You have to love a woman that does this and gets away with it. Joan drops the F Bomb live on UK Morning TV.
Oh Joan, we’re already missing you. This video has helped us remember you in the way that you need to be. Unapologetic and hilarious.
You have to love a woman that does this and gets away with it. Joan drops the F Bomb live on UK Morning TV.
Oh Joan, we’re already missing you. This video has helped us remember you in the way that you need to be. Unapologetic and hilarious.
★★★★ | Wakolda
In the opening scenes of this historical drama we see a distinguished looking German gentleman accosting a travelling family of five to ask if he may follow behind them as he is unsure about driving alone on the desolate dirt roads in the middle of the vast plains of Patagonia.
The year is 1960 and they are heading south to the small lakefront town of Bariloche to re-open a Hotel that once was a thriving concern when another generation of the family ran it. The German never reveals much about his own destination or any of his plans for staying in this country far from home.
When they finally arrive, the German, who the family are learning is either a Doctor or Scientist, insists on renting a room from them and to overcome their reluctance sweetens his request by overpaying as he has sensed that the family is cash poor. Eva the heavily pregnant mother is German speaking, as are so many of the local residents – as the best school in the area was the German one, and she welcomes him into their home. Her husband Enzo is a struggling doll-maker and although a man of few words and simple tastes, he is the only one in the family who is not impressed with the charm onslaught from this very creepy stranger in their midst.
The ‘Doctor’ is particularly taken by Lilith the 12 year old of the family who has always been much smaller than the norm for her age ever since she was born 2 months premature. Soon he is trying to persuade the parents that with the hormone treatment that he has been working on, he can improve Lilith’s growth rate dramatically. They are all initially reluctant to even consider this course of action but Eva relents after Lilith suffers another brutal day of taunting at her school because of her size. However she insists that they keep the news of this change of heart from Enzo until at least Lilith starts gaining some height.
Now the ‘Doctor’ has gained Eva’s confidence he turns his attention to her, especially when he discovers that she is going to give birth to twins as we eventually find out that he has some plans of his own for these yet unborn babies.
This movie from Argentinian filmmaker Lucía Puenzo, adapted from her own novel, never hides the fact that the Doctor is none other than Josef Mengele the notorious Nazi who did barbarous and inhuman genetic experiments on the inmates of Auschwitz earning himself the moniker ‘The Angel of Death.’ This highly believable fiction is based on the fact that after the War he, like so other high-ranking Nazis, fled to South America where he continued his cruel work on pregnant women and children until his death in Brazil in 1979.
Puenzo slowly unravels her story and builds the tension by insinuating what the Doctor really is up too as he slowly manipulates his way into this family’s lives. It is only the German School Archivist that suspects and confirms his true identity and she is anxious that he is caught and out in trial for his war crimes just like Eichmann who Israelis had recently captured. Unfortunately, as he is protected by a wide network of loyal Party supporters he will always manage to completely avoid this.
This chilling tale succeeds mainly due to the combination of a convincingly sinister performance by Spanish actor Àlex Brendemühl as the menacing Mengele, and also the bleak remote landscape dramatically captured by cinematographer Nicolás Puenzo, who is also the Director’s brother. This was Argentine’s official submission for Best Foreign Picture Oscar, and although it didn’t end up with a nomination, it was definitely worth a consideration.
Lewes couple challenge the legality of council sale of former school to ‘homophobic sect’ that claims it can ‘cure’ gays.
Tony Leonard & Dominic McCartan have written to East Sussex County Council Chief Executive, Ms Becky Shaw, demanding that the council explains how its decision to sell the former site of St Anne’s School at a price below its market value to religious organisation, Subud, is in keeping with its obligations under the Equality Act 2010.
September 1st 2014.
Dear Ms Shaw,
We are writing in regard to East Sussex County Council’s proposed sale of the St Anne’s site at a below market price to the religious sect, Subud. We understand that ESCC are able to agree to sell public assets at reduced cost if the sale is of benefit to the community.
We would like to enquire how ESCC’s legal obligation to ‘having due regard’ was exercised during the various stages of the decision to accept Subud’s bid.
