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  • Brits Can Live On Their Savings For Just Three Months

    Brits Can Live On Their Savings For Just Three Months

    The average Brit can last just 96 days on their savings, according to new research.

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    CREDIT © Violka08 Depositphotos

    A study of 2,000 adults shows that most have just £3,769.92 set aside for a rainy day, and even then 58 per cent will dip into this fund whenever they are short of cash.

    In fact, while the average person saves £95.35 a month for holidays, and £76.04 a month for their children’s future, only £106.58 is put aside for their own needs.

    As a consequence, after just over three months, the average adult would need to find another way of supporting themselves when they run out of cash.

    But seven in 10 people admit they have absolutely no plans in place should they find themselves out of work and out of savings.

    While one in six of those polled don’t have a single penny saved at all.

    A spokesman for research experts www.OnePoll.com which carried out the research said:

    “We find it reassuring that most adults do have some money put away for an emergency, so while it might not last long, it will certainly buy some time before things get desperate.

    “The reality is that with the high cost of modern living, it is getting more and more difficult to save money without making sacrifices in other areas of our lives.

    “So unless people want to ditch holidays and instant gratification for longer term planning, they’re not going to have enough money in the pot to save very much.”

    The study shows 12 per cent of adults fear their savings would only last them a week if they had no other income at all, while one in 10 think they would be lucky to get through a fortnight.

    When faced with the notion of coping without a regular income, 48 per cent say they would try for temporary work as a quick way of generating cash.

    The same percentage of people would start selling any possessions they could do without at car boot sales and on auction websites, while 21 per cent would use the overdraft to the maximum limit.

    More worryingly, 14 per cent would consider taking out a loan to keep them afloat – despite having no known means of paying it back – and one in 10 would take out more credit cards.

    A fifth of folk would approach mum and dad for a loan, and if desperate, eight per cent would ask for money from friends.

    For those people who have already dipped into their savings to tide them over when money has been tight, wanting to book a holiday and having to make emergency repairs to the car are the biggest reasons for withdrawing money from the rainy day account.

    Other reasons given for spending the savings include having to urgently pay off debt, needing to pay for children’s school trips and wanting to make home renovations.

    People will also spend any money they have stashed away on decorating, bailing out another family member or when having to take time off work due to sickness.

    Interestingly, two thirds of adults wish they could save more money to ensure they have a bright future ahead of them, but 33 per cent claim to live hand to mouth each month.

    Four in 10 people say they have absolutely no money left to enjoy once all the bills and essentials are paid for, and a fifth say they run out of their wages partway through the month anyway.

    But for some people, spending disposable income is more important than saving it.
    Indeed, 15 per cent want to live life to the full and enjoy every second of it now, while 17 per cent admit they would rather spend their money on holidays, socialising and having fun

    The spokesman for www.OnePoll.com continues:

    “While many people choose to spend their savings on socialising and holidays, more often than not it is life’s little unwanted surprises and emergencies which lead up to spend our savings.
    “It is impossible to foresee a failed MOT, car breakdown or plumbing catastrophe, and all of these things can be expensive to fix.

    “So unless people have a separate account set up for emergency funding, they have no choice but to dip into their small savings account to cope with the unwanted bill.”

    ‘PLAN B’ – HOW BRITS INTEND TO COPE WITHOUT A JOB AND NO SAVINGS

    1. Try to get temporary work
    2. Sell unwanted possessions on auction sites and at car boot sales
    3. Use the overdraft to its maximum limit
    4. Ask for handouts from mum and dad
    5. Spend on the credit card to its maximum balance
    6. Take out a loan
    7. Open more credit cards
    8. Borrow money from friends
    9. Only purchase reduced items
    10. Stop spending money on clothes, gaming, socialising, public transport etc

  • Saudi Arabia Puts £2.4 Billion Into Uber

    Uber has had a cash injection from anti-gay Saudi Arabia. A cool £2.4bn to be precise.

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    The taxi disruptor tech giant, Uber, has had a giant investment from the Saudi Arabia Public Investment fund (royal government’s investment arm) as it plans to expand into the middle east. Saudi Arabia which bans women from driving has found that 80 per cent of Uber’s customers are women. The deal is said to be worth £2.4bn, $3.5bn (US) and is one of the largest investments in a tech firm the country has ever made.

