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  • What does folx mean?

    What does folx mean?

    Folx is a gender-neutral way of writing or saying “folks”. 

    The word folks is already considered a gender-free expression however some in the community feel that it has gender connotations.

    Folx is a relatively new term, with only a few instances of use on the internet, however, with the rise in popularity of other X terms, we may start to see more and more use of Folx. However its use is often derided, as demonstrated on Urban Dictionary, who writes,

    A strange, unnecessary misspelling of “folks” popularized by people who think using a gender-neutral term for an already gender-neutral word is woke.

    Marianne Juana, Urban Dictionary

    Should I use folx instead of folks?

    What does Folx mean

    This is totally up to you. There’s no major call by any community for people to start using the x term over the normal spelling of folks. As it stands, some people and organisations are using the term, in the same way, they are using “womxn” however when they do it is usually followed by a big backlash on social media.

    Other X Terms

    You may have noticed X’s appearing in quite a few words, including Latinx and Womxn.

    Writing in Latina Magazine, journalist Raquel Reichard said, “Latinx, pronounced ‘La-teen-ex,’ includes the numerous people of Latin American descent whose gender identities fluctuate along with different points of the spectrum, from agender or nonbinary to gender non-conforming genderqueer and genderfluid.”

    As for Womxn?

    What does Womxn mean

    Nita Harker, an assistant professor of sociology at Whatcom Community College in Bellingham, Washington USA and co-organizer of a “Womxn’s March” said, “I actually think the challenge — particularly that it is hard to pronounce in your mind as you read it, that it forces one to stop and think, that it is not just easy and nice and recognizable — is part of the point and the draw. To me, it represents the complexity of gender.”


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  • What does womxn mean and how do you pronounce it?

    What does womxn mean and how do you pronounce it?

    Have you noticed the term Womxn and ever wondered what it means or why people are starting to use it?

    Womxn is a relatively new term, thought to be a more inclusive way of saying or writing women/woman. It is thought that it was first used in 2015.

    The term Womxn is an alternative for the English language word women. It has been in occasional use since 2015 to explicitly include non-cisgender women.

    It has been used in a similar manner as womyn and wimmin, as a rejection of the English-only etymology of ‘woman’ from Old English wifmon (wife-man).

    More inclusive to non-cisgender people

    The term, like folx and Latinx, is thought to be more inclusive to non-cisgender people. Non-cisgender people are those whose gender identity does not necessarily match their biological sexual characteristics. This could be people from the non-binary or transgender community.

    “Represents the complexity of gender”

    Nita Harker, an assistant professor of sociology at Whatcom Community College in Bellingham, Washington USA and co-organizer of a “Womxn’s March” said, “I actually think the challenge — particularly that it is hard to pronounce in your mind as you read it, that it forces one to stop and think, that it is not just easy and nice and recognizable — is part of the point and the draw.

    “To me, it represents the complexity of gender.”

    How do you pronounce Womxn?

    How do you pronounce Womxn?

    Although the way people pronounce words is vastly different across the globe, Womxn can be pronounced Woah-Mex/Mix or Wim-Mex/Mix.


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  • Does Alison Moyet make a good point about the word “Womxn”?

    Does Alison Moyet make a good point about the word “Womxn”?

    The word “Womxn” has been trending on Twitter after a TedTalk’s account said that their use of the word “Womxn” was not a typo. That Tweet went on to be severely ratio’d with over 6,300 comments. Mainly of people complaining about the term.

    TEDxLondon wrote, “that’s not a typo: ‘womxn’ is a spelling of ‘women’ that’s more inclusive and progressive. The term sheds light on the prejudice, discrimination, and institutional barriers womxn have faced, and explicitly includes non-cisgender women.”

    Alison Moyet has made a very good point about the word, “Womxn”, which is supposed to be a much more inclusive way of including all types of women, including trans women. Her point, in a nutshell, is why is “Mxn” being used for men?

    Which is a good point. If women are being asked to accept womxn shouldn’t men be expected to use mxn?

    She wrote, “Womxn but not Mxn? Why would that not be problematic for anyone desirous of inclusive language? Inclusive language must include or it is otherwise”.

    https://twitter.com/AlisonMoyet/status/1303264303773028353

    What do you think? If Women becomes Womxn, should Men become Mxn?

