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  • What does pansexuality mean? Who is pansexual?

    What does pansexuality mean? Who is pansexual?

    Pansexuals are all about “Hearts not parts”

    Pansexuality, might not be on your radar as much as homosexuality or bisexuality, but it’s all-inclusive nature has got people falling in love with the sexual and romantic orientation that is pansexuality – which is, essentially hearts, not parts – you fall in love and lust with the heart of someone, not just their biological sex or gender expression.

    We asked readers for their best description, here’s what one person told us

    “As a 21-year-old pansexual male, I found that there was a lot of stigma that went with being pansexual and many people don’t understand/know what it means.

    “To me, it’s different for different people, I personally think that in my eyes, gender/sexual-orientation does not count towards anything in the way of attraction and in the way of love. I believe that you fall in love with the person and not their genitals or what gender they are attracted to.

    “I have dated various genders, various people with different sexual orientations and yes they have been very different partners and have been very different relationships however the one thing that is, all the same, is the feelings towards that person. The spark that I have felt towards each individual person and that feeling was not towards there genitals, it was towards them as people.

    “My opinion of pansexuality is love.

    What does pansexual and pansexuality mean?

    Another user, Alex, told us,

    “Love without gender, connection without exclusion, and plenty of fish in the sea”

    and another, Eggy, wrote,

    “sexual attraction regardless of gender”

    Want to add your thoughts? Use the comment box below.


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  • It’s Deaf Awareness Week, so here’s how you can say, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender in Sign Language

    It’s Deaf Awareness Week, so here’s how you can say, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender in Sign Language

    This week (4th May – 10th May) it’s Deaf Awareness week in the UK. So here’s how you say some important LGBT+ terms in British Sign Language.

    A few years ago, Deaf Direct produced a video, just before Pride season, which included various British Sign Language signs to help everybody get to grasp with a few LGBT+ terms.

    The video was created by Deaf Direct to “celebrate the diversity of our community”.

    If you’ve ever wanted to know how to sign the words lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or queer, this simple video helps you say those words perfectly.

    William and Simon, who both appear in the video explain that in the UK we use BSL – rather than ASL (American Sign Language) and they take us through the gestures you need to make to say, in BSL, a few terms which identify LGBT+ folks.

    The words they recreate are:

    Lesbian

    Gay

    Bisexual

    Transgender

    Queer

    Straight

    Leather

    Bear

    Drag

    Pride Day

    Happy Pride Day

    Fabulous

    So go learn how to say Happy Pride Day you Fabulous Queers

  • When is Pride Month in the UK in 2020?

    When is Pride Month in the UK in 2020?

    Pride season in the UK starts around April and continues right through to September, so is there an actual “Pride Month”?

    When is Pride Month in the UK?

    Officially Pride Month is in June in 2020.

    Pride Month stemmed from the US, which has been adopted more widely across the world, but in reality, there are many Pride months across the globe. For instance, Sydney Mardi Gras, Australia’s biggest pride takes place in February (although they do have a Pride festival in June) and here in the UK, there isn’t such thing as one month for Pride.

    In the US most prides happen in the month of June to coincide with the anniversary of the 1969 Stonewall Riots, in the UK however things are a little more spread out with more and more county, city and town prides becoming available.

    There are over 150 pride events in the UK alone and they start in Feb with the last (outside Winter Pride) in September. So Pride month in the UK is better described as Pride Half Year!

    In 2019 the town of Llanelli in South Wales celebrated it’s first pride.

    Want to know more about prides, see our entire collection of Pride articles here. Want to shop for Pride Merchandise, visit our partner retailer, THE PRIDE SHOP.

  • When is Pride Month in the UK?

    When is Pride Month in the UK?

    Across the world, June has become known as Pride month, but is June Pride Month in the UK?

    When is Pride Month in the UK?

    Pride Month stemmed from the US, which has been adopted more widely across the world, but in reality, there are many Pride months across the globe. For instance, Sydney Mardi Gras, Australia’s biggest pride takes place in February (although they do have a Pride festival in June) and here in the UK, there isn’t such thing as one month for Pride.

