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  • How To Massage Your Prostate

    The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located at the top of the bladder in front of the rectum. It is responsible for producing a fluid that is present in semen, it helps to keep sexual function healthy and since it is located just around the urethra, it helps to control healthy bladder function, too.

    Despite all of its crucial functions, many men are largely unaware of what the prostate does and as a result, they don’t do enough to keep it healthy, via techniques such as prostate massage.

    Three key benefits of prostate massage

    1.  It increases blood flow to the prostate gland to keep cells healthy and help the prostate function normally.
    2.  It can release toxins from the prostate which otherwise tend to build up and lead to enlargement, pain and discomfort.
    3. When performed regularly, it allows men to check for changes in the size of the prostate, which could be a sign of prostatitis (infection of the prostate) or cancer.

    How to perform a prostate massage

    Prostate massage can be a little daunting and feel very unusual, to begin with, but it needn’t be uncomfortable providing that it is done slowly. To begin with, it is important to clear the bowels, since prostate massage can stimulate the bowels and give the urge to go to the bathroom. After this, it is beneficial to take a warm bath or shower to ensure the anal area is very clean and help to relax the muscles in preparation for massage.

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    What finger should you use to massage someone’s prostate?

    Prostate massage can be done with the middle finger provided that it is long enough, but many men prefer to use a purpose-built prostate massager instead. Ensure the massager or the hands are clean; it may be beneficial to use a condom or latex gloves to protect against infection. Apply plenty of lubricant to the finger or massager, and slowly place the finger over the anus.

    Very slowly and without using too much force, gently rub the finger over the anus, moving back and forth until it enters the body. Continue this motion as the finger moves deeper into the rectum. The prostate is located three to four inches inside the rectum towards the penis; the finger or massager should therefore point slightly upwards.

    Gently rub the finger over the prostate whilst contracting and releasing your sphincter muscles. Continue this for as long as feels comfortable; 20 to 30 minutes is a good length of time for a prostate massage but it may be a case of building up to this over a number of weeks.

    Prostate massage can be performed once a week to keep the prostate in good condition. With a little practice, it becomes less daunting and a more enjoyable experience.

    This article was first published in May 2015 and has been updated with links.

  • Seven iconic sex scenes from the movies, you need to try at home

    Seven iconic sex scenes from the movies, you need to try at home

    We’ve found some scenes from TV and film which would be totally hot to recreate – by yourself, your boyfriend or even a small gathering. Enjoy.

    The article contains NSFW videos. Click here to continue and agree that you are over the age of 18.

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  • These guys share why they are strict bottoms

    These guys share why they are strict bottoms

    While lots of us will settle with a “Vers” label there are many gay or bi guys who will only bottom or only top.

    These self-identified bottoms, on a Reddit forum, reveal why they are strictly bottoms.

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    Delaying the O

    “I like bottoming for several reasons: first, the feeling, but secondly it lets me maintain control and delay my orgasm, because otherwise, I’d be pretty quick. I also really enjoy turning a guy on and pleasing him, so all combined makes me a great bottom and a not so great top. Have the urge every once in a while, but it usually passes pretty quickly.” VIA

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    Love the domination

    “I love the feeling as he slides inside and the feeling of being dominated by a guy and his dick. I also like the idea that the top is totally getting off knowing I want it him to do me.” VIA

    Bored topping

    “I love ass and I’ve had many guys want me to top them but I like a dick in my ass more than mine in an ass. I’ve tried both and I get bored topping because it doesn’t feel that good to me and every bottom expects me to cum from that which I just can’t.” VIA

    Big butt that brings the boys to the yard

    “I mainly btm because of my big… asset… It’s a big part of the physical attraction a top has to me… and some of the guys that have btm for me grab my ass and tell me they wish they had a big bubble butt like I do… also, since tops enjoy rimming me so much, I can’t really complain, it’s enjoyable and pleasurable and an ego boost when a top become subservient to pleasing my ass… which is kinda the opposite of actuality because it’s really two cheeks and a hole, but it’s as if they are trying to pleasure my butt instead of get their dicks off.” VIA

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    A different kind of orgasm

    “The sad thing is that some people look down on bottoms like they’re only in it to please their men and secretly it’s just always painful. So ridiculous. My ass has EASILY brought me as much pleasure as my dick, and it had a lot of lost years to make up for! yeah completely different kind of orgasm, and much better in my opinion.” VIA

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    Some of these answers have been edited for clarity and grammar. It was first published in September 2018.

