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  • HIV And Covid-19 | I’m living with HIV – is it safe for me to hook up with people?

    HIV And Covid-19 | I’m living with HIV – is it safe for me to hook up with people?

    Does social distancing also mean hookups? What about hooking up and having sex during the current situation, particularly if you’re living with HIV?

    Firstly we asked Doctor Earim Chaudry, the Medical Director at Manual, who told us that Covid-19 isn’t sexually transmitted, but the virus can still be transmitted by direct contact between two people, particularly through droplets from coughs and sneezes – it goes without saying, if you’re swapping saliva you’re at risk if the other person is positive for Covid-19.

    We also asked, leading HIV awareness activist, Philip Baldwin who told THEGAYUK.com, that there is no evidence to suggest that “HIV positive people are more vulnerable to Covid-19” or that people living with HIV would be more severely affected.

    However, he added, “HIV positive people, LGBTQ people and the population, in general, should aim to follow the Government’s guidance on social distancing and self-isolation.”

    He continued,

    “As we are not even supposed to be sitting or standing next to each other in restaurants or bars, I think it is a struggle to interpret the guidance as not prohibiting hooking up! However, the Government has currently only issued guidance. I suggest you follow it, for your own safety and that of others, but (at the moment) no laws have been passed to enforce it.

    “It is therefore not illegal to hook up with people. This could change. It could be the case that, as in other parts of the world, legislation will be passed enforcing curfews in the UK.

    “I urge you not to switch on your dating apps and start hooking up”

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    Philip went on to say, “It has to be noted that human beings are social creatures. We were not made to be stuck indoors for days, let alone months. Especially alone.

    “Sometimes we all crave intimacy or escapism, particularly in times of fear. However, I urge you not to switch on your dating apps and start hooking up. Society as a whole, including the LGBTQ community, needs to observe the emergency health measures.”

    If you’re living with HIV and you are concerned about the ability to get HIV medications during the current Covid-19 outbreak we’ve got some reassuring news for you. Click here to find out more

  • HIV and Covid-19: I’m worried about getting my meds if there’s a lockdown – what can I do?

    HIV and Covid-19: I’m worried about getting my meds if there’s a lockdown – what can I do?

    If you’re living with HIV and you are concerned about the ability to get HIV medications during the current Covid-19 outbreak we’ve got some reassuring news for you.

    THEGAYUK.com spoke to leading HIV awareness activist, Philip Baldwin, who told us that, “both the NHS and the British HIV Association have made it clear that everyone will be able to access their HIV medication”.

    He also recommended that people have at least 30 days worth of medication in case of a quarantine situation.

    He added, “Call your HIV clinic if you are worried and follow their advice. Listen to your healthcare professionals. You can also check your clinic’s website, which should have up-to-date information.”

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    If you’re unable to actually leave your house to collect medication Philip said,

    “Many people living with HIV receive their medication through Homecare (home delivery rather than collecting it from a pharmacy). Homecare will continue where patients are already registered. Do not panic and try to stockpile – the UK has more than adequate supplies as long as we remain sensible.”

    Feeling panicky, isolated or anxious during these uncertain times? We’ve created a resource page which has important phone numbers, articles and support groups listed. Click here to go there.

  • Do sexual health clinics use Penis Swabs, as they show on E4’s The Sex Clinic?

    Do sexual health clinics use Penis Swabs, as they show on E4’s The Sex Clinic?

    Channel 4 might be doing STI clinics a disservice when it comes to patient fears about what might happen to them when they go in for a sexual health checkup on their show, The Sex Clinic.

    Although The Sex Clinic is widely praised for the work that it does in educating us all about the importance of testing for sexually transmitted infections, there’s one thing that it shows, that isn’t quite right.

    The sexual health charity, Saving Lives took to Twitter to calm the fears of any guys out there worrying that a penis swab (that’s where they stick a swab down your pee hole) will be taken for testing and it turns out that the swabs that happen on the programme are actually done to fit in with the TV format, rather than refecting what actually happens.

    They wrote,

    We know we say this every week but: The penis swabs used on #TheSexClinic are NOT standard practice for routine STI screening in UK sexual health clinics. Usually, we just ask for a urine sample. The swabs are used on the show to give rapid results to fit the TV show format.

    So there you go, don’t fret. Go for a check-up. If you’re there for a regular and routine check-up it’s very unlikely you’ll have to even show the doctor or nurse your dick.

    Phew… right?

  • When is International Non-Binary Day in 2020?

    When is International Non-Binary Day in 2020?

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    International Non-Binary Day is an annual day to celebrate and bring visibility to people who are non-binary in the LGBT+ community. It is a relatively new awareness day in the LGBT+ calendar.

