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Category: Gay Life

COMMENT | Is the gay community homophobic?
For a community that has a history of persecution, horror, and division it will always shock me that even to this day, the gay community remains deeply divided and discriminatory to itself. In this article, a bit more of a serious one for a change, I want to explore some examples of this discrimination and…

Valley Boys Like Boys – Growing up Gay in the Welsh Valleys
As I drive through the Welsh town of Pontypool I’ve lived in since I was born, with a population of approximately 36,000 people, I’m surprised to see a rainbow flag flying high outside the civic centre in the middle of the town. It’s LGBT history month, but the flag doesn’t just stay up during February….

Obituary: Sharon Bottoms Mattes, the woman whose court case changed LGBT+ parenting
The sad passing of Sharon Bottoms Mattes, 48, in January this year shone a spotlight on LGBT+ rights in the 21st century, and how far attitudes and family law have changed abroad and in the UK.

How not to look sexy on a first date
Writer Scott Sammons takes us through the basic don’ts (and he’s got four years of experience apparently) if you’re trying to be sexy on a first date… Buckle up.

So what IS a “White Gay”
On the surface, the term “White Gay” may not strike a chord of recognition. But it’s an issue that is becoming insidious and problematic within some areas the community. I’m hoping that after the explanation, people do continue reading because this is an issue that needs to be discussed and understood. So what does “White…

COMMENT | The joy of the good old fashioned… wank
I recently rediscovered the joy of wanking.

Looking for gay chat in London?
If you’re fed up of dating apps and want to make a more meaningful connection with gay, bi or curious fellas in London then maybe it’s time to go a little old school and join our social network.

COMMENT | Gay, 35 and single
As I get older, I find it more and more difficult to avoid questions such as: When are you going to get married? How come that you don’t have a partner?

Have you ever felt lonely? The results from one of the biggest surveys on loneliness are out!
It’s often said that the modern world is very well connected but a lonely place. We have all these different tools for connecting us more than ever before, but it often feels like we are also further apart

COMMENT | The Best Car I’ve Driven
TheGayUK’s very own motoring expert, Stuart Bird walks down memory lane to reveal the best car he’s ever drive