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  • Fun town of the world revealed as Chicago, London comes 10th!

    Fun town of the world revealed as Chicago, London comes 10th!

    Chicago is the fun capital of the world — streets ahead of London in TENTH place, according to a major new study.

    Chicago
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    • Chicago named most fun city in the world

    • Chicago is a great getaway for the gay community with two gay neigbourhoods, Boystown and Andersonville

    • Has one of America’s largest prides.

     
    The ‘windy city’ topped a global poll of 20,000 people, scoring highest for the best restaurants, bars and neighbourhoods.

    Melbourne was runner-up, followed by Lisbon, New York, Madrid, Mexico City, Sao Paolo, Los Angeles, Barcelona and – in 10th place – London.

    Chicago was praised for its affordability and friendliness, and residents reported the best work-life balance.

    London-dwellers admitted they work longer hours than they’d like, allowing for less ‘fun-time’ in their personal life.

    But Londoners certainly make the most of their 9-5 – a third say some of their closest friends are colleagues and one in five have had sex at work.

     

    QUIZ: We know if you’re going to have sex at your office Christmas party

    And London pipped Sydney to the title of the world hangover capital.

    Time Out London’s Editor-in-Chief, Caroline McGinn said,

    “We surveyed 20,000 urbanites in 18 cities across the world to find out two things. First: where are the most dynamic, gastronomic, culturally unbeatable urban hotspots right now?

    “And second: what are we up to and how is that changing? We found out some fun stuff along the way.

    “Looking for sex? Better heard to Plumstead or Paris. Food and culture? Chicago and NYC are buzzing.

    “Lisbon is the place to fall in love. As for London, we’ve got plenty going on in this amazing and culturally vibrant city, but many are feeling a bit lonely and hungover right now.”

    The Time Out City Index shows Melbourne is the second most fun city in the world, as it has a great quality of life, and ranks highly for its bars and restaurants.

    Six in 10 people find Melbourne an easy place to live and three-quarters of residents love living there.

    Lisbon takes third place and is ranked as the world’s most sociable and least lonely city.

    New York was fourth, praised for its arts, nightlife and music – although it has the toughest dating scene of them all.

    Fifth place went to clubbing capital Madrid, where people go out 19 times a year compared to just six times in Melbourne.

    Madrid also has the lowest working hours of all 18 countries, as people only work 39 hours a week.

    Tokyo and Paris are the most cultured cities, with the highest number of residents regularly going to theatres or museums.

    People in Mexico City have the most affairs and are the least stressed, Miami emerged as the capital of threesomes and Barcelona is the home of the boozy lunch.

    Despite other cities being more affordable, easier for making friends and offering a better work-life balance, 66 percent claim there are always new things to do.

    Londoners go to theatres and museums up to 25 times a year, they enjoy 4.7 nights out a month and two-thirds say the capital has a great restaurant scene.

    The ‘Big Smoke’ is also vying with Sydney for the title of hangover capital and one-night stand hotspot – 64 per cent versus 65 per cent.

    Londoners have sex 1.2 times a week – compared to Parisians who have sex an average of 1.6 times a week, more than in any other city.

    Caroline McGinn for Time Out London added.

    “If there’s one thing that Time Out really knows and loves, its cities.

    “We’ve been dedicated to discovering their best bits for many years. Now we thought it was about time to document urban life. Because cities are important. They’re fun. But they’re also crucibles for new opportunities, new ideas, and new ways of living.”

    Other highlights discovered in the Time Out City Index include New York residents go out the most (6.4 times a month), Toyko city dwellers love sharing their food pictures on Instagram and Dubai are stuck in the office the longest.

    People are most likely to have a friendly chat with strangers in Chicago, and in contrast, those in Singapore are least sociable, choosing to keep themselves to themselves.

     

    1. Chicago
    2. Melbourne
    3. Lisbon
    4. New York
    5. Madrid
    6. Mexico City
    7. Sao Paolo
    8. Los Angeles
    9. Barcelona
    10. London
    11. Hong Kong
    12. Miami
    13. Tokyo
    14. Singapore (homosexuality not legal)
    15. Paris
    16. Sydney
    17. Dubai (homosexuality not legal)
    18. Kuala Lumpur (homosexuality not legal)

  • That time Geordie Shore’s Nathan got c**k slapped by Gaz and Scotty T

    That time Geordie Shore’s Nathan got c**k slapped by Gaz and Scotty T

    So this is a turn up for the books. We were just remembering back to episode 1107 of Geordie Shore as you do when we stumbled across the moment that Gaz and Scotty T were slapping their dicks across Nathan’s face!

