THE UNDATEABLE GAY | Catches Crabs
Once upon a time dear readers, I did actually have a boyfriend. I know it’s hard to believe considering I’ve been single and seemingly undateable for over a decade. But […]
OPINION | Is it time to revisit Gay Labels?
Gay labels are ubiquitous, and some would argue that we don’t need them and even that they’re harmful. I’m talking about labels such as Daddy, bear, jock, twink etc. I […]
COMMENT | India Willoughby: Attention seeking or something more?
So we have yet another ‘celebrity’ making noises about the world of LGBT. Except for this time, in a slight change of pace, it’s from one of our own. India Willoughby […]
COMMENT | India Willoughby is “undoing the good” of those that have gone before her
So India Willoughby really has been making tidal waves on social media of late hasn’t she? I for one will never understand her. She is out there, in full view […]
Body shaming: Do you even know what it is?
Recently you may have seen me talking more and more about the culture of body shaming in the media and the wider gay community. I started talking about it because […]
COLUMN | Sleaze please
Once upon a time in the 1990s when AIDS and HIV were still at their most prevalent and unchecked there was funding for the role of “safer sex fairy!” in […]
COLUMN | Thoughts on and a Christmas message from an old queen
What is it about this time of year? A never-ending procession of lists, the good, the bad, the best, the worse, achievements, failures, the dead! Christmas is a time to […]
Should the word “faggot” be removed from Fairytale of New York?
And the bells are ringing out… Every year it becomes a talking point amongst some in the gay community, but are the lyrics to “Fairytale of New York” offensive? We […]
COLUMN | When all I needed was a Hand Shandy
Why can’t I concentrate today? My browser crashed and I deleted all of my passwords and all of my history. So much porn lost to posterity. I doubt I have […]
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COLUMN | Memories and Music
This afternoon was spent with friends and taking time going through the treasures that are so important in my life. My friends are those who don’t answer back. They are […]