Getting tested for HIV can be a daunting experience, particularly for gay men who are still coping with the trauma of the ongoing HIV/AIDS epidemic and years of inadequate government responses. Sadly, despite significant advancements in testing capabilities and medical treatments that have made it entirely possible to live a long life with HIV, there is still a lot of stigma surrounding HIV.
However, thanks to medications such as PrEP, you can now be proactive in protecting yourself from HIV before having sex. Regular HIV testing is still crucial for your health and the health of your community, even if you’re taking PrEP or practising safe sex.
How many people in the UK are living with HIV?
As of the end of 2020, an estimated 107,800 people were living with HIV in the UK, according to Public Health England. Of those, approximately 7,400 people were unaware of their HIV-positive status. While the number of people living with HIV in the UK has been increasing over the years, the overall rate of new diagnoses has been declining due to increased testing, prevention efforts, and the availability of antiretroviral therapy.
Remaining up-to-date on your HIV status is essential for better understanding yourself and communicating openly with your partners. If you’re considering getting tested for HIV, this guide is here to help answer some of your questions, such as who should get tested, how often you should get tested, what questions to ask your medical provider, what to expect before getting tested, how to protect yourself from HIV, and what to do if you’ve been exposed to HIV.
Anyone who feels they may be at risk of contracting HIV, not just the men who have sex with men (MSM) community, should get tested. HIV can be transmitted from person to person through bodily fluids or blood. Those at the highest risk of contracting the virus include individuals who have recently had unprotected sex, shared needles during intravenous drug use, or come into contact with the open wound of an HIV-positive person.
So how often should you get tested?
How often someone should get tested for HIV depends on their individual risk factors and sexual activity. As a general guideline, those who are sexually active should get tested yearly. However, those who are at higher risk, such as sexually active gay and bisexual men, should get tested every 3 to 6 months.
Other factors that may warrant more frequent testing include having multiple sex partners since your last HIV test, sharing needles or other drug injection equipment, exchanging sex for drugs or money, or being diagnosed with another sexually transmitted disease. It’s important to note that regular testing is not just a one-time thing, as your HIV status can change over time. Additionally, those who are HIV-positive should work with their doctor to determine a regular testing schedule to monitor their viral load.
The NHS says that “sexually active gay men and bisexual men” should get tested every 3 to 6 months. The rest of the population should get tested yearly, especially if they meet the following criteria:
You’re a man who has had sex with another man
You’ve had anal or vaginal sex with someone who has HIV You’ve had more than one sex partner since your last HIV test
You’ve shared needles, syringes, or other drug injection equipment (for example, cookers)
You’ve exchanged sex for drugs or money
You’ve been diagnosed with or treated for another sexually transmitted disease
You’ve been diagnosed with or treated for hepatitis or tuberculosis (TB)
You’ve had sex with someone who has done anything listed above or with someone whose sexual history you don’t know
How much do HIV tests cost in the UK?
HIV testing is free in the UK and can be done through a variety of channels including sexual health clinics, general practitioners, and some community organizations. Additionally, home testing kits are available for purchase online or at some pharmacies, and the cost can range from around £15 to £30. However, it’s important to note that free testing is widely available, and individuals are encouraged to get tested regularly regardless of their ability to pay.
What is HIV?
HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is a virus that attacks and weakens the immune system, which is responsible for fighting off infections and diseases. HIV targets specific cells in the immune system called CD4 cells, which are important for fighting infections. As HIV replicates and damages these cells, the immune system becomes increasingly weaker, making it more difficult for the body to fight off infections and illnesses.
Over time, if left untreated, HIV can lead to AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome), a condition that occurs when the immune system is severely damaged, and the body is unable to fight off infections and illnesses. However, with early diagnosis and effective treatment, many people with HIV can live long and healthy lives without developing AIDS.
HIV is most commonly spread through unprotected sexual contact with an infected person, sharing needles or injection equipment with someone who is infected, and from an infected mother to her baby during pregnancy, childbirth, or breastfeeding. HIV cannot be transmitted through casual contact such as hugging, shaking hands, or sharing food or drinks.
Are there preventative treatment options for HIV?
There are several treatment options available to prevent the transmission of HIV. Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) is a medication that can be taken to reduce the risk of contracting HIV and is often offered for free through sexual health clinics. If you are interested in finding a PrEP provider, you can visit https://www.iwantprepnow.co.uk.