  • 10 Ways To Make Your Semen Taste Better

    10 Ways To Make Your Semen Taste Better

    We’ve been told that the white stuff is good for us, but something tells me they aren’t talking about your boyfriend’s love milk.

    We’ve all been there, on your knees, boyfriend’s face in complete ecstasy as he deposits a load in your mouth and you think – “quick someone pass the water / Dettol or duck, what the hell have I just swallowed?”

    Well have no fear my cum guzzling friends, here are 10 ways to make your junk taste as sweet as honey.

    1. WASH IT ALL OUT

    We hear it all the time… ‘Drink more water!’ It washes out all the pollutants – not only great for your cum’s taste but great for skin, liver and kidneys.

    2. POLLUTION

    Cut down on the pollutants, these are: Alcohol, caffeine, recreational drugs and nicotine. Want to read more about giving up alcohol? Read our editor’s journey to sobriety.

    3. VEGGIE DIET

    Makes for good tasting sperm, but there are ones to avoid: Cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli, and asparagus all can lead to a bad tasting Oil Of Man.

    4. GET FRUITY

    Pineapples, papayas, cranberries, melons, mangos, apples, grapes and lemons are all good choices. Fruits that are high in natural sugars help offset the bitter taste of your man chowder.

    5. MEATY MEAL

    Red meats have to go, I’m sorry, but if you want to keep your boy smiling, then it’s out with meats, like beef, lamb and pork. Swap with good quality, high protein cuts of chicken and turkey.

    6. CHEESY

    Too many dairy products can make your Man Mayonnaise taste salty, so is best to keep consumption of cheese and milk to a minimum.

    7. VAMPIRES

    Vampires don’t like garlic, and neither do your two little love-juice making chums. Onions, as well as garlic, are big offenders when it comes to a nasty tasting load, because of their high sulphur content.

    8. HERE COMES THE SCIENCE BIT

    High chlorophyll is good for tasty cupid’s toothpaste. You can find chlorophyll in parsley, wheatgrass, and celery.

    9. TEAS

    Ever wondered what extras to put in your Starbuck’s coffee, well Cinnamon is brilliant, as well as other spices such as cardamom.

    10. EAT FROM THE EARTH

    Junk food makes your Juice taste bad – they’re full of chemicals and preservatives, which pollute your body.

    Changes to your food intake will start to have effect on your Love Liquor in around 12 to 24 hours, so keep this in mind; it’s best to have a day of clean livin’ for the rampant dirty night after.

    On a more serious note, if your semen smells bad, this might be a sign of infection and you should perhaps visit your GP.

  • This is how you can have a threeway and still be on lockdown

    How is your 3-way game? Stats show that most gay men and lots of gay couples have had a threesome at some point, and obviously, with lockdown restrictions hindering the hookup scene, we were interested to discover that you can actually still get the feel of a threeway, even when there’s just the two of you.

    Davey Wavey’s porn studio Himeros.TV recently released a scene between stars Dakota Payne, Taylor Reign and Calvin Bank’s realistic dildo… and we have to say it was hot AF.

    The premise is actually pretty simple, in the video, the couple uses Calvin’s realistic dong (although it could be any dildo, (check out the range from THEGAYSHOP) to simulate a spit roast scenario, with the real guy at the front and a dildo attached to a fuck machine at the back.

    Okay, okay, a fuck machine is the expensive but more realistic option – as the machine does the thrusting, much like a real person. However, if a machine like that is out of your price range, most dildos come with a suction pad on the base, so you can attach it to a wall or mirror if you want to get very kinky – and your bottom can do all the work – a pretty good work out too!

