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  • GARDEN| Bring In The Spring

    This is one of our favourite times of year in the garden – although also the most unpredictable.

    Bright clear days can seduce you into feeling like it’s springtime and then a sleety snow shower takes you right back into the murky depths of winter. The weather is a cruel mistress indeed! This year we’re all about the flowers in our garden so keeping one step ahead of the changeable weather is going to be key.

    Last year we started out planting a few alpines on a rock that sits at the back of our garden. This year we’re going to keep adding to this to create a backdrop that has colour and interest all year round.  Since we started we’ve really enjoyed watching how the alpines from last season have found their home on the seemingly implantable rock.

    February can bring strong winds and unforgiving cold – we’ve watched the little plants bend and dance in the wind – but they’re clearly at home. Standing their ground and biding their time for the calmer and warmer times ahead.

    To do our bit for these growing plants we’ve been keenly deadheading them and keeping an eye to make sure their not sitting in any pools of water that may collect – they do like good drainage. So far. So good.

    What is an Alpine?

    The name Alpine, conjures up images of high altitude, rocky slopes and harsh conditions. Quite appropriate really, sat here in Mid Wales. The Alpines we grow in our gardens are usually hardy plants that require really good drainage. Their ability to grow on sheer rock faces is difficult to imagine until you’ve seen them in action! Provided you get them in the right place (some like full sun, others prefer some shade) these plants will flourish and spread across their position creating the most natural looking plants in the most unnatural locations. They make a suitable starter if you’re a beginner and are a great way to make the most hostile of surfaces into a beautifully flowering garden.

    Getting organised.

    For us it’s still all about clearing up the garden, keeping on top of leaves and other debris that flies into our garden.

    We’re also using this time to sort out last year’s seed packets. The great thing about seeds is everything you need to know is written on the back! Who’d have thought! Most of the seed packets we’ve got at the moment have come as freebies on gardening magazines so we’re brushing up on where they like to be planted and at what time of the year. Any that we don’t think will like our conditions are going on a ‘swap’ pile that we’ll take round to our friends in the village over the next few weeks.

    Now is also the time to check your soil. You can pick up PH testing kits cheaply and check your own soil. Once you know what you’ve got, you can add different composts and mixes to change the composition. If your soil is dense and holds a lot of water – mixing grit into the soil can improve drainage massively. As always think ahead – work out what sort of plants you’re preparing to plant and prepare the soil accordingly.

    Look at what’s working now – and what isn’t!

    This is a brilliant time to have a look at what is going to happen in your garden throughout the spring and summer. Plants have had a winter of weather and you can really see which of last year’s new plants are happy in their current location.

    So now’s the time to identify gaps in your flowerbeds and planting areas and work out what to put in them. If you know what you’ve got already and what flowers when, you can plan to put in plants that flower at other times to keep your garden looking vibrant all year round. Planting like this is a real skill and it can take a lifetime to master. You can play with flower colours, leaf shapes, plant heights – the only limit is your imagination.

    If you’re looking for inspiration visit local show gardens and National Trust gardens to ask the experts what they do. Planting beautiful flower beds full of interest and imagination all year round is one of the most rewarding parts of gardening, and the results can be truly spectacular –  so get cracking!

     

    We’d love to see pics of how your gardens are coming along this year! Get in touch by searching ‘Andy and Adam’s’ on Facebook or follow @andyandadams on Twitter.

  • Best Sips For Spring 2015

    Ahh… the sweet smell of spring… and it’s coming from my cup. Gone are the evenings of the mulled wines and ciders, the hot toddies, and as much as we want it to be, summer isn’t quite here so it doesn’t seem right to be shoving umbrellas in fruity long drinks  with sugared rims… yet.

    Here are some sips for spring that I feel match the season perfectly.

    It’s also worth mentioning that where reviewed on Amazon these products have scored highly in the 5 star range, as well as the nod from us…

    Licor43. Spain’s number 1 selling liqueur, and after tasting this I now know why. A special blend of 43 ingredients, hence its name. For me it is similar to Tuaca (a favourite amongst us Brightonians reading this).

