If you’re a gay, bi or curious guy chances are you might be up for a chocolate starfish stretch… But when you do it for the first time, there are just things you don’t expect.

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We asked our wonderful community what they thought about the first time they had anal sex.

 

The pain (Allie)

 

How tight my ass was lol (Jim)

 

The pain after banging my head on the table lamp lol (Jon)

 

The agreement that more lube is always a must. (Brad)

Can’t really remember I was drunk . (Jim)

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It didn’t hurt like I was expecting it too. (Jordy)

 

It was a romantic and powerful moment for this power bottom! I felt fulfilled! (Bri)

 

The pain! Omg the pain!!! Felt like being stabbed in the stomach and the sh*tter all at the same time! I’ve honestly felt less pain standing on a plug (Craig)

 

How bloody selfish he was. And the size of his manhood. Ginormous (W)

 

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That it hurt like f**k, literally. And that I only truly enjoy it once I’ve become comfortable with my partner. (J)

 

Not to laugh at the other guys sex noises while inside. (Matt)

 

That my boyfriend who was 100% straight liked it very much. (Q)

 

The ability to actually stay awake !!! (Sean)

 

How much overhype there is. I was so bored, and have been every time.  (Sean)

 

That not everyone likes doing it to ABBA! (Graham)

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How amazing I was.  (Daniel)

 

Oh The Prep… Dear god… So much prep