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  • Of all his TV moments, this is the one Austin Armacost is proudest of

    Of all his TV moments, this is the one Austin Armacost is proudest of

    It’s been a little while since the hunky Celebrity Big Brother star Austin Armacost has been on our screens, but today he shared the moment he’s proudest of.

    Back in 2015, during the star’s first stint on CBB, Austin was overwhelmed by fellow contestant, Gail Porter’s story about her hair loss.

    So moved, he actually shaved his hair off in an act of solidarity.

    At the time Gail asked, if anyone would shave their hair off. Austin told her, “Gail, I would be honoured for you to shave my head. You are the most amazing person with or without hair.”

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    In a Twitter post, Austin said of all of his appearances this was his favourite, saying “5 years ago today… I’ve done a lot of things on TV: funny, dramatic, intense, argumentative… but this moment of compassion is one I’m most proud of!”

  • Birmingham stabbing suspect arrested

    A man has been arrested following a stabbing incident that left one man dead and seven others injured.

    According to a police report, The suspect was detained at an address in Selly Oak at around 4 am.

    The 27-year-old remains in police custody for questioning over the knife attacks that shocked the city in the early hours of Sunday morning.

    The first attack happened in Constitution Hill followed by further stabbings in Livery Street, Irving Street and finally Hurst Street.

    How the incident unfolded

    12:30 AM Police received their first call to Constitution Hill just after 12.30 am where a man received a superficial injury,

    12:50 AM A further call 20 minutes later to Livery Street. A 19-year-old man was critically injured and a woman was also injured.

    1.50 AM we were called to Irving Street where sadly one man lost his life and another man suffered serious injuries.

    2:00 AM Ten minutes later we were called to Hurst Street where a 32-year-old woman was seriously injured and two men received lesser injuries.

    “Officers worked through yesterday and into the early hours”

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    Birmingham Police Commander, Chief Superintendent Steve Graham, said, “Officers worked through yesterday and into the early hours of this morning in a bid to trace the man we believe responsible for these terrible crimes.

    “We issued CCTV footage of the suspect and had a strong response from the public. I’d like to thank everyone who shared our appeal and who provided information to the investigation.

    “One line of enquiry ultimately led us to an address in the Selly Oak area this morning where a man was arrested.

    “Clearly this is a crucial development but our investigation continues. We still need to speak to any witnesses who saw what happened who’ve not yet spoken to us, or anyone who may have video footage or photos of the incidents or the attacker.

    “We have a hotline number and a dedicated web page where you can submit information, photos and videos.”

    A Hotline has been set up for anyone with info. Please call 0800 056 0944

  • Birmingham cops: “stay vigilant” but fail to release a description of the suspect – 16 hours after the incident

    There are growing calls for Midland’s Police to issue a description of a suspect who allegedly killed at least one man and injured at least seven others in the early hours this morning, in Birmingham.

    There have been no arrests and a manhunt and murder investigation is now underway.

    Police were called to an incident at 12:30 AM in Birmingham’s gay village where sadly one man died from injuries sustained from a knife attack.

    Despite the city’s wide spread use of CCTV the authorities have yet to release any description of the man they say they wish to question in connection to the incident.

    The police have warned citizens to “remain vigilant” and that they would release more information in due course.

    The police have said that they do not believe the motive for the attack to be a hate crime, gang-related or terrorism, instead suggesting that the attacks were random.

    No description, but asked to remain vigilant.

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    However, more than 16 hours since the incident the police have yet to issue any formal description.

    Numerous people took to social media to question why are such a long time why the police had yet to release any further information on the suspect. One person wrote, “Surely 16 hours later you must know who you are looking for??? Wouldn’t it be in public interest to show who you are looking for???”

    While another added, “For a city centre covered in CCTV, I find it highly suspicious that you’ve yet to release a description or images of the attacker. Any reasonable explanation why?”

  • Murder investigation opened after “major incident” in Birmingham

    Murder investigation opened after “major incident” in Birmingham

    Police in Birmingham have confirmed that they have opened a murder investigation after a man died died and two further victims suffered serious injuries.

    Police also note that a further five people have been injured although their injuries are not thought to be life-threatening.

    A manhunt is now underway and no arrests have been made. The police have not released a description of the suspect.

    In a statement, police confirmed, “We believe the incidents, which took place between 12:30 am and 2:20 am, are linked and we’re doing all we can to find whoever was responsible.

