Tag: Top List

  • 6 Reasons Everybody is Talking About Fleur Easts SAX

    Ever since her definitive performance of Uptown Funk the British public have been aching for more Fleur East… She’s just released Sax and here’s 6 reasons why everybody is talking about it.

    Pastels is back

    If her colourful video is anything to go by pastel colours are back… Seems like we’re living in a Refresher world.

    Young Whitney

    The look of a young Whitney (we’re sounding like Louis Walsh) are undeniable. Fleur is channelling Whitney in I Wanna Dance With Somebody.

    >5 outfit changes in 4 minutes

    Five yes five – count them… There’s a sneaky pastel in there plus a Red, Gold and Purple… Back in the day Britney would just put up with two.

    It’s not quite as good as “Uptown Funk” But It Still Works

    Sorry y’all but it’s true.

    Moves Like Paula Abdul

    We’re loving the dance breaks… Reminds us of a young Paula Abdul…

    Abs Is Back

    She’s got those abs even Anatascia would cry over.

  • Who Are The Men James Corden Has Kissed?

    Who Are The Men James Corden Has Kissed?

    So who are the men James Corden has kissed? There’s a long list…

    James Corden kisses Harry Styles

    When world’s collide this is basically what happens. The pair locked lips for a TV segment for Sky 1’s A League Of Their Own.

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  • 10 UK Queens Who Would Slay In RuPaul’s Drag Race

    Imagine if you will, that there was a British Drag Race… Oh, how wonderful would that be. Well, there’s such a wealth of drag talent in the UK we’d be spoilt for choice, well here’s our top 10…

     

    10) Meth

    Slightly amazing… Beautiful to boot. A real contender for winner if there was a British Drag Race.

     

     

    9) Sassi Afrika

    Warwickshire’s number 1 drag queen – has released a number of tracks from her album Shockalolic our favourite in the office is Pink To Make The Boys Wink. Take a listen you’ll soon realise why it’s genius. She’s not working… She’s working it.

     

     

    8) Mary Mac

    A powerhouse Scottish queen, whose vocals are second to none. Was a part of the Supreme Fabulettes before going on to front her own show at The Admiral Duncan.

     

     

    7) Crystal D’Cantor

    This fabulous queen is what British Drag is all about, getting down with the crowd, wearing the biggest wig you can find/afford and animal print. Always animal print. You could write what this queen doesn’t know about backcombing on the back leg of a My Little Pony.

     

     

    6) Sandra

    There probably isn’t a club, bar, backroom or toilet that Sandra hasn’t performed in. Having been on the scene for over 15 years – Sandra has sworn, blown and bitch slapped her way to our top 10 ten. All hail the Whore Of Hampsted.

     

    5) Dave Lynn

    Ah Dave Lynn… In a career that’s spanned 35 years Dave Lynn knows how to control an audience like a wireless vibrator. She rose to fame after entering a competition at the now defunct Black Cap and the only queen to have appeared on The Weakest Link with Anne Robinson (praise be) 4 times.

     

     

    4) Dusty O

    Described as queen bee of Soho, you wouldn’t want to get on the wrong side of Dusty O once she’s up on stage, with mic in hand.

     

     

    3) Titti La Camp

    Basically RuPaul would have no idea what hit her if Titti was in the house – it’d most likely be a chicken leg. Titti La Camp’s routine, is, well the stuff of legend. The audience knows what’s coming up and loves every moment of it. From Michelle McManus to Karen Carpenter.

     

     

    2) Regina Fong

    Regina Fong is fondly remembered by those on London’s gay scene. She coined the phrase Her Imperial Highness. Sadly Fong died in 2003 from Cancer aged just 56.

     

     

    1) Paul O’Grady as Lily Savage

    Possibly the most famous drag queen the UK has ever enjoyed. Although Paul O’Grady is unlikely to don another pair of heels, we think Paul O’Grady could teach even Ru a thing or two about Drag.

