So we know about ghosting and we know how to spot a fuckboy, what happens when you put the two together, well, you get something truly hellish. Welcome to Zombie-ing.
Ghosting is where a guy you’ve been chatting to on an app, or even have hooked up with, simply doesn’t return your messages or calls. Not even a tag… After a while, you think to yourself, ‘hmm, okay, it’s done and dusted, it’s time to move on’ – good for you, but with Zombie-ing that bastard, comes back to life, without warning and starts sliding into your DMs, phoning, texting, or Grindr messages you like he was never away.
There you are, watching the latest series of The Crown, yep, we see you Crown Queens, on Netflix, when ping, a DM comes in from a guy you hooked up with before the Coronavirus stopped our collective dating / hook up life back in March… Except as soon as lockdown came into force, he stopped messaging you completely. Yep, he ghosted you. Now months on. He’s back. Like a zombie out of The Walking Dead and he’s wanting your boy brains (okay that metaphor doesn’t work).
So what’s the difference between a Ghost and a Zombie?
Well, according to Cosmo a Zombie is kind of like an upgrade (or actual downgrade depending on your view) from a ghost. Gabi Conti writes, “Ghosting is when someone vanishes and you never hear from them. A true ghost will never reach out to you again in any form. If they do, then congrats: Your ghost has just upgraded themselves into a zombie.”
Why are guys Zombie-ing?
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Well, we going out on a limb here and going to say that Zombie-ing is happening because he’s bored AF or has run out of other guys willing to put up with his shit. With lockdowns in place all over the world, guys will be finding willing sex partners limiting, so maybe he’s going back over his old flings and seeing who will reconnect.
So should you reconnect with a Zombie?
Well, man, that’s totally up to you, but first, what are you going to get out of this reconnection? You really gotta put yourself first. Even if the D was really, really good.
You should consider what happened in your relationship before he first ghosted you and then remember how pissed you were with him when he did that. Remember that? Yeah, so not cool.
Remember apologies are just words and its actions that really speak, so if he really wants to get back in your good books, make him prove it.
If you’re cool with just a hookup or a booty call (once lockdown is over) then go for it, you’ve got nothing to lose.
Post-pandemic, many of us have found ourselves feeling more lonely than we ever have. Sure, we may have more ways to connect than ever before, but let’s face it, Grindr chats and Zoom meetings can only go so far.
A recent survey of 2000 adults conducted by Santander UK showed that around a fifth of people are feeling increasingly isolated during the pandemic. While 14% of people worry that they have lost friends forever due to not being able to meet with them.
Currently, a fifth of the population live alone and 38 per cent currently feel lonely – 14 per cent more than those who reside with someone else.
Being LGBT+ can also exacerbate loneliness issues, with many feeling that they already live on the periphery of society, so a question posed recently on Reddit revealed how some gay guys are dealing with their loneliness.
Passing the time with entertainment
If I’m feeling lonely I read books. TONS OF BOOKS. It puts me in the characters lives and it usually makes me feel better. VIA
Another added,
I tend to throw myself at hobbies. Biggest one right now is reading but I also build models. Another big one is art. I’ve been challenging myself to draw dumb stuff but only with a pen. This way if I mess up, I have to figure a way to incorporate it into the drawing. It’s pretty fun actually. VIA
Do more of what makes you happy
Take the time to focus on yourself and what makes you happy, besides having a snuggle partner or boyfriend. Find things that make you, the individual, happy, like photography, hiking, writing or cooking for example. When you find things that you enjoy, you’ll realize that when someone does come along, he’ll be an addition to your happiness and not your only reason for happiness. VIA
I’m lucky enough to live close to a really some incredible county parks systems and the Cuyahoga Valley National Park near Cleveland, OH. It’s not anything special, we’re not talking the Pacific Northwest or the Rockys, but it’s a quiet large outdoor space I go to when I’m lonely or upset. It feels like MY special place. Running really changed my life. I go maybe 7 or 8 miles and then if I’m still feeling rough or have more time to kill, I’ll go for a hike after but definitely didn’t start at that rate. VIA
Loneliness the new hunger?