    “Detectives are following a number of lines of enquiry and we’ve increased our uniformed and armed response in the city.

    “We continue to hold a number of scenes across the city, including Livery Street, Irving Street and Hurst Street.

    “We’re urging anyone who witnessed anything or anyone who has any CCTV or mobile phone footage to get in contact as soon as possible, as the information you have may be crucial to our investigation.

    “tragic, shocking and understandably frightening”

    Chief Superintendent Steve Graham, responsible for policing in Birmingham, said: “The events during the early hours of this morning are tragic, shocking and understandably frightening.

    “Please be assured that we are doing absolutely everything we can to find whoever was responsible and try to understand what exactly happened.

    “We have well-rehearsed plans for dealing with major incidents. Your safety is always our priority and that’s why you’ll see an increase in officers on the streets.

    “In the meantime, we’d ask anyone who’s in the city to remain vigilant and report anything suspicious to us.”

    The West Midlands Police and Crime Commissioner David Jamieson, said: “Last night’s events are truly terrible and have  shocked the people of Birmingham, the West Midlands and the country.

    “My first thoughts are with the victims and their families at this time. 

    “I have every faith in West Midlands Police who are working extremely quickly on this investigation.

    “My thanks also go to the ambulance and hospital staff who are working around the clock to help those who have been injured.”

    Anyone with information is asked to contact us via Live Chat on our website or call 101. If you are in danger please call 999.

  • Major incident declared in Birmingham’s gay quarter after multiple stabbings

    Major incident declared in Birmingham’s gay quarter after multiple stabbings

    *This is a live article and changes are being made as new and updated information is being released*

    Police in Birmingham said there have been multiple stabbings in the area near to the gay village.

    A murder investigation has now been opened after a man sadly died. A further two people were seriously injured and another five were left with less serious injuries.

    A manhunt is now underway and no arrests have been made. The police have not released a description of the suspect.

    ALSO READ: Murder investigation opened after attack in Birmingham city centre

    ALSO READ: Birmingham cops: “stay vigilant” but fail to release a description of the suspect – 16 hours after the incident

    Police say that at around 12:30 AM this morning there were reports of a stabbing in the city centre. A further number of stabbings happened after.

    Police have now cordoned off an area on Hurst Road, which has a number of LGBT+ venues and bars on it.

    The police have confirmed that a number of people have been injured. They said in a statement,

    “We are aware of a number of injured people, but at the moment we are not in a position to say how many or how serious. However, all emergency services are working together at the scene, and making sure that those who are injured receive medical care.”

    According to Midlands Zone, one bystander, Graham Littlewood from DevilsKitchen commented, “it appears around five people were stabbed, one possibly fatal. The police came to my burger van and told us to close immediately and for everyone to move out of the area.”

    Has anyone been arrested?

    There are reports on social media that a man has been caught, however, this is currently unconfirmed.

    The force said “Work is still going on to establish what has happened, and could take some time before we are in a position to confirm anything. At this early stage it would not be appropriate to speculate on the causes of the incident.”

    Gunshots?

    According to some reports, a number of people had heard what sounded like gunshots, however, police say they have found no evidence at this time, that a firearm had been fired.

    Midland’s Police said, “We’re aware of some comments that gunshots were fired, this has not been reported to us at this stage.”

    This is a breaking story. Please refresh to see new information.

  • Gay Dating | What does MMF mean on a dating app?

    Gay Dating | What does MMF mean on a dating app?

    If you ever see the acronym “MMF” on a guy’s profile, it means that the guy you’re talking to is into three ways with two males and a female, hence M+M+F!

    Simply put the two Ms stand for Male while the F stands for female. This means that he’s into the idea of having a bisexual threesome.

    What does MMF mean

    It’d be up to you to chat about specifics and how that might play out. It’s not very common to find MMF on a hookup app like Grindr or Scuff whose main audience is made up of gay men and same-sex attracted people, but you may find a bisexual man or indeed his girlfriend who is entirely up for being in a three-way with another guy.

    Remember if you’re meeting up with strangers over a dating or hook up app to take precautions for your safety. Read our article about staying safe here.

    Check out more gay dating terms.

