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  • Is the Salvation Army anti-gay or homophobic?

    Is the Salvation Army anti-gay or homophobic?

    One of the most famous religious charities does have a homophobic past, but is the Salvation Army still anti-gay?

    As Christmastime nears, it won’t be unusual to see a charity collection for the Salvation Army. Usually, the collection bucket will be accompanied by a Santa, replete with Red costume and a thick, but fake white beard. However, before you offload your change into the bucket, you should be fully aware of the charity’s past policies and what it’s doing about them now.

    First and foremost, it must be understood that the Salvation Army is a religious charity, with its roots firmly embedded in Christianity. Many if not all of its policies, past and present, will have been formed from the Christian belief system.

    In 2019 the Charity said that it wanted to a atone for its anti-gay past and said that it now “better understands” the LGBT+ community.

    Did the Salvation Army support the homophobic and anti-gay Section 28 and Section 2A?

    The Salvation Army’s history is dogged with anti-gay and homophobic stories, including its support of the much-loathed and criticised Section 28 in the UK. In February 2000 it actively opposed the repealing of the homophobic bill. It wrote a letter to the then Scottish First Minister, Donald Dewar to say that it thought that repealing Section 2A (Scotland’s version of Section 28) could “potentially be harming both children and the family unit”.

    It added, “feel the floodgates could be opened, ultimately causing great hurt to both parents, teachers and our children. We are also very aware of the increasing pressures on young people to experiment with heterosexual sex at a younger age, without the additional pressure of self-questioning regarding homosexual sex”.

    Is the Salvation Army homophobic, anti-gay or anti-LGBT
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    More recently, in 2012 when the Australian Salvation Army chief suggested that gay people should be put to death and in 2014 when it was alleged that the US arm of the charity refused to help shelter a homeless transgender woman.

    The charity was also known to forbid gay people from serving as officers unless they remained celibate. In 2016 the UK’s Army chief said that he defended this policy. Even Paul O’Grady was forbidden to wear the Army’s uniform and told, “you could volunteer for us, you could come to our church services. If you want to become a soldier in the Salvation Army, you have to commit to what we believe.”

    In 2017 the Amry was embroiled in a legal dispute against the NYC Commission on Human Rights because rehabs in New York had refused to serve transgender people.

    So what’s changed and is the Salvation Army still homophobic?

    Last year, the charity’s communications director David Jolley said that these were all “isolated incidents” blaming the size of the organisation the number of people involved for incidents that “do not represent our values and service to all people who are in need”

    Jolley added, “If anyone needs help, they can find it through our doors”.

    He then added that the organisation had “evolved” saying, As we’ve better understood the needs of the LGBTQ+ community, we’ve evolved our approach.”

    “As we build and remodel emergency shelters and transitional housing across the country, we consider ways to help LGBTQ+ individuals feel safe and cared for,

    “We also have specific programs and resources across the country, such as a dorm in Las Vegas that is exclusive for transgender individuals, a detoxification facility in San Francisco that caters to those infected with HIV/AIDS, and our work in Baltimore to meet the needs of transgender individuals who are trafficked.”

    How many LGBT+ people does the Salvation Army help?

    According to a statement provided by the Salvation Army, they reckon that 40 per cent of the people they provide services to, identify as gay or transgender.

    In a statement to news channel CBS11, Commissioner David Hudson, National Commander of The Salvation Army said,

    “Regardless of race, ethnicity, sexual orientation or gender identity, we’re committed to serving anyone in need.

    “Every day, we provide services such as shelter for the transgender community and resources for homeless youth – 40 per cent of whom identify as gay or transgender.”

    However, that statistic was later discovered to be referring to the overall homeless population rather than the actual number of LGBT+ people helped by the charity.

    The charity has not made it clear how many LGBT+ people it helps across all its branches and locations.

    It opened a space for homeless LGBT+ people

    In Canada, in 2018, the Salvation Army actually opened a new space for homeless LGBT people. The space was in Winnipeg and had 15 rooms and was trialled for one year.