    In the US most prides happen in the month of June to coincide with the anniversary of the 1969 Stonewall Riots, in the UK however things are a little more spread out with more and more county, city and town prides becoming available.

    There are over 150 pride events in the UK alone and they start in Feb with the last (outside Winter Pride) in September. So Pride month in the UK is better described as Pride Half Year!

    Want to know more about prides, see our entire collection of Pride articles here. Want to shop for Pride Merchandise, visit our partner retailer, THE PRIDE SHOP.

  • Who are the cameos in Taylor Swift’s You Need To Calm Down

    This year’s epic PRIDE anthem has been released -and its come from Taylor Swift, in the form of You Need To Calm Down.

    If you’ve not yet seen the video, you have to, right now… STAT. It has already gained 18 million views in less than 24 hours. It might also be the most epic music video of all time, with over 20 famous faces, including Taylor’s pop rival, Katy Perry.

    Here’s everybody who stars in the ‘You Need To Calm Down’ video, which of course was created along with Todrick Hall.

    The video stars a host of RuPaul Drag Queens – and the Mumma herself, RuPaul.

    Featuring appearances by (in alphabetical order):

    A’keria Davenport (RuPaul’s Drag Race)

    Adam Lambert (Singer)

    Adam Rippon (Sports star)

    Adore Delano (RuPaul’s Drag Race)

    Antoni Porowski (Queer Eye)

    Billy Porter (Actor, Singer)

    Bobby Berk (Queer Eye)

    Chester Lockhart (Recording artist)

    Ciara (Singer)

    Delta Work (RuPaul’s Drag Race)

    Dexter Mayfield (Plus size model advocate)

    Ellen Degeneres (X – Men)

    Hannah Hart (Internet star)

    Hayley Kiyoko (Singer)

    Jade Jolie (Taylor Swift lookie-like)

    Jesse Tyler Ferguson (Modern Family)

    Jonathan Van Ness (Queer Eye)

    Justin Mikita (Lawyer, husband of Jesse Tyler Ferguson)

    Karamo Brown (The Real World)

    Katy Perry (Singer)

    Laverne Cox (Orange Is The New Black)

    Riley Knoxx (Drag Queen and Beyonce impersonator)

    Rupaul (RuPaul’s Drag Race)

    Ryan Reynolds (Film star)

    Tan France (Queer Eye)

    Tatianna (RuPaul’s Drag Race)

    Todrick Hall (Actor, singer)

    Trinity K Bonet (RuPaul’s Drag Race)

    Trinity Taylor (RuPaul’s Drag Race)

  • Is Jazon Mraz gay, bisexual or straight?

    Is Jazon Mraz gay, bisexual or straight?

    So what do we know about Jason Mraz’s love life?

    Of course, in this day and age does sexuality really matter? But in the spirit of visibility in the LGBT community, yes, US singer Jason Mraz does identify as part of the LGBT+ community.

    In 2018 Jason Mraz came out as bisexual in an interview with the New York Post, although many people suspected he was LGBT+ when in June 2018 he penned a “love letter” to the LGBT+ community. In an interview with Billboard, Mraz even admitted that he had experiences with men.

    In his interview with the NYP Mraz said that his hidden bisexuality was a “very stressful secret”.

    Speaking about how everything unfolded in the summer of 2018, he revealed, “I didn’t anticipate it. It kind of caught me by surprise, but I strive to continue to learn and grow and evolve and know myself.

    “It was tough, ’cause not even my mom knew it, you know?” says Mraz. “And I realized that’s the struggle that people in the LGBT community have. It can be a very stressful secret that we carry.”

     

     

     

  • Everything you need to know about Eurovision

    Everything you need to know about Eurovision

    With Eurovision just around the corner, we thought we’ve delve into the whys, hows and whens of the world’s biggest music competition.

    What is Eurovision about?

    In Eurovision, more than 40 countries compete to win votes for the best song! When the competition first started in 1956, it was exclusive to European countries and only seven nations participated. Since then, the rules have relaxed – so much so that even Australia is in.