    In 2020 International Non-Binary Day takes place on the 14th July 2020 and is observed all over the world.

    The International Non-Binary day was first celebrated in 2012. It takes place on this day because it is, precisely midpoint from International Women’s Day and International Men’s Day.

    What are the colours of the Non-Binary flag?

    The Non Binary flag consist of 4 colours in horizontal stripes. Yellow, White Purple and Black.

    Can you buy non-binary jewellery or gifts?

    Yes, there are many stores which have gifts which have the non-binary colours assigned to them. Check out the amazing non-binary gift and jewellery range from our partner site, The Pride Shop.

    To find out other days in the LGBT+ calendar click here.

  • When is Pride Month in the UK in 2020?

    When is Pride Month in the UK in 2020?

    Pride season in the UK starts around April and continues right through to September, so is there an actual “Pride Month”?

    When is Pride Month in the UK?

    Officially Pride Month is in June in 2020.

    Pride Month stemmed from the US, which has been adopted more widely across the world, but in reality, there are many Pride months across the globe. For instance, Sydney Mardi Gras, Australia’s biggest pride takes place in February (although they do have a Pride festival in June) and here in the UK, there isn’t such thing as one month for Pride.

    In the US most prides happen in the month of June to coincide with the anniversary of the 1969 Stonewall Riots, in the UK however things are a little more spread out with more and more county, city and town prides becoming available.

    There are over 150 pride events in the UK alone and they start in Feb with the last (outside Winter Pride) in September. So Pride month in the UK is better described as Pride Half Year!

    In 2019 the town of Llanelli in South Wales celebrated it’s first pride.

    Want to know more about prides, see our entire collection of Pride articles here. Want to shop for Pride Merchandise, visit our partner retailer, THE PRIDE SHOP.

  • What is Netflix’s Sex Education about?

    What is Netflix’s Sex Education about?

    Sex Education is about Otis Milburn, a socially awkward high school student who lives with his sex therapist mother, Jean.

    In season 1 Otis and his friend Maeve Wiley set-up a sex clinic at school to capitalise on his intuitive talent for sex advice.

    In season 2, as a late bloomer, Otis must master his newly discovered sexual urges in order to progress with his girlfriend Ola whilst also dealing with his now strained relationship with Maeve.

    Meanwhile, Moordale Secondary is in the throes of a Chlamydia outbreak, highlighting the need for better sex education at the school and new kids come to town who will challenge the status quo.

    Maeve and Aimee’s BFF relationship is stronger than ever since Aimee ditched ‘the Untouchables’. 

    Eric notices his new-found self-confidence attracting unfamiliar kinds of attention.

    Adam is at military school, still conflicted by his feelings for Eric.

    Lily has hit pause on her sexual endeavours to focus on her creative talents and finds a newfound friend in Ola. 

    Jackson is forced to flex his mental rather than physical muscle and is still buckling under the pressure from his parents to succeed. 

    Jean and Jakob’s relationship is discovered and they have to learn how to operate as a blended family. Jean forms an unlikely connection with Mrs Groff and a friendship between the two women begins to form.

    When does the new season of Sex Education start on Netflix?

    The good news is that it has already started!

    Sex Education will return to Netflix with 8 brand new episodes in 2020.

    The series is written and created by Laurie Nunn and produced by Eleven. Season 2 is directed by Ben Taylor, Alice Seabright and Sophie Goodhart. Jamie Campbell, Laurie Nunn and Ben Taylor are also Executive Producers on the series.

    Who stars in Sex Education on Netflix?


    The series stars Asa Butterfield (Ender’s Game, Hugo), Gillian Anderson (The Crown, The Fall), Emma Mackey (The Winter Lake, Eiffel, Death on the Nile), Ncuti Gatwa (Stonemouth, The Last Letter From My Lover), Connor Swindells (The Vanishing, VS), Aimee Lou Wood (Louis Wain), Kedar Williams-Stirling (Will, Roots, Wolfblood), Chaneil Kular (Informer), Simone Ashley (Broadchurch), Mimi Keene (Tolkien, Close), Tanya Reynolds (Emma, Delicious), Mikael Persbrandt (Invisible Heroes, The Girl in the Spider’s Web, The Hobbit, King Arthur), Patricia Allison (Les Miserables, Moving On), Jim Howick (Broadchurch), Rakhee Thakrar (Four Weddings and a Funeral), Samantha Spiro (Game of Thrones, Tracey Ullman’s Show, Babs, Doctor Who), James Purefoy (Rome, Altered Carbon) and Alistair Petrie (Deep State, Rogue One, Night Manager).

  • When is Lesbian Visibility Day in 2020?

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    Lesbian Visibility Day is an annual day to celebrate and bring visibility to lesbians in the LGBT+ community. There is also the International Lesbian Day, which has been observed since the 1990s.

