What’s it like to have a doctor check your balls for lumps?
Oh no; not a third bollock! I had found a lump! Nothing significant but it was a lump on my right testicle. I had woken one morning stretching, raking, scratching, […]
COLUMN | The time my friend used his private ambulance as a “cottage”
Got a stiffe? In the 1980s I knew a man who had an entirely respectable occupation in the funeral trade. He was a driver/bearer, drove the hearse and carried the […]
Why do straight guys ask this question when you come out to them?
No… we don’t fancy you At some time many of us will be one of a group of mates, whether at school, college, work, in military service or member of […]
What’s it like to go to BDSM dinner party?
It comes around every year, announced by the crashing onto the doormat in the hallway, abound (well it would be) invitation to the Mid Devon BDSM Dinner and dance. I […]
COLUMN | I got knocked down, but I got up again
It is my birthday today. I am 55. I thought I would share with you why I have started to write. My dad died in the summer this year. He […]
COLUMN | Boys will be boys even when they are men
From cave man drawings to the selfie… Since man was a cave dweller and drawing on walls he has had a fascination with his penis and images of it. It […]
COLUMN | The media needs to stop reporting on historic homophobic Tweets
Sticks and Stones… may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. Somehow this just does not ring true anymore. I find myself wanting to tell the media to […]
21 Things I learned about me having sex in my 20s
In my 20s I still had no sexual experience. This was not a lesson learned at school but with anonymous partners in public places. The danger of getting caught was […]
COLUMN | Know ourselves: LGBT+ rights should be covered in the school curriculum
I am discrete about my sexuality because it is my choice. I don’t have to be as I live in the UK and have been openly gay in the past. […]
THE KNEE JERK | MILD instead of MILF
MILD: Men I‘d Like to Do! That is the collective term. There is the singular where the word men is replaced with man. Just makes it safe in the street for […]
COLUMN | The time I fell for my sister’s boyfriend…
I was 18 and going to be 19 in a few months. The legal age for sexual acts between men at this time was 21. Having moved away for 2 […]