles, NHS England can commission the “game-changing” pill that, when used alongside condoms, testing and treatment, could help bring the beginning of the end for HIV.


    Past recipients: Ben Cohen: Stand Up Foundation, G-A-Y, UK Positive Lad, 56 Dean Street, Spencer Cox, London Lesbian and Gay Switchboard.


    Education

    Mr Daly and Mr Stevenson

    L-R Jordan Daly and Liam Stevenson / CREDIT: TIE Campaign

    Jordan Daly and Liam Stevenson are the co-founders of the Scottish campaign: Time For Inclusive Education. They’ve worked tirelessly to lobby Scottish politicians to bring better education to Scottish schools to combat Homophobic, Biphobic and Transphobic bullying.


    Diversity Role Models

    Hailed by MP Chris Bryant as “Unambiguously Brilliant”.  Diversity Role Model Charity organises volunteer LGBT spokespeople go into schools across the UK to talk about their experiences of growing up as gay, lesbian, bi or trans. Diversity Role Models (DRM) was established in 2011 to tackle homophobic, biphobic and transphobic bullying in UK schools with the aim that all children and young people would be able to learn safely at school without fear of bullying.


    Peter Tatchell Foundation

    Peter Tatchell Foundation

    Endlessly battling the injustices of the world the Peter Tatchell Foundation has fought to promote and protect the human rights of individuals, communities and nations, in the UK and internationally.


    Past recipients: Bridegroom (Documentary film) Bisi Alimi, Human Rights Campaign, Shaun Dellenty, Tim Franks, NoHomophobes.com, RUComingOut.com and Wayne Dhesi.


    Entertainment

    Seann Miley Moore

    Former X Factor star who proved that you could look amazing in heels regardless of your gender identity. His charismatic personality and incredible singing voice landed him straight into the hearts of the nation in 2015. He has been working on new music and performing across the UK.


    Saara Aalto

    Saara Aalto
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    Saara Aalto is the first openly bisexual female to reach the finals of the X Factor. She stunned UK audiences with her powerhouse vocals and proved that sexuality didn’t need to be the only facet of a famous person’s life. She announced her engagement to her girlfriend midway through the show’s run.


    Above The Stag

    Producing queer theatre throughout the year since 2008. It was founded by creative director Peter Bull. It is an award-winning theatre in Vauxhall London.


    Past recipients: Graham Norton, Adam Lambert, Theatre 503, Doctor Christian Jessen, Geo Wyett, Soho Theatre


    Sports

    Tom Bosworth

    Tom Bosworth
    CREDIT: Monty McKinnen / THEGAYUK

    Tom is an Olympic British race walker who made headlines when he came out as gay on the Victoria Derbyshire show in 2015. In an interview with THEGAYUK Tom revealed that as a student he hated PE after fellow students found out that he was gay. He said that his time at school was an easy time to be targeted by bullies. He took part in this summer’s Rio Olympics and beat his personal best times.


    Keegan Hirst

    In 2015 he became the first British professional rugby player to come out as gay during his career He when he came out,  “At first I couldn’t even say ‘I’m gay’ in my head, let alone out loud. Now I feel like I’m letting out a long breath that I’ve held in for a long time.”

    Remarking on Hirst’s decision to come out as gay LGBT advocacy charity, Stonewall said his words were “powerful” and that his words “will inspire many”.


    Nigel Owens

    The only international rugby referee to come out as gay, doing so in 2007. Nigel made the Wales Online Pinc List which celebrates the top 40 unsung heroes of the LGBT community.


    Past recipients: Tom Daley, Jason Collins, Clare Balding, Nicola Adams MBE, Lee Pearson CBE, Greg Louganis


    VOTE HERE

  • Merry Christmas to all our wonderful readers

    Merry Christmas to all our wonderful readers

    THEGAYUK wishes all its readers and wonderful writers a very merry Christmas and happy holidays.

    Whatever you’re doing this holiday, we hope you’re happy, safe and full of cheer.

    We’re taking the day off so see you on the 26th

    x

    In the meantime if you haven’t downloaded our latest issue you can do it for free click here

  • 10 ways to spice up your sex life in a long-term relationship this Christmas

    10 ways to spice up your sex life in a long-term relationship this Christmas

    Rachael McCoy is an award winning sex and relationship coach who is driven and inspired by helping others to achieve the relationship and sex life they have always wanted. THEGAYUK asked how to spice up a long term relationship.

    tips to spice up a long-term relationship
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    Aim to take it in turns to surprise the other person with a gift or experience that they really enjoy. Although Christmas is a bit of gift giving time, while not surprise your partner before the big day…. A great tip on how to do this is to listen when your partner says things they like. Make a note in your phone and when they are least expecting it, spring it on them. They’ll be so grateful that you remembered.