Loneliness is like hunger, it’s your mind’s way of letting you know that you need to socialize. VIA
Don’t allow loneliness to be all-consuming
Seeking companionship is important, but, you shouldn’t allow it to destroy you. Even in a relationship, these views can break you apart. You may want to find the source. Finding why you feel this way is an important step. Don’t use your phone before bed or watch tv late, it will help you with sleep. I’ve constantly felt that way in the past, feeling empty and lonely, it’s just a moment, it will pass. Find you. VIA
It’s one of those questions that many of us get asked from curious people, both gay and straight alike.
Inquisitive straight people might want to know how you came to the conclusion that you fancied people from the same sex.
Other gay and bi guys might just want to compare their story with yours. For so many gay and bi people there are hardly any LGBT+ narratives on mainstream TV programming, particularly for kids or teens – so it can be much harder to come to terms with, or recognise your feelings and their validity when there’s nothing to compare it to.
When asked, most guys say they knew quite early on in their lives… Do you remember when?
You make eye contact with other men and it’s like a lightning bolt shoots down your body from your brain to your cock. [via]
I knew I was 100% gay when I made out with a guy for the first time. It felt right was sooooo much hotter than kissing a girl. [via]
Searching “free gay porn” or “am I gay test” [via]
For me was around 8-10 yo. My male friends would talk about the hot mamas and I couldn’t relate. I only had eyes to the moustache daddies. I wanted them to hold me and kiss me. [via]
Realizing I wanted to spend all my time with one guy friend. Particularly loved wrestling with him. [via]
I remember walking into a men’s locker room when I was a kid (around 9) and definitely something clicked at that moment. [via]
I knew before I even knew there was such thing. I was probably 5 years old. It’s just a feeling you get. You just know. [via]
Shopping for underwear and you get hard from the pictures on the packaging [via]
When you watch disney channel and the scenes where male actors take their shirts off interest you more than the storyline. [via]
Alright, listen up! Nottingham might not be hogging the spotlight like London or Manchester, but let me tell you, it’s got some serious sass when it comes to its gay scene. Picture this: vibrant gay bars, buzzing nightlife, and a whole lot of rainbow love. We’re talking about a city that knows how to party, especially with its LGBTQ+ crew from Uni Of Nottingham and Nottingham Trent strutting their stuff. And oh honey, mark your calendar because every July, Nottingham throws down the fiercest Pride march you’ve ever seen!
Now, if you’re on the hunt for a hot spot to meet your match or just wanna spice up your nightlife game, look no further, darlings. Here’s the lowdown on the best gay bars Nottingham has to offer.
Get ready to feast your eyes—and your taste buds—because The G.O.A.T. isn’t just slinging drinks, they’re serving up wood-fired pizzas that’ll make your heart skip a beat. I mean, who doesn’t love a little romance with a side of cheesy goodness, am I right?
But hold onto your wig, because the deals here are as hot as their pizzas! We’re talking £6 cocktails all day, every day—now that’s what I call a happy hour that never quits! And if you’re craving a little pizza action, how does a pizza and a pint, wine, or soft drink for a tenner sound? Available Tuesday through Thursday, and before 5pm on Friday and Saturday. Talk about bang for your buck! Check out their Facebook page here.
So, if you’re on the hunt for the ultimate gay bar experience in Nottingham—one that’s not only serving up delicious eats but also creating a cozy, welcoming atmosphere—look no further than The G.O.A.T. Trust me, it’s the place to be for food, fun, and fabulousness!
The New Foresters
The New Foresters? Oh, it’s not just any bar—it’s practically the heartbeat of Nottingham’s LGBTQ+ scene! Tucked behind the Victoria Centre right in the heart of the city, it’s like the North Star of fabulousness, guiding you to its rainbow-infused paradise no matter where you roam in Nottingham.
Let me paint you a picture: progress pride flags fluttering in the breeze, including those iconic trans and non-binary banners, giving you all the inclusive feels. And hold onto your wig, because they’ve just unveiled these dazzling rainbow angel wings against a lush grass wall—perfect for striking that fierce pose and flooding your socials with some serious glam!
Now, here’s the tea: The New Foresters has been slaying since 1958, serving as the ultimate gathering spot for Nottingham’s LGBTQ+ community. Trust me, darling, this isn’t just a bar—it’s a sanctuary of love, acceptance, and unapologetic fabulousness. So, what are you waiting for?
