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  • First trans actor in EastEnders sad that the character didn’t get “happy ending”

    Riley Carter Millington is “disappointed” his ‘EastEnders’ character didn’t get a “happy ending” and a chance to lead a “normal life”.

    The 23-year-old actor played Kyle Slater in the BBC soap between 2015 and 2016 and was the first transgender man to play a regular transgender character on a British soap.

    However, Riley felt “frustrated” that his character didn’t get a chance to have a “normal life”.

    He told The Sun,

    “I was disappointed it was not shown that Kyle had a normal life. He had the big coming-out story and it was dramatic and emotional, but we didn’t get to see a happy ending, like a relationship of any sort other than the reunion with his half-sister, Stacey. It was frustrating. I felt I let myself and the fans down as I could have pushed for something. It’s a shame to have gay characters and then you have to say goodbye.”

    When Riley quit EastEnders, he revealed the reason for his departure was because producers believed his character Kyle’s story had reached a “natural end”.

    He said at the time,

    “When I landed a six-month contract at EastEnders it was a dream come true. For that to be extended to a year was something I never expected.

    “However, as the time comes for Kyle to depart Walford I am looking forward to taking on new roles and who knows, Kyle may find his way back to Walford one day.”

    When he was cast in the role, Riley admitted he had achieved his two biggest dreams.

    He shared,

    “I am extremely excited to be joining ‘EastEnders’. I can honestly say that I have now fulfilled my two biggest dreams – to be living my life as a man and to be an actor. I cannot wait to really get stuck in with filming and I look forward to seeing what is in store for my character.”

  • Caitlyn Jenner to cover “Dude Looks Like A Lady?

    Caitlyn Jenner has joked she and Steven Tyler are recording a new version of his hit ‘Dude Looks Like a Lady’ because the Aerosmith song is her “anthem”.

    Caitlyn Jenner has joked she and Steven Tyler are recording a new version of his hit ‘Dude Looks Like a Lady’.

    The 67-year-old former Olympian turned reality TV star revealed the Aerosmith track became her “theme song” when she was struggling with her gender identity and the 69-year-old rocker was pleased to know he’d been able to play a part in giving her comfort.

    Caitlyn shared a picture on Instagram of herself and Steven on Tuesday (18.07.17) and wrote,

    @iamstevent and I are working on our duet for Dude Looks Like a Lady. One of my favorite songs! (sic)”

    And she later appeared on ‘Jimmy Kimmel Live’ to explain the photo.

    She said,

    “If you noticed today on Instagram, I posted a picture of me and Steven Tyler.

    “I was at a fundraiser in Minneapolis, and he was the entertainment. I had met him, I think, once, briefly – many, many years ago. But he was sitting there and I’m thinking, ‘I’ve got to go say hi.’

    “So, I go backstage after and I look up at Steven and I said, ‘I have had some really, really tough times in my life. For six years, at one point, I stayed in my house, and every once in a while I would get dressed and go sneak out in the dark and drive around. Your song, ‘Dude Looks Like a Lady’ became my theme song, driving around in my little car with my little CD in there, whipping up the tunes and stuff.

    “I said, ‘I just want you to know, it made me feel good.’ He loved it. He hugged me and said, ‘We’ve got to get together.’ “

    Elsewhere on the talk show, the I Am Cait star asked the 49-year-old host to “spy” on her daughter Kendall Jenner because Jimmy lives across the street from the supermodel.

    She quipped,

    “If I brought over some binoculars, could you spy down on her? I never know what’s going on in that house.”

    Jimmy laughed and replied,

    “Can I tell you what’s going on in that house? There’s a lot of people bringing clothes in and out of the house–just all the time. There’s so many clothes going in and out of the house!”

    Caitlyn agreed,

    “I can see that. No, Kendall is a very great kid.”

  • This person just posted a powerful poem about how periods aren’t just for women

    Cass Clemmer just posted an incredibly powerful poem about periods.

    Trans advocate Cass Clemmer took to Instagram to post about how periods aren’t just for women and described theirs* as “traumatic”. Cass used the poem to describe periods that their impact on life.