Additionally, Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) is available for those who may have been exposed to HIV. It is important to note that PrEP and PEP are proactive measures that can be taken to reduce the risk of HIV transmission, and it is essential to have open conversations with partners about HIV status and to engage in regular testing to protect both yourself and your community.
t’s important to note that attitudes towards the LGBTQ+ community can vary widely within individual states, and it’s not accurate to label an entire state as “anti-LGBTQ+.” However, some states have passed laws or have political climates that are perceived as being less supportive of LGBTQ+ rights.
That being said, there is no definitive list of the “most anti-LGBTQ+” states in the US. However, some states have been criticized for passing laws or taking actions that are perceived as discriminatory towards the LGBTQ+ community. For example, in recent years, some states have passed laws that allow businesses to refuse service to LGBTQ+ individuals on the basis of religious objections, or have attempted to restrict access to gender-affirming healthcare for transgender individuals.
Some states that have been criticized for passing laws or taking actions that are perceived as discriminatory towards the LGBTQ+ community include:
Texas 49 bills
Oklahoma 35 bills
Missouri 34 bills
Iowa 29 bills
Tennessee 26 bills
Mississippi 24 bills
Indiana 18 bills
South Dakota 18 bills
North Dakota 17 bills
Kansas 12 bills
It’s worth noting that attitudes towards the LGBTQ+ community can change over time, and some states that were once perceived as less supportive of LGBTQ+ rights have since passed more inclusive laws or become more accepting. Additionally, there are many individuals and organizations within these states that actively work to promote LGBTQ+ rights and acceptance.
A recent review has found that the Metropolitan Police in London is institutionally racist, sexist, and homophobic. The review, conducted by an independent panel, was commissioned after the police force faced criticism for its handling of the murder of Sarah Everard earlier this year.
Following the abduction, rape, and murder of Sarah Everard in March 2021 by one of its officers, Wayne Couzens, a review was commissioned into the Metropolitan Police. Louise Casey led the year-long investigation into the force.
The report concluded that the force’s institutionalized practices are discriminatory and contribute to a lack of trust and confidence in the police among minority communities. The review highlighted several areas where the force needs to improve, including recruitment, training, and accountability mechanisms.
The panel made several recommendations for the police force to address these issues, such as improving diversity in recruitment and leadership, increasing transparency and accountability, and strengthening the force’s internal monitoring and complaints mechanisms.
The findings of this review are a stark reminder of the ongoing need to address issues of discrimination and bias within law enforcement agencies, and to work towards creating a more inclusive and equitable society for all.
“Are you a giver or a taker”
According to the 363-page report, the police force also showed evidence of “deep-seated homophobia,” as well as widespread racism and bullying. The report revealed that nearly one in five lesbian, gay, and bisexual employees had experienced homophobia, and 30% of LGBTQ+ employees reported being bullied. Trust, confidence, and fairness scores among LGBTQ+ Londoners have also significantly decreased.
During the review, an openly gay officer reported that his colleagues continually asked him inappropriate questions about his sex life, such as whether he was a “giver or a taker,” both in briefings and around the police station. He also stated that the response team would collectively groan when an “LGBT matter” came through on the radio.
While he knew that acquiescing was not the right thing to do, he remained silent for the sake of his own mental health and career. He questioned how the police force could provide Londoners with the service they deserve if they couldn’t treat their colleagues with respect and compassion in one of the world’s most diverse cities.
Another openly gay female officer also reported witnessing racism and experiencing both misogyny and homophobia. For instance, a male officer told her that his “balls were cold” during a night shift, asking her to “warm them up.”
Jokes on Whatsapp
In the report, an openly gay male officer, referred to as ‘E,’ revealed that he is frightened of the police after being subjected to a prolonged campaign of homophobia from within the Metropolitan Police force. The review disclosed that E had seen evidence of WhatsApp groups among serving officers that joked about stopping and searching him off-duty while using homophobic language.
E reported that when he raised his treatment with the Met, they brushed off his experience. According to Casey, the report’s author, there is a culture of denial in the force, which has allowed predatory and unacceptable behavior to thrive.
Trust has hit Rock bottom
According to Casey, public trust in the Metropolitan Police has hit rock bottom. The number of Londoners who lack confidence in the force now exceeds those who do, and black Londoners have had lower trust levels for years.
Despite efforts to eradicate institutional racism, the Met has yet to rid itself of the problem, and public consent has been lost. The force has also become disconnected from the principles of policing by consent outlined when it was first established by Sir Robert Peel.
