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  • GAY HOROSCOPES for October 2023

    GAY HOROSCOPES for October 2023

    Welcome to your fabulously gay astrological forecast! In these gay-tastic horoscopes, we’re spilling the cosmic tea on love, relationships, and everything fabulous. Whether you’re an LGBTQ+ trailblazer or just here for some celestial sass, we’ve got the stars’ scoop on your romantic rainbow ride. So, grab your glitter, check your charts, and let’s sashay into the fabulous world of gay horoscopes

    Aries (March 21 – April 19):

    This month, Aries, love is in the air for you. Your enthusiasm and boldness will help you connect with someone special. Just be sure to give them the space they need too.

    Taurus (April 20 – May 20):

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    Your patience will pay off this month, Taurus. Keep an open heart, and you might find a connection that’s strong and enduring. It’s all about trust.

    Gemini (May 21 – June 20):

    Geminis, your charm and wit are your secret weapons. Use them to their fullest this month to make new connections and deepen existing ones.

    Cancer (June 21 – July 22):

    Your emotional depth, Cancer, is your strength. This month, embrace your nurturing side and create a safe haven for love to flourish.

    Leo (July 23 – August 22):

    You’re the star of the show, Leo. Use your charisma and generosity to light up your love life. Your radiant energy will attract admirers.

    Virgo (August 23 – September 22):

    Details matter, Virgo. Pay attention to the small things in your relationships this month. Your analytical skills will lead you to meaningful connections.

    Libra (September 23 – October 22):

    Balance is your motto, Libra. Find harmony in your relationships this month by communicating openly and listening actively. Your grace shines through.

    Scorpio (October 23 – November 21):

    Your intensity and passion are your strengths, Scorpio. Embrace them to deepen your emotional connections. This month, let your guard down a bit.

    Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21):

    Your sense of adventure is attractive, Sagittarius. Embrace your free spirit, and you’ll attract like-minded individuals who appreciate your zest for life.

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    Capricorn (December 22 – January 19):

    Capricorn, your determination and ambition extend to your relationships. Focus on building a stable foundation for lasting love this month.

    Aquarius (January 20 – February 18):

    Your unique and unconventional approach to love sets you apart, Aquarius. Embrace your individuality and connect with those who appreciate your quirkiness.

    Pisces (February 19 – March 20):

    Pisces, your empathy and sensitivity make you a natural lover. This month, trust your intuition and let your heart guide you to deeper connections.

    Remember, these horoscopes are just for fun and entertainment. Love is a complex and individual experience that can’t be determined solely by your zodiac sign. Enjoy the journey of love in all its forms!

  • 12 things you need to take to a gay pride

    12 things you need to take to a gay pride

    Pride season lasts quite a long time in the UK, the first is in February and the final one is in December – so it can be tricky to know what to bring to a pride.

    Here’s our quick survival guide to pride, what you should bring and what should definitely keep at home.

    With hundreds of thousands, perhaps millions of people visiting one of over 180 prides across the UK it’s a good idea to go prepared. Pride events can often be crowded, expensive and outdoors so here are our top 12 tips on how to survive pride.

    1) Raincoat

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    CREDIT: chalabala / bigstock

    Pack a raincoat. I know it’s not sexy – make it a Vivienne Westwood if you have to, but the British weather can not be relied upon to be good, as some of the UK’s LGBT+ prides happen in February and some in December you might want to keep warm. These LGBT+ woolly winter hats with a little pride flag embroidered on them are super cute.

    Alternatively, you may want to keep the sun off your head during the height of summer with a unique LGBTQ+ pride hat. Wearing a hat can be key to staving off heat stroke and getting a sunburned head.

    Or you can wear a hat with an umbrella, which serves two purposes in case of a sudden summer downpour.

    2) Battery Powerpack

    Smartphones are amazing at capturing the moment whether it’s through pictures, face time or you being able to update your social about who’s doing who. The only problem is the battery never lasts long enough. So grab a power source.

    3) Medication

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    Only the legal sort. Take painkillers. Nothing kills the moment more than a stinking hideous headache caused by whatever this year’s headliner is supposed to be. Also, take any meds you take on a daily basis. Take a 24-hour supply – just in case you don’t go back to yours. If you’re on PrEP then it’d be a good idea to take a supply with you, at least four pills, particularly if you’re on an “as and when” regime.

    4) Secret Tenner

    Stuff it in your pants, your socks or secret it away somewhere else. You’ll never know when it might come in handy.

    5) Uber

    If you find yourself in a place you don’t know summon an Uber cab. If your area doesn’t yet have Uber then make sure you know the local cab firm’s telephone number or download their app. Make sure you have enough battery on your phone to make that call or fire up the taxi app.

    6) Sun protection

    Despite the fact that it’s overcast you can still get burnt to buggery so make sure you wear sunblock. If you’re looking for a sunblock that doesn’t go all white and sticky so you look like a sweaty pig – we suggest Image Skincare Prevention + daily matt moisturiser – expensive but well worth the extra.