     

  • 8 Reasons To Test For HIV

    As National HIV Testing week draws close, the reasons to test for HIV have never been clearer.

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    HIV is 3 letters, not a sentence. Especially for those who are able to treat the virus, and early detection means better results and a longer, healthier life. Here are eight reasons to test for HIV.

    1) Be In The Know. According to Public Health England there are 103,700 people in the UK living with HIV. Over 18,000 of them don’t know they have it – and could be spreading the virus even further. There are an estimated 6,500 gay or bisexual men who don’t know that they are living with HIV.

    2) Early Bird. Early detection means better results from the treatment for HIV, resulting in a longer, healthier life.

    3) You’re Not Alone. If you’re afraid that you might not cope with a HIV diagnosis, there are loads and loads of support groups, charities and healthcare professionals to help you. All you have to do is ask for help. You won’t have to face HIV alone.

    4) Stigma Exists. One of the most difficult things many people living with HIV find is the stigma that still exists around the status. Medicine has come a long way; society has yet to follow on as quickly. Getting tested often means that you could be more mindful about your health.

    5) Knowledge Is Power. Sleeping with someone who knows that they are HIV positive could be safer than having sex with someone who doesn’t know their status and may take more risks.

    6) Restart The Clock. Without being glib, many people who have learnt that they are HIV positive have talked about feeling the opportunity to restart the clock. Changes to lifestyle and diet become a priority and general interest in your health can only be a good thing.

    7) Engaged With Your Sex. Getting tested means you’re taking responsibility for your general health and your sexual health – good for you and great for the people you sleep with.

    8) No Longer Need To Go The Clinic. You can now get a self-test kit that can be performed wherever and whenever is convenient for you. Best of all with the BioSure kit you only need half a drop of blood and not a vial full that some other kits require. Testing yourself just takes seconds with easy to read results in only 15 minutes, without you having to send them off to a lab. No waiting in the sexual health clinic. No waiting a week for results to be texted to you.

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  • 12 Mistakes Gay Guys Make On Dating Profiles

    Not getting the responses you want from your dating profile perhaps there’s something you’re doing wrong.We asked our readers what where the most common mistakes they found on guy’s profiles on dating sites and hook up apps.

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    1) Too Much, Too Soon.

    Nothing says, “I’m serious about dating and maybe actually finding love online” than a picture of you, a sling and four of your most intimate friends using a power tool you could dig up pavements with. A bit of showmanship never hurt anyone, but laying it all out like it’s on a butcher’s block doesn’t scream “I’m all about the exclusivity” does it?

    2) No Fats, Femmes Or Rice.

    I mean just who do you think you are? Say what you like in a man, not what you don’t. Start the conversation positive rather than flood your online space with negativity. Plus don’t be a racist, fatist, internalised homophobic douche.

    3) The Game Stops Here.

    Don’t play endless games, it’s no longer the 90s. Throw away the dating self-help books that tell you, a) not to call after 6pm, b) not to accept dates the day before, and c) to only ever show him the bedroom after the wedding day. Not only is it a massive waste of your time but let’s be honest it’s time when you could actually be jumping each other’s bones. Playing games is manipulative and no one is looking for a nasty lover, unless of course you’re Janet Jackson.

    4) Be Yourself.

    Honesty is the best policy. Shane Greene from dating site AllMale says, “Do not try to be something you’re not, just be yourself. The possibility of finding a match online leads some men to detach from what makes them who they are offline. Many men new to online dating “beef up” their profiles with details that aren’t true hoping to somehow be better than they already are naturally.”

    This may seem like a cool idea but these men quickly realise they will be attracting men who are interested in their online persona and not who they really are. You want someone who is interested in what you actually are. That requires you to be honest and accurate about yourself from the very start.”