Moreover, the review found that black officers were 81% more likely to be subject to the misconduct system than their white colleagues. The report stated that complaints were often turned against officers from ethnic minority backgrounds.
LGBT+ Hate crime continues to rise
Like in many other countries, hate crimes against the LGBTQ+ community are a problem in the UK. According to a report by the Home Office, there were over 14,000 hate crime offenses related to sexual orientation in 2019-2020, which represents a 19% increase from the previous year. These offenses range from verbal and physical abuse to more violent attacks and murder.
In recent years, there have been several high-profile cases of hate crimes against the LGBTQ+ community in the UK, including the murder of Ian Baynham in 2009, the stabbing of two women on a bus in 2019, and the murder of three men in a terror attack in a park in Reading in 2020. The rise in hate crimes has led to calls for better protection and support for the LGBTQ+ community in the UK.
Participating in the Day of Silence in the US typically involves taking a vow of silence for the day to raise awareness about anti-LGBTQ+ bullying, harassment, and discrimination in schools. Here are some steps you can take to really show up this 14th of April.
1) Learn about the event: Research the history and purpose of the Day and why it’s important and Register for the event: Visit the official Day of Silence website (https://www.glsen.org/day-of-silence) to register for the event and access resources to help you organize your own Day of Silence event.
2) Spread the word: Use social media, flyers, and other outreach methods to promote the Day of Silence and encourage others to participate.
3) Take a vow of silence: On the day of the event, take a vow of silence for the entire day or for a portion of the day to symbolize the silencing of LGBTQ+ voices in schools.
4) Wear supportive clothing or pin badges: Consider wearing supportive clothing, such as a Day of Silence t-shirt or other LGBTQ+ ally gear, to show your support for the cause. Wearing a small LGBTQ+ pin badge can really show in a visual way that you’re an ally.
5) Break the silence: At the end of the day, break the silence and reflect on what you learned and how you can continue to raise awareness about anti-LGBTQ+ bullying, harassment, and discrimination in schools.
Remember, it is just one day out of the year, but the fight against anti-LGBTQ+ bullying, harassment, and discrimination is ongoing. Use this campaign as an opportunity to spark conversations, build support networks, and take action to make schools safer and more inclusive for all students.
When was the first Day Of Silence?
The first Day of Silence was organized by students at the University of Virginia in 1996 to bring attention to anti-LGBTQ+ bullying and harassment in schools. The event was inspired by a similar protest called the “Day of Absence” which was organized by African American civil rights activists in the 1960s. The first Day of Silence was a small, local event, but it quickly spread to other schools and universities across the United States. Today, the Day of Silence is a nationally recognized event that is observed by students in middle schools, high schools, and colleges throughout the country.
Who is the Day of Silence for?
The Day is for anyone who wants to raise awareness about anti-LGBTQ+ bullying, harassment, and discrimination in schools. The event is often organized by students and allies in middle schools, high schools, and colleges, but anyone can participate regardless of age or background. This day is especially important for LGBTQ+ students who may feel isolated or excluded in school due to their sexual orientation, gender identity, or expression. By participating in the Day of Silence, students can show their support for LGBTQ+ students and raise awareness about the need for safe and inclusive schools. The event is also a reminder to educators, administrators, and policymakers about the importance of creating welcoming and supportive environments for all students, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity.
One of our favourite gay / bisexual movies has been turned into a stage play with music and we’re rejoicing, but it seems it’s not the famed Ang Lee version.
Mike Faist, who was nominated for a BAFTA, and Lucas Hedges, who was nominated for an Oscar, are set to star in a London stage adaptation of Annie Proulx’s bestselling novel, Brokeback Mountain. The play, which will incorporate music, is scheduled to run at the Sohoplace Theatre in the West End for 12 weeks, beginning on May 10.
Nica Burns, the theatre’s owner and producer, emphasized that the play is based on Proulx’s original short story, which was published in The New Yorker in 1997, and not on the critically acclaimed 2005 film directed by Ang Lee and starring Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal.
Mike Faist, who received a BAFTA nomination for his performance in West Side Story, has been cast as Jack Twist in the London stage adaptation of Brokeback Mountain. Lucas Hedges, who earned an Oscar nomination for Manchester By The Sea in 2016, will play Ennis Del Mar.
