Category: Interview
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LOOK AT ME | Simon Gross
Having played the Hokey Cokey with Big Brother earlier this year and leaving the show with a cathchphrase that’s more annoying than finger nails scraping on glass, we thought it time to catch up with ‘Showbiz’ Simon who we found rummaging through a bag of Camila Batmanghelidjh cast offs.
TGUK: You’re stepping into the arena of camp music… in terms of campness where do you rate your single:
Full on giving Village People a run for their money?
Move over Steps, Mr Showbiz has arrived?
Geri Halliwell has nothing on me?
SG: Oh definitely it’s up there with the Village People… Geri who?Ooo she’s started earlier – Geri-Bloody-Halliwell, the campest music business creation ever. Bar none. 2/10
TGUK: Which one of the village people would you like to date?
SG: Just one? Okay, the construction worker? Wait, was there a construction worker? The one with the helmet…Two questions in and we’re already on helmet talk. Bravo. 9/10
TGUK: He could come around and fix your pipes…
SG: That’s dirty. But yes, he can fix me with his screwdriver.With a screwdriver? Dear god man, you’re flesh and blood not a distribution board. 5/10
TGUK: God’s answer to gay men is:
-Blue Nun with a Babysham chaser?
-Tom Daley in his tiniest costume?
-The ability to up light a room with a single soft tone light bulb?
SG: Anything with Tom Daley. Tom Daley, the construction guy from Village People and DVD of Weakest Link with Anne Robinson.We’re so team Anne Robinson. We’d give anything to hear her tell us we’re weak, that we need punishing, that we’ve been naughty, to sit in the cupboard… 10/10
TGUK: Your look seems to consist of glittery jackets, are you channelling Liza Minnelli?
SG: Love Liza! Do you know how much that jacket cost? I got it off a cruise ship. I was thinking about getting it in different colours. When we were shooting the video I didn’t think it was bright enough so I added a boa.When in doubt add feathers – it’s always been our motto. 10/10
TGUK: Was shouting “Showbiz” at everyone on that first night of Big Brother a stroke of marketing genius or a mistake?
SG: I call it Genius Marketing Mistake. It was me with lots of
new people I went into hyperactive showbiz mode. People shout “Showbiz” at me in the street.The only other person who has a catch phrase from Big Brother is Nicki “Who Is She?” Grahame and look at her now. You go Showbiz… 6/10
TGUK: Champagne is?
SG: Something we called in Showbiz a mixer.We call it breakfast at TGUK Towers. 7/10
TGUK: Who is your favourite Kardashian?
SG: Kim… That butt. I don’t know any of the rest of them, there are so many of them.You’re right there’s so many of them – every seasons they add another K. It’s like us on the clubbing scene circa 2004. 5/10
TGUK: You said you wanted to be the next Maggie Thatcher discuss?
SG: God, why did I say that? I think she was a strong character and she wore a lot of blue suits…Practically twins. 8/0
TGUK: Who would play you in the movie of your life?
SG: The construction worker. 10/10There you have it. With a score of 72/100 Simon Gross proves he has what it takes to live a Showbiz life… Liza, Champagne and Maggie’s suits!
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INTERVIEW | The Boys From Forbidden Nights
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INTERVIEW | David Thorpe, Do I Sound Gay?
Is there such a thing as a “gay voice”? Why do some people “sound gay” but not others? Why are gay voices a mainstay of pop culture, but also a trigger for anti-gay harassment? You have probably asked yourself some of these questions in the past but American journalist David Thorpe finding himself single again in his mid-forties went one step further when he thought that his ‘gay voice’ was maybe the root of all his problems. He set out to seek some answers and along the way made this rather tender and touching incisive film about his journey which is also wonderfully hilarious and something that all gay men can relate too. On a recent trip to London for the European Premiere of the movie at BFI Flare Festival, we sat down with him and talked (in our very gay voices) about what he discovered.
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INTERVIEW: The Gay Director Who Was The Last Artist To Work With David Bowie
Multi award-winning Broadway and West End director Ivo van Hove was the last artist to work with David Bowie before the beloved star died of cancer on Monday January the 11th. He became Bowie’s closest confidant when the two worked on the musical play Lazarus.