    5) I just can’t deal…

    No one likes a killjoy – stop complaining that you can’t find at date / don’t earn enough / what a douche your ex is / even your cat hates you. A dating profile is an advert. It’s about selling yourself as someone who is a stable, coherent, fun-to-be- around, loveable guy. Be smart, funny and tell us the good things about you.

    6) Spellcheck.

    Dear god, does a little spell check hort? If you can’t get the little details right what on earth are you going to be like at the other stuff?

    7) Are we dating you or her?

    We don’t care if you and your bessie had a crazy night in Blackpool. Take a picture with just you. After all we’re not going on a date with her as well – and if we are, we might need to revaluate this whole thing.

    8) Torso To Be Or Torso Not To Be.

    If you can’t show your face but you can show your torso/cock/butt then we have to consider your priorities. If you’re looking for love then show your face, your eyes and your smile.

    9) Hi-di-Hi!

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    Come on, be original. First words count so don’t waste them with a “hi” or “hey”. Try adding some vocab, you know, like words. Not sure what to write? Try something like, “hi, nice profile pic – where was it taken?” Or, “Hey, I like your T shirt, where did you get it from?” – get the conversation flowing with open questions, those questions that lead to a conversation, questions that can’t be answered with a “yes” or a simple “no”.

    10 )Don’t Fall In Love After Two Days Of Messages.

    We’ve all done it, fallen hard for someone we’ve only just met 2 days ago online but have both shared a sunset, sunrise and Lorraine on ITV. Spending hours on hours getting to know someone online is okay, but the magic happens in the real world. As Cher said, it’ll be in his kiss – not his keyboard.

    11) Top To Bottom.

    Spell it out; you’ve got to make sure you’re compatible with your sexual preferences. If you’re a top – say so, if you’re a power bottom 2.0 then say so. Nothing worse than spending lots of time chatting to someone only to find that you both point north – of course, if you’re both not into penetration then this is cool – but the likelihood is that sex and sexual roles will play a massive part in any future relationship.

    12) Don’t Over Share.

    Be careful what info you put on your dating profiles and what you tell people before you really get to know them. Personal data, such as home address, bank sort codes and your mother’s maiden name aren’t things you should be sharing with anyone. An online date is just like your bank, they should never ask for your password.
  • COMMENT: 7 Reasons Why X Factor Isn’t As Good As It Used To Be

    Who doesn’t love The X Factor? Well, apparently 8 million less people than 5 years ago.

    This year has seen the worst ratings for the show since it started and ITV are panicking.

    Despite on the surface the show being the same as it’s ever been, a camp festival of fun and frolics with the best and worst singers the UK has to offer, a rot has set in and considerably less people are watching it this year. But why has Simon Cowell’s baby lost so many viewers? What has changed about the show that is putting people off?

    It’s impossible to pin it down to one thing because that could be easily changed. A series of events in the history of the show has meant people aren’t as enamoured with the show. I’m going to take a look at what I believe has gone so terribly wrong.

    1. The personnel factor. The first 3 series were the same judges of Simon Cowell, Louis Walsh and Sharon Osbourne, series 4 added Dannii Minogue then series 5, 6 and 7 kept with the same 4 judges after adding Cheryl Fernandez Versini who was actually relevant at the time after Osbourne left. But series 8 onwards has seen a rotating roster of judges changing year on year and constant changes in format to try and keep the show fresh and people can’t rely on what they know and couldn’t relate any more, and by the sounds of the reception of Nick Grimshaw this year, he won’t be back next year. Rita Ora also hasn’t made much of an impression; she’s just kind of there. The new presenters of the main show, Olly Murs and Caroline Flack, who went down well on the sister show The Xtra Factor, have even been compared to the car crash of a presenting team of Samantha Fox and Mick Fleetwood. The loss of Dermot O’Leary as main presenter and Louis Walsh as a judge has apparently really bothered people.