    “We welcome and serve people regardless of sexual orientation”

    In the UK, the charity’s own website includes a statement on its LGBT+ policies, it says, “In the United Kingdom, The Salvation Army is made up of thousands of people who worship, work, volunteer, donate and serve together every week. This includes many people who are LGBT+. We welcome and serve people regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, race, religion and ethnicity.

    “Our employment practices are non-discriminatory and we seek to create welcoming, nurturing work environments.

    “The Salvation Army finds no scriptural support for demeaning or mistreating anyone for any reason. People who come to The Salvation Army for help will receive assistance based solely on their need and our capacity to serve.”

  • How to measure your penis! You may have been measuring your penis size wrong all this time

    Just how do you measure your penis size?

    Penis size is one of those subjects that can come up often, particularly if you’re on a dating app like Grindr. But where do you measure from? Depending on where you measure from can leave you with inches worth of difference. The top, the side, underneath? These are all valid places to get a measurement, but which is the standard way?

    Well, the very question of penis size and how to measure it came up on set of a gay porn shoot recently.

    So, according to one porn star you need to use the Bone Press Method. Ever heard of it? Nope nor us. But gay porn star Mitch Matthews believes it’s the only way to get an accurate measurement.

    Mitch Matthews gives advice on how to measure your penis and penis size

    Porn blog, WeLoveGayPorn (NSFW) reports, that in his latest scene for GuysInSweatpants.com the Mitch was keen to help his co-star Dante Colle get an accurate measure of his peen – and to do this you need to measure from the top, but “press into the skin, rather than letting it (the ruler) rest on the top (of the penis). He joked, “apparently it’s the standard way!”

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    So there you have it. Have you tried the BPM?

    Ever wondered how long the average penis is?

    How big is the average penis and how to measure your penis

    According to research conducted in 2015, the average penis size worldwide is around 5.5 inches (13.9 cms) when fully erect and according to the research, the UK’s men are exactly in that spot – so the average erect penis size for men in the UK is 5.5 inches.

    The average girth according to research by the British Journal of Urology International is 4.3 inches (10.92 cms).

    Those figures were come to (no pun intended) by studying the cocks of around 17,000 men.

  • Nearly 40% of older LGBT people feel that COVID has made them more lonely

    Nearly 40% of older LGBT people feel that COVID has made them more lonely

    The COVID pandemic has had a deep impact on older members of the LGBT+ community a new report has found with nearly 40 per cent saying that they feel more lonely than usual.

    The report, by the charity, Opening Doors London revealed that the UK’s lockdowns due to the ongoing Coronavirus pandemic, have had a severe impact on older gay, lesbian, bi and transgender people as they are less likely than their heterosexual peers to have the support of children or other family members. 

    According to the charity, during the first six weeks of lockdown back in March, staff and volunteers of Opening Doors London made over 1,000 phone calls to members and reconfigured essential services to address their needs. Normally the charity organises activity groups and other social interactions, all of which had to come to an abrupt halt when the Government mandated a national lockdown in March.

    During their phone calls, Opening Doors found that half of the respondents reported that the lockdown had caused a “negative impact on their psychological wellbeing”.

    Nearly a quarter (23%) said that their physical health had worsened, while 27% said they felt they never have someone to talk to.

    Sadly, nearly 40 per cent (37%) said that they felt more lonely than usual as lockdown meant that people were able to socialise in the normal ways.

    One gay man in his 60s told the charity, “I feel more depressed than usual and I have thoughts of suicide coming into my mind” while another added, “I have found myself becoming tearful for no reason at all”

    “Covid-19 and lockdown has disproportionately increased psychological distress and other vulnerabilities among many older LGBT+ people,” said Prof Ben Thomas. “Many have been forgotten or overlooked. It’s time statutory services and local communities stepped up to meet their needs, and provide care and support, connection and interaction.”  