Please note that we have copied this letter to Stonewall, the LGBT charity, and the Equality Advisory Support Service (both of which have provided me with information) and other interested parties. Your prompt reply is most eagerly anticipated and will no doubt be closely scrutinised by the above with a view to possible intervention by the Equality & Human Rights Commission.
We would like to remind you that according to the Equality Act 2010, East Sussex County Council, as a public body, has an equality duty to take account of equality, discrimination and good relations between protected groups in order to embed equality considerations into the day to day work of public authorities in order to counter discrimination and inequality.
The equality duty covers age, disability, gender re-assignment, pregnancy and maternity, race, religion or belief, sex and sexual orientation.
Under this legislation, East Sussex County Council has a general duty which makes clear the goals to which public authorities must have due regard in carrying out their functions.
The general duty also applies to voluntary or private organisations if they are carrying out public functions on behalf of public bodies – therefore any community services offered by Subud in return for the reduced price at which they acquired the building from ESCC are also required to comply with the general duty.
The general duty has three aims. Public bodies in all their operations must have due regard to the need to:
• eliminate unlawful discrimination, harassment and victimisation
• advance equality of opportunity between people from different (equality) groups
• foster good relations between people from different (equality) groups.
The phrase ‘having due regard’ means that a public body must consciously consider the three aims of the general duty in all its decision making.
In advancing equality of opportunity public bodies will need to consider:
• removing or minimising disadvantages experienced by people because of their protected characteristics
• meeting the needs of people with protected characteristics
• encouraging people with protected characteristics to participate in public life.
The requirement to ‘advance equality of opportunity’ is stronger than the previous duties which only required the ‘promotion of equality’.
Fostering good relations means tackling prejudice and promoting understanding between people from different groups.
The religious sect, Subud, is a homophobic organisation that classifies homosexuality as a “disease of the soul” and claims that it can ‘cure’ homosexuality through the practice of the ‘latihan’. This position has been stated repeatedly in the talks and writings of Subud’s founder, Muhammad Subuh Sumohadiwidjojo (usually referred to as Pak Subuh or Bapak).
Here’s what Bapak says about homosexuality in Pewarta Kedjiwaan Subud, Replies to Member’s Question, Volume 5, #157. “Your habit of being a homosexual is actually a habit and conduct which violates the Will of God. For this reason, if someone behaves in this way he is classed as a sinner. This is how it is. So you should really and truly feel about this matter, and since you have been able to receive and practice the latihan kedjiwaan you should prevent the urge of the passions which want to do this, and turn your inner-feeling to the Power of Almighty God with trust and sincerity, so that your inner-self will be protected from the influence of these bad forces. That is all, and Bapak prays that you will be able to carry out what Bapak has said above.”
This is not merely an historical position; Bapak’s teachings remain the underlying philosophy of Subud following his death in 1987. Although membership is open to everyone, in the absence of a single spiritual leader, control of the movement has fallen to local, national and international committees of ‘Helpers’ who are instructed by Bapak’s Advice and Guidance to Helpers. This was last republished in 2013 and remains the most current and up-to-date position of the sect.
The section on homosexuality states:
“The latihan kejiwaan is guidance and training from the power of God which we receive whenever we surrender to Him, free from the influence of the heart and mind. As a result of the latihan kejiwaan sins and faults that are hidden deep within our being are brought to light in order that they may be cleaned out and put right. These are things that we may not have been aware existed within us. It is necessary that we should become aware of these faults within us during the process of purification. Only what is most important for you is that you should not follow or act out the temptations you are experiencing, which are just part of the purification process. This is because homosexuality is not allowed by religion and is not allowed by God. It is a misuse of the body and not only harms a person physically but harms the jiwa in a way that is very difficult to put right.
Therefore, you must be very firm in avoiding such conduct. To lighten your situation the only way possible is to do the latihan with a full feeling of trust in and surrender to the greatness of God Almighty, for He is able to correct those things within us that we are unable to put right.” From Bapak, (letter) 5 May, 1976.
Any questions as to the current status of the doctrines contained in this volume within the sect are clearly and unambiguously answered in the introduction:
“In visiting many groups, we were often surprised to see helpers confused and resorting to testing matters that are clearly explained in previous editions of this book. We would therefore like to recommend strongly that all helpers allow time during their helpers’ meetings, when discussing a problem – before making a decision – to look up what Bapak says about it. We hope that this way all helpers’ work will be lighter and have more clarity.