    2. The contestant factor. In the early years the weird and terrible ones were always kept to the initial auditions and possibly made it through to boot camp, but didn’t make it any further. These were generally hilarious, and in some cases downright scary (Ariel Burdett anyone?) but we were safe in the knowledge that this would be the only time we’d see them ever again. It’s what made the show entertaining, you could cringe along to these poor idiots who had been told by their parents and friends they were amazing, only to be ruthlessly torn apart by Cowell and co. Yes there were the camp and cheesy ones like Chico and Same difference who made it tot the live shows in the first few series, but they actually could sing, and could be entertaining in a slightly cringey way, But in 2009, Irish twins John & Edward Grimes, who everyone could hear couldn’t sing a note between them, made it through to the live shows, and stayed far longer than was thought possible, and after that there had to be a contestant who wasn’t very talented yet the judges kept insisting were “entertaining”. Which leads me to…

    3. The Fix Factor. Despite Dannii Minogue getting increasing annoyed, Jedward managed to survive to come 6th in 2009 and the whispers about foreknowledge by the judges started. Every time the twins ended in the bottom two, it would mysteriously go to deadlock or the judges would vote to save them, and they would get through another week. And year on year the same thing started to happen, contestants who were bad singers would survive much longer than expected and the whispers started to become chatter. The straw that broke the camels back though, was in 2012, when camp as Christmas contestant, Rylan Clark was dramatically saved by the deadlock vote after Louis was seen being talked too by a producer of the show during the save me song of Carolynne Poole. After he said he wanted to save Carolynne, the presenter Dermot O’Leary kept insisting that Louis say whom he wanted to send home, until Louis said he wanted to take it to deadlock. If you watch the video, you can hear a clearly exasperated Gary Barlow ask, “Why deadlock?” To which Louis appears to answer “Apparently I have to Gary” Seriously people go watch it. But it isn’t just the terrible singer contestants who were saved. After ranting on stage at the six chairs challenge this year, Mason Noise didn’t earn a chair, yet he’s on the live shows after Tom Bleasby quit before Judges Houses. There’s also the little issue of a picture of Seann Miley Moore being put up as part Nick Grimshaw’s final 3 before he was even announced. That could’ve been a technical hitch, but it raises questions.

    4. The sustainability factor. Year in and out The X Factor promises to find the next big star, and fill their world with countless millions of fans and albums and money a plenty. But hold on a second, what are the odds actually like to get a sustained career out of The X Factor? Since 2004, 142 contestants (not including this year) have made it through to the live shows. Can you name me 10 of them who are still in the public eye without using Google? Don’t worry I’ll wait…How many did you manage? By my calculations, of that number, less than 15 of them have had a career that lasted over a year, and not always in music. These are not having the odds ever in your favour when it comes to getting a career, and I think the public has cottoned on to that fact and are rebelling against the format of all these types of shows. It remains to be seen if any of the 13 contestants from this year can forge a living out of it, but chances are we’ll have forgotten them by next year or simply not care enough about them.

    5. The predictability factor. Once the live shows start you can usually see who the judges favour. They get given the best set ups, and the best songs and production value, and they are praised week after week, even if the performance is bland and predictable. Then there’s the same old phrases trotted out. When Louis was there, it was always, “You look like a pop star and you sound like a pop star”. But as the show progressed it became painfully obvious who was getting the most attention and who the public were being manipulated to like and vote for. As soon as I heard Mason Noise was coming back, I knew they would sacrifice someone more talented and likeable, like Simon Lynch or Josh Daniel in order to try and create headlines by having the bad boy back and showing his redemption of his past actions.

    6. The manufactured factor. Yes, yes I know, it’s reality TV and there is always going to be a certain amount of manipulation to make good TV, but it’s scary how many of the contestants are scouted by the producers rather than being a nobody who walks in off the street. Filipina girl group 4th Impact, have from the start been made out to be these four sisters who sacrificed everything to make it to the UK version of the X-Factor, but the truth is a little shadier. They have performed on various other talent shows in The Philippines and in South Korea and done reasonably well on them. The other side of it is that the genuine participants who haven’t been selected by the producers beforehand have been through at least 3 auditions already, before they even get to meet the main judges, so the reason why they seem so utterly put out when they are told they are awful is because they have been told 3 times they are good enough to meet the main judges.