    Tussock Jumper Moscato Rose Wine. This light and spritzer-like rosé has great sweet and citrusy flavours making it a perfect fit for a dessert wine. It does have a surprise element to it as you don’t expect it to be bubbly, but it does make a lovely twist.

    The Wild Geese Irish Honey Liqueur. A premium smooth whiskey that is blended with 100% pure natural honey.

    It really is a smoothy this one and I love the honey element adding a touch of sweetness to a drink that would normally make my face screw up rather unattractively.

    Qcumber Sparkling Drink. A refreshing and light sparkling water with no preservatives, artificial colours, sweeteners, or flavouring. Just the natural essence of cucumber infused with fizzy spring water, made here in the UK.

    A touch sweet but not overly so. Lovely solo with ice, but this would go amazingly with a pitcher of Pimms. Alternatively, stick your gin in it!

    Pimento. With sweet and spicy flavours set to be a food trend for 2015, what’s to not say this combo can’t translate into drinks? Only recently available in the UK, Pimento is an alcohol free ginger beer with a fiery kick.

    This is so refreshing and I love how they have captured the chilli element in a strong but not overpowering flavour. If you’re having a night off the sauce then check out their range of mocktail recipes at; www.pimentodrink.com

    I love Cawston’s Beetroot & Apple press before exercising, but it’s really great to see Cawston developing their brand further with their new range of vegetable / fruit drinks. 750Ml packs in Sweet Greens, Sunshine Blend, and Radiant Roots varieties. Never from concentrate and all natural. Coming soon to shelves for Spring.

    The first sunny evenings of spring always have me heading for a chilled cider. Rekorderlig have a wide range of flavoured ciders for those who like to break the apple norm. A personal favourite is their new limited edition passionflower cider.

    Made from passionfruit and Swedish spring water this is one to sip with the sun shining on your face as you dream of the Swedish guy that sadly wasn’t there to  serve it to you.

  • Top 10 Hottest Irish Actors

    Ireland is famous for many things. As a proud Irish man myself, I’ve grown up with Riverdance, Sinead O’Connor’s numerous tabloid meltdowns, Guinness, the outdated stereotypes of leprechauns and pots of gold. Oh, and Irish men. Because you see, ain’t nobody can do it like an Irish boy.

    In the past we’ve swooned over Pierce Brosnan, Liam Neeson and more recently Colin Farrell, but there’s a smouldering new pack of Emerald hunks about to take Hollywood by storm and set hearts aflutter. These 10 guys will want you wishing you had some Irish in you.

    10 ) An acquired taste perhaps, but anyone who has seen Michael’s stunning performances on Hunger or Shame, would know that the Kerryman is well, ahem, equipped. Fassbender has been on a steady rise to stardom the past few years. Smouldering, intense, Michael Fassbender is an intriguing proposition.

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  • Five Things Straight Men Who Sleep With Gay Guys Should Know

    On Monday, New Next Now reported on a straight-identified Redditor who recently hooked up with a gay man. Afterwards, the man finds himself right in the middle of a Sam Smith song; he decides he actually is hetero, but fears the gay man wants to take the relationship to the next level. (more…)

  • Hunks Of Daytime On ITV

    Ah, daytime TV – a guilty pleasure in TheGayUK office. It occurred to us that the day time team on ITV, is particularly hot.

    Men of daytime, we salute you, from Phillip Schofield to Judge Rinder, these are our top Hunks of Daytime TV on ITV.

    Philip Schofield, ITV, This Morning

    The original silver fox, many will know Phillip from his original stint on Going Live, however, he’s now firmly embedded in the daytime schedule at ITV, one of their enduring and successful hosts.

    Jessie Pavelka, ITV Good Morning Britain

    He’s fronted numerous health magazines and apparently smokes cigars (well according to Wikipedia). He’s a trained fitness expert and specialises in extreme weight loss. Here in the UK he also fronts the popular programme: Obese: A year to save my life, on Sky 1. He is married to actress Sitara Hewitt.