    Don’t forget if you’re using a sizable butt toy, (Calvin Banks’ dildo comes in at 7.75 inches) to use lots of lube. We’ve spoken before about how to play with big toys.

  • What is Docking and how do you do it?

    What is Docking and how do you do it?

    Docking or cock-docking as it is sometimes known is a great way of changing up your gay sex life – and best of all, it is totally gay! None of that heteronormative stuff – nope, you definitely need two cocks for docking.

    In order to take part in docking one of the cock owners will need a foreskin – because essentially they will be placing their foreskin over the head of their partner’s cock head.

    Or to put it another way, one guy puts the head of his dick into the other guy’s foreskin.

    And voila. That’s it. That’s docking.

    One of you will probably also need a foreskin that has a bit of stretch to it to achieve a full dock, although you can experiment with different types of erections. Some may find it easier to dock if they are semi-erect.

    Can you dock without a foreskin?

    Well, actually there is a way you can try docking if neither guy has a foreskin, but you will need some assistance from a masturbator, like the Linx Glacier Dual End Stroker Male Masturbator.

    It is open-ended which means you can both put your dicks into the stroker and get a new and exciting sensation.

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  • What’s the best lube to use with a dildo or butt plug?

    What’s the best lube to use with a dildo or butt plug?

    Whether you’re going for a mini vibe or a traffic cone type of toy, you’ll need the right lube, so which is the right one to use?

    What's the best lube to use with a dildo or butt plug?

    We’ve said it before and we’ll say it again – any butt play is going to need to start off with some kind of lubricant. The anus isn’t self-lubricating so you’re going to need lots of it. Depending on the size of your toy you’ll need different lubes for different activities.

    If it’s a smaller prostate massager like the Optimale P Male Slate, which you’re probably not going to be moving in and out and is just going to sit inside you, then you could try just spit. It’s free and simple – everybody has access to that.

    https://www.thegayshop.co.uk/product/optimale-p-male-slate-os/

    However, if you’re going to be using a huge toy, like the American Bombshell Destroyer that you’re going to be riding to show off your skills on Twitter, then you’re going to need a lube that will stop friction and the damage that could cause you.

    https://www.thegayshop.co.uk/product/american-bombshell-destroyer/

    You should check with the manufacturer of the toy because some toys can’t be used with some types of  lube other than water-based. Oil-based lubes are likely to rot or even melt your toy, so keep them away. Depending on the material your toy is made from you shouldn’t even keep toys together without a layer of protection between them, like a cloth or a cotton bag.

    Some toys though are silicone lube safe and this is probably one of the better lube types to use for toy play because silicone lube lasts the longest. Silicone lube tends to be a little more expensive than water-based but generally lasts longer so you could end up using less of it. We like using the ID Millennium lube which comes in a variety of sizes. If water-based is your thing then look no further than the Liquid Silk range of lubes. Liquid Silk has a great smooth texture to it – plus the whiteness of the lube has the added bonus of looking a bit like spunk!

    For extra help in getting the lube where it actually needs to go you could always try a lube dispenser, a genius way of getting lube deep inside your butt rather than just at the entrance.

    Another suggestion is numbing lube if you’re using a massive toy,  however, be careful when using numbing lube. Pain felt while inserting a toy is a useful and important messaging system for you. If you don’t get any feedback from your ass, you could be damaging yourself with tears.

  • The Rules of Rough Sex

    The Rules of Rough Sex

    This week, columnist Scott Sammons gives us a rundown of rule for rough sex.

    This article is NSFW, please click here to confirm you are over 18.

  • PHOTO GALLERY: Verner Degray’s When Winter Comes

    PHOTO GALLERY: Verner Degray’s When Winter Comes

    Verner worked and exhibited all over the world before settling permanently in France.

    Verner Degray offers us again the photos of his latest shoot.