    7. The same old format factor. The show has become dull, despite the attempts to inject life into it; there is absolutely nothing new that makes it interesting any more. None of the finalists stand out for the right reasons, none of their voices are unique and even the celebrity duets aren’t anything like they used to be. In the past we’ve had Rihanna, Christina Aguilera, Beyoncé, George Michael and Michael Bublé singing with the final 3. Recently they’ve had to get the judges Nicole Scherzinger, Gary Barlow, Tulisa, and Kelly Rowland (hopefully they won’t let Cheryl do it this year) and previous contestants like Ella Henderson to do the duets. The whole show has become tired, and with one more contracted year to go, maybe 2016 should be the last time we see The X Factor.
    How would you save The X Factor from certain doom? What would you do to breathe some fresh life into it?
    by Andy Elliot Griffiths | @AndyEG1982

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  • 10 Ways To Wake Up Happy

    10 Ways To Wake Up Happy

    How we wake up, sets us up for the rest of our day.

    Could blue light be keeping you up and creating a bad environment for you? CREDIT: Minerva-Studio-bigstock

    Sadly most people these days wake up as stressed as they went to bed. This means that we often wake up dreading the day instead of being ready to take it on. It is easy to change this by doing a few simple things in your early morning routine, but a lot of people think this might take too much time.

    This is a misconception as in fact: taking a few minutes in the morning to get ready for the day will boost your energy levels and will make you work faster: leaving you with more time by the end of the day to do things you really want to do: like hobbies.

    1. Avoid screens (1). Waking up clear headed begins with going to bed clear headed. Stop turning on your computer late at night thinking “I’ll just do that one last thing …” as we all know you’ll still be doing that one last thing at 3.00PM. Instead of pulling all-nighters you’ll be far more productive during the day if you avoid flashing screens altogether for at least half an hour before you go to sleep. Rest your mind with a book or listening to some soft music or a radio play.

    Your brain needs to recover from the glare of the computer, followed by the glare of the TV. An overload of images right before going to bed is detrimental to a good nights rest.

    2. Get things ready before going to bed. Choose what you’re going to wear the next day early the evening before. After this think about what else you might need and put it out. Getting details in order the evening before saves you precious time and stress in the morning.

    3. Wake up at-least half an hour before you have to. It’s a myth to think that it’s that extra half hour of sleep that would help you to wake up feeling refreshed. You’d be surprised to know that this is not the case. Waking up a little earlier means you can start your day slow and relaxed, as you have some time for yourself instead of; jumping out of bed, rushing into the shower, wolfing down your breakfast and dashing out.

    4. Do NOT set an alarm. This might sound odd, but there is a very good reason for this: when you use an alarm to stir you in the morning you do not wake up naturally. The sudden beeps of the alarm disrupt your sleep and you jolt awake abruptly, stressed out before you’ve even opened your eyes. Hitting the snooze button after this makes things even worse as dozing off means you will be waking up again ten minutes later at the beginning of the sleep cycle. The worst point to be woken up.

    Instead of using your alarm try and exercise mind and body into resetting your biological clock so you’ll wake naturally. I do not advise to start training this during a working week as you may run into trouble.

    5. Avoid screens (2). Do not reach out for your phone or laptop the second you wake up. Those e-mails, messages and Tweets can wait. Immediately going for the phone means you’re starting work the moment you wake up causing stress levels to rise abruptly. Reading Twitter does not equal time for yourself. The internet late at night you’ll be on that phone/tablet for the next 40+ minutes, losing precious time and will stressed for the rest of the day.

    6. Begin the day with positive affirmations: Find a motivational meditation that speaks to you and play it the moment you wake up. Early in the morning, your mind is very susceptible and the affirmations will remain with you throughout the day.