Add 18 St Anns Street, NG3 3LX to your GPS and let the fabulous journey begin!
The Lord Roberts
Let me spill the tea on The Lord Roberts—it’s like the hidden gem of Nottingham’s queer scene, even though it’s not officially flying the rainbow flag. Nestled snugly in Hockley, the heartbeat of Nottingham’s LGBTQ+ community, this spot is where all the cool kids flock.
Picture this: The Lord Roberts, managed by our fabulous gay fam, isn’t just a bar—it’s a vibe, it’s a lifestyle! And guess what? They’re not just about mixing drinks, honey; they’re about mixing communities. They’re the proud sponsors of none other than the Nottingham Lions, the local LGBTQ+ football champions, bringing folks together one match at a time.
But wait, there’s more! They’ve got quizzes that’ll tickle your brain, pop-up dog photography studios that’ll melt your heart (have you seen their Facebook page? Total cuteness overload!), and hey, let’s not forget the not-so-glamorous but oh-so-important sexual health clinic—they’re all about keeping you safe and sound, darling.
And let’s talk aesthetics, shall we? The Lord Roberts is serving up 1920s Art Deco realness, so you know you’re not just chilling at any old watering hole—you’re stepping into a time machine of style and sophistication.
So, if you’re ready to dive into a potentially fabulous experience, The Lord Roberts is calling your name. Trust me, it’s one of Nottingham’s best-kept secrets in the unofficially gay bar scene. Don’t miss out, darling!
The Hole In The Wall
Alright, let’s dive into the fabulousness that is The Hole in The Wall—because honey, this place is dripping with history and LGBTQ+ pride! Picture this: since 1984, it’s been waving the rainbow flag high and proud, serving as a beacon of acceptance and love right in the heart of Nottingham.
But wait, there’s more! In 2015, they cranked up the fun factor by hosting legendary lesbian pool nights—talk about making waves in the community! And guess who’s steering this ship of fabulousness now? None other than two fierce gay men who took over as managers in 2022, determined to make The Hole in The Wall officially LGBTQ+ friendly once again. Can I get a Yas, queen?
So, if you’re craving a taste of LGBTQ+ history and a whole lot of good vibes, look no further than The Hole in The Wall. Check out their Facebook page for all the latest tea, and mark your calendars for a night you won’t soon forget!
Oh, and don’t forget the address: 63 North Sherwood Street, NG1 4EZ. Trust me, darling, you won’t want to miss out on this iconic hotspot!
Did you know there are many gay cruising and dogging grounds in Glasgow?
Glasgow and its surrounding areas is home to several cruising and dogging grounds, did that surprise you?
Whether you love or loathe the idea of anonymous outdoor gay sex, it’s hard to escape the fact that gay cruising grounds are all around us.
You probably don’t even know, but from where you’re sitting or standing right now there’s probably a cruising or dogging ground just metres away from you in Glasgow, and they’re a hangover from more homophobic times in the UK. At our last count, there were at least six known cruising grounds in Glasgow and surrounding areas. The most popular are Yorkhill Park and Greyfriars Road.
Although we can’t say for sure, something has to be said about how the Coronavirus pandemic lockdown has affected the way in which gay, bi and curious men get sex. With saunas and bathhouses closed for the best part of three months, many more are yet to still open, guys who can’t, or don’t want to accommodate in their own homes are looking to other places. One of those will be outdoor venues.
Where did gay cruising come from?
Gay cruising is not a new phenomenon. It dates back to when sex between men was illegal in the UK. Finding a place where two men could be intimate with each other without too many questions being raised was tricky until it was realised that men’s public toilets were a perfect place.
These were named cottages because they actually used to look like quaint little cottages.
The act of finding sex in these public conveniences became known as “cottaging“.
The sex between men who would frequent a cottage would usually be anonymous. Gloryholes, a hole drilled between stalls in public toilets became a way in which this sex could remain faceless.