The story, which follows two cowboys who fall in love in the vast expanses of Wyoming, resonated with readers and viewers alike. Ashley Robinson, a writer from Brooklyn, approached Annie Proulx about securing the stage rights, which were ultimately granted.
Jonathan Butterell, who brought the stage and screen adaptations of Everybody’s Talking About Jamie, will direct the play, with Dan Gillespie Sells serving as a close collaborator and music writer. Eddi Reader, a singer-songwriter, will perform on stage with a country and western band featuring a pedal steel guitarist.
Gay animal news is making headlines in March 2023. Recently, Japanese scientists announced that they had successfully created baby mice from the cells of two fathers. Meanwhile, a German research team discovered that air pollution is causing male fruit flies to exhibit gay courtship behaviour.
I mean we’re wondering what “gay courtship behaviour” means at this point. A Grindr pic swap? A dark room fumble? Some cute love-meet in a uni library? Come on scientists work with us here.
So, Fruit flies use pheromones to find and mate with their partners. However, ozone pollution is destroying these pheromones, making it difficult for male fruit flies to distinguish between sexes. When exposed to ozone levels similar to those found in polluted cities, male fruit flies exhibited an increase in gay courtships, likely due to decreased pheromone levels.
Female fruit flies were also less interested in males exposed to ozone pollution.
It’s not all fun and games
While the gay drama of insect courtship is entertaining, the study’s findings about decreasing insect populations due to pollution are a serious concern. The research team warns that if pollutants continue to disrupt chemical communication, insects will not be able to reproduce at a sufficient rate.
As 80% of crops rely on insect pollination, this could have far-reaching consequences.
It’s important to note that same-sex relationships between animals are common and healthy, with gayness observed in 1,500 species. Apparently Bats are supposed to be some of the gayest animals on the planet well Swans are pretty darn gay too… (20% in same-sex relationships, often with families) and exhibit homosexual behaviour.
Love truly knows no boundaries in the animal kingdom.
In the UK, a hate crime is defined as any criminal offence that is motivated by prejudice or hostility towards someone based on their perceived race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, gender identity, or disability. Hate crimes can take many forms, including verbal abuse, physical assault, harassment, and damage to property.
Under UK law, hate crimes are treated as aggravating factors, which means that they can lead to more severe penalties for the offender. Additionally, victims of hate crimes are entitled to special protection and support under the law.
It’s important to note that hate speech, while harmful, is not necessarily a hate crime unless it crosses the line into criminal behaviour. However, in the UK, hate speech that incites violence or hatred towards a particular group is illegal under certain circumstances.
How do I know if I’ve been a victim of a hate crime?
If you believe that you have been targeted or attacked because of your perceived race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, gender identity, or disability, then it’s possible that you have been the victim of a hate crime.
Here are some signs that you may have been a victim of a hate crime:
You were targeted because of your identity: If you were targeted because of your race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, gender identity, or disability, then you may have been the victim of a hate crime.
You were subjected to verbal abuse: If you were called derogatory names, threatened, or subjected to slurs based on your identity, then you may have been the victim of a hate crime.
You were physically attacked: If you were physically assaulted or threatened with violence because of your identity, then you may have been the victim of a hate crime.
Your property was damaged or destroyed: If your property was damaged or destroyed because of your identity, then you may have been the victim of a hate crime.
How do I report a hate crime in the UK?
If you have been the victim of a hate crime or you have witnessed a hate crime, it’s important to report it as soon as possible. Here are the steps to report a hate crime in the UK:
Dial 999 in an emergency: If you or someone else is in immediate danger or harm, dial 999 and ask for the police.
Contact the non-emergency police: If you are not in immediate danger, but you have been the victim of a hate crime, you can contact your local police force on the non-emergency number 101. You can also report hate crimes online through the True Vision website.
Report to a third-party reporting centre: There are also many third-party reporting centres that specialize in handling hate crimes. These include organizations like Stop Hate UK, Tell MAMA and Galop. They can provide support and advice and can report the hate crime on your behalf.
When reporting a hate crime, try to provide as much detail as possible about the incident, including the date, time, location, and any witnesses or evidence that you have. It’s also important to provide a description of the offender if possible.
Is hate crime quite common in the UK?
Hate crimes do occur in the UK, and while the exact number of incidents can vary from year to year, they are unfortunately not uncommon. According to the UK Home Office, police recorded 105,090 hate crimes in England and Wales in 2020-2021, an increase of 4% from the previous year.