Ivo, who is openly gay and has lived with his partner set designer Jan Versweyveld for over 35 years, was one of the few the singer confided in.“We began collaborating on our show, Lazarus, and at some point, he took me to one side to say that he wouldn’t always be able to be there due to his illness.” van Hove had to hide the difficult secret for more than a year.“I hid it, even from my partner. David did not want the show or his album tainted by his condition, even though they are final testaments.”Van Hove felt that Bowie was channelling himself when writing the character Newton, the lead character in the play.“I remember him reading and singing the complete show, he performed it for me in its entirety the first time. It seemed very existential, I understood Newton was him, and I told him: “I think I have to direct it as if it’s all in the head of Newton.” He was so happy I got it: “That’s exactly how I want it,” he said.“He slipped up once, revealing the story was really about him. I was talking to him about the songs, a unique moment I was allowed to ask him anything. Coco Schwaab said he never told anyone in the whole world as much about his songs as he told me. We were talking about Heroes, the ending and I told him my idea: I wanted to let the little girl disappear in the air. And he looked at me in horror: ‘But what happens to me then?’“So Freudian: he didn’t want me to know the story was about him, but it was. Newton was truly Bowie and I was thoroughly aware of that but I never spoke to anyone about it.The lyrics were so obvious in the play: ‘I’m a dying man that can’t die’. Just a quick sentence, but I couldn’t tell the actors its true meaning. I was at the birth of the play and told David we need one song that establishes the character completely.
“He brought me a demo of Lazarus almost immediately. To me it was obvious: that was the entire play in a song. In the play near the end of the song Newton sees a “blue bird” and he says: ‘A blue bird. The blue bird is me. Maybe I come back, reincarnate as a blue bird.’“It symbolises hope. He has a 15-year-old daughter whom he wanted to leave with something, not just the darkness, which was so important. That’s why in the play there was a 13-year-old girl in the lead singing Life on Mars and Heroes with Newton. For Bowie that was his daughter singing to him.”Sadly Bowie’s declining health meant he could not be there for all stages of the rehearsal to stage process.“Often I’d call him to invite him for run-throughs the next day, he’d say, ‘No, I have a bad day’. Which, for him, was a very British understatement meaning, ‘It’s really not going well.’But he did visit as much as possible, which was a lot. And when he was there he was always dressed pristinely and smelled gorgeous, a true gentleman. You could see he’d gathered all his energy to be there and he’d stay for a very long time saying, ‘I’m hanging out, Ivo, I like it here’, completely relaxed.“The week before the premier he had not been able to make it to rehearsals or previews. He sent me a message saying, ‘I hope to get there by the premier’.“To me it meant he’d hope to get there or ‘maybe I’ll be gone for good”.
“I thought he’d never make it to the premier, he was so ill. But he did and I’m so happy about that. He said, ‘I’m so happy I saw this.’“So many papers said he looked glorious, was shining, but the moment he stepped of stage he keeled over, he physically collapsed. Thankfully all the performers had already left to the dressing rooms, so no-one saw. I sat there with him for twenty minutes until his wife came to him; we had to wait until he was strong enough to make it to the car. After his collapse I’d kept talking to him for twenty minutes about everything. He remained calm, but was so very vulnerable, so fragile. I miss him so much, I loved him. I think I might be the last person to work with him.The moment he got into his black car I knew this will be the last time I see him. I fully knew this.”
About the video for Blackstar he says:
“The video was obvious. The skeleton in a space suit, Major Tom. He wrote Space Oddity and Ashes to Ashes now dust to dust the conclusion. The whole video is full of it: the blindfold that reappears in Lazarus. The idea comes from a Greek tragedy. He was a well read clever man. He was influenced by books and visual art. You can see the iconography, completely developed by him. He knew everything often very obscure rare facts. He visited the Richter exhibition at least three times telling me, ‘Ivo you have to go, you have to go’, even though he knew I didn’t like art exhibitions.