    Today Eurovision is far from being just a song contest. It’s about music but it’s equally about putting on a show and creating a buzz. Among Eurovision winners is, for example, a group of monsters.

    How many people tune in… and why?

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    Eurovision is considered one of the world’s longest running and most-watched reality television franchises, attracting up to 600 million viewers every year. In the last two decades, it has consistently ranked among the most-watched live entertainment TV broadcasts worldwide, outside of sporting events. The Super Bowl is peanuts compared to Eurovision!

    It’s hard to say why Eurovision is so popular. It has a strong fan base but most viewers are passionate about it only once a year, and some just love to hate it. William Lee Adams, a Eurovision blogger and YouTuber, describes Eurovision as a combination of “figure skating, beauty pageants, and singing competitions”. What’s not to love!

    Who decides the winner of Eurovision?

    The participating countries. For years, each country ranked other countries’ performances awarding them points from 1 to 12, excluding 9 and 11. Each country still awards the same number of points, but two sets of them; one from a national jury and the other from national televoting. So the top points can be anything between 12 and 24 points.

    This all happens live, and if you have no idea how the voting works, then it’s like watching a lecture on nuclear physics. On top of that, the voting takes place when it’s way past bedtime (if you watch it in Russia anyway).

    Has anyone famous ever won Eurovision?

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    Yes; but they weren’t particularly well known when they did. ABBA won in 1974 with “Waterloo” and made their international breakthrough shortly after. Few people know that the group had released “Ring Ring” a year before – they were never chosen to represent Sweden in Eurovision with the song but they did top the charts across Europe and South Africa.

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    Céline Dion won Eurovision with “Ne partez pas sans moi”, representing Switzerland in 1988, although she is Canadian. Anyone can represent any country in Eurovision, and anyone can write the song, regardless of their nationality.

    Which country has won Eurovision the most?

    Ireland has won Eurovision seven times which is more than any other country, but looking at the distribution of ‘maximum points’ votes instead of wins, the UK’s entries have been the most successful in the song contest’s final history.

    According to Casumo’s findings, however, things might be about to change. Sweden is a close second for both the number of wins and distribution of ‘maximum points’ votes. Given the Scandinavian country’s recent strong track record – 10 top 5 positions since 2000 – Ireland and the UK have no reason to be complacent.

    Do countries favour each other?

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    Oh yes. This is why the European Broadcasting Union introduced national juries to balance the results from televoting in each country. Some people argue that the juries are just as corrupt as televoting, which is influenced not only by sympathies and shared cultural ties between countries, but also the movement of people from one country to another. There is, for example, a significant Greek population in Cyprus and Finnish population in Sweden.

    Casumo found out which countries have given their ‘maximum points’ vote to the same country the most frequently over the years. Number one was Cyprus, who gave a ‘maximum points’ vote to Greece as many as 22 times (37% of the time the country has been eligible to vote Greece).

    Who’s the favourite to win this year?

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    Currently, Duncan Laurence of the Netherlands is considered a frontrunner, but Russia’s Sergey Lazarev and Italy’s Mahmood follow close behind – all quite conventional pop tunes. One thing to keep an eye on is who each country gives their ‘maximum points’ vote to. The UK has backed the eventual competition winner by awarding them the ‘maximum points’ vote on 25 occasions. Latvia and Australia have backed the winner most regularly – in 50% of the finals they’ve been eligible to vote in.

    Romania and Azerbaijan, however, have never guessed the winner correctly…

    Who organises the event, and why is it in Israel this year?

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    The contest is organised by the national public broadcaster of the country that won the year before. Last year Israel’s Netta Barzilai won, so Israel is this year’s host nation. The European Broadcasting Union supports and supervises the work of the host broadcaster, so the contest looks pretty much the same every year: big, shiny and extravagant.

    In the 1990s, Ireland hosted Eurovision four times in just five years. What the nation lost in organising costs, it certainly gained in visibility!

  • Who is Judge Rinder’s Partner, is he married?