The majority of hate crimes reported to the police in the UK are related to race or ethnicity, followed by sexual orientation, religion, and disability. However, it’s important to note that hate crimes based on gender identity are often underreported and may not be fully reflected in official statistics.
It’s also important to recognize that hate crimes are not just isolated incidents, but they can have a significant impact on the individuals and communities affected. They can cause fear, anxiety, and stress, and can contribute to a wider culture of discrimination and prejudice.
To combat hate crimes, the UK government and law enforcement agencies have implemented various measures, including improving reporting systems, increasing awareness of hate crimes, and providing support to victims. However, it’s clear that more work needs to be done to address this issue and promote a culture of respect and inclusivity.
The UK is generally considered to be a relatively safe country for LGBTQ+ people, but unfortunately, hate crimes and discrimination still occur. According to a survey by Stonewall, a leading LGBTQ+ advocacy organization in the UK, almost one in five LGBTQ+ people (18%) have experienced a hate crime or incident in the past year.
In terms of public safety, there are many cities and towns in the UK that are known for being LGBTQ+ friendly and welcoming. For example, London, Manchester, Brighton, and Glasgow are all known for their vibrant LGBTQ+ communities and safe nightlife scenes.
However, LGBTQ+ people in the UK may still face discrimination and harassment in certain situations, such as in the workplace, in healthcare settings, or when accessing public services. Transgender people, in particular, may face additional challenges and discrimination.
Overall, while there is still work to be done to ensure that LGBTQ+ people feel safe and accepted in all aspects of UK society, progress is being made towards a more inclusive and accepting culture.
The Priest who went on to become an intimacy coach at the porn studio, Himeroes, has sadly passed away.
Himeroes founder, Davey Wavey, delivered the sad news via his Facebook page, saying, “I’m heartbroken to share that coach Nic passed away last week. It was such a pleasure and a joy to work with him on the Himeros.tv “Sacred Sex” series – rarely have I seen someone put SO much heart and soul into a project. It’s a joy to know that his work will live on through Himeros.tv and this beautiful YouTube video, which has already received nearly a million views.”
San Diego-based Nic, was a priest for 16 years before becoming a Certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker and then working with Himeroes, where he helped created a series of videos called “Sacred Sex” he also created the website, https://www.mindfulpleasurepractice.com.
Taking to his Instagram channel, in September 2022, Coach Nic informed his followers that he had been diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer. Sadly, he died in his sleep Wednesday morning at age 74.
Coach Nic
Coach Nic revealed his cancer diagnosis in September 2022 on his Instagram account. Image (YouTube / Himeroes)
Wondering what the stars hold for you? Check out your gay horoscopes for March 2023.
Gay Horoscopes March 2023
Aries
As a gay Aries, you are known for your boldness, passion, and adventurous spirit. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you exciting new opportunities for personal and professional growth.
This may involve taking risks and stepping outside of your comfort zone, but trust that you have the courage and determination to handle whatever challenges come your way.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly passionate and intense. You may be drawn to fiery and dynamic partners who share your love for adventure and excitement. However, it’s important to remember that communication and respect are key to any successful relationship.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to put yourself out there and meet new people. Your confident and outgoing nature is sure to attract many admirers. But be sure to take the time to really get to know someone before diving into a serious commitment.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to keep the spark alive by trying new things and exploring new experiences together. This could mean planning a romantic getaway or taking up a new hobby as a couple.
Overall, this is a time of great potential and possibility for you, dear Aries. Trust in yourself and your instincts, and don’t be afraid to take the lead and blaze your own trail. The universe is cheering you on!
Taurus
Dear Taurus,
As a gay Taurus, you are known for your love of beauty, comfort, and stability. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for growth and success, both personally and professionally.
You may find yourself drawn to creative endeavors or artistic pursuits, as the planets are highlighting your innate talents and aesthetic sensibilities. This could be a great time to explore new hobbies or take on a new project that allows you to express yourself in a meaningful way.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly sensual and affectionate. You value physical intimacy and may be drawn to partners who share your love of pleasure and comfort. However, it’s important to remember that communication and trust are key to any successful relationship.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to focus on self-care and self-love. Treat yourself to a spa day or indulge in your favorite hobbies and interests. This will not only boost your confidence and self-esteem, but also attract others who appreciate your unique qualities.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize open communication and mutual respect. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you appreciate them. This could mean planning a romantic date or surprising them with a thoughtful gift.