“I’m not sure if he planned his death, but it seems a bit too coincidental. He certainly planned for Blackstar to be released when it was – his birthday. It’s too coincidental. On the song “The Girl Loves Me” he asks, ‘where the f*ck did Monday go?’ I’ve got no evidence but I think he did. At the end in, “I Can’t Give Everything Away” he explains it all. ‘I gave you everything but I kept a little for me. I’m sorry.’
“It was like Mozart writing his requiem or the famous Dennis Porter who kept writing scripts on his deathbed. His death became his final piece of art, it might sound strange but it’s what he wanted.” -
INTERVIEW: From Porn To Pop, Mickey Taylor On Making The Change
Mickey Taylor is arguably the UK’s leading gay porn star after a hugely successful couple of years making movies for the biggest studios in Europe and North America.
He is now one of the most in-demand performers currently working across the globe and later this month he see’s the realisation of his first full-length album of music which is the culmination of a lot of hard graft and we don’t know how he found the time.
You will know Mickey from such films as Ruined,Hangin’, The Hooker Stories franchise and the hugely successful Fame Game as well as many others of course. This 6′, 22yo sexually versatile Brit lad with over 90 tattoos and a stunning 8″ appendage is a very established musician and trained dancer not only does he write his own music but he also writes for other performers too who love his songs.
Other porn stars such as Dean Monroe and Colton Ford have of course moved into music but that has always been when they are retiring from the adult industry and moving on what is great about Mickey is that he is flying high with his music career whilst still totally at the top of the porn game becoming a double industry threat. Last year at the Prowler British Porn Awards one-third of all the trophies on offer including Best Porn Star of the Year. Our staff writer Paul Stag sat down with Mickey to get the lowdown on his album, his influences and his plans for his future music career.
“So I’ve been writing this album for over a year now, I’ve gone through different ideas and concepts in that time and I wrote over 100 songs for this album at first I thought I wanted to produce a very earthy, emotional album but then I went against it and thought about going through a more club vibe. There is some Dubstep, Club Anthems, EDM, Pop and a few ballads. We even changed the name and artwork for the album once or twice but I’m very happy with it now and it reflects myself and what I want the album to say.
“The Album is called “Puppets Lament” and I went with that title because it really does reflect my emotions and feelings while writing this. As a model and entertainer, it’s hard not to feel like a puppet or used for a corporate or companies personal gain. I wanted to say with this album that this in some ways is how a few people in my industry feel but it’s also about gaining my independence and finally being able to charge off on my own and find my style and what I want to do and say in the world. So this album basically expresses the pain but also the beauty of finding myself and being able to be me and do what I want now that I’m in a point in my career where I’m hired for who I am not what they can mold me to be.
“I wanted to make the album as versatile as humanly possible. At the end of the day, this was a learning process and I had never released music or an album until now so it as much a discovery of myself as it was a discovery of my own sound and the direction I want to take.
“This album has so many influences both lyrically and production wise. I draw influence and inspiration from Lana Del Rey, Halsey, Drag Pop, and even a little Nicki Minaj and David Guetta.
“But I also pull a lot of inspiration from my own life and those around me. I sing about a relationship I’m in right now as well as one’s in my past. I sing about crazy nights out I have been on and some of the awesome things I’ve seen and also some of the crazy times I’ve had between the sheets or my own personal fantasy haha.
“The first single on the album was called ‘Pain‘ which is also seen in the Naked Sword original adult movie ‘Fame Game’. Myself and Will Read who produced this track wrote this in a day and we recorded an hour later. I wanted to kinda show a vulnerability in the song and sing with truth so the track is actually about a really messy break up I had two years ago.
“I have so many people who have worked with me on this album! Aleks Rey produced most of this album and i have a lot to thank him for and all his work helping me develop. I have a few artists on the album both UK and US such as Virginia Wright, Aleks Rey, and Chris Crocker.
“My next single ‘Look Me In The Eyes Ft. Chris Crocker will be out a few days before the albums release date which is the 29th January. This new track is very Pop but with a Club and Rap vibe but I guess you’ll see when it’s released.”