    Geordie Shore
    CREDIT: MTV/YouTube

    Openly bisexual reality star Nathan Henry certainly got an eyeful when his co-stars Gary Beadle and Scotty T went skinny dipping with him.

    What started out as a bit of skinny dipping fun turned into a full-on chopper fest after Gaz and Scotty T started to slap their penises against Nathan, much to Nathan’s delight!

    Nathan was the first to strip off and run into the sea and was joined very quickly by his fellow cast mates and it’s not too long before Nathan admits how much he’s enjoying having all the boys naked in the sea with him!

    Watching from the shore line, Charlotte remarks,

    “I don’t think it’s the best idea that all the boys are slapping their cocks around Nathan’s head considering bisexual. He might just open his mouth and one might fall in, and then that would be pretty awkward!”

    Check out the pics here

  • YouTube apparently banned Mykki Blanco’s videos because of “balls”

    YouTube apparently banned Mykki Blanco’s videos because of “balls”

    Singer Mykki Blanco has had his latest music video, “Loner” removed (and reinstated) after he called their decision to censor his video as a “homophobic double standard”.

    By Imnotcmjames (Own work) [CC BY-SA 4.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0)], via Wikimedia Commons
    By Imnotcmjames (Own work) [CC BY-SA 4.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0)], via Wikimedia Commons
    The musician slammed the video platform for what he called a “homophobic double standard” when his video for “Loner” was apparently removed and then reinstated, but censored with users having to sign in to confirm their age, after YouTube said the video breached their community guidelines.

    The star took to Twitter to slam the Google-owned platform,

    https://twitter.com/MykkiBlanco/status/804724831396757505?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw

    https://twitter.com/MykkiBlanco/status/804725088247541764?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw

     

    https://twitter.com/MykkiBlanco/status/804726682464768000?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw

     

    The problem seemed to lie in the fact that someone at YouTube thought the video contained a real life man’s scrotum, which was actually a man’s knee. Heaven forbid!

    Heaven forbid!

    https://twitter.com/MykkiBlanco/status/804727727366479872?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw

     

    The video was later reinstated by YouTube, but now viewers must sign in to view the video. Speaking to MIC Mykko said that as an artist he’s experienced homophobia in the entertainment industry.

    “It is exhausting that as a queer artist not only do I experience homophobia in the entertainment industry but also censorship for the unapologetically queer imagery I promote,” Blanco told Mic, noting that “topless women with bare buttocks is acceptable, [yet] suggestive queer imagery is banned.”

    YouTube has allowed videos with much more sexually suggestive imagery without censorship. Videos such as Eric Prydz’s “Call On Me” and Miley Cyrus’s “Wrecking Ball”  are not blocked.

  • Guess which Gogglebox star is getting married!

    Guess which Gogglebox star is getting married!

    Looks like wedding bells are gonna chime as Gogglebox star Chris Steed has set a date for his wedding!

    Gogglebox Gays
    CREDIT: Channel 4

    Chris Steed, (on the right) or as you might know him as one-half of Stephen and Chris, the Brighton boys from the hit Channel 4 show, Gogglebox, has told THEGAYUK.com he’s getting married to his boyfriend, Tony, and they’ve set a date for next year.

    So make sure you clear your diary for July next year, the 8th of July to be exact. The pair got engaged last year on top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris, France. They got together after Stephen and Chris, undoubtedly one of the show’s stars pulls, decided to split after the first series of Gogglebox aired.

    He revealed what he’d be wearing as well. He’ll be walking down the aisle in the most expensive thing he’s ever bought – a £3000 teal suit from Dolce and Gabbana. Well, la de dar!

    So will his hubby-to-be be wearing a matching suit?

    Chris joked,

    “He did turn around and say to me, ‘Because you just spent three thousand pounds on a Dolce and Gabbana Suit, does that mean I get a Dolce and Gabbana suit for the wedding?’ I said, ‘If you pay for it, of course.’”

    Romance is not dead!

    But don’t expect a huge lavish wedding, he told us it’s going to be a “family affair” unless OK Magazine want to do a feature on it, then wedding invites will be winging their way to a few celebrities.

    He joked,

    “If OK Magazine wanted to actually do a feature on it and pay us an obscene amount of money then we might invite a few celebrities.”

    He hasn’t started sending out the invites yet, but we’re expecting our any day now!

    You can read the full interview with Chris in our latest issue of THEGAYUK  (Issue 24) by filling in the form below

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  • Austin Armacost is getting some new ink but what?

    Austin Armacost is getting some new ink but what?

    Celebrity Big Brother hunk Austin Armacost is getting some new ink done…

    Hunky Austin Armacost has decided that his thighs need a little decoration to join the rest of his tats but what has he decided on?