    Have at least one night a month where you promise to turn all tech and outside distractions off and just spend time together. In this modern day we all have tablets, phones and other forms of gadgets that distract us away from quality time together.

    Show gratitude. In long term relationships it’s easy to forget to say the little things like ‘Thank you’ ‘I love this about you’ or ‘I’m so grateful for’. This mainly happens because we’ve said it so many times before and we just expect the other person to know. But it is imperative that you always remember to tell your husband/ wife these things regularly. It will make all the difference to your marriage and help ensure that it’s a long and happy one.

    Erotic massage is a great treat that never gets old. When you know your husband/ wife has been having a stressful time, greet them one day after work with some massage oil, a candle lit (warm) room and work your magic to massage their stress away.

    Taking the time to cook your partner a nice meal is a lovely gesture as it shows your spending time and energy to do something thoughtful for them. Actually sitting down and eating together (not in front of the TV) is becoming less common these days too so make sure the table is set and you can both talk about your day/ week or life in general.

    Get a red light bulb and swap it with your normal bulb. It completely changes the look and atmosphere in the room, instantly making it feel very seductive and naughty.

    Going out with friends may not seem romantic at the time but socialising and ‘representing’ as a couple with friends is a really fun thing to do. In other people’s presence we tend to be more playful. It will give you lots of things to talk about and it’s something you can both enjoy together.

    Some spontaneous oral sex is always a pleasurable treat for a loved one. Catch them when they are nice and clean but not expecting your sexy treat. Make the effort to spend a decent amount of time working their ‘goodies’ with your lips and tongue.

    For an incredibly sentimental gift idea, how about putting together a collage of images. It will be even more romantic if you do it for no apparent reason, just to make them happy. There are plenty of apps that do this now or you could print off your favourite picture memories and cut them to fit nicely in a frame. It proudly shows your declaration of love and will definitely show your partner you care.

    Doing things separately may seem the opposite of romantic but actually it’s a very healthy thing to do in marriages (and relationships in general). As much as you love each other, living in each other’s pockets can become suffocating and predictable. Doing hobbies separately creates desire and interest into the other person, giving you both some great conversation too.

  • Joey Essex has an interesting definition of what homophobia is

    Joey Essex has an interesting definition of what homophobia is

    Joey Essex has an interesting definition of what homophobia means.

    Joey Essex does America
    CREDIT ©Lime Pictures / ITV

    Ether Joey Essex is the dimmest person on the planet or he lives under a rock. In his Christmas special, which was broadcast on ITV2 he was asked to define what he thought Homophobia was, so here goes, he answered,

    “Some people don’t like to leave the house. They’ve got home-ophobia?”

    By the same logic we wonder if he thinks racism is people who don’t like taking part in athletics or  the egg and spoon race.

    Dear god man get some insight.

  • Mother pays tribute after her son killed himself after he split with his first boyfriend

    Mother pays tribute after her son killed himself after he split with his first boyfriend

    The mother of a school boy who committed suicide has been left devastated after finding his body after he was dumped by his first boyfriend.

     

    A 16-year-old boy, who had dreams of becoming a lawyer committed suicide in September shortly after coming out as gay and being dumped by his boyfriend. He had been a victim of bullying in the years before his death.

    An inquest heard that Zenon Bartlett, 16, committed suicide days after his first relationship with another boy ended. His mother found him hanged in his room after Zenon’s, boyfriend ended their relationship

    The schoolboy had recently come out as gay. The Mirror reports that he had struggled for three years with “persistent rumours about he and another boy”.

    Zenon’s mother, Lynda Bartlett, told the inquest that he found her son’s body at their home in Four Acres, Botley, Hants., on September 6.

    She said,

    “I had my lunch and just went upstairs and walked into the bedroom.

    “I had seen Zenon’s legs sticking out the wardrobe – they didn’t look right and when I walked in and saw what he’d done I was screaming ‘no’ and just calling for help.

    “I went downstairs screaming for help. I phoned for an ambulance and ran upstairs with my mobile phone.

    “If I had thought for a minute that he would self-harm or he would come to us to say he was depressed we would have taken him to the doctor’s or I would pay for a counsellor.”

    During the investigation into his death, it was found that he had reached out to Childline where he was offered help.

    Paying tribute, Mrs Bartlett said about her son,

    “In his 16 years, Zenon touched so many lives, we are so proud he was part of our family.

    “Our wish for this in the future is for people to not be afraid and to talk and get help if they are feeling low or suicidal.”

     

    Samaritans (116 123) operates a 24-hour service available every day of the year. If you prefer to write down how you’re feeling, or if you’re worried about being overheard on the phone, you can email Samaritans at jo@samaritans.org.