    7) Condoms and lube

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    You might get lucky so bring some protection and you might even get lucky with more than one person so bring lots.

    If you don’t use them – share them with your mates – make sure they’re protected too and don’t forget lube. You can buy travel-size lubes like this Prowler CUM lube which makes it easy to transport around.

    8) Spare undies

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    CREDIT ©-Artmim Depositphotos

    If you end up at someone else’s place you might want to bring a spare pair of undies – you know so the walk of shame isn’t so Ewwww. THEGAYSHOP has some sexy options. The only question is will you go for a brief, jockstap, thong or trunk?

    9) Antibacterial lotion

    The last thing you want to do is pick up a bug from one of the many thousands of people who will attend pride, so pick up some anti-bacterial lotion. Many of the portaloos provided at pride will also have anti-bacterial handwash for free.

    10) Earplugs

    Protect your eardrums. Sounds from the stage could damage your hearing – with noises louder than a Jumbo Jet taking off. If earplugs aren’t your thing then maybe take a break from the stage area every so often to give your hearing a break.

    11) Put your credit and debit cards on your phone

    Lose your wallet? Not to worry (too much) if you’ve put your credit and debit card’s details into your phone’s wallet then you can still you contactless payments, meaning you’ll still be able to access your money.

    12 Wear Rainbows – Suitable attire

    Okay, this one is not strictly necessary, but hey, when else are you going to get to wear a rainbow blazer or jacket, or when else can you wear rainbow hot pants without everyone thinking how inappropriate it is? Pride is a day when and where you should feel free to wear whatever it is that you want and feel comfortable in. Plus it’s super cute when the high street becomes awash with rainbows… Show your pride hun!

    For further reading take a look at Antony Simpson’s Pride Survival article.

    This article contains links to our partners and companies we’re affiliated with. These links have not been paid for upfront, but we may earn a commission if you buy from one of the vendors.

  • When is National Coming Out Day in 2023?

    When is National Coming Out Day in 2023?

    National Coming Out Day is an important part of the LGBT+ calendar and it takes place in the middle of October.

    National Coming Out Day was first celebrated in 1988 and aims to bring awareness the how gay, lesbian, bi and transgender people often have to navigate the tricky process of coming out to the people around them.

    Of course, many LGBT+ people face multiple coming outs over their lifetimes.

    Coming out is a process by which LGBT+ people tell co-workers, schoolmates, family or friends that they are non-heterosexual.

    It was first celebrated or marked in the USA 1988 by Robert Eichberg and Jean O’Leary and the official logo was created by artist, Keith Haring. Since its inauguration, the day has become widely celebrated outside of the US.

    October 11 was chosen because it is the anniversary of the 1987 Second National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights.

    The monumental event known as “The Great March” was the Second National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, which unfolded in Washington, D.C., on October 11, 1987, which was a decade after the first one.

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    This rally achieved remarkable success in terms of attendance, scale, and historical significance. Notably, it served as a pivotal moment for the national visibility of ACT UP, with prominent involvement from AIDS activists in the primary march. Additionally, it garnered widespread attention the following day due to large-scale acts of civil disobedience staged at the United States Supreme Court Building.

    In 2023 National Coming Out Day takes place on the 11th of October 2023, which is a Wednesday.

    What does the Rainbow flag represent?

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    The rainbow flag was first designed and unveiled in 1978 by San Francisco artist, Gilbert Baker, who sadly passed away in 2017.

    Speaking about the rainbow as a symbol for LGBT+ people Gilbert Baker said,

    “There was no other international symbol for [the LGBT+ community] than the pink triangle which the Nazis used to identify homosexuals in concentration camps,

    “Even though the pink triangle was and still is a very powerful symbol, it was very much forced upon us”.

    Can you buy coming-out gifts?

    If someone you know has gone through the process of coming out, you can always acknowledge their journey with a congratulations on coming out card or even a small coming out gift, as a gesture of your appreciation of their journey.

    THEPRIDESHOP have put together some ideas for bisexual coming out, asexual coming out, gay coming out, lesbian coming out, transgender coming out and non-binary coming out.

    They also have a selection of cards for a transgender coming out or cards for a lesbian, gay or bisexual coming out.

  • What does the Black and Brown stripe represent in the pride flag?

    What does the Black and Brown stripe represent in the pride flag?

    Back in 2017, an update was made to the LGBT+ pride flag, by the city of Philadephia in the USA.

    Designers there included a black and brown stripe, which was to bring attention to LGBT+ people of colour, who are often underrepresented in the LGBT+ community. It was called the More Colour More Pride flag, later it was referred to by some as the Philadelphia Pride Flag.

    A year later in 2018, the flag was once again updated by an artist known as Daniel Quasar, who added a transgender element to the flag, the white, blue and pink stripes, but also kept the black and brown stripes.

    progress pride flag contains brown and black stripes.
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    However in Quasar’s version of the pride flag the black stripe was to memorialise those who have died in the LGBTQ+ community, whether it be from hate crimes or from the HIV/AIDS crisis that rocked the gay community in the 80s and 90s.

