THE UNDATEABLE GAY | Don’t Let Your Best Friend’s Mum Choose Your Dates
He looked like Roy Cropper it was never going to work out. I’ve had a flashback to a date I went on when I was just a young whippersnapper of […]
JOURNEY TO FATHERHOOD 4 | Legal and Ethical issues
Legal and ethical issues are the less exciting, but a very important part of surrogacy. I thought this would be a very dry article until my recent experience. Despite my […]
COLUMN: Surviving The First Christmas With Your Boyfriend
They never tell you in the Big Gay Handbook. And frankly they should because I was not expecting it. But it turns out that the first Christmas together is a […]
JOURNEY TO FATHERHOOD 3 | The Reaction
About five years ago I went on holiday to Benidorm. I met a gay couple from Berkshire, one of whom had been a long term employee at one of the […]
COLUMN: The Worst Day Of My Life Was… Remembering The Height Of The AIDS Epidemic
I guess it started from that lazy Sunday afternoon, stretched out with all the Sunday papers when my eye’s were drawn an article about a a gay cancer in San […]
COLUMN: Can Gay Relationships Ever Be Honest and Open?
Is there such a thing as a healthy open relationship? I can only go on my own experiences, which were mixed. I met Adam in the early 2000s. He was […]
JOURNEY TO FATHERHOOD 2 | The Money
The second instalment of Simon Hill’s journey to becoming a father. It’s about the money… A man once told me a story about money, it went like this: The board […]
LETTER FROM THE EDITOR: More than the sum of our parts
This month, I happened to be invited to a sit down pasta/policy night with a well-known community leader. Around the table I was joined by five colleagues from the LGBT […]
COLUMN | Sticks And Stones
I got called a faggot on the bus home last week. I was quite amused actually. It felt so retro and dated. I’ve almost grown to love some of these […]
THE UNDATEABLE GAY | Once Is Enough – Apparently…
So I’m out in a gay club, dancing the night away in my best new loafers. I’ve a wine in my right hand but no man in my left. Someone […]
JOURNEY TO FATHERHOOD | The Journey To Become A Father
“Click”, and with that I had spent twenty thousand dollars. But, I didn’t feel anything. Is this what the super-rich feel when they spend twenty thousand dollars, nothing? What if […]