    Saudia Arabia is one of the countries where homosexuality can still attract the death sentence. Men found guilty of homosexual acts can be executed by stoning.

    The investment now means the company’s value stands at $62.5bn and will give Yasir Al Rumayya, the managing director of public investment fund a chair at one of Silicon Valley’s most prized firms.

    Uber has had a troubling history of anti-gay incidents, especially in the US, its home market, with Twitter users reporting their homophobic experiences from drivers on their timelines.

    Recently an alleged verbal assault in London left one gay man fearing for his safety after he asked his driver what his ‘craziest’ ride was. The driver, according to customer Lewis Peters, left him in shock, when the driver described two men kissing in the back of his car which he said was “disgusting” and “vile”.

    Uber responded by saying,

    “Uber celebrates diversity and does not tolerate any form of discrimination whatsoever.

    “We take any allegations of discriminatory behaviour very seriously and it is our policy with any serious incident to prevent the partner-driver from using our app while we investigate.”

  • It’s Been One Year Since Caitlyn Jenner Did The Vanity Fair Cover

    Just how quickly has time gone?

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    It’s one year since Caitlyn Jenner showcased her new look to the world in that now iconic exclusive cover with Vanity Fair magazine.

    The former Olympic star captioned the picture as her “Happy First Birthday”.

    Taking to Instagram Caitlyn uploaded a video in which she said that there was nothing like “living your life authentically” and that the year had been so much fun.

     

    And what a year it’s been. In 2015/16 Jenner has picked up many awards including the Teen Choice Award and Glamour‘s Women Of The Year. She was listed by Entertainment Weekly as Entertainer of the Year and she topped Bing’s most searched celebrity of the year and second on Google during 2015.

    She also had her own documentary series, I Am Cait, which documented her journey in the first year of her transition.

    It’s a year also tinged with sadness. She’s had numerous lawsuits filed against her after an accident in February 2015 left one woman dead and number of others were injured. Two suits have were settled in December 2015 and January 2016, but a third is on going.

  • 10 Grindr Fails That Will Make You Wanna Put Down The Phone And Move On

    10 Grindr Fails That Will Make You Wanna Put Down The Phone And Move On

    Sex and its procurement via an app can be a tricky journey to navigate.

    Sometimes it goes epically wrong. Thanks to Instagram for the #GrindrFails that show that perhaps we need to put the phone down and go out and meet some people in RL.

    Racist grindr.

    Sarky grindr.

    https://www.instagram.com/p/B_FouszpunC/

    Keeping it real grindr.

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BFz7RghucCS/?tagged=grindrfail&hl=en

    Sparring for a fight grindr

    https://www.instagram.com/p/B-0quDapx0-/

    The up and downer grindr.

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BGGFkx1CnWJ/?tagged=grindrfail&hl=en

    The grammar bitch

    Shopping grindr.

    The sense of humour grindr.

    Sass grindr.

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BF-aOWGkx3y/?tagged=grindrfail&hl=en

    The raincheck grindr.

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BF7wLOsDQdI/?tagged=grindrfail&hl=en
  • Christian Rock Singer Trey Pearson Comes Out As Gay

    Christian Rock Singer Trey Pearson Comes Out As Gay

    Christian Rock singer Trey Pearson has come out as gay in a heartfelt letter to his fans.

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    CREDIT: ҚЯĀŽΨÇÉV13 / Under CC License from Wikipedia

    The lead singer of a Christian rock group, Everyday Sunday has come out as gay. Speaking directly to his fans in a heartfelt letter, Trey Pearson revealed that coming out has lifted a weight and that he’s never felt such freedom.

    “I never wanted to be gay. I was scared of what God would think and what all of these people I loved would think about me,

    “But if this honesty with myself about who I am, and who I was made by God to be, doesn’t constitute as the peace that passes all understanding, then I don’t know what does. It is like this weight I have been carrying my whole life has been lifted from me, and I have never felt such freedom.”

    He said that he hoped his fans “would hear his heart” and that he would still be loved. His band has had considerable successful since their first album released in 2009.

    “I hope people will hear my heart, and that I will still be loved. I’m still the same guy, with the same heart, who wants to love God and love people with everything I have.”


     

    ALSO READ: Celebrities who have said they’re a little bit gay

     


     

    He told The Washington Post that he hoped the new album that he is due to release this autumn won’t be affected by revealing his sexuality.