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  • Nine men accused of holding a “gay party” in Indonesia are facing 15 years in jail

    Nine men accused of holding a “gay party” in Indonesia are facing 15 years in jail

    Things for LGBT+ people in Indonesia are going from bad to worse after nine men arrested in Jakarta are arrested for what the police are calling a “gay party”.

    Nine men have been arrested in Indonesia after police say they were holding a “gay party”, this is despite that homosexuality is not illegal except in the Aceh region. There were apparently 12 men at the party, nine of them were detained as the “organisers”.

    The nine were charged under article 296 of the Criminal Code Law that says “Any person who commits or facilitates obscene act with another person, shall be punished by a maximum one year and four months imprisonment and a maximum fine of IDR15.000″

    The police also charged them with article 33 in conjunction with article 7 and or article 36 in conjunction with article 10 of the Pornography Law. 

    Amnesty International Indonesia Executive Director Usman Hamid says that there is no legal justification for criminalising these men and that raids like these were sending “a terrifying message to LGBTI people”.

    In a statement, Hamind said, “There is no legal justification for criminalising the behaviour these men are accused of. Such a gathering would pose no threat to anyone. The authorities are being discriminatory and violating the human rights to privacy and family life, freedom of expression, and the freedom of assembly and association. 

    “Raids like these send a terrifying message to LGBTI people. We call on the authorities to release all people arrested in the party and drop all charges against them. They must also stop these arbitrary and humiliating raids and stop misusing laws against loitering or public nuisance to harass and arrest people accused of same-sex activity. 

    “No one should be targeted and arrested because of their actual or perceived sexual orientation and gender identity. The police should be keeping everyone safe, not stoking more discrimination.”

    Homosexuality is not illegal, but authorities are finding other ways to criminalise gay people

    Consensual same-sex relations are not crimes under the Indonesian Criminal Code. However, the Pornography Law has been widely applied and doesn’t relate to any of the actions or behaviours actually carried out by the people arrested or harassed under this law. 

    In Indonesia, LGBTI people are frequently harassed, intimidated, criminalized, and even killed, simply because of their sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, according to Amnesty International.

    Increase intimidation and attacks

    In the last few years, intimidation, attacks and discrimination against LGBT+ people in Indonesia has increased after several public officials made inaccurate or misleading statements on the grounds of “defending the country’s public morality and public security.”  

  • Matt Hancock won’t condemn homophobia because Tony Abbott is a trade expert

    Matt Hancock won’t condemn homophobia because Tony Abbott is a trade expert

    In an awkward exchange with Sky‘s Kay Burley, Health Secretary Matt Hancock seemingly excused homophobic and misogynistic comments by the former Australian PM, Tony Abbott, because he is an “expert on trade”.

    The former PM is reportedly being eyed up to be the joint president of the UK’s Board of Trade as the UK prepares its trade deals upon leaving the EU.

    Previously Abbott opposed gay marriage before it became legal in Australia and said that he feels a “bit threatened by homosexuality”.

    “I don’t believe that’s true”

    Hancock firstly argued that he didn’t believe Tony Abbott to be a homophobe or a misogynist, saying, “I don’t believe that’s true, I haven’t seen any of his (comments)”

    When Burley replied, “I just told you what he said, I’m sure you don’t support some of his comments, he’s a homophobe and a misogynist”, Hancock’s response was. “He’s also an expert on trade”.

    Pressing the point, Burley went on to ask, “So one plays off each other? Really? Is that what you’re really saying, Health Secretary? Come on!”

    Hancock responded, “No, what I’m saying is that we need experts in different areas and the former Prime Minister of Australia is obviously an enormous expert in the area of trade. it doesn’t change my views.

    So forgive because he’s good at trade?

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    Burley continued, “So we can forgive his comments about women and about letting the elderly die of Covid-19 and his views on the gay community, even though his sister is gay. We can forgive all of that because he’s good at trade?”

    Hancock didn’t answer the question and went back to form, by saying, “I’m doing everything in my power to prevent a second wave and protect people from coronavirus

    At which Burley butted in and remonstrated the Health Secretary, by pointing out “That was not my question”, she asked, “Is he a fit and proper person to represent us?”

    “Mr Abbott is very good and very experienced in trade”, responded Hancock, “It is clearly a very important decision that the Prime Minister (Boris Johnson) and the Trade Secretary are across, because we do want experts… and have huge experience”