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BWdC16fDCRp/?taken-by=cassclemmer

    Read the full poem here:

     

    Y’all know I’m trans and queer,
    And what that means for me all around,
    Is something that’s neither there nor here,
    It’s a happy, scary middle ground.
    So when I talk gender inclusion,
    And I wrote these rhymes to help you see,
    I’m not tryna bring up something shallow,
    Periods are honestly pretty traumatic for me.
    See my life is very clearly marked,
    Like a red border cut up a nation,
    A time before and a time beyond,
    The mark of my first menstruation.
    So let me take you back,
    To the details that I can still recall,
    Of the day I gained my first period,
    And the day that I lost it all.
    I was 15 and still happy,
    Running around, all chest bared and buck,
    Climbing trees, digging holes,
    And no one gave a single fck.
    I mean I think my ma was worried,
    So I went and grew out my locks,
    A sign I was normal, still a girl,
    A painted neon sign for my gender box.
    So, the day I got my period,
    My god, a day so proud,
    This little andro f
    cked up kid,
    Had been bestowed the straight, cis shroud.
    The relief got all meshed up in my pain,
    In that moment, I sat down and cried,
    Just thanking god I was normal,
    While mourning the freedom that had died.
    Everyone told me my hips would grow,
    I looked at them and couldn’t stop crying,
    “What’s wrong with you? You’ll be a woman!”
    They kept celebrating a child dying.

    See my body had betrayed me,
    That red dot, the wax seal,
    On a contract left there broken,
    A gender identity that wasn’t real.
    Most people deal with blood and tissue,
    And yet my body forces me to surrender,
    Cause every time I get my cycle,
    Is another day I shed my gender.
    My boobs betray me first,
    I feel them stretching out my binder,
    I send up questions, “am I cursed?”
    And wish to god that she was kinder.
    The five days it flows,
    I try to breathe, I dissociate,
    While my body rips outs parts of me,
    Leaving nothing but a shell of hate.
    The blood drips from an open wound,
    Of a war waging deep inside my corpse,
    The battle between mind and body,
    Immovable object; unstoppable force.

     

    *Cass Clemmer’s preferred pronouns are they/theirs/them or just Cass

  • Breaking News: Donal Logue’s transgender daughter found

    Breaking News: Donal Logue’s transgender daughter found

    Popular Gotham actor Donal Logue’s 16-year-old transgender daughter Jade has been found safe and well after being missing for almost 2 weeks.

     

    Embed from Getty Images

    Embed from Getty Images

    Jade, who’s legal name is Arlo, went missing in New York on June 26th. Logue has spent nearly every day of the past two weeks taking to Twitter and Facebook in the search for his daughter, posting numbers to call with any information and begging anyone who knew where Jade was to just let her come home, with no questions asked.

    However, within the last hour, Donal Logue and his representatives have confirmed that Jade has returned home. No reports have been released as to the whereabouts of Jade since she went missing other than she was found nearly 400 miles away in North Carolina. But in a Twitter post, Donal Logue thanked everyone who had been involved in the search for his daughter.

     

  • A non-binary parent has won the right to have “U” written on their baby’s birth certificate

    The child of a non-binary parent has been issued with a health card with their sex classified as “U” in a landmark decision.

    A non-binary parent has won the right to have "U" written on their baby's birth certificate

    Kori Doty, who identifies as a non-binary transgender person, is the parent of an eight-month-old baby and has successfully won the right to have the child’s birth certificate marked with “U” where the sex marker is registered. It is believed that the”U” marker is the first of its kind.

    The child’s name is Searyl and was born eight months ago in Canada.

    Doty is now using the “they, their and them” pronouns and said that they would recognise the child “as a baby” rather than a boy or a girl.

    Speaking to CBC, Doty said,

    “I’m raising Searyl in in such a way that until they have the sense of self and command of vocabulary to tell me who they are, I’m recognising them as a baby and trying to give them all the love and support to be the most whole person that they can be outside of the restrictions that come with the boy box and the girl box”.

    Speaking to Global News, the family’s lawyer, barbara findlay, who chooses to spell her name without capital letters, said,

    “The assignment of sex in this culture is done when a medical person lifts up the legs and looks at the baby’s genitals. But we know that the baby’s own gender identity will not develop for some years until after they’re born.”

     

     

  • Channel 4 got a love in for its trans and pan visibility

    Regardless of what you think about Channel 4’s controversial dating show N*ked Attraction, people loved the trans and pan visibility in the last episode.

    In a Naked Attraction first, trans and pansexual dating hopefuls were added to the naked panel. The show’s second season premiere featured self-identified pansexual Lizzy who came out after one year of university and says she is open to all genders saying, “I’m attracted to everyone”.

    Speaking about being transgender, presenter Anna Richardson said,

    “Transgender people identify with a different sex to the one they were assigned at birth. To bring their body in line with how they identify some take hormones to promote physical changes within their bodies.