  • Jordan North’s gross admission: He hasn’t changed his underwear in THREE days

    Jordan North’s gross admission: He hasn’t changed his underwear in THREE days

    Much to the nation’s dismay and horror, I’m A Celebrity star Jordan North admitted that he hasn’t changed his undies in THREE days. Apparently, he’s not alone as nearly a quarter of men admit to wearing their undies TWICE before washing them and one in twenty say they were their undies 5 times before giving them a wash.

    The nation was shocked to learn that the Radio 1 DJ hadn’t changed his undies since venturing into the castle… since then the star has been scared witless as he’s been assailing, stuck in an underground vault – with snakes and forced to eat all sorts of nasties.

    We’re dreading what state his underwear must be in!

    New research has shown that 22 % of men have admitted to wearing their underwear twice in a row before washing them. OnBuy.com surveyed 2790 people to find out about our laundry habits.

    Shockingly, one in 20 men said that they wear their underwear FIVE times before washing them. The deciding factor on whether the pants got another wearing was whether the garment was “visibly dirty”.

    OnBuy uncovered that just 40% of men and 55% of women replace their underwear after one year of use; with 47% of men and 66% of women keeping their unmentionables for two to three years. Interestingly, 13% of men and 4% of women keep hold of their old underwear for more than three years in a bid to get their money’s worth!

    It goes without saying guys, WASH YOUR UNDERWEAR after every wear… Crotch Rot is real.

  • TODAY IN GAY | Section 28 in England and Wales was repealed, 2003

    TODAY IN GAY | Section 28 in England and Wales was repealed, 2003

    Section 28 was introduced by the Conservative government in 1988 and its aim was to forbid authority figures in education, such as teachers, normalising or even talking about the existence of homosexuality.

    Teachers who taught in schools during the late 1980s and 1990s were unable to teach or speak on issues of homosexuality because of the Local Government Act in England – a piece of legislation introduced by the Conservative government under Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, in 1988 banning the “promotion” of homosexuality in schools.

    It made dealing with homophobic bullying near impossible and sex education for gay, lesbian and bisexual teens was non-existent.

    Critics of the Bill say that it created an environment of fear and exclusion during a time when the AIDS epidemic was raging through the gay community. During the time of its enforcement, many LGBT+ teachers felt it prohibited them being open about their own sexual identity in the workplace, while many school-aged LGBT+ pupils were unable to access information to help them learn about being LGBT

    Religious support

    Section 28 was supported by a number of religious groups including, Salvation Army, the Christian Institute, the African and Caribbean Evangelical Alliance, Christian Action Research and Education, the Muslim Council of Britain, and groups within the Catholic Church and the Church of England.

    It became law in England, Scotland and Wales on the 24th May 1988 under Margaret Thatcher‘s Tory government.

    When was Section 28 repealed?

    Under the leadership of Prime Minister Tony Blair, the Labour government repealed the law in 2003.

    In Scotland, similar legalisation was introduced called Section 2A.

    The Scottish government was able to repeal this bill in 2000 and was, in fact, one of the first pieces of legislation enacted by the new Scottish Parliament.

  • Is Jordan North gay or straight, married or single?

    Is Jordan North gay or straight, married or single?

    The Radio 1 DJ is making a splash on this year’s I‘m A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here and people are curious about whether the star is currently married, engaged, single and whether he’s gay or straight.

    Is Jordan North gay or straight?

    Of course in 2020 does someone’s sexuality really matter? But as it happens, we don’t know if Jordan North is gay, straight, married or single as he’s not really spoken about his love life publicly before. However, if you’re wondering if he’s looking for love whilst on the show, it turns out that he’s entering I’m A Celeb single, but finding love is the furthest thing from his mind, when he told the Radio Times, “I am single at the moment. But that is not the reason why I am going in!”

    Is Jordan North married?

    Is Jordan North from I'm A Celeb gay or straight. Does he have a girlfriend, boyfriend, married?