To this day there are loads of cottages and cruising grounds in Glasgow
Generally speaking, not a lot of talking goes on when cruising. A series of looks and gestures would let others know what you were up to. At urinals, guys would stand, playing with themselves subtly to let others know that they were up for some play. Then if the feeling is mutual the pair could make their way to a cubicle for more privacy.
At cruising grounds, much of the same would happen, except the action took place away from public footpaths.
Is Cottaging Legal in the UK?
Cottaging is illegal in the United Kingdom under the Sexual Offences Act 2003 and applies to both heterosexual and homosexual acts.
The Sexual Offences Act 2003 doesn’t say however that sex in a public place is illegal. Cruising grounds and cottaging are two different spaces. Cruising grounds are defined as open spaces, where men can hook up with men, or straight couples can meet for sex (often referred to as dogging), as long as no members of the public can see you.
You risk being arrested if reported by a member of the public. If this happens you have the right to legal advice from an on-duty solicitor at the police station. If convicted you could be sentenced to 6 months in prison and /or a fine.
Did you know there are many gay cruising and dogging grounds in Edinburgh?
Edinburgh is home to several cruising and dogging grounds, did that surprise you?
Whether you love or loathe the idea of anonymous outdoor gay sex, it’s hard to escape the fact that gay cruising grounds are all around us.
You probably don’t even know, but from where you’re sitting or standing right now there’s probably a cruising or dogging ground just metres away from you in Edinburgh, and they’re a hangover from more homophobic times in the UK. At our last count, there were at least 7 known cruising grounds in Edinburgh and surrounding areas. The most popular are Sliverknowes Promenade and Blackford Hill.
Although we can’t say for sure, something has to be said about how the Coronavirus pandemic lockdown has affected the way in which gay, bi and curious men get sex. With saunas and bathhouses closed for the best part of three months, many more are yet to still open, guys who can’t, or don’t want to accommodate in their own homes are looking to other places. One of those will be outdoor venues.
Where did gay cruising come from?
Gay cruising is not a new phenomenon. It dates back to when sex between men was illegal in the UK. Finding a place where two men could be intimate with each other without too many questions being raised was tricky until it was realised that men’s public toilets were a perfect place.
These were named cottages because they actually used to look like quaint little cottages.
The act of finding sex in these public conveniences became known as “cottaging“.
The sex between men who would frequent a cottage would usually be anonymous. Gloryholes, a hole drilled between stalls in public toilets became a way in which this sex could remain faceless.
To this day there are loads of cottages and cruising grounds in Edinburgh
Generally speaking, not a lot of talking goes on when cruising. A series of looks and gestures would let others know what you were up to. At urinals, guys would stand, playing with themselves subtly to let others know that they were up for some play. Then if the feeling is mutual the pair could make their way to a cubicle for more privacy.
At cruising grounds, much of the same would happen, except the action took place away from public footpaths.
Is Cottaging Legal in the UK?
Cottaging is illegal in the United Kingdom under the Sexual Offences Act 2003 and applies to both heterosexual and homosexual acts.
The Sexual Offences Act 2003 doesn’t say however that sex in a public place is illegal. Cruising grounds and cottaging are two different spaces. Cruising grounds are defined as open spaces, where men can hook up with men, or straight couples can meet for sex (often referred to as dogging), as long as no members of the public can see you.
You risk being arrested if reported by a member of the public. If this happens you have the right to legal advice from an on-duty solicitor at the police station. If convicted you could be sentenced to 6 months in prison and /or a fine.
Is love, money, success and Christmas joy in your stars this week?
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Aries (March 21 – April 19):
This week, you may feel a surge of energy and confidence. Focus on your goals and take bold steps toward achieving them. In matters of the heart, be open to new connections and experiences.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20):
Take a practical approach to your endeavors this week. Pay attention to your financial matters and avoid unnecessary risks. In relationships, communicate openly and honestly to strengthen your connections.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20):
Your communication skills are highlighted this week. Use them to express your ideas and connect with others. In relationships, be flexible and open-minded to foster understanding.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22):
Focus on your emotional well-being this week. Take time for self-care and reflect on your needs. In relationships, be supportive and understanding, and nurture the bonds that matter most to you.