Overall, this is a time of great potential and possibility for you, dear Taurus. Trust in your intuition and be open to new experiences and opportunities. The universe is conspiring to bring you all the love, beauty, and abundance you deserve.
Gemini
Dear Gemini,
As a gay Gemini, you are known for your quick wit, versatility, and love of communication. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for growth and exploration in all areas of your life.
You may find yourself drawn to intellectual pursuits or engaging in stimulating conversations with others. This could be a great time to broaden your horizons and expand your knowledge through travel, education, or new experiences.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly flirtatious and social. You enjoy the thrill of the chase and may be drawn to partners who are witty and charming. However, it’s important to remember that honesty and trust are key to any successful relationship.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to put yourself out there and meet new people. Your charm and charisma are sure to attract many admirers. But be sure to take the time to really get to know someone before jumping into a serious commitment.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize clear communication and mutual respect. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you value their thoughts and opinions. This could mean planning a romantic date or surprising them with a thoughtful gift.
Overall, this is a time of great potential and possibility for you, dear Gemini. Trust in your natural curiosity and adaptability, and be open to new experiences and opportunities. The universe is cheering you on as you explore the world and all it has to offer.
Cancer
Dear Cancer,
As a gay Cancer, you are known for your sensitivity, nurturing nature, and love of home and family. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for emotional growth and connection.
You may find yourself drawn to nurturing others, whether it be through volunteer work, caregiving, or simply being there for your loved ones. This could be a great time to deepen your emotional connections and strengthen your bonds with those who matter most to you.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly emotional and intuitive. You value emotional intimacy and may be drawn to partners who share your deep emotional connection. However, it’s important to remember to take care of your own emotional needs as well.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to focus on self-care and healing. Spend time doing things that bring you comfort and joy, whether it be cooking a favorite meal or curling up with a good book. This will not only boost your own emotional well-being, but also attract others who appreciate your nurturing nature.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize open communication and mutual respect. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you appreciate their emotional support. This could mean planning a cozy night in or surprising them with a heartfelt gesture.
Overall, this is a time of great potential for emotional growth and connection for you, dear Cancer. Trust in your intuition and be open to vulnerability and emotional intimacy. The universe is guiding you towards deeper connections and greater emotional fulfillment.
Leo
Dear Leo,
As a gay Leo, you are known for your confidence, charisma, and love of attention. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for creativity, self-expression, and personal growth.
You may find yourself drawn to creative endeavors or performance arts, as the planets are highlighting your innate talents and love of self-expression. This could be a great time to explore new hobbies or take on a new project that allows you to showcase your unique gifts.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly passionate and expressive. You value romance and may be drawn to partners who share your love of grand gestures and public displays of affection. However, it’s important to remember to balance your need for attention with your partner’s needs and desires.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to put yourself out there and show off your best qualities. Your confidence and charisma are sure to attract many admirers. But be sure to take the time to really get to know someone before jumping into a serious commitment.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize clear communication and mutual respect. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you appreciate them. This could mean planning a romantic weekend getaway or surprising them with a thoughtful gift.
Overall, this is a time of great potential and possibility for you, dear Leo. Trust in your natural creativity and self-expression, and be open to new experiences and opportunities. The universe is cheering you on as you shine your light and share your gifts with the world.
Virgo
Dear Virgo,
As a gay Virgo, you are known for your analytical mind, attention to detail, and love of organization. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for personal growth and self-improvement.
You may find yourself drawn to new learning opportunities or self-improvement techniques, as the planets are highlighting your love of personal development. This could be a great time to focus on your health, both physical and mental, as well as honing your skills and knowledge in a particular area.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly practical and detail-oriented. You value stability and may be drawn to partners who share your love of planning and organization. However, it’s important to remember to balance your practicality with your emotional needs and desires.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to focus on personal growth and self-care. Take the time to really focus on your own needs and desires, and don’t be afraid to put yourself first. This will not only boost your own well-being, but also attract others who appreciate your self-awareness and confidence.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize clear communication and mutual respect. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you appreciate their support. This could mean planning a relaxing weekend getaway or surprising them with a thoughtful gesture.
Overall, this is a time of great potential for personal growth and self-improvement for you, dear Virgo. Trust in your natural analytical skills and attention to detail, and be open to new experiences and opportunities. The universe is guiding you towards greater self-awareness and emotional fulfilment.