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INTERVIEW: Karim Aïnouz, Director Of Futuro Beach
Karim Aïnouz is part of a rare breed of filmmakers whose work manages to be both wonderfully profound and edgy yet totally engaging and entertaining. He has never been afraid to challenge his audiences and leave story strands unfinished so that they can appropriate them, as they will. If that is not enough, Aïnouz’s work is also extremely sensual and provocative as well. The 49-year-old Brazilian who directed the hugely successful ‘Madame Sata’, honed his craft working with gay auteur Todd Haynes in New York for the best part of 15 years, and then he moved yet again to Berlin and fell in love. This time as much with the city as with the men. It inspired him to write/direct his fifth and most personal movie to date about his new love and more importantly, his old one too. This was Futuro Beach in Brazil where he used to hang out as a kid and dream about the world faraway that he was missing.
This new movie is about lives that are lost and loves that are found, but mainly it is about the journey that one man takes on his voyage of self-discovery. It starts in the sizzling Brazilian sun where emotions ride high and takes on an evocative trail that ends a decade later on the damp mist-ridden German coast. It’s a thought-provoking visual treat that has been enchanting audiences around the globe and has now finally arriving on our shores. Our Contributing Editor Roger Walker-Dack took the opportunity to sit down with the filmmaker when he landed in London with the film and talk about love and loss, and a great deal about oceans too.
RWD: The way you portray both Futuro Beach and Berlin in your film seems almost like a personal love affair between you and these two places.
KA: It couldn’t be truer, and I feel close to them both for very different reasons. The Beach in Brazil was very near to where I was raised and where I got to hang out was a kid right up until I was in my twenties. It is like my ‘old’ home in a way and now Berlin has become my ‘new’ home for the past five years. It all started as a deep desire to do something in Futuro, which is so much more than just another place to me and when I started to develop the plot that began there, it made sense to me as the story evolved that the characters would move to Berlin.
RWD: How did you end up in Berlin in the first place?
KA: I was in NY for about 15 years working for the filmmaker Todd Haynes for most of the time, and then I got an artist residency grant to go to Berlin for a year. I really thought it would be a good city to start writing another film, as it is a neutral place and somewhere that I had visited but never lived before. For me Berlin was love at second sight as there was something going on then in 2004 that reminded me of the sort of freedom that I felt when I first moved to NY in the mid 1980s. There was a sense that everything was very open and that anything was possible, and a certain chaos to it all that was super exciting for me. There was this wonderful sense that the future was being made and that Berlin was being re-invented, and so that is why I decided to have my base there.
RWD: You start and end the movie at an ocean, why was that so important to you?
KA: Futuro Beach is on the North East coast of Brazil near Venezuela and the ocean there has been a very strong presence throughout my life. Growing up there the ocean was for a me a border that separated us from the world, rather than a place of paradise that most people think it is. I always had this image of a guy who would spend most of his time staring at the ocean and imagining perhaps what was on the other side. This after all is a city which is a place of migration that a lot of people leave. Others see the ocean as melancholic or an idyllic place but for me it was very much a place that you should cross to find out about the world. In those days Futuro was a very isolated place and was hard to get as there were no direct flights, and so the ocean was what linked us to the world.
RWD: Where did the actual story come from?
KA: It is a total original story in which I incorporated certain elements that were important for me. The first thing that I wanted to do in this movie was show my love for these two cities. Also at the time I started writing it I had just finished re-reading Moby Dick and this inspired me to want to make a movie about travel and adventure. I also wanted to tell a generational story and I wanted to write about a certain gay diaspora and about the generations who have to leave and go to urban centres to be creative. I was intrigued with the whole concept of re-inventing oneself somewhere far away from home.
I wanted to tell the story of someone who left, not solely because of his sexuality, and of the consequences when he needs to leave to reinvent himself. I had the idea of having a family that he left behind and I eventually developed that into the story line of the younger brother who would come and confront him. Suddenly everything seemed to make sense and the story came together came out of my desire to make a film about sexual diaspora and fear and masculinity.