  • LGBT Peoples We’d Like To See As The Next Bond

    Much is being said about who is destined to be the next Bond and well here at THEGAYUK we’d like to see a bit of diversity…

    So if Spectre is Daniel Craig’s last film in the Bond franchise and the job is up for grabs, we’ve got some suggestions from our very own community.

    1) Paris Lees

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    Although we can’t find her age (how you do this in this modern age of Wikipedia, Google and FB is a dark art – something that could come in handy for a Bond), so we’re guessing she’s mid to late 20s, Paris Lees might be a little too young to play Bond, but how magnificent would she be. Outspoken, witty, dresses to kill,  well connected and knows how to mix a good cocktail we’re told.


    2) Andrew Hayden-Smith, 32

    CREDIT: Monty McKinnen for THEGAYUK

    Swave, British, easy on the eye and Northern – we’ve yet to have a Tyne And Wear bred Bond and we think it’s about time. He’d be the youngest Bond to play the part if he got it, but since Bonds need to last a decade we could definitely see Hayden-Smith maturing into the role nicely.


    3) Sue Perkins, 46

     CREDIT: (C) Love Productions – Photographer: Des Willie

    Sue Perkins’ got the smarts and the sense of humour. She exudes confidence, which is a must for any Bond.

    Bond, Sue Bond – no wait doesn’t she already exist?


    4) Martyn Andrews, 36,

    CREDIT: Monty McKinnen / THEGAYUK

    Former cover star for THEGAYUK, Martyn is an international man having travelled the world extensively. He’s multi-lingual and a genius when it comes to Russian politics having served at a journalist for RT for nearly 10 years. At over 6’3″ he’d be one of the tallest Bonds to date.


     

    5) Wentworth Miller, 43

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    CREDIT: ©-S-Buckley-Depositphotos

    The perfect age for a Bond – plus Wentworth Miller’s got that whole prison thing going for him.

    Plus he looks amazing in a suit – so what more do you really need?


     

    6) Alan Cumming, 51

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    CREDIT: kathclick/bigstock

    Scottish born Alan Cumming, showed his Machiavellian side in The Good Wife, we think Alan could definitely pull off a gay bond. At 51 he may be a little too old – as Bonds should ideally last about 10 years in the role – which means by his last film he’d be into his 60s. He wouldn’t be the first Scot to play Bond, rather famously Sean Connery embodied the role and is considered one of the best Bonds ever.


    7) Asifa Lahore

    CREDIT: Monty McKinnen for THEGAYUK

    Can you imagine audience reactions to Britain’s most famous Muslim Drag Queen as Bond. It gives us shivers now, which is why we’re nominating her for the role. Asifa could be her own Bond girl as well – saving money on the budget.


     

    8) Gareth Thomas

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    How’s about a Welsh Bond? Physically fit, a man’s man and knows a thing or to about the important of blending in with your crowd. Although Bond often works alone you need a man who knows the importance of teamwork.


     

    9) John Partridge, 44

    CREDIT: Channel 5

    CREDIT: Channel 5

    He’s got the looks and he’s the perfect age. EastEnders’ bad gay boy would be perfect for James Bond. Plus he looks divine all suited and booted. Aside from the perfect look, he’s got a heart of gold and he loves his mother – we’d like to see more of this fluffy side to bond.


     

    10) Seann Miley Moore, 26

    Hey if we’re going to totally f*ck with the heteronormative brand of James Bond we might as well suggest Seann Miley Moore. The X Factor star moved from Sydney, Australia to London to make his dream come true, proving that he’s ready to move mountains to get the job done.

    He wouldn’t be the first Aussie to take the part, George Lazenby played Bond in 1969’s On Her Majesty’s Secret Service.

    ALSO READ: Bond… Real Bond Interview with the stunt man for James Bond

  • THEATRE REVIEW | Shadowlands

    THEATRE REVIEW | Shadowlands

    ★★★★★ – So emotional, I couldn’t help but cry.

    Amanda Ryan as Joy Davidman and Stephen Boxer as C.S. Lewis in Shadowlands. Credit Jack Ladenburg

    Credit: Jack Ladenburg

    Last night was one of those nights where you sit there, and for the whole of the two hours you felt so lucky to be a theatre reviewer. I didn’t think theatre could touch a person that deep, in the way that William Nicholson’s Shadowlands undoubtedly did.