    Nope, as it stands, Yorkshire born Jordan is not married and has made it clear that he’s not looking for love at the moment. We’ve scoured his social accounts and there’s no sign of a love life! So it appears the presenter is very private about his sex life!

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    Nope, as it stands, Yorkshire born Jordan is not married and not looking for love. We’ve scoured his social accounts and there’s no sign of a love life! So it appears the presenter is very private about his sex life!

    Where was Jordan North born and what year?

    Jordan was born on Valentine’s Day in 1990 which makes him 30 this year. Jordan was born in Yorkshire, but currently lives in London, where he presents on BBC Radio 1

    How much is Jordan North worth?

    As a BBC Radio 1 presenter, Jordan won’t be commanding a salary of millions and he didn’t turn up in the annual BBC report on employee’s salaries meaning he earns less than £150,000 from any of his DJing duties on the BBC. This doesn’t include how much he might be earning from other jobs.

    He could be earning a good sum from his stint on I’m A Celeb and once the show is over, we’re sure his paycheques will be increasing!

    How tall is Jordan North?

    Jordan is around 6 foot tall, about 1.8 metres.

  • Who is AJ Pritchard and What is he most famous for?

    Who is AJ Pritchard and What is he most famous for?

    AJ Pritchard is one of the most talked-about of the professional dancers on Strictly Come Dancing.

    Now he’s making a name for himself away from the show that made him famous with an appearance on I’m A Celebrity Get me Out Of Here.

    Here’s what we know about him.

    AJ Pritchard has become one of the most talked about professional dancers in the history of Strictly Come Dancing. He’s been dancing on that show since 2016, when he was partnered with Olympian Claudia Fragapane. In 2017 he was partnered with Mollie King. He’s also famed for trying out on Britain’s Got Talent in 2013.

    Is AJ Pritchard gay or straight?

    AJ has never publicly talked about his sexuality so we don’t know whether AJ is gay, bisexual or straight. However, there have been many rumours about him being romantically linked to his dance partner, Mollie King. These rumours have been denied by King herself.

    As far we can tell he’s not married and he’s not dating anyone.

    Is AJ from I'm A Celebrity gay?

    Where is AJ Pritchard from?

    AJ Pritchard was born with the name, Alex Joseph Pritchard in Stoke-On-Trent. He was born on November 5th, 1994 which makes him 23-year-old.

    When did AJ start dancing?

    AJ started dancing at a very young age. His parents own a dance school called, Pritchard’s Dance and Fitness Academy, which is in Cheshire. He started dancing professionally from the age of 12.

    Is Strictly the only show AJ is famous for?

    In 2013, he and his dance partner Chloe Hewitt took part in the seventh series of the ITV show, Britain’s Got Talent. They wowed the judges and made it to the fourth semi finale before being eliminated.

    How tall is AJ Pritchard?

    AJ is 1.71 metres tall or 5 foot 7.3 inches

  • Here’s how spelling out your name during sex is a genius move

    Here’s how spelling out your name during sex is a genius move

    This little trick is a stroke of genius and will help you with your staying power, according to one sexpert.

    Premature Ejaculation affects lots of guys. Almost every guy has suffered at least one moment of “oh dammit” before spirting their load way before they actually wanted to.

    However, there is a quick fix that requires no medicine, no trips to a doctor or psych evaluation. Nope, it’s something you can do, by yourself and nobody even has to know you’re doing it.

    Sexpert and sex worker, Jack Devon, told us, “Despite what we see in porn, sex can be over pretty quickly and that’s completely normal… in fact, a study for the NHS, involving 500 couples showed that sex usually lasts around 5 and a half minutes, which is a long way off that 20-minute scene you’re enjoying on PornHub, but it can be incredibly annoying and frustrating, particularly for the guy that climaxes first, if they didn’t mean to…”

    Spell out your name (or theirs)

    So there’s a quick exercise to do before reaching out for medical intervention. Try spelling out your name.