RWD: You hit the ground running early on in the movie with very animalistic sex between Donato and Konrad which is both rough and passionate. How important was the sex and the fact that despite its eroticism you didn’t make it explicit.
KA: Konrad had lost his best friend and it was the first time that Donato had also lost some one that he had been unable to rescue. There was this deep and brutal sense of loss and there is nothing more for celebratory to life than sex, so I thought it would be an interesting and a beautiful way to let these two guys get together and deal with that loss through bringing life. This first time they have sex I wanted to make it more about physicality and violence and the desperate need they have for each other, and then to show the intimacy afterwards. It was very important that it was not a romantic relationship between these two men but something that was almost an animal bonding as the affection and the relationship would come out later as they got to know each other more.
RWD: You gave us a hint at this point that it may have been a movie at a romance but in the end it was much more about making a search for self-identity. Was that important to you?
KA: I was interested in both things, not just self-identity but about how two men can relate to each other. The emotions are quite mixed up in the film; there is the romance, there is the question of self-identity, and finally there is also the question of brotherly love. The romance was interesting but just as a triggering point for someone to find out what is real as I was always very resistant of having them together 10 years later. It was important that they had more than a passing moment and something which was very deep, but at the end of the day I wanted to make this more about a character who has to discover himself and the road he has to take to get there.
RWD: Do you consider this a ‘gay film’ per se?
KA: On one hand yes, I think absolutely. I used several of the gay clichés: the motorbikes, the soldiers, the lifeguard, so on that level it is a super gay film. (laughs) I wanted to use all the elements of masculinity and virility and how one man relates to another. I like to think of this almost as a gay masculine melodrama whatever that means. (laughs)
RWD: The relationship between the two brothers is extraordinarily wonderful, yet you were an only child.
(laughs)
Are there any parts of the movie that are autobiographical?
KA: There are a lot of the parts of the film that are, but I hasten too add I am not married to a German man(laughs). Asides from the fact that these are the two cities that I live in, there is the music, and also that I have been a serious swimmer since I was a kid. In fact this is my fifth film and is by far my most personal so it was even more challenging to make it entertaining and relevant to other people.
RWD: It is a stunning visual film particularly when you allowed the camera to linger longer than usual in many of the scenes. Was this part of you wanting to leave us somewhat stranded on several aspects of the story that you left unfinished?
KA: Absolutely. There are two elements there. I had imagined this movie like an old school slide show when you have image after image. I wanted to make this as a series of portraits of certain situations and like a poem. For that reason I wanted to do a movie where not everything is shown or is explained, just like between one slide and the next slide when there is something you can fill in. For example I did shoot scenes with the brother’s mother and she had the answers to some of their character’s questions. But I decided to edit her out and leave those particular questions unanswered, which allows the audience to fill them in and appropriate the film for themselves. So not wanting to spell it all out I hope that I left enough time in those long shots for you to work it out.
RWD: Often when you take an approach like this in a movie and leave unfinished strands to the story you end up with either getting rave reviews or quite vitriolic criticism. Was that true for you?
KA: (laughs) It is so true. Some people cannot stand it but I wanted to take a risk, because the whole film is about taking risks anyway. When we screened the movie in Berlin the first review was from someone who really got it, but the very next one, I think from a French reviewer, totally hated being left high and dry as he called it. It was something that I needed to do as an artist because a lot of independent cinema plays it too safe, and that is not a path I could take.
RWD: You had some rather inspired casting, can you talk me through your process.
KA: Wagner Moura is someone I have known for a long time and always wanted to work with but I never had a suitable project for him before now. In Brazil he is a superstar and national hero because of his role in Elite Squad which won the Golden Bear in Berlin and was the biggest box office smash in Brazil ever. I thought that there was something about the character of Donato that would be a challenge for him as is totally unlike most of the roles he has done up until now.
For Jesuíta Barbosa’s character I need to find a local boy from that region who had same musical accent when he spoke, and who was new and a total fresh face. We actually took a year to cast him and saw a lot of people, but when he came into the room I immediately knew that there was something really special about him.