“Reading Bapak and Ibu Rahayu’s answers to members questions, it is clear to us that many questions would not have been necessary had the content of Bapak’s talks been known to the writers – helpers as well as members. Bapak’s saying, well known by now, ‘stand on your own feet’ surely also implies looking up the answers to our questions in Bapak’s talks ourselves, a task that everyone will find most rewarding, and for which this book may be of great help. ”
There is clearly no confusion as to Subud’s position on homosexuality.
The fact that Subud regards “being a homosexual is actually a habit and conduct which violates the Will of God”, although nonsensical in terms of our current understanding of the nature and roots of human sexuality, is unfortunately shared by many religious believers, whose rights are also protected under the Equality Act 2010. However it is the legally-stated duty of ESCC to tackle prejudice and foster understanding in order to foster good relations between people from different equality groups. It is our view that the general duty cannot be achieved by selling a public property off cheaply to the benefit of a bigoted and institutionally prejudiced organisation. We are keen to hear how this sale will benefit the wider community when it is clearly deeply offensive and alientating to LGBT community members.
To describe people’s relationships and families in such terms is obviously obnoxious and divisive. LGBT people have fought long and hard against legal discrimination and social exclusion and to witness a local authority endorse an organisation that holds such views is disappointing and distressing. But it is Subud’s claims to be able to “correct” homosexuality, as a “disease of the soul”, through its spiritual practice that makes this sect damaging and dangerous to its own members and members of our community.
Subud promotes the ‘latihan’ as a therapy that can result in the “correction” of homosexual desires. This practice is a form of “reparative therapy” or in layman’s terms, “praying the gay away”.
In 2012, the Pan American Health Organisation / World Health Organisation said in a position statement that “services that purport to “cure” people with non-heterosexual sexual orientation lack medical justification and represent a serious threat to the health and well-being of affected people.”
“Since homosexuality is not a disorder or a disease, it does not require a cure. There is no medical indication for changing sexual orientation,” said PAHO Director Dr. Mirta Roses Periago. Practices known as “reparative therapy” or “conversion therapy” represent “a serious threat to the health and well-being—even the lives—of affected people.”
“The PAHO statement notes that there is a professional consensus that homosexuality is a natural variation of human sexuality and cannot be regarded as a pathological condition.
“The document notes that no rigorous scientific studies demonstrate any efficacy of efforts to change sexual orientation. However, there are many testimonies about the severe harm to mental and physical health that such “services” can cause. Repression of sexual orientation has been associated with feelings of guilt and shame, depression, anxiety, and even suicide.
“To address the problem, PAHO makes a series of recommendations for governments, academic institutions, professional associations, the media, and civil society, including:
• “Conversion” or “reparative” therapies and the clinics offering them should be denounced and subject to adequate sanctions.
• Public institutions responsible for training health professionals should include courses on human sexuality and sexual health in their curricula, with a focus on respect for diversity and the elimination of attitudes of pathologization, rejection, and hate toward non-heterosexual persons.
• Professional associations should disseminate documents and resolutions by national and international institutions and agencies that call for the de-psychopathologization of sexual diversity and the prevention of interventions aimed at changing sexual orientation.
• In the media, homophobia in any of its manifestations and expressed by any person should be exposed as a public health problem and a threat to human dignity and human rights.
• Civil society organizations can develop mechanisms of civil vigilance to detect violations of the human rights of non-heterosexual persons and report them to the relevant authorities. They can also help to identify and report people and institutions involved in the administration of “reparative” or “conversion therapies.”
(http://www.paho.org/hq/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=6803&Itemid=1)
All the major psychotherapy and counselling professional bodies in the UK have issued statements condemning the practice of “reparative” or “conversion” therapies and interventions. These are some examples:
The British Psychological Society – Dec 2012
“The British Psychological Society (BPS) opposes any psychological, psychotherapeutic or counselling treatments or interventions (often referred to as ‘reparative’ or ‘conversion’ therapies) that view same sex sexual orientations (including lesbian, gay, bisexual and all other non-heterosexual sexual orientations) as pathological. The BPS believes that people of all genders and identities should be regarded as equal members of society and protected from potentially damaging therapies and pathologising.”