    In 2020 Lesbian Visibility Day takes place on the 26th of April.

    Lesbian Visibility Day was first observed in 2008 and was created to ensure the visibility of the lesbian community.

    What are the colours of the Pansexual Pride flag?

    There are, in fact, two lesbian flags. One is know as the Labrys flag, which features a battle-axe on a dark purple background. The other is what is considered the standard lesbian flag which consists of six shades of red and pink colours and a white bar in the centre. Sometimes it has a lipstick mark in the corner denoting that the holder is a “lipstick lesbian”.

    Can you buy lesbian jewellery or gifts?

    Yes, there are many stores which have gifts which have the lesbian colours assigned to them. Check out the amazing lesbian gift and jewellery range from our partner site, The Pride Shop.

    To find out other days in the LGBT+ calendar click here.

  • Is Paul Burrell gay?

    Is Paul Burrell gay?

    He’s probably the most famous butler in the UK (outside of Downton Abbey, of course!

    Yes, Paul Burrell is gay. He came out in 2017 after separating from his wife of 32 years. The couple has two sons together, Alexander and Nicholas.

    Paul, who was most famous for being the butler of Princess Diana at the time of her death in 1997 is now famous for his reality TV stints as well as being a spokesperson on all matters Royal.

    He has released a number of books of his time as a staff member for the royals and has sold over 2 million books. He has also appeared on I’m A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here and Celebrity Big Brother.

  • When is Pansexual Awareness Day in 2020?

    When is Pansexual Awareness Day in 2020?

    The Pansexual Awareness Day, also known as Pan (Pansexual and Panromantic) Visibility Day is an important part of the LGBT+ calendar and it takes place, annually at the end of May.

    In 2020 Pansexual Awareness Day takes place on the 24th of May.

    Pansexual Awareness Day was first observed in 2015 and was created to ensure the visibility of the pansexual community.

    What are the colours of the Pansexual Pride flag?

    The pansexual flag was designed sometime in the mid-2010s. The designer is unknown. It is comprised of three coloured horizontal stripes, from top to bottom: Pink, Yellow and Cyan.

    Can you buy pansexual jewellery or gifts?

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    Yes, there are many stores which have gifts which have the pansexual colours assigned to them. Check out the amazing pansexual gift and jewellery range from our partner site, The Pride Shop.

    To find out other days in the LGBT+ calendar click here.

  • When is Bisexual Awareness Month 2020?

    When is Bisexual Awareness Month 2020?

    Bisexual Awareness Month is the first of three major events celebrating the bisexual community. There is also Celebrate Bisexuality Day and Bisexual Awareness Week.

    Bisexual Awareness Month is always celebrated in March, just after the UK’s LGBT History Month and was created in 2014 to bring attention to the health and well being of the bi community.

    Bisexual Awareness Month is more of a health awareness month for the bi community was first observed in 2014, by the Bisexual Resource Center in the US. Bisexual Health Awareness Month, also known as #BiHealthMonth is “a social media campaign dedicated to raising awareness about the bisexual+ community’s social, economic, and health disparities, advocating for resources, and inspiring actions to improve bi+ people’s well-being”.

    What are the colours of the Bisexual Pride flag?

    The bisexual flag was designed by a team headed by Michael Page in 1998. It is comprised of three coloured horizontal stripes, from top to bottom: Pink, Purple, Blue.

    Can you buy bisexual jewellery or gifts?

    Yes, there are many stores which have gifts which have the bisexual colours assigned to them. Check out the amazing bisexual gift and jewellery range from our partner site, The Pride Shop.

    To find out other days in the LGBT+ calendar click here.

  • When is Asexual Awareness week in 2020?

    When is Asexual Awareness week in 2020?

    The Asexual Awareness week is an important part of the LGBT+ calendar and it takes place in October.

    Asexual Awareness Week was first celebrated in 2010 and aims to bring awareness to asexual or Ace people in the LGBT+ community. It was founded to support and celebrate asexuality and gray asexuality by Asexual advocate Sara Beth Brooks in 2010.

    In 2020 Asexual Awareness Week takes place on the last full week of October, meaning it will take place between 25th to the 31st of October (Sunday to Saturday)

    What are the colours of the Asexual Pride flag?

    The asexual pride flag consists of (from top to bottom) a black, grey, white and purple stripe. It was designed by an AVEN user named, “standup”, and first posted at 4:36 PM on June 30th, 2010.

    Can you buy asexual jewellery or gifts?

    Yes, there are many stores which have gifts which have the asexual colours assigned to them. Check out the amazing asexual gift and jewellery range from our partner site, The Pride Shop.

    To find out other days in the LGBT+ calendar click here.