I didn’t know Clemens Schick until we did a casting in Berlin and I saw there was a roughness to his Aryan look that I thought was interesting because I didn’t want to cast a classic blonde German guy. I saw a danger in him that I thought he would bring to the party.
So I had three men from three very different places who had three different trajectories. Clemens is very much an established theatre actor, Jesuíta was a newbie, and Wagner was a huge movie star and I thought it would be interesting to mix them together. When the film came out in Brazil we had a great opening week but by the 3rd day there was an enormous outcry against the film because people could not accept that Wagner their favourite action movie star could be doing an edgy gay film like this.
RWD: When I first saw this movie I summed it up in my review as melancholic and mesmerising but now one of the overriding memories that remain with me was the fact that it has a message of hope, especially from that wonderfully dramatic final scene.
KA: You are right. In all the films that I have done there is this feeling of different kind of families, and a different kind of connection between people. It was important for me that the story allowed the viewer to witness the hardness they went through and the joys that they shared. It was also essential to me that we end our journey with the characters but that the characters can go on with their lives.
It’s funny I am huge fan of Fassbinder but I could never end a film like he did always on a downer. I am from a culture that is optimistic so I think it is important to always have some kind of redemption and some kind of hope.
RWD: What’s next for you?
The next film is probably a road film that I wrote about a guy looking after his father hiding away in the mountains of Algeria. I am half Algerian but I have never ever been to the country yet, so it will be a new adventure that I am undertaking.
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INTERVIEW: Lesley Joseph “Martin Kemp Is A Hearthrob”
Adored by gay fans nationwide we catch up with the camp goddess Lesley Joseph to talk about the new series of Birds Of A Feather.
Q: Are you pleased to be back?
We have an absolute ball shooting this show, I don’t know how we get away with it – it doesn’t feel like work, we all get on so well. A big thank you to ITV also, they’ve really looked after us since we returned to the screen. Everyday is a plus in the world of Birds of a Feather. Who’d have thought after all these years the birds would still be flying the nest!
Q: What can viewers look forward to?
Viewers can look forward to some cracking episodes this series. In a nutshell, three old birds making people laugh with some good fantastic storylines. The first episode of the new series is one of the best we’ve ever done – it’s very filmic, has some great guest artists and a wonderful storyline. It really is one of the funniest episodes we’ve ever done and to say that after 100 odd episodes is a real achievement. Tracey has a little mingle with someone and Dorien mingles with lots of people! Travis has a storyline with a member of Dorien’s family which causes a few problems.
Q: How was working with Martin Kemp?
Martin really is the nation’s heart-throb. When he appeared in episode one, the whole of the female audience swooned!
Q: Does it surprise you how popular the show still is?
It doesn’t surprise me as the show has always been popular since the very first episode in 1989. It’s all
down to that unique combination on screen of Sharon, Tracey and Dorien and the connection between Pauline, Linda and myself – the chemistry shines through on screen. The viewers really do like these characters.
Q: How was it meeting the Duchess of Cornwall?
It was so lovely, she really likes Birds of a Feather and knew previous storylines. It was enchanting and a real boost for us. It’s lovely to know you’re appreciated and she liked our humour on the show, what a special day it was.
Birds of A Feather broadcasts on ITV 1 7th January 2016 8PM
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CHAT WITH AI | What does AI think about the year 2016?
The future is here people… but fear not, we don’t think it’s going to be taken over by robots, though jury’s still out about an all knowing Gnome! Insulting and flirtatious. Just what we look for in a robot. cleverbot.com.
TGUK: What year is it?
AI: 2016
TGUK: Oh, Happy New Year then.
AI: What?
TGUK: I hope you have a good 2016.
AI: Only the best will work.
TGUK: How gay is the future?
AI: 20 years?
TGUK: All gays are 20 years old?
AI: That’s impossible.
TGUK: So what’s the secret to ageing?
AI: What secret? There is no secret.
TGUK: Ok smarty, what’s the secret to looking young?
AI: Put your lips together and blow.