(http://www.bps.org.uk/system/files/images/therapies_attempting_to_change_sexual_orientation.pdf)
British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy – Oct 2012
“BACP opposes any psychological treatment such as ‘reparative’ or ‘conversion’ therapy which is based upon the assumption that homosexuality is a mental disorder, or based on the premise that the client/patient should change his/her sexuality. BACP believes that socially inclusive, non-judgmental attitudes to people who identify across the diverse range of human sexualities will have positive consequences for those individuals, as well as for the wider society in which they live. There is no scientific, rational or ethical reason to treat people who identify within a range of human sexualities any differently from those who identify solely as heterosexual.”
(http://www.theguardian.com/society/2012/oct/01/conversion-therapy-gay-patients-unethical)
British Psychoanalytic Council – 2011
“The British Psychoanalytic Council opposes discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. It does not accept that a homosexual orientation is evidence of disturbance of the mind or in development. In psychoanalytic psychotherapy, it is the quality of people’s relationships which are explored, whether they are heterosexual or homosexual.”
(http://www2.bpc.org.uk/sites/psychoanalytic-council.org/files/6.2%20Position%20statement%20on%20homosexuality.pdf)
UK Council for Psychotherapy – Feb 2010
“UKCP does not consider homosexuality or bisexuality, or transsexual and transgendered states to be pathologies, mental disorders or indicative of developmental arrest. These are not symptoms to be treated by psychotherapists, in the sense of attempting to change or remove them. No responsible psychotherapist will attempt to ‘convert’ a client from homosexuality to heterosexuality (‘reparative’ therapy).”
College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT)
“COSRT as an organisational member of UKCP supports the UKCP statement on the ‘reparative’ therapy of members of sexual minorities. General Members must agree to comply with this document.”
Professional Standards Authority
“The Professional Standards Authority believes gay conversion therapy is inconsistent with our obligations under the Equality Act.”
Association of Christian Counsellors – Jan 2014
“We recognize that such models have the potential to impose situational demands on the client at a time of vulnerability with the potential to create harm and therefore view them as incompatible within the ethos of counselling.”
(http://www.acc-uk.org/pdfs/ACC%20statement%20to%20its%20members%20January%202014.pdf)
A compilation of professional bodies’ positions on “reparative therapies”, written in in response to a request by the Department of Health, can be found here: http://www.healthylives.stonewall.org.uk/includes/documents/cm_docs/2014/c/conversion-therapy-final.pdf
We see from Subud’s plans for St Anne’s that it intends to provide a range of therapies and counselling services. Because of its categorisation that homesexuality “violates the Will of God” and because its interventions to “cure” homosexuality are unethical, unprofessional and present “a serious threat to the health and well-being—even the lives—of affected people” (PAHO/WHO), Subud is not an organisation that can or should be trusted in this role.
We believe that East Sussex County Council is in serious breach of its obligations under the Equality Act 2010 in conducting this below-cost sale. We look forward to your reply, making clear how ‘conscious consideration’ of ESCC’s general duty under the Equality Act was applied at every stage of this process.
Yours sincerely (and in violation of the Will of God according to Subud),
Tony Leonard & Dominic McCartan
A county council spokesman said: ‘East Sussex County Council takes its duty under the Equality Act 2010 extremely seriously and made all bidders aware of this at the application stage. Ability to comply with the Act is always part of an assessment process. In this case prior to assessment of the submitted bids, SUBUD was asked to clarify its position on people from groups protected by the legislation. Following these discussions we are satisfied that SUBUD is an open organisation which does not discriminate against any individuals or groups and has strong links with local communities. The assessment panel was also confident that SUBUD will work with all parts of the community.’
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If you look online gay fan fiction created by girls is rife – and the Janoskians, who have their single That’s What She Said out today, have their fair share of man-love fan fiction action too, so we had to ask the question, if they could date any other boy band who would it be and where would they go? This is how the conversation went down…
Beau: If I was gay… One Direction are really pretty, but we’re going to meet the Vamps in a
second…
Luke: yeah, the Vamps
TheGayUK: So The Vamps for ease?
Beau: Yeah… Strapping young lads…
James: But there’s four of them yeah and five of us…
Jai: We can share one, we’re twins we can share
Luke: We’ll share the curly headed one
Jai: We can make curly haired babies.