    “Of the estimated half a million transgender people in the UK, only a third have gender confirmation surgery where their sexual organs are altered”.

    Lizzy had six of naked people to choose from including two trans people.

    Naturally, the good people of Twitter had a lot to say about the programme, but the representation of trans people was generally appreciated, with some pointing out that trans representation on mainstream television was poor and that Naked Attraction’s approach deserved kudos.

    https://twitter.com/imjustboujee/status/880542426246426624?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.thegayuk.com%2Fchannel-4s-naked-attraction-had-trans-and-pan-dating-hopefuls-and-people-loved-it%2F

    https://twitter.com/ChrisChetal73/status/880562849940217856?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.thegayuk.com%2Fchannel-4s-naked-attraction-had-trans-and-pan-dating-hopefuls-and-people-loved-it%2F

    https://twitter.com/W4352/status/880543549514805251?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.thegayuk.com%2Fchannel-4s-naked-attraction-had-trans-and-pan-dating-hopefuls-and-people-loved-it%2F

  • Channel 4’s Naked Attraction had trans and pan dating hopefuls and people loved it!

    Channel 4’s controversial dating show Naked Attraction had naked trans and pansexual people strip off and people loved the inclusivity.

     

    In a Naked Attraction first, trans and pansexual dating hopefuls were added to the naked panel. The show’s second season premiere featured self-identified pansexual Lizzy who came out after one year of university and says she is open to all genders saying, “I’m attracted to everyone”.

    Speaking about being transgender, presenter Anna Richardson said,

    “Transgender people identify with a different sex to the one they were assigned at birth. To bring their body in line with how they identify some take hormones to promote physical changes within their bodies.

    “Of the estimated half a million transgender people in the UK, only a third have gender confirmation surgery where their sexual organs are altered”.

    Lizzy had six of naked people to choose from including two trans people.

    Naturally, the good people of Twitter had a lot to say about the programme, but the representation of trans people was generally appreciated, with some pointing out that trans representation on mainstream television was poor and that Naked Attraction’s approach deserved kudos.

     

    https://twitter.com/imjustboujee/status/880542426246426624

    https://twitter.com/ChrisChetal73/status/880562849940217856

    https://twitter.com/W4352/status/880543549514805251

     

    Watch the entire episode on All4.

  • Vermont LGBT bar changes name after pressure from community

    An LGBT bar in Vermont, USA, has changed its name after a backlash from the LGBT+ community.

    Mister Sister in Winooski in Burlington, Vermont, has changed its name to The Bridge Club after a huge backlash from some in the LGBT+ community. The bar opened in March and has faced calls for boycott because some in the community considered the name, Mister Sister a slur against trans people.

    Defending the name back in March, the bar’s owner, Craig McGaughan, who identifies as gay, said initially,

    “It is a term that has been used among gays and Drag Queens for decades intended to be positively gender-bending,

    “Mister Sister is for the Misters and the Sisters, those that identify as both and everyone in between. The official description of Mister Sister is “a gay bar for him, her and them.

    “I have been very intentional in using a pronoun that isn’t specifically male or female as a way to include anyone that identifies as part of the LGBTQ community.”

    Board members of the Pride Center in Vermont criticised the name. Bailey Cummings, who resigned from the board due said,

    “Basically the name of this bar is a transmisogynistic slur,

    “And I feel strongly as community leaders that the Pride Center is responsible for standing up for our trans community members, and coming out against a slur.”

    Unveiling the new name this week. Mr McGaughan said,

    “I hope everyone finds the humor in going to The Bridge Club to party, sees the nod to the historic Winooski Bridge and recognizes the camaraderie and necessity in building bridges

    “I realize now that I mistakenly listened to the fight rather than the pain. I apologize to anyone that feels personally affected by the actions of myself or the bar. I’m choosing to forgive and would ask for forgiveness in return”.

     

     

  • COMMENT | They weren’t voting for a trans woman, they were voting for Sophie Cook

    As I stood on stage, a room full of expectant people looking up at me I was totally focused on the next words that I would hear.

    “Sophie Rose Cook, Labour Party, 20,882.”

    In the space of five short weeks, we’d achieved the seemingly impossible, taking a previously safe Tory seat and making it a marginal, increasing the Labour vote by 114% with one of the biggest swings in the country at 19.8 percent.

    At the start of the general election campaign, no one gave the Labour Party a chance, both nationally and here in East Worthing & Shoreham.

    The constituency had always been blue and the Tory incumbent, Tim Loughton, had been the MP for 20 years.