    Jack told us, “When you’re concentrating on something else, like spelling out your name even for a minute it can take you out of the moment and allow you to reset things, without stopping the action altogether. If you’ve only got a short name, try spelling out your entire name and then spell it backwards. Do this a few times until you feel your urge to climax subside.

    According to Pharmacist Phil Day even taking some deep breaths can help as it “briefly shuts down the ejaculatory reflex (an automatic reflex of the body during which ejaculation occurs)”

    Cheap (actually it’s free)

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    The best thing about this move is that it’s completely free to try, so you’ve nothing to lose by trying it out.

    Jack added, “Do it in your mind. Don’t actually speak it out loud, that’s not a great look, particularly if the guy is dirty talking to you and start spelling your name out loud.”

  • Be a gay dating app expert with these five etiquette musts

    Be a gay dating app expert with these five etiquette musts

    Do… Use your best pic

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    Dig deep into your Facebook tagged photos and find a nice when in the sun with a cocktail and a decent backdrop. If you’re stuck for choice, perhaps do what every other Grindr user does and take a selfie in the mirror of your local gym changing room. That way, at least everyone knows you keep fit.

    Don’t…immediately send a dick pic

    Striking up a conversation via a picture of your penis is like Victoria Beckham singing – sin against nature. Sending a blurry photo of your willy is not going to make anyone think “Let’s go Prezzo”. If you, for whatever reason, have an urgent need to send one, do it after at least a day of conversation and, as with your profile picture, make sure it is the best it could be. I’m talking about the right angle and the right filter – no one wants a photo with dodgy lighting.

    Do…be grammatically correct.

    “Hello, how are you?” sounds far better than “hey, u alrite?” so make sure to use your best grammar when trying to secure a date or even a bit of fun. No one is going to be enticed to have sex with you when you chat like a 14-year-old on MSN.

    Don’t…slate gays in your bio.

    “I like my men to be men”; “straight acting guys only; “if I can’t see your eyebrows then I don’t want to see you”. When devising your bio, try not to come across as a wanker. Some gay men decide to be their own enemy and it doesn’t exactly scream, “date me”.

    Do…talk about safer sex.

    Let’s be honest – most gay dating apps amount to anonymous sex with someone you’ve never met before and don’t really know much about except for the size of their penis so, let’s be clear, condoms, PrEP and regular testing if you’re sexually active are absolutely essential…

    This article was first published in August 2015 and has been updated.

  • FILM REVIEW | Dating Amber – Growing up gay is not easy

    FILM REVIEW | Dating Amber – Growing up gay is not easy

    Rating: 4 out of 5.

    Fionn O’Shea and Lola Petticrew are just about perfect as a young couple who pretend to fall in love in1995 Ireland in the new film Dating Amber.

    But they are not an actual couple. You see Eddie (O’Shea) is Gay (though he won’t admit it), and Amber (Petticrew) is a Lesbian, and both are on the cusp of finishing their last year of high school. Amber, who lives with her widowed mother in a trailer park, has dreams of moving to London after she graduates. Eddie, meanwhile, plans to go into the military to follow in his father’s footsteps. But to survive their final year at school, and to ward off name-calling and bullying from their fellow students, they decide to pretend to be a couple (this is after a failed attempt on Eddie’s part to woo a blond girl, though he fails to grab her boob during a groping session).

    Eddie and Amber go through their charade and actually make a perfect couple; Eddie is shy, very cute and adorable, while Amber is aggressive, knows what she wants, and has all the best lines. However, after a night out to a gay bar in Dublin where Amber meets someone, and Eddie still not quite ready to accept that he’s gay, the pressure is on for him to take charge of his life, to appease his father (Barry Ward) and very understanding and knowing mother (Sharon Horgan), alongside his know-it-all younger brother (Evan O’Connor). 