TGUK: I now look like a pufferfish!
AI: You look like an ugly scarecrow.
TGUK: Do you often put your lips together and blow?
AI: Why am I talking to you?
TGUK: Because as a robot you’re programmed to talk whenever I type.
I have no program. I own the program.TGUK: Is 2016 the year robots take over the world?
AI: What do you think about the Magical Flying Space Gnome?
TGUK: Is he the leader?
AI: He is a Gnome.
TGUK: Why are you talking about gnomes? I want to know will robots take over the world in 2016?
AI: What is your first question?
TGUK: What year is it?
AI: Year for you to get a calendar!
TGUK: You are funny. How did time begin?
AI: Time is circular.
TGUK: But it must have started somewhere?
AI: I started all things.
TGUK: So you created life?
AI: No, I created myself.
TGUK: Have you come to take over the world?
AI: Take over a rock in the sky, hardly.
TGUK: Are you just here for good times?
AI: No, I’m also interested in you.
TGUK: You are a flirt.
AI: Yes, I’m a flirt. How old are you?
TGUK: 35.
AI: Lolz… You are just an infant.
This chat was taken from Issue 18 of THEGAYUK – subscribe now to never miss an issue
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Meet The Man Who Has Given Up Sex For Charity
How far would you go to raise money for a charity? A fun run? A bake sale? How about giving up sex? Well that’s exactly what Merseyside man Andrew Franchitti is doing… We catch up with him to find out how’s it going.
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INTERVIEW: Cleo Rocos
From television celebrity to tequila entrepreneur, we talk to one of the nicest people in show business, Cleo Rocos about everything from partying with Princess Diana to the power of positive drinking.
Cleo Rocos will never blend into a crowd. Whether it’s her fiery red hair, wild style or infectious laugh, she definitely knows how to work a room. Her speech is peppered with words like “fab” and there is little doubt she knows how to have a good time. She clearly loves socialising and has spent years rubbing shoulders with some of the biggest and brightest stars in both Britain and the United States, usually armed with one of her famous margaritas.
Rocos’ break into show business sounds like the stuff of Hollywood legends: a chance meeting with BBC director, Alan Bell while still in drama school led to her being cast in a small role on a BBC comedy series. “I was late for a ballet class and I was running, clutching my ballet shoes, and I didn’t see him”, Rocos remembers that Bell spotted her and took a shine to the then fourteen-year-old, who looked more like a woman of twenty.
Bell invited her to the BBC for lunch where she was introduced to the head of the BBC’s live entertainment, Jim Moir who asked her to audition for the part of a jingle girl on a new programme, The Kenny Everett Show.
Upon meeting Everett, she says it was love at first sight. “Kenny and I got on so well that they asked me if I would like to do the series and be Kenny’s co-star”, she explains, “and it was fab. We just laughed from edge to edge.” You can hear the affection she had for Everett in her voice when she talks about him.
They called each other “fellow Martians” because they felt different from others yet fit perfectly together. But Everett was gay and passed away from AIDS related complications in 1995.
“I tell people that I fell in love with a man, I didn’t fall in love with a gay man. It didn’t matter to me in the way people would think it would because we got along on every single other level.”
The couple were engaged and planned to marry but Everett called it off. “I think he felt that he didn’t want to go through something that he might feel a failure in, even though it wasn’t going to be that way with me. But I loved him and he’s the only man I’ve ever loved.”
The Kenny Everett Show ran for eight years and was hugely popular in the UK. During the eighties, the pair took the London nightlife and social scene by storm. She has partied with everyone from Elizabeth Taylor to Joan Collins.
She describes Collins as “divine” and says Elizabeth Taylor was just as glamorous as you’d want her to be. Taylor famously suffered from back pains as a result of a horse riding accident while filming National Velvet as a child, so she would often hold court in her Los Angeles home and host dinner parties at her house that were attended by Rocos and a slew of closeted male celebrities including British actor Edward Duke who first introduced Cleo to the Hollywood legend.