Libra
Dear Libra,
As a gay Libra, you are known for your charm, diplomacy, and love of beauty. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for balance, harmony, and connection.
You may find yourself drawn to new social opportunities or creative endeavors, as the planets are highlighting your love of beauty and connection. This could be a great time to surround yourself with people who inspire and uplift you, as well as explore new artistic pursuits or hobbies.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly romantic and idealistic. You value partnership and may be drawn to partners who share your love of balance and harmony. However, it’s important to remember to prioritize your own needs and desires in any relationship.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to focus on cultivating new connections and building relationships with those who share your values and interests. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and make new friends. This will not only boost your social life, but also attract potential romantic partners who appreciate your charm and warmth.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize open communication and mutual respect. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you appreciate their support. This could mean planning a romantic date night or surprising them with a thoughtful gesture.
Overall, this is a time of great potential for balance, harmony, and connection for you, dear Libra. Trust in your natural charm and diplomacy, and be open to new experiences and opportunities. The universe is guiding you towards greater emotional fulfillment and personal growth.
Scorpio
Dear Scorpio,
As a gay Scorpio, you are known for your intense passion, deep emotions, and magnetic energy. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for transformation, growth, and connection.
You may find yourself drawn to exploring your deeper emotions and desires, as the planets are highlighting your natural intensity and passion. This could be a great time to delve into your inner world and work through any emotional blocks or challenges you may be facing.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly passionate and magnetic. You value deep connections and may be drawn to partners who share your intensity and emotional depth. However, it’s important to remember to prioritize clear communication and boundaries in any relationship.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to focus on self-discovery and healing. Take the time to explore your own desires and needs, and don’t be afraid to seek support from friends or a therapist if needed. This will not only boost your own emotional well-being, but also attract potential partners who appreciate your depth and authenticity.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize open communication and mutual trust. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you value their support. This could mean planning a romantic getaway or surprising them with a thoughtful gesture.
Overall, this is a time of great potential for transformation, growth, and connection for you, dear Scorpio. Trust in your natural intensity and passion, and be open to new experiences and opportunities. The universe is guiding you towards greater emotional fulfillment and personal power.
Sagittarius
Dear Sagittarius,
As a gay Sagittarius, you are known for your love of adventure, spontaneity, and optimism. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for growth, expansion, and freedom.
You may find yourself drawn to exploring new horizons or pursuing your passions, as the planets are highlighting your natural sense of adventure and curiosity. This could be a great time to travel, take up a new hobby, or embark on a new career path.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly optimistic and free-spirited. You value independence and may be drawn to partners who share your love of exploration and adventure. However, it’s important to remember to prioritize clear communication and mutual respect in any relationship.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to focus on self-discovery and pursuing your passions. Take the time to explore your own interests and desires, and don’t be afraid to try new things. This will not only boost your own sense of fulfillment, but also attract potential partners who appreciate your sense of adventure and spontaneity.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize open communication and mutual respect. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you value their support. This could mean planning a spontaneous adventure together or surprising them with a thoughtful gesture.
Overall, this is a time of great potential for growth, expansion, and freedom for you, dear Sagittarius. Trust in your natural sense of adventure and curiosity, and be open to new experiences and opportunities. The universe is guiding you towards greater personal and emotional fulfillment.
Capricorn
As a gay Capricorn, you are known for your ambitious and disciplined nature. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to help you achieve your career goals and aspirations. This may involve taking risks and making bold moves, but trust that your hard work and determination will pay off in the end.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling a bit guarded and cautious. This is understandable, as you value stability and security in your relationships. However, don’t be afraid to open yourself up to new experiences and possibilities. You may be pleasantly surprised by what you find.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to put yourself out there and meet new people. Joining a club or group related to your interests could lead to a meaningful connection. If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to keep the lines of communication open and be willing to compromise.
Overall, this is a time of growth and transformation for you, dear Capricorn. Trust in your abilities and keep pushing forward towards your dreams. The universe has big things in store for you.
Aquarius
Dear Aquarius,
As a gay Aquarius, you are known for your independent spirit, innovative ideas, and love of intellectual pursuits. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for creativity, connection, and personal growth.