    Ben Shephard, ITV, Good Morning Britain and Tipping Point

    Forty-four-old Ben Shephard is the current presenter of Tipping Point on ITV Daytime. His career in television started in 1998 when he began hosting the Channel 4 spin-off show, The Bigger Breakfast along with Melanie Sykes and Dermot O’Leary. He’s married to Annie Perks and the couple have two children, Jack and Sam.

    Robert Rinder, ITV, Judge Rinder

    Robert Rinder has been making waves with his daytime jewel, Judge Rinder. Benedict Cumberbatch married him to his husband in 2013. His first series had 20 episodes; it was so successful that ITV ordered 50 more.

    Sean Fletcher, ITV, Good Morning Britain

    40-year-old Sean is an American-British journalist and grew up in Essex and Zimbabwe. although he was born in New York. In 2014 he became a celebrity ambassador for the UK charity, Balls To Cancer. He learnt to speak Welsh because his wife is from Wales.

    Jeremy Kyle, ITV, The Jeremy Kyle Show

    There can’t be anyone in the UK who doesn’t know the name, Jeremy Kyle. 49-year old Kyle was born in Reading and is married to Carla Germaine. He has 4 children. He started his career as a radio presenter for Orchard FM in Taunton, before being signed by Kent’s Invicta FM in 1996.

    Vernon Kay, ITV, 1000 Heartbeats

    40-year-old Kay is famous for his presenting of All Star Family Fortunes, Beat the Star and Tom Daley’s Splash!. One of his first TV gigs was Fully Booked for BBC one followed by a five-year stint with T4 on Channel 4.

    Jeff Brazier, ITV, This Morning

    Born in 1979, Jeff was former partner to Jade Goody and is the father to their two children Bobby and Freddie. He made his television debut in Channel 4’s reality show Shipwrecked. Jeff’s father was Stephen Faldo, who was the skipper of the Thames pleasure boat Marchioness, which sank in 1989 after being hit by a dredger. He was killed along with 50 other passengers.

    Matt Johnson, ITV, This Morning

    32-year-old Welsh-born Matt Johnson is currently dating Ashley Robert former singer with The Pussycat Dolls. His TV career begun in 2009 when he joined ITV Wales.

    Phil Vickery, ITV, This Morning

    Married to Fern Britton, Phi, 53, is a noted celebrity chef, who has written 14 books, including the enticingly named Cooking Naked, which was released in 2007.

  • Top 10 Campest Moments From The Brit Awards

    Ah, the Brits, of the last bastion of drunken, ego driven, campery that hits our small screens every year, oh well that and the Oscars…

    Scores of people have won and gone, but it’s the camp moments of this event that keep has tuned in every year. If only to see if Geri Halliwell will be involved. We delved into the annals of Brits history to find its campest moments. The aforementioned Halliwell has three of the campest moments alone. We also have Sharon O, Kylie and Adele’s middle finger…

    10. Bjork: I am grateful: grapefruit
    Grapefruits are one of the campest fruit we know. Seriously, okay maybe a pineapple is a little gayer, but Grapefruit reminds us of Louie Spence, Bright, zesty but bitter.

    9. Geri Halliwell does Jessica rabbit
    First on the list of Halliwell’s moments is her Jessica Rabbit moment. Geri knows how to steal the show. Bring back Geri we say.

    8. Michael Jackson’s “Christ-like figure”
    Never one to be ignored Michael Jackson showed the world what it would look like if he was a god. Too much for Jarvis Cocker who stormed the stage and waggled his bum. Yes, we said Waggled and we own it.

    7. Lady Gaga
    Pretty much anything Gaga does is high campery.

    6. Kylie Mashup
    Queen Kylie mashed up her glorious gay hits into one hot homo-song-soup. All rather marvellous. And looking incredible. How does she do it? (Sneaky side eye)

    5. Sharon Osbourne
    Queen of vamp, you know where you are with Mrs O. Never one to mince her words, she asked Kelly “What have they come as?” about a rather dishevelled looking Artic Monkeys and called Vic Reeves a p*** head bastard.