    Alternatively, if you do not like to play recordings early in the morning: reading positive affirmations instead will do just as well.

    7. Go over your daily goals: What was it you had planned for the day? What is essential? Remember it and think about how you want to do it.

    8. Do some exercise: Some people swear by exercising first thing in the morning: it is easy to see why: it gets done and sets you up for the rest of the day. It is also obvious why many more people feel quite queasy at the thought of doing strenuous exercise first thing in the morning.

    Still, even if you don’t like working out first thing in the morning, it is a good idea to at least do something to wake up your body, your metabolism and your mind. Try ten minutes of easy exercise that suit you. A bit of yoga, for example, a few sit-ups a little cardio or pilates, even going up and down the stairs a few times. (Always, always stretch before anything you do though!!) Doing some moves early in the morning is like physical coffee that gets you going.

    9. Practice Mindfulness: Take your breakfast and relax. Eat slowly and try to truly taste what you are eating. After you have finished don’t jump up immediately but slowly close your eyes and do a brief body scan. Take a few breaths and pay attention to what you feel and hear around you. This should take no more than two or three minutes: a mini meditation.

    10. Talk to your loved ones: Take some time out to talk to your partner/family or live in friend. Give a kiss and a cuddle. The best way to start the day is with love.

  • Gay Bars That Have Closed In London Since The Turn Of The Century

    Gay Bars That Have Closed In London Since The Turn Of The Century

    There’s a lot of conversation over the number of gay/LGBT bars and clubs that have closed in recent years, using an old copy of Fluid magazine, (which no longer exist either) from 2001 we discover the bars, clubs or gay nights that have closed in London since 2000.

    Can you help us create a full listing complete with pictures? We’re trying to create the ultimate Lost LGBT Scene archive. If you have any details you can add to the descriptions or have photos please click on the venue and use the comment section at the bottom of the page to add your memories.

    Gay Bars Closed (124)

    (Click on the name to go to the venue’s page)