    Who is Judge Rinder’s Partner, is he married?

    Judge Rinder has become a bit of a daytime legend… but there’s something the folks at home want to know about him… who is his partner and is he married?

    Is Judge Rinder married?

    Is Judge Rinder gay?

    Yes, Robert Rinder, the star of ITV’s daytime courtroom show Judge Rinder is in fact gay. He married his partner Seth Cumming, a political adviser to former Chancellor, turned Evening Standard editor George Osborne, in a beautiful ceremony in Ibiza in July 2013. The ceremony was officiated by his friend and actor Benedict Cumberbatch at the stunning location. The couple were married for over four years before they parted ways in 2018.

     

    His business buddy and former GAYUK cover star Ivan Massow was at the wedding who shared these pictures of Robert and Seth getting married. Actor Benedict Cumberbatch, who is a legally ordained minister can be seen taking control of the cliff top ceremony which took place at the Hacienda Hotel on the sunny party island of Ibiza.

     

     

    Divorced

    Sadly the pair split in 2018 after 4 years of marriage, although the couple were together for 11 years in total. They announced their split in January 2018. No third parties are believed to be involved in the “amicable” split.

  • Did Karl Lagerfeld have a boyfriend or girlfriend?

    Did Karl Lagerfeld have a boyfriend or girlfriend?

    Karl Lagerfeld was undeniably one of the kings of fashion until his death in 2019, did he have a boyfriend? Was he ever married?

    Did Karl Lagerfeld have a boyfriend, girlfriend or partner?
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    Karl Lagerfeld never officially came out as gay or bisexual, but was apparently in a relationship with socialite Jacques de Bascher, until Jacques’ death in 1989 from complications from AIDS. Jacques was just 38-year-old when he died.

    Interestly Jacque was reportedly also involved with the fashion designer Yves Saint Laurent in 1973, during the time in which he was together with Lagerfeld.

    Both Lagerfeld’s mother and Jacque are buried in a chapel which is in the grounds of a home that Lagerfeld owned, although Lagerfeld reportedly stopped going there after their deaths. He sold the home in 2000.

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    Karl and Jacques had a very close relationship from the early 70s and were intimate for well over a decade.

    The couple were never married, same-sex marriage was illegal in France until 2013.

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    Rather strangely Lagerfeld did say that he once wanted to marry his cat if it were legal. The cat was named Choupette.

    In the past, the designer admitted employing the services of “high-class” escorts in an interview with Vice Magazine. He also said that admired porn actors.

    Against gay marriage?

    In the interview he also said he was against gay marriage saying, “I’m against it for a very simple reason: In the 60s they all said we had the right to the difference. And now, suddenly, they want a bourgeois life.

    ‘”When I was a child I asked my mother what homosexuality was about and she said – and this was 100 years ago in Germany and she was very open-minded – ‘It’s like hair colour. It’s nothing. Some people are blond and some people have dark hair. It’s not a subject.’ This was a very healthy attitude”.

    However Lagerfeld changed his views over time and even dedicated a catway show to same-sex marriage.

  • Was Karl Lagerfeld gay, married, bisexual?

    Was Karl Lagerfeld gay, married, bisexual?

    Karl Lagerfeld was undeniably one of the kings of fashion until his death in 2019, but who was he romantically involved with?

    Was Karl Lagerfeld gay?
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    Karl Lagerfeld never officially came out as gay or bisexual, but was apparently in a relationship with socialite Jacques de Bascher, until Jacques’ death in 1989 from complications from AIDS.

    Both his mother and Jacque are buried in a chapel which is in the grounds of a home that Lagerfeld owned, although Lagerfeld reportedly stopped going there after their deaths. He sold the home in 2000.

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    Karl and Jacques had a very close relationship from the early 70s and were intimate for well over a decade.

    The couple were never married, same-sex marriage was illegal in France until 2013.

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    Rather strangely Lagerfeld did say that he once wanted to marry his cat if it were legal. The cat was named Choupette.