     

  • Twitter has Christmas emojis and they are super camp

    Twitter has Christmas emojis and they are super camp

    and they said let there be Christmas campery abound.

    We’ve got Mariah on repeat and Wham!’s “Last Christmas” has us misty eyed so when Twitter released it’s Christmas emojis obvs our excitement levels went to the next level.

    So to see the new emojis just start using the hashtags

    #MerryChristmas, #HappyChristmas, #Christmas, #HappyHanukkah, #HanukkahSameach, #Hanukkah, #Chanukah, #HappyChanukah, #HappyKwanzaa, #HabariGani, #Kwanzaa, #JoyousKwanzaa.

    BTW if you’re looking for the gayest Christmas playlist/album look no further than our very own Spotify playlist. We’ve managed to find and compile the 31 campest Christmas songs together in one place.

  • 7 things you probably didn’t know about Richard Osman

    He’s on our screens a lot, but how much do we really know about the Pointless co-host Richard Osman.

    Is Richard Osman gay?

    Richard Osman is the clever co-host of the BBC’s daytime programme, Pointless. So what do we know about him?

    Is Richard Osman gay?

    Well, rather interestingly in a blog posted in 2011, Richard wrote that his job was to be the host, Alexander Armstrong’s “‘pointless friend’, providing extra facts, trying to tell jokes, and adding to the Brokeback Mountain-style sexual frisson of the show”. Now make of that what you will. However, Richard, who was once voted “weirdest crush” is actually heterosexual and on the dating scene. Recently, he was said to be dating radio DJ and deputy editor of InStyle magazine, Emily Dean. He split with the mother of his two children a number of years ago.

     

    How tall is Richard?

    Richard is a very tall guy. He stands 6 foot 7 inches, which makes him taller than Basket Ball legend Michael Jordan. Being that tall you would think might have its advantages but Richard told the Express that “I’m so tall and my eyesight is so bad, I think if I ever tried to do anything brave it would end so badly. My grandad, who was a police officer, always said to me, ‘If you’re called to a fight in a pub, make sure you’re second through the door.’  The one thing, he said that he would change about himself is, in fact, his height, he’d like to shave a few inches off and be 6 foot 4.

    What was Richard Osmon doing before he starred in Pointless?

    Richard was working in television long before he landed the Pointless co-host job, but he was strictly behind the scenes. He got the co-host job when he pitched the idea to BBC execs. During the pitch, legend has it that he took the role of the assistant during the pitch. Producers were so impressed they suggested that he fill the role permanently. Before Pointless Richard was a script editor for the BBC’s Total Wipeout and wrote the Channel 4 sitcom, Boyz Unlimited with David Walliams and Matt Lucas.

     

    What are Richard Osman’s kids called?

    So Richard has two children, one daughter named Ruby, who was born in 1998 and a son who was born in 2000. In an interview, he said that his two best friends were, in fact, his kids. Ahh!

     

    Has Richard Osman ever done naked things?

    Richard has suggested that he’d like to do a nude calendar of geeks. In 2013, he told The Telegraph that he’d be up for stripping off and taking part in a naked shoot for a calendar, the theme – nude geeks. We’ve got 5 gorgeous gay geeks here we reckon should join Richard… We’d buy that calendar.

     

    Are Richard and Alexander Armstrong friends in real life?

    Yes, the chemistry between Richard and Alexander is real as in life they are actually very good friends. They met, studying at Trinty College, Cambridge in the late 80s and early 90s. Richard read Politics and Sociology while Alexander read English Literature.

     

    Does Richard have a large fanbase?

    Indeed, Richard has many admirers. His TV career has helped him amass nearly 493,000 followers on Twitter and on Facebook he has nearly 4000 people liking him. In 2011 he won the dubious pleasure of becoming Heat magazine’s Weirdest Crush Award, becoming the popular weekly’s “unlikely heartthrob”.

  • Remember that cute kid from Jerry Maguire? You won’t believe what he looks like now!

    Remember that cute kid from Jerry Maguire? You won’t believe what he looks like now!

    Remember that sweet looking kid from Jerry Maguire, we’ll he’s all growns up!

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    And still very very cute. He may be 26 now, but Jonathan Lipnicki first came to fame during the 90s as the cute kid, Ray Boyd, from the Tom Cruise blockbuster Jerry Maguire. Remember, front teeth missing… all American boy… yep that’s him. Well, twenty year’s later (yep that made us feel old) he’s now grown into quite the beautiful man as this picture from his Instagram reveals!

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BHVfjz8ALwa/?taken-by=jonathanlipnicki&hl=en

    He’s still acting and working out so it seems… He’s been filming all of 2016 for Loserville.

     

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BFDkh4ngilR/?taken-by=jonathanlipnicki&hl=en

     

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