    “Shadowlands is based on events that occurred in the lives of two real people – C.S Lewis and Joy (Davidman) Gresham (…) I have used parts of their story, not used other parts, and imagined the rest.” – William Nicholson.

    ‘Jack’ Lewis and Joy Davidman were played by Stephen Boxer and Amanda Ryan respectively, and I will never see the two actors as themselves again. C.S Lewis and Joy were resurrected and put on stage for the audience of the 21st Century to see the marvel that his world was, and the imagination he had, through William Nicholson’s own genius take on Chronicles of Narnia legend’s life. The portrayal was too surreal to be called acting. For a week only, the two lives come alive and let us in to see the lives that lived in and around C.S Lewis’.

     

    Credit: Jack LadenburgCredit: Jack Ladenburg     

    The formidable writing of Nicholson astonishingly captivates C.S Lewis and you were reminded of Narnia, as the story was told. I particularly adored the moment in which Lewis sparked the notion of magic with young Douglas, who wanted to believe in it so bad. Having seen The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe at Christmas at the Birmingham Rep, I was gleefully pleased to see some features used for this. It made the experience so much more magical.

    It is rare not to be able to control your lacrimal glands in public, but this story pushed them out of you whether you liked it or not. And I wasn’t the only one, with sniffles and other crying-like noises surrounding me, the whole theatre could not help but give in to the emotions of the heart-breaking story. One couple were so engrossed that were constantly saying: “Oh dear” as the action darkened.

    The subliminal acting, combined with almost too-good-to-be-true storytelling by William Nicholson evoked emotions that could not help but escape the depths of the human soul. “The happiness now, is part of the pain then.” Said Joy when she was on holiday with Jack, as the dreaded end was near, which touched so many people.

    Other acting, from Denis Lill (Warnie), Simon Shackleton (Prf Christopher Riley) and all the others contributed to the fullness of the play, and created exquisite drama which helped bring to life the man who made so many of our childhoods magical and filled with wonder.

     

    Shadowlands plays at the Birmingham Repertory Theatre until 4 June.

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  • Denmark Removes Transgender From Mental Illness List

    Denmark has declassified transgender from its list of mental illnesses.

    The Danish Parliament has ushered in a historic victory in the struggle for transgender rights by today adopting a decision to no longer stigmatise transgender identities as mental disorders, said Amnesty International.

    Leda Avgousti, Amnesty’s Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity Advisor, said,

    “This very encouraging move from Denmark sets a strong example internationally towards destigmatising transgender people and paving the way for quick and transparent processes for legal gender recognition.

    “It is disgraceful that globally the norm is for transgender people to be placed under the category of mental disorders because of their gender identity. This label means that transgender people are forced to undergo traumatizing and humiliating psychiatric evaluations in order to legally change their gender or even to be able to access gender reassignment treatment.”

    The move positions Denmark as a frontrunner in improving transgender rights globally, as pressure is mounting on the World Health Organisation (WHO) to stop classifying transgender identity as a mental disorder in its International Classification of Disorders (ICD).

    The WHO is set to revise the ICD by 2018. Removing transgender identities from this classification of mental disorders would encourage countries worldwide to do the same.

    The decision in Denmark follows campaigning from Amnesty International and other human rights and lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex (LGBTI) organisations and activists.

     

    This article was from Amnesty International. It was not paid for.

  • Woah! Adam Lambert Just Showcased A Monster Beard

    Adam Lambert has showcased a new look – and it’s a lot more hairy that usual.

    Superstar Adam Lambert looks as though he’s about to build an ark. He shared a photo montage of what he’d look like with a lumberjack beard. Taking to Instagram the singer captioned the picture,

    “This edit is hilarious. So…. biblical!

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BGE5Kt8ONKU/?taken-by=adamlambert&hl=en

    The new look, created by @CreativeSharka has attracted a fair amount of commentary – with his Glamberts posting over 700 comments in just 3 hours. The picture has been liked over 19,000 times.

    Adam We LOVE IT… Although you have to make sure if you do get your chin hair on, you must get it cleaned daily!

  • NHS “Washed Its Hands” On Providing PrEP For Gay And Bisexual Community

    NHS England has come under intense criticism after it announced it was removing the anti-HIV drug known as PrEP from the official commissioning process.

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     CREDIT: tashatuvango-bigstock

    NHS England is facing a backlash from sexual health groups and HIV charities after it confirmed its decision to remove PrEP from the official NHS commissioning process, meaning that the anti-HIV drug will be inaccessible to people at risk of HIV.