    1. 3 Monkey: Greenwich
    2. The Angel: a cabaret bar in Stratford.
    3. The Anvil: rather sleazy bar within the Shipwrights Arms in Tooley Street
    4. Artful Dodger: in Highbury and Islington.
    5. The Backstreet: London’s longest-running fetish and leather club 1985-2022.
    6. The Bar: a large style cafe bar in Shoreditch.
    7. Bar Aquda: on Maiden Lane near Covent Garden.
    8. Barcode Vauxhall: cruisy bar in Albert Embankment. 1996 – 2015
    9. Barcode: a dancey bar in Soho which closed in the late 00s.
    10. Bar Fusion: in Islington.
    11. Bar Titania: Was on Charing Cross Road on the site of the old Ku Bar next to Manbar/CXR. Closed 2016.
    12. The Birdcage: A traditional friendly pub in Chiswick which closed in 2006.
    13. The Black Cap: legendary North London drag bar and club which closed in 2015. 1965 – 2015
    14. The Black Horse: East end gay bar near Stepney Green.
    15. Blackout: an Art Deco style cocktail bar on Molton Street
    16. The Blush Bar: a lesbian bar in Stoke Newington. 1997 – 2015.
    17. The Boltons: Corner of Earls Court Rd & Brompton Rd
    18. The Box: relaxed cafe on Seven Dials near Covent Garden.
    19. Brewery Tap: a friendly local gay bar in Stockwell
    20. Brewers Tap: Walthamstow 
    21. The Britannia: a different themed night every night in Leytonstone
    22. Brief Encounters
    23. The British Prince: An intimate east end boozer near Limehouse
    24. Bromptons: Big and cruisy was once part of the now-defunct Earl’s Court gay scene. Is now being turned into flats. 1984 – 2008.
    25. Buzz Bar: Bar in Clapham Junction
    26. Cafe Au-Reole: gay bar set on two floors, was part of the Earl’s Court gay scene.
    27. Central Station, Walthamstow: gay bar with nightly entertainment in Walthamstow.
    28. Candy Bar: London’s number one Lesbian bar – had a brief reopening, but closed again in 2014. 1996 – 2014
    29. Catch 22: short-lived gay bar in Wood Green, the most northern gay bar in London.
    30. The Cellar Bar, Charing Cross
    31. Citrus Grove: Fridays only in Gipsy Hill.
    32. The Champion: long-running and unpretentious in Notting Hill.
    33. Copacabana: Disco bar in Earls Court closed in the late 90s
    34. Cock: a traditional pub in Kennington which closed in 2005.
    35. Cock and Comfort: large gay boozer in Bethnal Green
    36. The Coleherne: bar which tried to rebrand in 2008 becoming the Pembroke. It was London’s oldest gay bar until its closure.
    37. The Coronet: described as a stylish east end bar, near Stratford, now apartments
    38. Compass: Islington
    39. Crews: Central London, on St. Martin’s Lane. Read a story about why Crews was opened.
    40. Crown and Anchor: a gay and mixed pub in Bromley North. Closed in 2006 and reopened as a non-gay bar and told customers who were looking for a gay bar to go to Stonewall bar in Lewisham – also now closed.
    41. David Warriors A Bar: for men with attitude – men only in Southwark
    42. Due South: in Stoke Newington
    43. Dukes: a gay bar which was very popular with bears in Vauxhall It now operates as Eagle London, which is still a gay venue.
    44. The Duke of Clarence: Lesbian bar on Rotherfield Street, just off Essex Road, Islington.
    45. The Duke of Wellington: mixed and friendly bar in Islington.
    46. Edge, The: 4 Storey gay bar perched on the edge of Soho Square.
    47. Embassy, The
    48. Escape: Popular dance bar with student night in Soho, closed in 2014. 1998 – 2014.
    49. Fallen AngelIslington. Bar with rooms upstairs where support groups would meet. Has now been turned into flats.
    50. Flag, The, Finsbury Park
    51. The Fort: a cruisy gay bar in Elephant and Castle. Was reported closed in August 2011. 1997 – 2011.
    52. First Out Cafe Bar: legendary gay venue lasted 25 years before closing in 2011. 1986 – 2011.
    53. The George Music Bar: Cosy bar in Isleworth.
    54. Goose and Carrot: a gay-friendly mixed pub in Croydon
    55. Gladstone Arms: gay bar in Borough which had regular themed nights.
    56. Gloucester, The: Gay bar featured in Beautiful Thing
    57. The Green: Swanky, an upmarket bar on Upper Street, Islington. 2007 – 2012.
    58. The Green Carnation: Upper market wine bar on the edge of Soho. Closed in 2015.
    59. The Green Man: Traditional and mixed in Harlesden.
    60. George And Dragon: in Shoreditch was forced to close after a dramatic price hike in its lease.
    61. Golden Lion, Kings Cross
    62. The Halfway House: described as east London’s friendly gay bar in Bethnal Green.