    4. Geri Halliwell Union Jack
    Probably one of the most iconic looks of The Brits of all time. A look that would launch a thousand Drag Queens into existence. Let’s face it; Geri is the goddess of Drag. And who knew, that her sister, out of t-towels, made the dress. Dirty dishes.

    3. Adele’s Middle Finger
    If anyone can flip the bird at millions of viewers at home it’s Adele. Newly crowned as a gay icon, by the listeners of a now defunct Gaydar Radio, Adele couldn’t get two words in edgewise but had time to stick her fingers up…. Oooo errr. We do like a double entendre.

    2. Sam Fox & Mick Fleetwood 1989
    Everything about Sam and Mick’s hosting was camp, in a tragedy way. We demand, neigh, need this to happen every year. Those awkward silences, those soft mumblings, the knowing looks, it’s like us when we’re on a date when we’ve been Roofied. Don’t worry it’s usually us who packs the Rohypnol.

    1. Geri Halliwell, Bag It Up
    Geri Halliwell made the world her gyno in 1997 when she sang from the middle of her legs. Usually it’s suggested that you sing from the diaphragm, but no Spicey logic dictates the vay vay is the place.

  • EastEnders: Top 10 Gayest Moments Of EastEnders

    To celebrate the fact that Eastenders has been one of the beacons of LGBT storylines, we’ve decided to discover the gayest moments of the landmark soap, which has been at the forefront of gay storylines.

    In date order….

    10) Underage At The Time 1987

    In 1987 Colin Russel (Michael Cashman) And Barry Clark (Gary Hailes) labelled by the Sun, as “two yuppie poofters” were the first gay couple on EastEnders. Their first kiss received a record number of complaints, even more than a Celebrity Big Brother with Perez… At the time, the age of sexual consent for gay people was 21. The police were more concerned with the pairs’ relationship rather than a break-in at their home. Barry ends his relationship when the police tell his parents.


    9) Dot Starts AIDS Rumours 1988

    9) Dot Cotton (June Brown) spreads rumours that Colin has AIDS when she discovers Colin and Barry share the same bed. This was at the height of the AIDS epidemic and the storyline help frame the nation’s discussion towards the issue. Her rumours cause some of Walford to shun Colin. Despite this, Dot and Colin forge a strong relationship.


    8) The Most Watched Gay Kiss 1989


    Colin and Guido Smith (Nicholas Donovan), had a cheeky snog in 1989 in front of an audience of 17-million viewers – the world’s most watched gay kiss in a soap.


    7) When The Curious Guy And The Bi Guy Get It Together 1996

    Tony Hills (Mark Homer) And Simon Raymond (Andrew Lynford), Tony was a bit of bisexual lothario, having numerous relationships with men and women, most notably with Tiffany (Martine McCutcheon) – however after confiding with Simon, her brother, that he was confused about his sexuality, the pair get together. Tony and Simon drew some criticism for not being “gay” enough. Their first kissed caused controversy in the UK. Seeing a pattern here?


    First Civil Partnership 2005

     Christian Clarke (John Partridge) and Syed Masood (Marc Elliott) caused near hysteria with Daily Mail readers with their pre-watershed romantic moments. Hurrah we say. They were the first gay couple to celebrate a civil partnership.


    5) Curious Steven Beale 2008

    4) Steven Beale (Aaron Sidwell) A confused Steven tries to get together with Stacey, however, can’t, forcing him to question his sexuality, leading to kissing Christian Clarke. Speaking about the kiss, Aaron, who identifies as straight said it was a ‘cracking scene.’


    4) Youngest Coming Out 2011

    A 15-year-old Ben Mitchell(Joshua Pascoe) tells Christian Clarke that he gay, being the youngest character to come out on EastEnders.


    3) When Johnny Kissed Gary 2013


    3) When Johnny Carter (Sam Strike) and bisexual Danny Pennant (Gary Lucy) shared a kiss the BBC received just two complaints, however, comments on social media weren’t so kind.


