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Can bottoms self lubricate for gay sex?
Some guys, it seems, have an uncanny ability to be always ready to take a dick at a moment’s notice. So are some bottoms able to self-lubricate, ready at a moment’s notice to get ploughed by an almighty 10 incher?
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So does the ass self-lubricate?
The answer my friends is a little more nuanced than a yes or a no. While the rectum can line its walls with mucous, which is technically a lubricant, it’s actually intended to help poop pass through its walls more easily. It’s not, however, a lube for some serious ass ramming. Your body produces this mucous when it feels that you’re gonna need to make a bowel movement, or maybe with the presence of a cock. The mucous is generally clearish although some people report it to be whitish in colour and is produced by the anal ducts – and it smells, well, like ass.
The amount that is produced varies from person to person, but believe us, it’ll never be enough to make anal sex pleasurable.
Some bottoms boast extreme self-lubrication… should they use normal lube as well?
Yes, they should be using a lube which is intended for intercourse. Not using lube and just relying on mucous from the rectum or even just spit could lead to some serious long-term medical issues for the hole. Trauma to the area could land you with anything from fissures to prolapses, which will need an operation to put right.
If diamonds are a girl’s best friend, lube is a bottom’s – and there are many many to choose from and the one that feels best to use will again vary from person to person, although in this writer’s (vast) wisdom on the subject, Silicone is the best way to go – it’s long-lasting and leaves the area feeling pretty well moisturised and not tacky – like some water-based lubes.
So, while it might feel that your butthole is self-lubricating and can take the insertion of a finger – for a cock (or two) it really won’t cut the mustard.
So what if the guy I’m about to pound doesn’t seem to need lube – is he self-lubricating?
It’s highly likely that powerbottom that you’re about to nail has already prelubed before getting into the bed/sling/lazy Suzanne. In fact it’s one of the things I most recommend to bottoms during their whole prep routine is to actually pre-lube after douching. One of the best ways to get the lube to where it’s actually meant to be is with a lube launcher. This device “launches” lube deep into your rectum putting it where just using a finger won’t reach.
It looks like an oversized medieval but plastic, syringe, but don’t fret there’s no needle at the end, just a smallish tube with a rounded end with a hole, which you insert up your bum and press in the lube. Pretty easy.
So the moral of the story. Use lube if you’re gonna have butt sex.
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Was Cosmé McMoon from Florence Foster-Jenkins gay, straight and was he married?
He’s affectionately portrayed by Simon Helberg in the 2016 Meryl Streep film, Florence Foster Jenkins – a light-hearted, but fairly innocuous biopic about the New York socialite, Florence Foster Jenkins whose passion for singing despite her inability to it, led her to a sold-out performance at the world-famous Carnegie Hall in New York, along with her pianist, Cosmé McMoon.
However, what do we know about him?
Was he married, was Cosmé McMoon gay, straight or even bisexual? We do some digging to find out.
Not much is written about McMoon’s personal life. Times are different now compared to then – where as being someone’s sidekick nowadays can bring about a huge spotlight on your life (think Nicole Richie to Paris Hilton or Michelle Visage to RuPaul) back then the gossip pages of the tabloids were only really fixated on the super rich and super famous. Florence Foster-Jenkins really was neither of these things, although she was rich, she certainly wasn’t Rockefeller – so McMoon, her humble accompanist was really just a side-note in the papers, if featured at all.
However there is a little bit of info, mainly that he was never married or had kids – and apparently took interest in “body building” and judging body building contests – one could read between the lines that perhaps, maybe, he took interest in the male form – alluding to homosexuality.
However we must also look at how difficult it would have been for someone like McMoon to have come out as gay. For much of his life, he was born in 1901 and died in 1980, at the age of 79. In context, homosexuality was actually illegal in the United States. Homosexuality was only and partially decriminalised in the States from 1962. He was also the son of religious parents, who were of Irish and Mexican extraction.
Was the film accurate about Cosmé McMoon?
However, it’s interesting that McMoon’s portrayal in the Meryl Street film, shows him to be of a certain campness and gives a nod to his homosexuality – such as a brief, but knowing (and longing) look at a man at an afterparty at the homes of Foster Jenkin’s partner, St. Clair Bayfield.
There are very few interviews with Cosmé and so little written about him after the death of Foster Jenkins in the 1944, so we have to assume that the directors and producers of the film did a certain amount of homework on the character, but also allowed for artistic license when it comes to the portrayal of McMoon.
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Rehab 4 Addiciton
Established in 2012 by Oliver Clark, Rehab 4 Addiction is an advisory and referral service for people who suffer from alcohol, drug and behavioural addiction.
Rehab 4 Addiction works closely with rehabilitation centres and outpatient clinics throughout the United Kingdom and the admissions team match a patients’ addiction with an appropriately placed rehabilitation centre.
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Honour Waterloo
Our shop in Waterloo is where the Honour story began! Established in 1988, the Waterloo shop has a central London location and is easily accessible by public transport. Lower Marsh is a great street to amble along, get some food and then head over to us to get your fetish kit! The shop has been recently refurbished with new fittings and is constantly restocked with the newest Honour bestsellers. We also have a range of exclusive clearance offers in store. So get yourself down to the Honour Waterloo shop!
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Gay in Bournemouth
Gay in Bournemouth plan social activities and events for Gay Men in Bournemouth,Christchurch,Poole. We often vary the guests list so everyone gets a chance to meet new people. Most events everyone is welcome but we can design events to various interests and ages. For example the 25-35 age group and the over 50’s. Our Beach walks are very popular as are our coffee meet ups and Table for Eight events and Pizza Evenings at local restaurants in Bournemouth. We are also looking into holiday plans once it is safe to do so. Many single gay men do not want to go on holiday on their own,after all its no fun, but want to go with small groups of gay men they have got to know rather than complete strangers. If you want to go to be informed of future events please email in confidence freshbournemouth2018@gmail.com
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Cowbit Cruising Ground
BRAND NEW AND UNKNOWN UNTIL NOW– At A16 roundabout for Cowbit– PE12 6AH (Stonegate, Cowbit) for satnav (first left into Cropft Close)– Free roadside parking (not numbered spaces) on Croft Close (new build estate)– Secluded and unknown about– Multi functional space and ground– Not overlooked (traffic can’t see in, open spaces opposite fields)At A16 roundabout for Cowbit turn into village, then first left into Croft Close. Here, free parking.At the end of the Close walk around the fence to trees and walk halfway along where you’ll find the entrance – look out out for colour on floor, and blue rope.Arched, secluded tree pathway with small cleared areas. Secret gated section. Opens into tall grassed area, short grasses area which isn’t overlooked – perfect for nudists and sunbathers.Please pass on info, as the more known and used the better it will become.