     

    The star had no probs whipping down his trousers to get the brand new tattoo inked on to his thighs and he’s opted for a beautiful design, with petals… It looks like a Protea flower, which is the national flower of South Africa and its name actually has a really beautiful meaning, “Change and Hope”.

    Taking a few pictures for Instagram, he managed to get his fans hot under the collar, with nearly 1000 likes in just a few hours.

     

     

    However, he’s of course not the only celeb with an epic thigh tattoo, Michelle Visage recently shared the story behind her thigh tattoo with THEGAYUK.com, which got a lot of fans talking when she was photoed with Rylan Clark recently.

     

     

    Speaking exclusively in Issue 24 of THEGAYUK, Michelle revealed that the tattoo was to honour her two daughters, Lola and Lilly. She got them done in San Antonio, Texas, after both her daughters were born.

    She said,

    “My daughters are both Pisces and I wanted to get some kind of commemorative tattoo. I didn’t want two sh so close to my vagina so I turned it into two mermaids.

    “It’s called a water colour tattoo. This guy Michael Russo did it. A really great job, really great work.”

    You can download the latest issue completely free by Subscribing here

     

  • Dear Closeted-Me… What would you tell your closeted self before you came out?

    What would you tell your closeted self before you came out if you had the chance?

    However you decided to come out… “It will all be okay in the end”

    Dear Closeted-Me,

    This is a difficult letter to write; not because I don’t know what to say – future you always knows what to say – rather because I know how scared and lost you are feeling right now. At the moment you’re at the very end of a long and dark tunnel, the light is just ahead of you, tauntingly close, yet terrifyingly far. Yet, I’m here, surrounded by many LGBT brothers and sisters who have been exactly where you are right now, and Neil Patrick Harris, Ellen DeGeneres, and I, would like to chorus you with another message of “It will all be okay in the end”.

    The fact of the matter is that you’ve already been through the hardest part of this journey. You’ve done all the leg-work – figuring out who you are, hiding who you are, and accepting who you are, all being key steps along the way. Now you’re finding yourself at the final step, and it’s potentially the biggest, the Neil Armstrong of steps if you will.

    Coming Out can feel terrifying. It’s like there’s a bomb formed of glitter, and rainbows, and pride waiting to go off inside of you. As fun as that bomb might sound, you’re probably going to struggle to get past the fact that it’s still a bomb in its truest form – and bombs have a fairly sturdy reputation of ruining things. You’re going to be scared that this truth is going to destroy well-formed friendships and tear apart your family, I mean, we’ve all heard the unfortunate stories, after all.

    Thankfully those stories seem fewer and further between one another nowadays, it is 2016 after all, so anyone who does have an issue with absolutely anyone coming out can jump right back up into their own arsehole where that opinion belongs – and you can feel free to send them my way if you want me to tell them that myself.

    Still, it’s a worrisome, tiring, and anxiety-filled time for you so let’s get right back to the point that there is nothing to be afraid of. A big point of advice, stop fretting so much about how you do it. Trust me, you’re the only one who thinks it will matter if people get the News through a letter, an open status, or a big gay rainbow cake. Just find a way that enables you to remain comfortable and in control, and go for it.

    Sure, you might not want to take advice from someone who came out via a very subtle post-it note, but that’s your decision.

    I found the least scary way to do it for myself and I did it because that is exactly where I was at that point. Also, never forget that this is all for you. This is your truth, and your life, so it is up to you entirely how you do it, when you do it, and how many people you do it to (pun intended).

    You might come out to everyone at once, or a few people at a time, hell, there might even be some people you never come out to.

    Remember, however, you want to do it, it’s fine – and it really will all be okay in the end.

    Welcome to the team, kid.

    Sincerely,

    Twenty-Five Year Old You, Ellen, and Neil
    (But really just you.)

  • 11 unbelievable myths that still exist about HIV

    11 unbelievable myths that still exist about HIV

    Decades on since the first recorded cases of what would become known as HIV and AIDS, myths are still circulating about this condition. Here’s 11 of the weirdest that still persist.

    CREDIT: tashatuvango-bigstock

    1) That only gay men can get HIV

    Are you living in the 80s? HIV does not see sexuality, it does not see gender, it does not see race or greed. Anyone who comes into contact with the virus could potential be infected.

    2) HIV can be transmitted by kissing

    HIV cannot be passed through saliva, so cannot be

    3) HIV can be passed on by sharing a toothbrush

    HIV cannot survive outside the human body, so it is unlikely you can pass on HIV through this method.