Leo (July 23 – August 22):
You may experience a burst of creativity and inspiration. Use this energy to pursue your passions. In matters of the heart, express your feelings and make time for romance.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22):
This week, pay attention to your home and family life. Create a harmonious environment and address any domestic concerns. In relationships, be patient and understanding.
Libra (September 23 – October 22):
Focus on your social connections and collaborations this week. Networking can bring exciting opportunities. In relationships, strive for balance and compromise.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21):
This week, delve into deeper aspects of your interests and projects. Trust your instincts and explore new avenues. In relationships, be honest and share your true self with your partner.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21):
Embrace your adventurous spirit this week. Seek new experiences and expand your horizons. In matters of the heart, be open to spontaneity and enjoy the journey.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19):
Focus on your career and ambitions this week. Take practical steps toward your goals. In relationships, communicate your aspirations and support your partner’s endeavors.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18):
This week, explore new ideas and engage in stimulating conversations. Embrace your unique perspective. In relationships, be open-minded and value the diversity that your partner brings to your life.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20):
Pay attention to your intuition and emotions this week. Take time for self-reflection and spiritual pursuits. In relationships, connect on a deeper level and share your dreams and aspirations.
Greetings as we step into the initial stretch of December! With the week’s commencement, we find ourselves a mere 10 days away from the onset of Mercury’s retrograde journey through Capricorn and later, Sagittarius. We currently stand at the pinnacle of the pre-shadow period, and there’s a discernible sense that matters of communication might gradually decelerate in the upcoming days.
Find out what’s going for you this week.
Aries (March 21 – April 19): This week, Aries, the cosmos is urging you to shine your radiant rainbow light. Embrace your authentic self and let your vibrant spirit lead the way. Whether it’s in the workplace or your social circles, your confidence will be your secret weapon. Love is in the air, so keep an eye out for a connection that sparkles as brightly as you do.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20): Taurus, your usual steadfast nature might feel a bit more adventurous this week. Embrace the unexpected and let spontaneity be your guide. Whether it’s trying a new hobby or connecting with someone intriguing, the stars encourage you to break free from routine. In matters of the heart, be open to surprises – love could blossom where you least expect it.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20): Gemini, your communication skills are on fire this week. Use your gift of gab to spread love, laughter, and understanding. It’s an excellent time to have those heart-to-heart conversations you’ve been putting off. In matters of love, be bold and express your feelings. Your words have the power to create a magical connection.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22): This week, Cancer, your nurturing instincts take centre stage. Whether it’s supporting friends, family, or your chosen family, your compassion shines through. In matters of love, let your emotions guide you. Don’t be afraid to open up and share your deepest desires – vulnerability is your superpower.
Leo (July 23 – August 22): Leo, your flair for the dramatic reaches new heights this week. Embrace your inner diva and let your creativity flow. Whether it’s through art, fashion, or a dazzling performance, express yourself unabashedly. In matters of the heart, your magnetic charm is irresistible – let your light attract the love you deserve.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22): Virgo, this week calls for self-care and introspection. Take a break from your usual meticulous routines and focus on your well-being. Whether it’s a spa day or a quiet night in, recharge your energy. In matters of love, trust your instincts – your intuition will guide you to meaningful connections.
Libra (September 23 – October 22): Libra, your social butterfly wings are fluttering vigorously this week. Embrace invitations, virtual or otherwise, and let your charm shine. Networking brings exciting opportunities, both personally and professionally. In matters of love, balance is key – find harmony between your needs and your partner’s desires.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21): Scorpio, your intensity takes a romantic turn this week. Dive deep into matters of the heart and explore the profound connections around you. Don’t be afraid to express your desires – your passionate energy is magnetic. Single or attached, love is an all-encompassing experience for you now.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21): Sagittarius, your adventurous spirit is in full swing this week. Whether it’s exploring new places or trying exciting activities, embrace the thrill of the unknown. In matters of love, be open to unexpected encounters – a spontaneous connection may ignite a spark. Trust the journey, and enjoy the ride.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19): Capricorn, your practical nature takes a back seat as romance sweeps you off your feet this week. Let your heart guide you, and don’t shy away from expressing your feelings. In matters of love, patience is key – allow relationships to unfold naturally. Your steadfast approach will bring stability to both your professional and personal life.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18): Aquarius, your humanitarian spirit takes centre stage this week. Channel your passion into meaningful causes and connect with like-minded individuals. In matters of love, seek a partner who shares your vision for a better world. Together, you can create positive change and celebrate the uniqueness of your connection.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20): Pisces, your dreamy nature is illuminated by the stars this week. Embrace your imaginative side and let your creativity flow. In matters of love, your intuition is heightened – pay attention to subtle cues and trust your instincts. A romantic adventure awaits, so dive into the fantasy and enjoy the magic of the moment.