    Both the National AIDS Trust (NAT) and the Terrence Higgins Trust (THT) blasted the decision. With the NAT saying it was considering further legal action against NHS England.

    PrEP is an HIV prevention drug, proven to be effective in stopping HIV transmission in almost every case if taken properly. The decision by NHS England not even to consider commissioning PrEP came after 18 months of hard work from an NHS working group (comprising clinicians and experts from across the HIV sector) which demonstrated the need, efficacy and cost-effectiveness of PrEP.

    Deborah Gold, Chief Executive, NAT, said,

    “NHS England is sitting on something that could be the beginning of the end for the HIV epidemic – if only it were made available.  The refusal to commission it for all those at significant risk is astonishing.   Seventeen people are being diagnosed with HIV every day. Weare extremely disappointed and we will now be looking at our options, including further legal action.”

    Terrence Higgins Trust called the decision “shameful” and said that NHS England had “washed its hands” of one of the most stunning breakthroughs in HIV prevention which disproportionately affects the gay and bisexual community in the UK.

    Ian Green, Chief Executive of Terrence Higgins Trust, said,

    “Today is a shameful day for HIV prevention. This country used to lead the way in the fight against the HIV epidemic, but today, our national health service has washed its hands of one of the most stunning breakthroughs we’ve seen; a pill which, if taken correctly, is almost 100% effective in preventing HIV.  A pill which is already available in America, Canada, France, Kenya and soon to be Australia.

    “How did it come to this? It defies belief that, after 18 months of false hope, delays and u-turns in the battle to see PrEP made available on the NHS to people at high risk of HIV, today we are in a worse position than when we started.

    “It is a mess, and the people who will feel the effects are the 2,500 men who have sex with men who will be needlessly infected with HIV each year in the UK. This figure has not changed in a decade. Who will claim responsibility for the life-long impact this will have on people’s lives?

    “It’s not right that people who know themselves to be at high risk of HIV have to buy PrEP themselves from the internet at considerable personal expense. Many high risk people are living in poverty and they simply cannot afford to protect themselves against HIV. Currently, only those who can afford it are able to access this life-changing treatment, further widening the inequality gap by those most affected by HIV.

    “The battle for PrEP must continue until the day that people at highest risk have access to this groundbreaking pill that will protect them from HIV.”

  • BREAKING: Lesbian Couple Are Found Guilty Of The Murder Of Two-Year-Old Son

    BREAKING: Lesbian Couple Are Found Guilty Of The Murder Of Two-Year-Old Son

    A same-sex couple have been found guilty of two-year-old Liam Fee’s murder in Fife.

    Two women from Ryton in Tyne And Wear, have been found guilty of the murder of Liam Fee, Rachel Fee’s two-year-old son who was found dead at their home in Glenrothes in Fife March 2014.

    The toddler died from blunt force trauma which caused his heart to rupture. The court heard that he also suffered numerous injuries including bone fractures.

    Rachel Fee, 31 and Nyomi Fee, 29 denied that they had murdered Liam, but were found guilty after a seven week trial at the High Court in Livingston.

    They were convicted of all eight charges that were brought against them by the Crown Prosecution Service in Scotland.

    They were also convicted of assaults against two other boys in their care.

    The couple maintained that Liam had received the injuries from another child – one of the boys they falsely accused of Liam’s murder.  He cannot be named for legal reasons.

    A jury found the two women guilty after 10 hours of deliberations.

    Detective Inspector Rory Hamilton, MIT East,  who led the investigation said,

    “This was a complex, challenging and sensitive investigation which involved interviewing two young children to establish the level of abuse and neglect both they and Liam Fee had been subjected to.

    “It was because of their courage that detectives were able to identify Rachel and Nyomi Fee as being responsible for a wide range of serious offences against three children.”

    Assistant Chief Constable Malcolm Graham, lead officer for Major Crime and Public Protection, said,

    “Liam’s murder has had a profound effect on everyone involved in the investigation and our thoughts are with his wider family.

    “The death of a child is always traumatic but the murder of a child has a terrible and lasting impact on the family, on the wider community and on the carers and professionals involved.

    “Police Scotland places the highest priority on protecting the most vulnerable, most at risk people in our communities and in investigating criminality when it does take place.