    4) People with HIV will die young

    There is no reason why someone who is living with HIV will die young because of the virus. Get tested, know your status and get the medication you need.

    5) You will get HIV if you sleep with someone that has HIV

    Not always the case. A lot depends on their viral load, whether they are on medication and how much exposure you have to their bodily fluids. So if you’re both using condoms, using PrEP and their viral load is low the likelihood of you contradicting HIV is near zero.

    6) You can catch HIV?

    Nope HIV isn’t a ball or frisbee.

    7) You can get infected with HIV by sharing a bath with someone who has it.

    HIV can not live outside the human body and bath water is pretty much deadly to the virus.

    8) HIV and AIDS are the same thing.

    Not true. HIV means that a person has the virus in their body. AIDS is when someone’s immune system is compromised so much that they can no longer fight off diseases.

    9) HIV is a death sentence.

    As long as you test, know your status and get manage your health in the right way, you can live a long, full life.

    10) HIV is a bisexual disease

    No matter what you heard on TV, there’s nothing to suggest that this is true. HIV doesn’t care if you’re gay, bisexual or straight.

    11) Kids are learning about this stuff in Schools.

    Sex ed is not compulsory in all schools in the UK.

  • We know if you’ll get nookie at your office Christmas party

    Ah, it’s that time of the year. The office Christmas party is looming and now you’re hedging your bets on whether you’ll be able to get Phil from accounts beneath your bedsheets.

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    So research from Superdrug as revealed that 41% of Brits want more sex this Christmas, but a whopping 30% won’t be carrying a condom. In a bid to raise awareness about practising safe sex during this festive season Superdrug has teamed up with condom manufacturers Pasante to develop a range of condom prototypes. The condoms are designed in response to the 41% of people who said they’d buy condoms if they had a fun, festive twist.

    The prototype designs include:
    A fur-lined condom with its luxury feel for the ultimate pleasure
    The Rudolph, with its fluorescent red tip to, erm, ‘guide you’
    Festive Feast selection that includes Christmas turkey, mince pie or mulled wine-flavoured condoms
    Jingle Balls with a baubles texture for an extra seasonal sensation

     

    Superdrug’s Head of Commercial Healthcare, Caris Newson says,

    “These condom prototypes have been designed to be fun and get people talking this party season. However, there’s also a more serious message to them – we want to help remove the barriers around carrying condoms and encourage people to have a great time but ultimately remember to protect themselves.

    “And if you find yourself having unprotected sex then do something about it. The Superdrug Online Doctor can help with advice, testing and treatment for sexually transmitted infections as well as services such as the morning after pill and contraceptives.”

     

  • INTERVIEW | How to survive a plague Peter Staley and David France

    INTERVIEW | How to survive a plague Peter Staley and David France

    We sat down with filmmaker, journalist and director David France and gay rights and HIV activist Peter Staley to talk about their brand new documentary film How To Survive A Plague, which chronicles the astounding progress of the modern gay rights movement and how the gay community dealt with the AIDS epidemic in the 80s and 90s.

    How to survive a plague
    Images: © Donna Binder PR Supplied

    Why was it important to make a documentary like How To Survive A Plague?
    David France: I wanted to go back and do a project about the early years of AIDS, which I had covered as a print journalist and it occurred to me that somehow in our collective recollection of what happened in those years, we kind of condensed everything. We thought of the early years as being sad and then better, but what was lost in that recollection was what it took to get to one place to the other. It took this tremendous epic movement of mostly gay men and lesbians,originating in New York but moving around the globe, to change so much about the way, first of all, what we think about the community in the larger media, and then to transform science and medicine and pharmacological research in a way that people have benefitted across the globe.

    The idea that this was lost, that this movement that Peter and his colleagues had invented out of thin air and out of a desperation, which produced these tremendous victories, seemed to me to be a burden of responsibility to carry forward.

    What do you want How To Survive A Plague to achieve?
    DF: I want people to remember what happened. I want people to recognise that AIDS in the plague years, before there was effective treatment, wasn’t just a period of tragedy. Although it was marked by these intense tragedies. These deaths were just unstoppable and the loss that we’ve all had to carry since then, but it was also a time of great news.

    Before HIV or AIDS activism it gave (gay) people, at least in the United States, perhaps more than in the UK, a real role in public life.

    We were isolated. We were living in these geographical ghettos. We were hated – officially and culturally and rejected by everybody across the board including our families.

    To go from there in 1981 when AIDS first hit till 1996 when the drugs were finally discovered, promulgated and brought out; and HIV was survivable, that was also this period of amazing cultural integration and this revolution of the way we exist in society.

