No two of us are the same and that’s never more so true when it comes to our pink bits and all of it works.
No doubt you’ve encountered a guy that takes an age to cum, or maybe, you are that guy, well, we’ve been chatting to a doctor to find out why it might take some guys so long to climax and why it might not always be a bad thing.
Okay, it might be a bad thing if you’re the bottom and you’re waiting for your guy to finish up, after all, there’s only so much you can take of the D before it all becomes too much (amirite?)
But don’t forget climax doesn’t have to happen in anyone’s butt. It can happen anywhere. His chest/your chest/his face/ your mouth, the options are endless really. Just don’t forget to switch it up if it all gets too much.
But why does it take some guys so long to ejaculate?
Well, Doctor Rick Viney consultant urological surgeon at BMI The Priory and BMI Edgbaston hospitals in Birmingham suggests that it’s mostly in the mind rather than physical. He tells us, “Being very aroused will see you cum quickly, being distracted can see you fail to get there all together”.
So is it all down to distraction? No, Viney goes on to suggest that some guys might be trying to actually delay their climax – a bit like edging, but for their partner’s benefit, but if this isn’t working for you, remember communication is the key to practically everything.
Dr Viney also suggests that delayed ejaculation could be happening as a side effect of certain drugs.
He explains, “If the guy is using Viagra (sildenafil) or Cialis this will make for great erections but can inhibit climax, making it much harder to cum. If you want staying power, this could be seen as an advantage”.
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