    He felt safe and secure that no one could ever challenge him, and I’m sure that the selection of a little-known transgender TV presenter as the Labour candidate only added to the feeling that he would increase his 15,000 majority.

    My selection caused a few waves, I was told that ‘this isn’t Brighton’ and that the people of the constituency wouldn’t warm to a transgender candidate.

    The press gave my campaign some coverage and despite being one of nine transgender candidates I was the one that got the most attention due to my profile from working in football and TV.

    “Labour candidate could become first transgender MP” said one headline whilst another mentioned the fight for LGBT rights, “Trans activist is fighting to oust anti-LGBT Conservative politician.”

    Being transgender and in the public eye, I was already used to abuse, both online and in the real world. I’d been trolled by various groups including receiving death threats on Twitter and as I stepped into the political arena I was bracing myself for a renewed onslaught of hatred.

    But then something unexpected happened.

    Instead of the abuse, I was greeted with love and support, sure there were still a few transphobic remarks online but nothing like I’d experienced previously.

    I’d heard first-hand accounts of trans people moving out of the constituency because of abuse and yet, when I started to talk to people, they responded with warmth and openness.

    My gender identity that had hit the headlines around the world seemed to mean nothing to the constituents that I met, it was never mentioned on the doorsteps, the street stalls or the hustings. The only people that made it an issue were the press, not the voters. They listened to the policies, my ideas, passion and belief and they embraced me.

    On June 8 nearly 21,000 of them chose to put their mark next to my name on the ballot paper.

    “They weren’t voting

    for a trans woman,

    they were voting

    for Sophie Cook”

    They weren’t voting for a trans woman, they were voting for Sophie Cook, they were voting for the Labour Party. They saw beyond the headlines and the things that made us different and in their way struck a massive blow for trans equality.

    We now have the most diverse parliament ever with 45 LGB MPs, I missed out on adding a T to that by 5000 votes. 

    We need transgender politicians, after all, everyone in society needs to feel represented. But the main reason why I believe that the time is right for a trans-MP has nothing to do with equality or diversity, it’s down to the constituents who put their faith in me to represent them, regardless of my gender identity.

    Since the election, I’ve spoken to hundreds of people who said that I’ve given them hope for the first time.

    That feeling goes both ways, they saw that there is more that unites us than separates us, they saw a person rather than a label, and they too gave me hope for a brighter tomorrow.

     

     

  • WATCH | Matt Bomer as a transgender sex worker clip released

    Yet another film of a transgender person, without its star being transgender…

    A clip of Matt Bomer’s new film, Anything has hit YouTube. The film has already received criticism, even before its release for having a cis male actor play the part of a transgender person.

    The film is about a transgender woman falling in love with a straight man. Mark Ruffalo is an executive producer on the film. Defending the decision to cast a cis-male in the role of Freda, Mark said that he had a “profound experience” working with Matt in The Normal Heart.

    Watch the clip below… add your thoughts in the comments…

  • Gay Dads show off their cute baby bump on This Morning

    Good news for couple Trystan Reese and Biff Chaplow as they celebrate being pregnant.

    Speaking on This Morning, Trystan Reese showed off his cute baby bump even though he’s 35 weeks pregnant along with his partner Biff. The couple from Portland USA,  spoke about how they were expecting their first biological child.

    The pair were able to conceive naturally because Trystan is a trans man.

    Speaking about the process, Trystan said,

    “I wanted to keep growing our family, and adopting more kids was not something we could do.

    “We could afford another child, but that [adoption] process was very emotionally difficult for our family, and we thought, actually, we already have everything we need to grow our family on our own!

    “I had to stop taking testosterone – I talked to a medical team and made sure that was advisable. We know this seems unique to your viewers, but in our community we actually know a few transgender men who have the ability to carry a child, and who have done so successfully.

    “For us it’s not that groundbreaking. The doctors said, absolutely this is something you can do, there’s no reason you couldn’t have a happy, healthy pregnancy.”

    Philip Schofield asked Trystan’s partner, Biff if as a gay man, Trystan’s anatomy was “a barrier” he had to “assign in his head”

    Biff replied,

    “I think the truth is, for all of us in relationships, when we meet somebody that we are attracted to, we are not attracted to every single part of them, necessarily.

    “It’s totally possible for me to, say, enjoy hairy chests but be with somebody who does not have a hairy chest.

    “That’s how I saw it. It wasn’t a negative thing… there was so much else about him that I loved and was attracted to.”

     

    Congrats guys!