    (The uncensored photos are visible only on https://onlyfans.com/vernerdegray).

    Specialized in the male artistic nude, he is eager to show that nudity can sometimes be sensual and not pornographic.

     

    Photographer: Verner Degray: http://onlyfans.com/vernerdegray ( +18 only) – www.verner-degray.com

    Model: David : https://onlyfans.com/mrgabbana

  • The rimming sex toy is cheaper today thanks to Black Friday

    The rimming sex toy is cheaper today thanks to Black Friday

    If you liked getting rimmed and you’re looking to save money, your day is about to get even better.

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    Thanks for Black Friday the Lelo Ora 2 has a mega 25 per cent off the retail price today, meaning you can give your bum hole a great seeing to for less.

    Does your boyfriend have 10 pleasure settings and the stamina to go for an hour – with a 90 day standby time? If he does we want to meet him. If he doesn’t or you don’t have a BF then we’d like you to meet ORA (2). The oral sex – sex toy.

    If you’re not entirely sure what rimming is, then we got this article, which explains the 10 things you need to know about rimming.

    The toy, which is from the upmarket Swedish intimate toy manufacturer LELO, describes the toy as “better than real” and “thrilling”. We’re interested – very interested.

     

    Although the website describes it as perfect for “clitoral stimulation” we’re betting this will feel just as good on your boy booty bean.

    So now you don’t need a man to give you a good licking. You can even give the BF the night off while you go to town on yourself.

    It’s currently on Black Friday for just £108.75!

     

  • How to give a really good handjob

    How to give a really good handjob

    Not every sexual encounter needs to end up in P in A or even a blowjob, behold the simple handjob.

    How to give a really good handjob
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    It’s super quick and easy, and what’s more, you really don’t need any preparation to give each other a handy shandy. What’s more, it’s one of the safest forms of sexual activity.

    Technique. What feels good to you, might not feel good to the other person. So listen for signs that it’s all going well. If in doubt ask. You don’t have to be silent during sex.

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    Position. You know what, jerking someone else off can be a tiring experience, especially if they take a while to climax. So if you’re lying side by side, make sure the person receiving is on your dominant side, so right-hand side if you’re right-handed, or left-hand side if you’re left-handed. But why not forgo the side by side action and slip in behind them and reach around to their front. This position can be done standing, sitting or kneeling behind the person. To add a little more intensity add a bit of reach around kissing. Hot AF.

    Face to Face. To add extra intensity, stand, knee or sit face to face and look into each other’s eyes as you beat the jerky. Having a front view can give you all the telltale signs that someone’s close to orgasm and you get to look at goodies. Win-win really.

    Out and about? Half the fun is that the handjob can take place almost anywhere. Now we’re not advocating anything illegal, but maybe a surprise handjob the next time you’re out for a ramble on the moors – might just be the ticket.

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    Double-handed. This goes hand in hand with technique really. Placing both hands over someone’s genitals can add double the pleasure and give a different feeling to the fist on helmet action. Plus if the person you’re with has bollocks, then cradle those bad boys, and give ’em a stroke.

    Change the routine You know, not every handjob has to be a fist around a cock. Have you tried simple head rubbing? Take your thumb and rub in circular motions on the back of the head of the penis (not on the helmet). It’s a great way of slowing things down and changing the tempo. He’ll be squirming with joy.

    Different equipment requires different technique. If your subject hasn’t got a foreskin, or the foreskin happens to go right back when he’s erect, you’ll need to adjust your technique. Spit can make for a makeshift lube if you’re out and about, but it’s probably good to make sure there’s lube nearby.

    While we’re on the subject of lube, why not true some warming lube or tingling lube for extra sensations. It’s not for everyone, but worth a punt.

    Here’s the rub, you’re probably never going to be as good at giving a handjob as the person receiving does it to themselves, after all, they’ve probably been practising on themselves forever. So give yourself a break – and just enjoy the intimacy the interaction can create.

    Have you got tips? Use the comments below to let us know what your favourite technique is.