Preventing HIV transmission involves adopting a combination of strategies to reduce the risk of exposure. Here are some of the easiest and most effective ways to prevent HIV:
Use Condoms: Consistent and correct use of condoms during sexual intercourse can significantly reduce the risk of HIV transmission. Male and female condoms are readily available and provide a barrier against the virus.
PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis):PrEP is a medication taken by HIV-negative individuals to prevent infection. It is highly effective when taken as prescribed and can be a useful prevention tool, especially for those at higher risk.
Limit Sexual Partners: Reducing the number of sexual partners can lower the risk of exposure to HIV. Knowing your partner’s HIV status and discussing sexual health openly can help make informed decisions.
Regular Testing: Knowing your own and your partner’s HIV status is crucial. Regular testing allows for early detection, enabling timely access to treatment and preventing further transmission. There is at-home testing now which is easy to do. See our at-home HIV Testing review here.
Avoid Sharing Needles or Syringes: If you use drugs, avoid sharing needles or syringes, as this can increase the risk of HIV transmission. Use clean needles and sterile injection equipment.
Use Sterile Instruments for Tattoos and Piercings: Ensure that any instruments used for tattoos, piercings, or other body modifications are sterile and properly cleaned to prevent the risk of HIV transmission.
Educate Yourself: Stay informed about HIV transmission and prevention methods. Understanding the virus and its modes of transmission can empower individuals to make informed choices about their sexual health.
Kick Stigma out: HIV-related stigma, which includes negative attitudes, prejudice, and discrimination towards individuals living with HIV or perceived to be at risk, can create barriers to effective prevention and care.
Seek Support and Counseling: If you are in a relationship with someone living with HIV or if you have concerns about your risk, seek counselling and support services. Open communication and education can help address fears and reduce the risk of transmission.
Remember, the most effective prevention strategy may vary depending on individual circumstances. It’s essential to consult with healthcare professionals for personalised advice and guidance based on your specific situation.
Get ready to spice up the holiday season with our Erotic Christmas Gift Guide for Gay Men! Whether you’re shopping for your partner, lover, or looking to treat yourself, we’ve curated a collection of sensual and exciting presents that will set the festive mood ablaze. From intimate accessories to playful games, this guide is designed to add a touch of passion to your Christmas celebrations. Let’s unwrap the pleasure and make this holiday season one to remember! 🔥🎁✨
Erotic Christmas gift ideas for gay men
The perfect butt plug
If your friend, bf, or lover loves butt play then buying the perfect butt plug might just be the way to this Christmas. Whether he loves a big toy or just experimenting the world of butt plugs and dildos is well, neverending.
If he’s into anal training then these anal gape grommets could be a great bet. If he’s looking to get a great sensation then you can’t beat the Prowler Red 6.5 dildo and if he just wants to be destroyed then look no further than the Tower…
The only cock present he’ll need
The Satisfer is only masturbation toy is the only toy he needs. We’ve written about how this toy is the ultimate vibrating toy and it’s a perfect gift – and it won’t break the bank at under £40
We love these gay erotic art mugs from our very own sex and relationship expert Patrick Devon. He’s created these very sexy mugs which feature a pop art depiction of men having sex.
Not for the faint arted… or those who work in a very public office.