    2) When Johnny Came Out 2014


    Johnny Carter coming out to his pa, Mick Carter was a landmark moment for EastEnders, so well judged and superbly acted – it brought a tear to our eye.


    1) The death of Paul Coker

    Beaten in a tragic anti-gay attack, Ben Mitchell’s boyfriend dies in hospital. Many people took to social media to say how important the storyline was to highlighting violence against LGBT people.

  • Top 5 Erotic Games To Play

    Top 5 Erotic Games To Play

    We thought we’d share some games you could play with your partner or F buddy to get the mood going.

    Looking to find an online gay sex position generator game, check out ours here

    Sound of Silence

    Taking one of your senses out of the equation can heighten the intensity of touch. Get your partner to put on a pair of noise-cancelling headphones before sensually touching them in whichever way you choose. Temporarily removing sounds can help crank up the sensation of your touch on their skin. If you and your partner are game, you can also experiment with blindfolds as another way of stimulating their senses.

    Creative Combinations

     Write down, on a separate card for each, ten intercourse positions you like, and a series of timings from 3 minutes up to an hour. Then take it in turns to pull out two cards, one from each pile, to decide how you’ll make love and how long you’ll make it last.

    Jigsaw Fantasy

    Take a sheet of A4 paper and on it draw a picture of something naughty that you’ve fantasised about doing with your partner. (Don’t worry if you can’t draw!) Cut the paper into sixteen square pieces and hide them around the house. Send your partner hunting for the pieces – you could give them a sexy reward for every one they find. When all sixteen pieces have been discovered, your partner can put the picture together and then act out the fantasy.

    The Erotic Audit

     One of you lies perfectly still, the other touches from head to toe, covering every inch, no missing areas. The receiver murmurs numbers – from 1 to 5 where 1 is good and 5 is amazing – to reflect what feels best… what to do less of… what to do more of… what to keep doing more and more and more.

    Choosing His Spot

    A game just for him. He chooses three sensitive parts of his body – His partner creates a love experience using only those three spots and no other.

  • Lesbian Films On Netflix

    Here is the current list, updated on Feb 16 2015 for films with a lesbian storyline or films aimed at gay women on Netflix UK.

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  • 25 Signs You Are With The Right Man

    25 Signs You Are With The Right Man

    We used to say it with flowers — but now the true sign of modern love is a change in Facebook status from ‘single’ to ‘in a relationship’, according to new research.

    A survey asking 2,000 adults about the modern signs of true love found a massive 64 per cent said updating on social media makes a new relationship ‘official’. Having your partner’s photo as your desktop background, using their name for your online passwords and saving their favourite shows to your Netflix account were also named as modern signs of true love.

    Amazingly, over a third of adults confessed they would say ‘I love you’ for the first time in a text, instant message or video chat.

    A spokeswoman for gifting website GettingPersonal.co.uk, which carried out the survey, said,

    ‘’As technology and the internet has taken over our lives, of course our relationship habits have changed too.

    ‘’Traditional romantic gestures of showing our love have now been replaced by texts, Facebook updates and picture messages, which is a real shame.

    ‘’Being romanced the old fashioned way with a card or gift (or even a love note) is so much more personal than a social media status or wall post and shows that special person just how much they mean to you.

    ‘’After all, when it comes to true love, you don’t want to cut corners.’’

    The research also found being in constant contact is indicative of a modern relationship – with the average couple texting or instant messaging each other seven times throughout the day. Texting habits were often mentioned amid the list of true love, with 13 per cent who said they’d rather send a soppy text than buy a spontaneous gift for their partner. Sending a text in the morning and night is the done thing if living separately, said a quarter of adults – as well as sending one more when arriving somewhere safely.

    Signing greeting cards from both of you, coming home from a night out to be with them and feeling strange having the bed to yourself were all named as modern signs of a serious relationship.

    Interestingly, the results showed independence to be important in modern love, with many who said being able to have your own bank accounts and your own friends are signs of true love.

    The study found many look to Facebook to confirm a relationship – as a huge 63 per cent of adults said they’ve only found out about a friend’s new partner because of their profile updates. s well as a change in online relationship status, things are serious with a partner if they’re Facebook friends with your family members, said 19 per cent of adults.