    In the past, the designer admitted employing the services of “high-class” escorts in an interview with Vice Magazine. He also said that admired porn actors.

    Against gay marriage?

    In the interview he also said he was against gay marriage saying, “I’m against it for a very simple reason: In the 60s they all said we had the right to the difference. And now, suddenly, they want a bourgeois life.

    ‘”When I was a child I asked my mother what homosexuality was about and she said – and this was 100 years ago in Germany and she was very open-minded – ‘It’s like hair colour. It’s nothing. Some people are blond and some people have dark hair. It’s not a subject.’ This was a very healthy attitude”.

  • Are the cast of The Birdcage still alive?

    Are the cast of The Birdcage still alive?

    It’s been over twenty years since the hit camp comedy The Birdcage was released but what has happened to the cast now?

    Where are the cast of The Birdcage now?
    Where is the cast of The Birdcage now?

    Robin Williams – Armand Goldman

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    Sadly Robin Williams lost his life in 2014 when he took his own life. He was one of the world’s most loved actors and had a slew of box office-busting credits to his name, the majority of these were in the 90s. In total, his films have grossed over $3.2 billion in receipts, making him one of the top 20 highest grossing actors of all time. His two biggest films are Mrs Doubtfire and the Disney smash, Aladdin.

    Nathan Lane – Albert Goldman

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    Nathan Lane‘s first film credit is for the 1987 film, Ironweed. He worked a number of smaller roles (with the exception of his voice work on Disney’s Lion King) until The Birdcage catapulted him into the big players in Hollywood. He is known for his voice work as much as his acting becoming the voice of the much-loved Pumbaa for The Lion King, he’s also voiced the films Stuart Little and Astro Boy. More recently appeared in the Vanishing of Sidney Hall, which had a limited release in the US in early 2018.

    Dan Futterman – Val Goldman

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    The on-screen son of Armand and Albert went on to write the screenplay for Capote in 2005, which garnered him an Oscar for Best Motion of the year. He also starred in Will And Grace in 2003. Most recently he’s written and produced for the Amazon Prime TV show, The Looming Tower.

    Dianne West – Louise Keeley

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    Dianne has had a steady career since the blockbuster The Birdcage, but nothing that tops the box office numbers for the comedy. Currently, she’s in the CBS / Amazon Prime comedy, Life In Pieces. She won two Primetime Emmy Awards for her work in television.

    Gene Hackman – Sen. Kevin Keeley

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    Gene retired from acting in 2004. Instead, he focused on writing novels. He has written three historical fiction novels: Wake of the Perdido Star (1999), Justice for None (2004) and Escape from Andersonville (2008). He also wrote Payback at Morning Peak, was released in 2011 and his most recent was Pursuit, in 2013.

    Calista Flockhart – Barbara Keely

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    After the Birdcage, Calista became a huge star, thanks to her playing the lead and title part of Ally McBeal in the late 90s and early noughties. She starred in 112 episodes of the juggernaut show. She then went on to star in 110 episodes of Brothers and Sisters. In terms of film, The Birdcage is by far her biggest grossing movie.

    Hank Azaria – Agador

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    Who can forget the amazing Agador “these shoes make me fall down” Spartacus? Hank is probably most famous for his voice work on The Simpsons. He plays Moe the bartender, Comic book guy, Superintendent Chalmers, Disco Stu, Apu, Chief Wiggum, and Doctor Nick Rivera. In total, he’s played 32 characters on the long-running cartoon. However, he does crop up in smaller roles in films and starred in the 2014 TV series – Huff, which is definitely worth a watch.

    Christine Baranski – Katherine Archer

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    Christine is a huge TV star in her own right. She’s appeared in hits like: Cybill, The Good Wife and now The Good Fight. In terms of films, some of her biggest hitters include, Mamma Mia! Chicago and the musical Into The Woods.

    Mike Nichols – Director

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    Mike died in 2014 a heart attack at the age of 83. In his long and distinguished career, he directed Who’s Afraid Of Virginia Woolf, The Graduate, Angels In America. His last film was 2007’s Charlie Wilson’s War.