    The latest version, which was introduced in 2020, the Intersex inclusive progress flag also contains the black and brown stripes but has added an Intersex flag element into the flag, which is yellow with a purple circle in the centre of it.

  • GAY GLOSSARY: Batty Boy

    GAY GLOSSARY: Batty Boy

    What does Batty Boy mean?

    Batty Boy is a derogatory slur against gay males. The term Batty Boy or Batty Man originated in Jamaica and is often used to refer to effeminate men.

    Where did the term Batty Boy come from?

    The term is derived from the Jamaican slang word “Batty” which means Buttocks. It is offensive and is a slur. If a person is referred to as a batty man or boy it is officially a hate crime in the UK and should be reported.

    Is the term Batty Boy offensive?

    Yes, the term Batty Boy or Batty Man is offensive and is used to refer to gay or camp men.

    Batty Boy in Popular Culture

    The term Batty Boy has appeared frequently in music by some Dancehall artists such as Buju Banton and Elephant Man. Banton later apologised for the offensive lyrics and removed the worst offending song, “Boom Bye Bye” from his catalogue and streaming services.

    In March 2023, gay artist, Lil Nas X released a song called Batty Boy.

  • It’s Ramsbottom Pride 2023 this weekend

    It’s Ramsbottom Pride 2023 this weekend

    According to The Pride Shop’s Pride Date Calendar, Ramsbottom Pride, affectionately known as Rammy Pride is happening this weekend and it’s all due to set off from 11 AM and run until 11 PM.

    Rammy Pride is free to attend and promises to be a great event and is due to take place in the Ramsbottom Civic Centre.

    This is the first pride ever for Ramsbottom.

    Where is Ramsbottom?

    Ramsbottom is a town located in Greater Manchester, England. It is situated in the Metropolitan Borough of Bury, which is part of the Greater Manchester metropolitan county in the North West region of England. Ramsbottom is known for its picturesque surroundings, including the nearby West Pennine Moors, and it has a rich industrial history.

    Who’s headlining Ramsbottom Pride 2023?

    It appears as though there is no official “headliner” for Ramsbottom Pride however there will be plenty of entertainment for those who attend. There will be DJs performing throughout the day as well as performances from Emma Connor, James Gunn Johnson, The ImprompTUNES and more.

    Are there tickets for Ramsbottom Pride?

    No, this Pride is a free event to attend and it does not require a ticket. The event is open to everybody.

  • Here’s how to find every gay movie on Netflix

    Here’s how to find every gay movie on Netflix

    There’s so much on Netflix that it can take an age just find something to watch. But what if you just wanted to watch something a bit gay?

    Trouble is, Netflix can feel like a bit of an iceberg, only a fraction of the available content is easy to find right there on the front page. The rest, the hidden 90 per cent, can feel like a taunting and neverending task of endless searching.

    Strangely enough using Netflix.com can be easier to find the content you’re looking for, rather than Fire TV or the dreaded Apple TV.

    Weirdly depending on what device you’re using, searching Netflix for that next great find can either be simple, potluck or, more often than not, hours of wasted time. We’ve used a number of devices ranging from the simplest (iPad) to the mediocre (Fire TV) to the downright unstable (Apple TV gen 2).

    For the record, using Netflix’s website to find content is always much easier. So you might want to log in there first using your laptop or iPad find something that looks good then go back to your browsing device and use the search to manually type in the title.

    However, there’s a super easy way to find what you’re looking for because everything on Netflix is given a genre code. Makes sense right? You’ll want to link all the Horrors together – and separately away from, say, Kids’ content.

    Luckily Netflix has tagged all of its content quite well. Even better, we’re happy to report that gay content has been divided into sub-genres to help you get the exact kind of content you’re in the mood for.

    Whether you’re looking for a great LGBT documentary, like The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson or a gay love movie, like Alex Strangelove Netflix does have you covered.

    Netflix has also added some blockbusters to its mix too, currently, you can find, Bohemian Rhapsody, Brokeback Mountain, Call Me By Your Name and Pride.

    So what are these secret links? Well, all gay films can be found on genre link 5977, while TV shows can be found on link 65263. If you were looking for a foreign language LGBT+ film you’d be able to find the full list of content on link 8243.

    Here are all the links to get you to exactly what you’re looking for

    Netflix Gay Content Genre Codes

    Gay & Lesbian Movies (5977)

    Gay & Lesbian Comedies (7120)

    Gay & Lesbian Dramas (500)

    Romantic Gay & Lesbian Movies (3329)

    Foreign Gay & Lesbian Movies (8243)

    Gay & Lesbian Documentaries (4720)

    Gay & Lesbian TV Shows (65263)

    There you have it… an easy-to-use way to find gay content on Netflix.