    And one in ten said a committed partner would ‘tag’ them on social media to let their friends know they’re on a date.

    The spokeswoman said,

    ‘’The results show that sadly, nowadays we often rely on a text or status update to express how we feel about our partner.

    But sometimes it’s the real-life gestures that are the most important.’’

    THE MODERN SIGNS OF TRUE LOVE

    1. Signing greeting cards from both of you

     

    2. Come home to them early when on a night out

     

    3. Not wearing make-up or doing your hair

     

    4. Feeling strange when you have the bed to yourself

     

    5. Updating to ‘In a relationship’ on Facebook

     

    6. Knowing what to order them when getting a takeaway

     

    7. Being in constant contact, through texts, instant messages or calls

     

    8. Texting when arriving somewhere so they know you’re safe

     

    9. Texting goodnight/morning texts if you aren’t staying together

     

    10. Having their photo as your desktop background/phone wallpaper

     

    11. Buying their favourite food when grocery shopping

     

    12. Answering the door to them in pyjamas/trackie bottoms

     

    13. Having your own bank accounts/cash as well as a shared account

     

    14. Your family members ‘adding’ your other half on social media

     

    15. No longer being envious of your friends’ single lives

     

    16. Finding yourself getting them spontaneous gifts based on private jokes

     

    17. Each having your own friends, not just ‘couple friends’

     

    18. Finishing off each other’s sentences

     

    19. Enjoying doing their laundry when they’ve been staying with you

     

    20. Having their favourite shows saved to your Netflix account

     

    21. Tagging them on Facebook when you’re out together/on a date

     

    22. Using his/her name or birthday for online passwords

     

    23. Wearing one of his t-shirts to bed

     

    24. Leaving a long line of kisses at the ends of texts or messages

     

    25. Going on a diet/cutting out alcohol when they do

  • TOP 5: Valentine Treats For Your Man

    Valentine’s, that wonderful day where we pluck up the courage to tell someone we love them. Or like them. Or maybe even just appreciate their existence. Here’s our Top 5 little gift ideas that won’t break the bank and will sure to please.

    1. Maison Blanc, Valentine Concerto – From £4.85

    Light chocolate sponge filled with rich, dark chocolate mousse, surrounding a disk of crispy feuillantine finished in a dark chocolate glaze. Plus, have your own edible message written on top. We’re thinking along the lines of Hands Off!
    www.MaisonBlanc.co.uk

    2. Jimmy Jane, Bourbon Natural Massage Candle – £13.19

    With up to 32 hours burn time, this fragrant candle contains skin soothing jojoba, shea butter, Vitamin E, soy and aloe. Just requires some masculine hands to pour and massage away the stresses of the day. Please do remember to blow it out before you pour onto a loved one. A&E on Valentine’s is not the most romantic place.
    www.Amazon.co.uk

    3. Beefayre, Bee Kind Body & Bath set – £26.00

    If you’re sharing a bath this Valentine’s then you can’t go wrong with the Beefayre bee kind body and bath set. With essential oils of rosemary and neroli you’ll both exit feeling like spring lambs ready to leap into action.
    www.beefayre.com

    4. MIMI, Sleeping Beauty Night Time Facial Oil – £35.00

    This lovely little kit allows you to make up 35ml of facial oil exactly how you want it. Contains anti-ageing Moroccan argan oil, nourishing avocado and peach kernel oils, toning grapeseed oil, repair oat protein and skin protecting essential oils, you’ll have a fragrant day mixing up something special for your loved one.
    www.makeitmakeit.com

    5. Jockey, 3D-Innovations pants – £14.00

    Now the words 3D and pants can only be a good thing, right? These sexy little red pants have been cleverly designed to allow an 8-way stretch which means every part gets a feature! For me one of the best features was the way they shaped around the bum. Without revealing too much detail it was certainly worth a look in the mirror whilst wearing them and I’m sure something the other half would appreciate. If only the shape stayed after you took them off!
    www.jockey.co.uk