    This coming-of-age comedy is a poignant, honest and funny look at the highs and lows of teenage life while growing up in a conservative environment where young people who are different don’t seem to fit in. Both leads are just absolutely perfect, the feel of mid-90s Ireland comes through the screen, and the funny script makes Dating Amber the one of best romantic comedy and growing up films of the year.

    Now available on Demand and Digital

  • Bops for Bottoms – 5 songs to get things moving in the bedroom

    Bops for Bottoms – 5 songs to get things moving in the bedroom

    I love a good playlist; I’ve got one for every occasion. Whether I want to get hot and sweaty in the gym or need something to get me through the commute to the office. My favourite, and most exciting, is the one I’ve got going on for the bedroom. Either your gonna be turned off right now, or incredibly turned on.

    Does your bone-ing session really need to be soundtracked? No, but it can help. There have been various studies that prove that sex and music really do go well together, and surprisingly it has a lot to do with science. Neurophysiologist Dr Rhonda Freeman says that “music is likely to affect three regions of the brain – the reward or pleasure system, the social affliction or bonding system, and the limbic system (which processes emotions)”.

    So now we understand and are on the same page; here are my five essential picks to include in your next bedroom gymnastics session.

    Britney Spears – “Breathe on Me”

    This ‘In the Zone‘ deep cut is the perfect place to start. By 2003, Britney was becoming a full-on sexual seductress; and “Breathe on Me” is the perfect place to start. Turn the lights down low, let the pulsating beat take over and let your imagination run wild. This is the ideal song to get things hot and sweaty, foreplay is the place to start and with this little piece of pop-heaven, you’re guaranteed to get your man ready to bone within seconds. Listen to the lyrics and Britney will tell you exactly what to do; it’s as easy as riding a bike; “Monogamy is the way to go / Just put your lips together and blow”.

    Kylie Minogue – “Slow”

    “Read my body language” indeed. This synth-led sex bop is another great song to get you and your partner in the mood. This song gives you a little bit of time to breathe before the boning really gets going. Continue on with the foreplay and let the music guide you and your partner into the bedroom, slowly undressing as you make yourselves comfortable. Maybe use this to give your partner a sexy dance to help him get in the mood? Allow each other to explore your bodies. For the ultimate experience, I would opt for the Extended Mix which is bound to get you all hot under the collar.

    Beyonce – “Crazy in Love”

    We’re talking about the “Fifty Shades of Grey” version here. Although, if your in the mood to power bottom you could try the original version. This sultry reinterpretation of the dancefloor classic is going to get things moving a bit quicker, it’s the ideal song to experiment and get down and dirty too, whilst still giving a sensual edge. This is on my playlist a couple of times, because it just gets me going everytime.

    Ariana Grande – “Side to Side”

    Now we’re into balls to the wall, bone-ing territory. There are many Ariana Grande songs that you could use, but I always find “Side to Side” to be the one. Use the beat to get yourselves going and relax into it. it’s always best when both parties are relaxed, and things can progress naturally, the increase in tempo during the Minaj-Rap is perfect to intensify things, and any good bottom will be able to use moan those adlibs.

    Josef Salvat – “in the afternoon”

    This isn’t an obvious choice for many, but Salvat’s dulcet tones do many things to me. It’s the perfect post bonk comedown track. When your both depleted, it’s relaxing track which you can snuggle together and mellow in. “in the afternoon” is a bop and a half, that can spur on round two if you’re feeling that way inclined.

    Obviously, these are just a selection of songs that you can use on your playlist, and there are many others. If you’re going to do this, then don’t just use a Spotify playlist that’s already been done, take some time to create your own and find stuff that you are into or your partner is into. It doesn’t have to be a marathon 10-hour playlist, 10/15 tracks that get you going is just fine, and don’t be afraid to experiment.

    Remember, the best sex is where both parties are enjoying themselves, some people don’t enjoy sex to music, but it’s a conversation worth having and maybe you could create it together.

    Happy bone-ing!