You may find yourself drawn to exploring new ideas or pursuing your passions, as the planets are highlighting your natural creativity and originality. This could be a great time to dive into a new project or collaborate with others on a shared vision.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly open-minded and curious. You value intellectual stimulation and may be drawn to partners who share your love of innovation and creativity. However, it’s important to remember to prioritize clear communication and mutual respect in any relationship.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to focus on self-discovery and exploring new ideas. Take the time to explore your own passions and interests, and don’t be afraid to connect with others who share your intellectual curiosity. This will not only boost your own personal growth, but also attract potential partners who appreciate your unique perspective and originality.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize open communication and mutual understanding. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you value their support. This could mean planning a creative project together or surprising them with a thoughtful gesture.
Overall, this is a time of great potential for creativity, connection, and personal growth for you, dear Aquarius. Trust in your natural independence and innovative spirit, and be open to new experiences and opportunities. The universe is guiding you towards greater emotional fulfillment and intellectual stimulation.
Pisces
Dear Pisces,
As a gay Pisces, you are known for your compassionate nature, emotional depth, and intuitive gifts. In the month ahead, the stars are aligning to bring you new opportunities for healing, growth, and spiritual connection.
You may find yourself drawn to exploring your inner world or engaging in spiritual practices, as the planets are highlighting your natural sensitivity and intuition. This could be a great time to work through any emotional blocks or challenges you may be facing and connect with your inner wisdom.
In your romantic life, the planets suggest that you may be feeling particularly empathetic and intuitive. You value deep emotional connections and may be drawn to partners who share your sensitivity and compassion. However, it’s important to remember to prioritize clear communication and healthy boundaries in any relationship.
If you’re single, this could be a great time to focus on self-care and healing. Take the time to explore your own emotions and needs, and don’t be afraid to seek support from friends or a therapist if needed. This will not only boost your own emotional well-being, but also attract potential partners who appreciate your compassionate nature and intuitive gifts.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s important to prioritize open communication and mutual respect. Take the time to really listen to your partner and show them how much you value their support. This could mean planning a romantic evening or surprise them with a thoughtful gesture.
Overall, this is a time of great potential for healing, growth, and spiritual connection for you, dear Pisces. Trust in your natural sensitivity and intuition, and be open to new experiences and opportunities. The universe is guiding you towards greater emotional fulfillment and spiritual alignment.
ATM stands for “Ass to Mouth,” which is a sexual act where the penis or another object is inserted into the anus and then put into the mouth without washing or disinfecting it in between.
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It is considered a risky sexual activity due to the potential for bacterial infection, and should be approached with caution and proper hygiene practices.
Do gay men do ATM more often then straight people?
There is no evidence to suggest that gay men engage in ass-to-mouth any more or less frequently than any other demographic. However since more gay men partake in anal sex it is likely that gay, bi, and men who have sex with men engage in ass-to-mouth action.
It is important to remember that sexual preferences and behaviors are highly individual and vary widely among individuals of all sexual orientations. Additionally, it is worth noting that any sexual activity, including ATM, carries a risk of bacterial infection and should be approached with caution and proper hygiene practices.
What are the risks of ATM?
The risks of ATM are real… so be careful!
Engaging in ass-to-mouth sexual activity can carry a number of potential risks, including the transmission of bacterial infections. This is because the rectum and anus naturally contain a large amount of bacteria, some of which can be harmful if introduced into the mouth or other parts of the body. Some specific risks may include:
Bacterial infections: If bacteria from the anus or rectum are introduced into the mouth or throat, it can lead to infections such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, or E. coli.
STI transmission: Engaging in ATM can also increase the risk of transmitting sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like HIV, hepatitis A, and hepatitis B.
Oral health risks: In addition to the risk of bacterial infections and STI transmission, ATM can also potentially lead to oral health issues like gum disease, tooth decay, and bad breath.
Is there an ATM emoji?
Not really, but you could use this sequence to suggest you’re into ass to mouth. 🍑🍆👄, but you know it’s probs quicker to write ATM.
Who came up with the term ATM?
It’s unclear who exactly coined the term “ATM” for the sexual act of “ass to mouth.” Like many sexual terms and phrases, its origins are difficult to trace and likely developed over time within certain sexual communities.
bench at entrance. Can sit and wait, make eye contact with someone you think is cruising, tap your foot then the other guy should approach. Then can walk into the woods and find somewhere.
some dog walkers so try stay away from tracks.
Mostly used in summer midday and early evening.
If you venture far enough there’s an unexplored part of the woods that over grown. No one goes there and some sexy guys go there.