And where would you take them?
Daniel: To bed.
Beau: Or backstage, you know what happens backstage at our shows!
And we had to ask, who would be the MANBAND?
Beau: We’d definitely be the Man Band
Jai: Yeah 100%
Luke: We’re a bit older than them
Jai: We know how to take control
Daniel: A bit more experience…
There you have it…
The recovery time has been and gone, and now is a good time to reflect on the party festival that was Xlsior Mykonos.
Rainbow Laces campaign asks players to lace up for weekend of 13/14 September.
Stonewall, joining forces with the Gay Football Supporters’ Network (GFSN) and Paddy Power, has sent rainbow laces to every professional club and footballer in Britain to show support for gay players and fans.
The campaign has official backing from the Premier League and high-profile support from Thomas Hitzlsperger, FA Cup winners Arsenal and champions Man City and aims to tackle one of the most persistent challenges in sport: homophobia in football.
Thomas Hitziperger made headlines in January when he announced he was gay.
Building on the success of last year’s inaugural campaign in which hundreds of pros laced up including Leighton Baines, Olivier Giroud and Joey Barton, alongside widespread support from Ed Miliband, the Department of Culture, Media & Sport, Stephen Fry and Gary Lineker, players and fans are being urged to again show their support over the weekend of 13/14 September.
Arsenal legends Theo Walcott, Alex Oxlade-Chamberlain, Olivier Giroud, Santi Cazorla and club captain Mikel Arteta will kick-off the campaign with a high-profile TV ad – ‘The Changing Room’ – designed to raise awareness of the issues around homophobia in football and lead the charge in changing the beautiful game.
Among the 5,000 professional footballers in the UK, not one of them is openly gay – a scenario with odds of over a quadragintillion to one. Stonewall’s own research shows that seven in ten football fans have heard or witnessed homophobia on the terraces and more than 40 per cent believe football to be an anti-gay sport.
Rainbow coloured boot laces have been dispatched to every single professional player in the UK, including youth and women’s teams, alongside deliveries to all 650 MPs and leading political figures. Fans and grass-root players will be asked to tweet their support using the official hashtag: #RainbowLaces
Ruth Hunt, Chief Executive of Stonewall, said, ‘We know that homophobia, biphobia and transphobia are still rife in football. That needs to change. Last year’s Rainbow Laces campaign was a great start but there’s still a long way to go both on and off the pitch. The clubs and players supporting the campaign and lacing up this weekend are taking a powerful stand against prejudice in our national game. Our work in sport will continue all year round, but for this week we need as many people as possible to show their support and get involved.’
Nick Noble, Premier League Head of Communications said, ‘The Premier League welcomes initiatives like Stonewall’s Rainbow Laces campaign, that share our objectives of equality throughout the sport. Unfortunately discrimination still exists in society and we recognise football’s leadership role in educating participants at all levels that any form of discriminatory behaviour is not acceptable.’
Thomas Hitzlsperger, the only openly gay player to have played in the Premier League, said: ‘I’m proud to be working with Stonewall on the Rainbow Lace campaign. I want to show that being gay and a professional footballer is something that’s normal. The perceived contradiction between playing football, the man’s game, and being homosexual is nonsense.’
Paddy Power said: ‘We love football but it needs a good kick up the ass. In many other areas of life, people can be open about their sexuality and it’s time for football to take a stand and show players it doesn’t matter what team they play for. Fans can show their support by simply tweeting using #RainbowLaces, whilst all players have to do is lace up over the weekend of 13 and 14 September.’
Ed Connell, Gay Football Supporters’ Network Chair said: ‘Last year’s Rainbow Laces campaign successfully highlighted the problem of homophobia, biphobia and transphobia in football in a bold and impactful way, grabbing the attention of the footballing world. However real progress is never achieved with one off campaigns. That’s why the Gay Football Supporters’ Network (GFSN) has welcomed the opportunity to work on this year’s campaign which we believe can bring about real change in the game.’
In addition to club, player and fan support, some of the UK’s best known brands are supporting Rainbow Laces. In an industry first, Metro have pledged their support by filling their entire Monday edition with adverts from brands who back the campaign.