This is surely one of the most unique gift ideas, where you can legitimately tell your gay mate to go fuck himself… literally. Buy it here
Naughty Dice
Turn up the heat this Christmas with the perfect gift for intimate moments: Sex Dice! Spice up your holiday season with these playful and enticing dice that add a touch of excitement and spontaneity to your intimate adventures. Whether you’re gifting your partner or a couple, unwrap the pleasure and bring a whole new level of fun to the festive season. It’s the gift that keeps on giving! 🎲 Check out the range here
Explore new realms of style and confidence with a Harness! These bold and fashion-forward accessories are designed to make a statement, whether you’re hitting the club scene or embracing your unique fashion sense. Choose from a variety of styles and materials to express your individuality and feel empowered. Elevate your look with a gay harness that celebrates your authenticity and adds a touch of daring flair to any outfit. Check out the full range here
Sex Vouchers
Are you bold enough to share these intimate vouchers with your partner? This coupon book features 62 tear-out vouchers for you to gift. Make enticing promises like “Embark on adventurous role play” or “Plant kisses from head to toe.” Each voucher holds a spicy pledge that you’re committed to fulfilling when redeemed. Buy them here
Underwear
Now normally buying underwear for men is so cliché, but swap out a pair of ratty briefs for a cheeky jockstrap or even a thong and suddenly it’s a tree-mendous idea!
Discover the magic of the season with our Lesbian Christmas Gift Ideas guide! Unwrap the joy and find thoughtful presents that celebrate love and unity. From stylish accessories to cosy essentials, explore the perfect gifts to make this Christmas merry and bright for the lesbians in your life. 🌈🎁✨
Here’s our top Lesbian Christmas Gift Ideas
Merry Catmas Mug and Chocolate
Lesbians and their cats… A troupe or the truth? Well, if your lesbian pal loves cats then they’re gonna love this Merry Catmas mug featuring the Lesbian Community flag colours and a Lindt Chocolate Gold Reindeer. We think it’s one of those great Lesbian Christmas Gift Ideas that will delight your pussy loving friends.
Kick off your gift-giving extravaganza with a coffee table book that’s a total game-changer. Our curated selection includes must-haves like “The Queer Bible,” “Queer X Design,” and “The Queen’s English.” These titles bring a uniquely queer perspective, perfect for your discerning non-binary, trans, or genderqueer loved ones. Explore THE PRIDE SHOP’s full LGBTQ+ book collection for more fabulous finds. 🌈📚
These bracelets are handmade in the UK by expert jewellery makers and feature world-famous Swarovski crystals for a wonderfully unique gift. It’s one of our favourite Lesbian Christmas Gift Ideas for 2023.
Piece together artists, artworks and surroundings to bring Frida Kahlo’s world to life in this colourful 1000-piece puzzle. The completed puzzle measures 68 x 48.5cm, and the puzzle image is reprinted on the inside lid with over 20 footnotes, which reveal all the interesting things to discover in the puzzle and the meaning behind them.
These cross-grain roses are presented as a forever gift in a tin box with a clear lid. The rose is handmade in the UK and uses Lesbian LGBTQ+ colours. It’s a beautiful gift that will last forever.
Sip your pride with our Lesbian Community Flag Mug! This ceramic masterpiece features the vibrant lesbian flag and boldly declares #Proud in crisp white. Start your day with a cup of confidence and showcase your pride in style. It’s not just a mug; it’s a statement. 🌈☕✨ #ProudLesbian
Unleash your creativity with our Lesbian Colouring Book! Dive into a world of inclusive and empowering illustrations, celebrating love and diversity. This delightful colouring book is filled with enchanting designs that capture the spirit of the lesbian community. Relax, colour, and let your imagination flourish with every stroke. 🌈🎨✨
The perfect colouring book companion. The set of 24 artist-quality pencils comes in a sturdy box that converts into a two-tiered pencil stand for easy access and organization; the 10 Bright Ideas pencils each carry a quirky and encouraging phrase printed on the barrel.
Fashion faux pas, dating dilemmas, career crises – whatever life throws you, you can count on these cards to tell it like it is, the way a best friend should. Each card has a question on one side. Pick the one that suits your situation – or that piques your curiosity – and then read the words in each corner of the card.
This multipack of Incense sticks is perfect for adding some fragrance to your room for relaxation, meditation or just to chill out on a lazy Sunday. This pack contains Celestial Bliss (Dark Red) Pyramids (Red) Positive Vibes (White) Rose (Pink) Reiki (Purple) – the colours of the official lesbian community flag.
This popular Satya Nag Champa brand is made in India.
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