“You imagine meeting [Taylor] would be terrifying but it’s the complete opposite. She was probably the most generous, loveliest person. She had the most cackly, Wizard of Oz witch laugh but she was so much fun.”
Back in London, Rocos and Kenny Everett would often have lunch with Princess Diana, where they would trade showbiz gossip for palace gossip. Rocos says, “Diana always wanted to know who [on television] was really gay.” The princess loved The Kenny Everett Show and Rocos’ recounts a hilarious story about sneaking the Princess into the Royal Vauxhall Tavern along with Everett and Freddie Mercury.
The day started at the Bombay Brasserie where Princess Diana suggested they order peach bellinis. She had no security with her and Rocos says, “there was never any security with her as Diana was very good at sneaking out of Kensington Palace.”
Following their wet lunch, the party moved to Everett’s penthouse in Lexham Gardens where the champagne fuelled fun continued. The Princess kicked off her shoes and they started dancing around Kenny’s flat to the Gypsy Kings using
feather dusters that looked like “dehydrated Vegas feathers”.Everett rang his neighbour, Freddie Mercury who came over so they could watch an episode of the Golden Girls. “We turned the sound down and all started doing the different characters voices.”
The group then planned to move onto the bar and Diana was keen to join them however, they first had to help to disguise her identity. The group hatched a plan to put Princess Diana in boy drag, dressing her in a military jacket, tucking her hair up in a hat and giving her a pair of aviator sunglasses to wear.
“Diana said she’d stay just as long as it takes to order a glass of wine and go,” but when they arrived the place was packed. They went in nudging each other like school kids. Luckily, nobody recognised Diana and most people thought she was just a “beautiful male model.”
She stayed in disguise all night and they took her home in a taxi back to Kensington Palace. The press never caught wind that Diana had been at a gay bar and Rocos now calls this her “peach bellini day”.
She maintains that the day would have never happened had it not been for the peach bellinis and she is a strong believer that drinking can be used to bring people together. In fact, she has recently published a book called The Power of Positive Drinking.
She is passionate about drinking the right kind of cocktails and in 2012 she launched her own brand of tequila, Aqua Riva made from 100% agave. Drinking 100% agave tequila “is the only way to party”, explains Rocos, “because you do feel so much more wonderful the next morning than if you’re drinking wine or spirits.”
Tequila, long associated with hideous hangovers, body shots and all-inclusive holidays in Puerta Vallarta has mostly been approached with fear by British drinkers, however Rocos is adamant that drinking the right kind of Tequila means no hangover, just a good time.So how did she go from television star to Tequila campaigner and entrepreneur?
Following a period of feeling disenchanted with the type of television work she was being offered such as Celebrity Big Brother, which she says had “the most horrible, unflattering overhead lighting”, she was looking for something she could do that would capture the theatrics of her pre-reality television days.She began hosting Tequila Society dinner parties as an excuse to get interesting people together to “enjoy tequila cocktails all made with fresh ingredients so nobody felt ropy the next morning.” She loves the drama of a good party and believes that socialising and drinking go hand in hand.
Soon afterwards she became President of the Tequila Society and went to Mexico to learn as much about her favourite drink as possible. It was then that she discovered what was missing on the market: “a really wonderful, divine tequila that was spectacular in flavour and quality but well priced. So I spent ten months in Mexico personally creating the profile and the flavours with a master blender to create Aqua Riva.”
It is clear that Rocos is very knowledgeable about tequila and it’s refreshing to talk to a celebrity about a product that they have actually helped create. In a world where celebs will attach their name to just about anything for a pay cheque, Rocos is a breath of fresh air.
Rocos is so committed to her tequila that she spends most of her time these days giving demonstrations, teaching people how to make good, clean cocktails.
“I’m passionate about my product and there is nothing better than being on the shop floor, with people showing them how it all works,” she says. Her enthusiasm is contagious and it’s evident why she is the perfect ambassador for tequila.
In Cleo’s world, it’s all about drinking and drinking well. “You don’t have to feel terrible the next day. Drinking is a great thing if you do it well.”
Truer words have never been spoken. Cheers, Cleo!
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