    Peter Staley: I hope it inspires young gay men and lesbians, and really shows them their history and how we got to this point. It shows them the power of our community.

    It shows gay people at their best. In one of the worst moments we ever faced we rose above it. We took care of each other. It was extraordinary and beautiful. At the same time, it’s something very important, for my generation, to help us remember and memorialise what we went through and to remember the friends that we lost.

    A lot of us didn’t process those years, and this film and others that have come after it, and looking back, is something we need to go through. We need to honour the sacrifice of those that we lost and the extraordinary work they did that allows all of us to live happy long lives these days.

    Is the gay community as politically charged today as it was in the 80s and 90s?
    PS: Yes it is charged up. AIDS forced us out of the closet. Either we laid down and died and got wiped out or we had to stand up and come out of the closet and fight back.

    Once we did that, we realised that as a community we had immense power and this film just shows it beautifully.We had this innate power as a community and that launched the modern gay rights movement. Especially in the States with
    gays in the military first and nobody ever thought we’d have close to 20 states now in the US with gay marriage.
    Gay marriage is now happening in the UK and across Europe and countries in South America. This is just something I would never have dreamed of.

    There are massive amounts of activism around, but I wish there was a little bit of it to be brought back to finish
    the work on AIDS. I speak out about that a lot these days because obviously, the crisis is not over. It’s liveable but the virus is still infecting way too many gay men and we need to fight that. We need to slowly wind down this epidemic. We have the tools to do it.

    With the sharp increase of new HIV infections, particularly amongst young gay men, how does that make you feel, when you see that happening?
    PS: It’s frustrating, but I don’t feel anger towards younger gay men who are not responding to HIV like my generation responded to it because it was two very different times. My generation changed its behaviours and fought against HIV / AIDS.

    It became the issue in the gay rights movement because all my friends were dying in front of me. In the absence of that death, which only happened because of the amazing success of the activism we did, you have a very different challenge, you have apathy.

    There’s a lack of fear and without that fear, which is an incredible motivator for behaviour change and activism, it’s a very different battle.

    So I’m not casting blame, I think if I was a 22-year-old HIV-negative man now I’d be pretty oblivious myself. I think it’s human nature. We just have to accept that and work around it and use social media and tell the real story about how living with HIV still is something that nobody should want to face a life of.

    It’s still quite challenging. You have to take the medication for the rest of your life. You have to remain anally compulsively engaged in the healthcare system in order to not screw that up because, if you mess up on your meds you will eventually get sick. There are still people with HIV who die. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone and we need to give the real picture.

    DF: We have to keep on talking about it. That’s what we’re not doing. People are making decisions about their own
    lives in a total vacuum thinking, ‘So I’ll take a pill a day’ and if we were talking about it collectively as a community we might be up to convey the information that Peter is talking about. That these pills are really tough pills. It might give you a near normal lifespan but it’s not going to give you, necessarily, a near normal life. We don’t know what people are going to be like 50 years out on this medication.

    PS: Plus the stigma is horrible, and you’re going to face a life of that stigma: Dating, finding a boyfriend or a future husband, you’ll find a massive challenge. It is a massive challenge for people who are HIV and that’s horrible but that’s the reality that we’re faced with these days.

    Interview by Jake Hook and Greg Mitchell

    This interview was taken from Issue 1 of THEGAYUK (2014) Subscribe for FREE and never miss another issue.

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  • Top Best British Gay Themed Movies

    Top Best British Gay Themed Movies

    Are you a fan of British gay-themed movies? Here’s your chance to vote on the top 15.

    What are the best British gay films
    CREDIT: Weekend Movie / YouTube

    There’s nothing like a British film – and there’s nothing like a British gay movie from the coming of age standard, Beautiful Thing to the introspective and thoughtful Weekend to the joys of overcoming the seemingly impossible in Pride. Yes, we’ve a lot to be proud of. Here’s our top 15… Vote on your favourite by clicking the thumb underneath the description.

     

  • Rugby team’s naked Mannequin Challenge is the only thing you need to see today

    Rugby team’s naked Mannequin Challenge is the only thing you need to see today

    Okay, we’re starting to like this Mannequin Challenge malarky. Especially after this super hot rugby team stripped off for theirs.

    SHU Rugby
    CREDIT: SHU Rugby

    This university rugby team have decided to bare all in their rather naughty / nice Mannequin Challenge. The Sheffield Hallam University’s men’s rugby team decide to get completely starkers to show off exactly how still they could be.

     

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    And if you want to see more, you can! They just released their 2017 SHU Rugby Nude Charity Calendar

    Calendar and Making of film are available at:  shurugbyshop.co.uk