Premier Inn, who are renaming as Premier Out in all communications for the day, HTC/Carphone Warehouse, Playstation, Sega, Relish Broadband, KLM, Heineken, Pepsico, Lastminute.com, Dr Martens, BT Broadband / BT Sport, Starbucks, Fiat and Jersey Tourism are just some of the brands involved.
Jump Start Madame’s Comeback tour!
The sassy, outspoken and loveable “old broad” is calling on all her fans, old and young, to rally around and get her back ON TOP where she belongs. Do YOUR part and Go to her Indiegogo page at www.indiegogo.com/projects/jump-start-madame-s-comeback-tour then pick a “thank you” level; make sure you check out Madame’s NEW music video Jump Start My Comeback Tour, a tongue in cheek song parodying the hit song I’m so Fancy in TRUE Madame style.
A bit about Madame (in case you didn’t know): Madame was created by the legendary Wayland Flowers in the mid-1960s. Flowers’s first big break was an appearance on the The Andy Williams Show. The character of Madame is an “outrageous old broad” who entertains with double entendres and witty comebacks. Bedecked in fabulous evening wear and “summer diamonds” (“Some are diamonds; some are not”), Madame’s look is based on movie stars such as Gloria Swanson. Madame is rumoured to be based on a Washington, DC gay icon, waitress and restaurant hostess Margo MacGregor. Madame’s many TV appearances included Laugh-In; a long run on the game show Hollywood Squares (replacing Paul Lynde in The Centre Square); a recurring comedy skit on Solid Gold; a regular on ABC’s short-lived summer replacement show called Keep on Truckin’, various TV guest spots; and as the star of her own syndicated 1982 sitcom, Madame’s Place, which in itself was the precursor to every reality TV show out there!
Flowers and Madame were in the centre square on the final NBC episode of Hollywood Squares in June 1980; host Peter Marshallasked Madame the final game question of the daytime series, which was: “Mozart, Beethoven, Schubert and Strauss lived in the same place. Where did they all live?” Madame’s “comic” answer: “At the YMCA!” Then her “serious” answer: Germany. (The correct answer: Austria.)
In 2008 Andrew Salgado and his partner were attacked in a hate crime. Since then his art has become a political catalyst, evolving his vision of masculine identity. His work is so admired he has amassed over 180,000 Facebook fans.
His latest solo exhibition is called Storytelling and will take place at the Beers Contemporary in East London on the 4th October.
He has worked actively to raise money through donations to LGBTQ charities such as Terrence Higgins Trust and Diversity Role Models.
Noted by Saatchi Online as one of “twelve artists to invest in today”, Salgado’s dynamic paintings have earned a Facebook following of over 175,000 fans (and growing daily). Esteemed critic Edward Lucie Smith has lauded him as “a dazzlingly skillful advocate for painting,” and he has received commissions from major retailers such as Harvey Nichols and fashion industry staple Rootstein Display Mannequins. Salgado has also been selected for inclusion in the forthcoming book 100 Painters of Tomorrow, set for publication next month by Thames & Hudson.
Storytelling [SOLO] – Beers Contemporary. London, UK. October 4 – November 22, 2014.
Liberal Judaism’s ground-breaking LGBT history project Rainbow Jews is looking to raise at least £5,000 via online crowdfunding to continue its great work.
During the last two years, this unique volunteer-led initiative has amassed more than 40 personal testimonies from British LGBT Jews; exploring the struggles, changes and issues experienced by the community from the 1950s to today.
The Rainbow Jews collection, including documents and a digitised oral history, is held at the London Metropolitan Archives.
An exhibition was also created and put on display at the London School of Economics and Liberal Judaism Biennial Weekend earlier this year. The exhibition is now set to tour England, starting in Leicester on August 31 before moving on to Birmingham and Liverpool.
Rainbow Jews Project manager Surat Knan said: “We believe in community spirit and want to keep making a difference. This is why we are asking our friends and supporters to help us continue this legacy.
“We’ve had so much interest in the exhibition from all over the UK, youth groups want us to run sessions and new people have asked us to record their stories – but for all this we need funds.
“Please donate, so we can make sure that our history will not become our past.”
Donation can be made until 22 September via http://igg.me/at/rainbowjewslegacy or directly to Liberal Judaism.