    63. Harpoon Louis The bar upstairs, Harpoon Louie’s (later Harpo’s and later still Banana Max), was until the late 1980s among the most popular gay bars in London. It is now a Wagamama restaurant. Above the Copa in Earls Court Road, it was the largest gay bar in London, on 3 levels with an extensive garden. Opened in 1983 and closed in 1997 (thanks to John for the info)
    64. The Hoist: cruise and sex venue for guys in Vauxhall. Closed in January 2017 after 21 years in business
    65. The Horns: cruise bar at London Bridge.
    66. Jacomos
    67. The Joiner’s Arms: Long established LGBT space which closed in January 2015 1997 – 2015
    68. Jonathan’s
    69. The Jubilee Tavern
    70. Two8Six: Was a pub formerly known as Stonewalls, it closed in 2012. The 1960s – 2012
    71. Kazbar: Announced it would close at the end of 2016. Was one of two gay bars in Clapham, the other being The Two Brewers.
    72. Kensington Roof Gardens: had a gay night on Sundays.
    73. King Edward IV: in Islington closed in 2011. 1966 – 2011
    74. Kudos
    75. Leinster, The: The pub opened in 1998 and closed in 2005 on two floors, a traditional gay pub for the “Chelsea crowd” The pub which was on the corner of Ossington St has since been demolished. (Thanks to John for the info)
    76. Limelight, On Charing Cross Road, near the Palace Theatre. Was a Sunday night evening event.
    77. The Little Apple: traditional gay pub closed in 2014. 1993 – 2014
    78. Lo-Profile: a gay bar started by the dating site, Gaydar, closed in 2013.
    79. London Apprentice: Old Street, North London
    80. Lower Ground: a basement bar in West Hampstead.
    81. Lounge: iconic lesbian night which closed and then reopens and then closed again.
    82. Macbeth, Thegay run pub near Old Street.
    83. Madame Jo Jos: famed Drag venue which closed in 2014. 1966 – 2014
    84. Manbar: the bar that went on to replace CRX79 on Tottenham Court Road.
    85. The Market Tavern: Islington.
    86. Molly Moggsa friendly and brash central London pub, famous for its larger than life drag queens, karaoke and friendly staff. One of the oldest LGBT pubs in the UK.  Molly Moggs has now reopened. Update 2019 It is now closed and reopened as another bar, which isn’t LGBT.
    87. The Navy Arms: a Friendly pub in Deptford.
    88. Nelson’s Head: a traditional pub in Horatio Street. 2007 – 2015.
    89. The Oak: lesbian bar in Manor House. 1994 – 2013
    90. Old Ship: East end gay pub near Old Street. (UPDATE) It’s now under new management and isn’t “gay” anymore, but gay-friendly – and has drag acts.
    91. The Orange: Described as a large boys space, with themes every night.
    92. The Outback Bar: next to Buzz Bar, also closed in Clapham Junction.
    93. Penny Farthing: A favourite Hammersmith hangout.
    94. Piano Bar
    95. Play Pit: A sleazy barroom cruisy bar in Kings Cross
    96. Profile: a cafe and bar opened by dating gurus Gaydar, closed in 2013 along with the sale of their radio station Gaydar Radio. 2007 – 2013.
    97. Prohibition Cafe Bar: gay owned, a gay-friendly pub in Streatham.
    98. Princess Of Wales: Friendly gay bar in Woolwich.
    99. Queens Arms: closed in the early 2000s and turned into flats. It was a smart, upmarket pub.
    100. Queens Arms: a homely pub in Hounslow Central.
    101. Queens Head: Chelsea gay/straight pub that was unable to negotiate a new lease due to increased costs in 2016.
    102. Ram, The: Islington with legendary party nights.
    103. Rocket: Two bars in one, in Acton.
    104. Roebuck: a bar situated in Rennell Street, later called Bar Phoenix which was eventually demolished.
    105. Rose and Crown: Greenwich
    106. Red Stiletto: in Vauxhall.
    107. Racecourse: The a friendly mixed pub in Crouch End.
    108. Route 73: traditional gay bar in Stoke Newington.
    109. Rush Bar: a lesbian bar which closed in the mid-2000s.
    110. Salisbury: St Martins Lane, WC1 (yes it is still there, but now straight).
      This was pub frequented by actors and gay men in the 1950/60s becoming completely gay in the 1970s. It ceased trading as a gay pub in 1985 with the opening of a new gay bar across the road (Brief Encounter).  It was featured in the film “Victim” with gay leading actor Dirk Bogarde. The film made in 1961 told the story of the culture of blackmail in the gay community.
      The film set in motion the legalisation of homosexuality in 1967. (thanks to John for info)
    111. The Salmon, in Islington
    112. Shadow Lounge: A members dance club/bar that allowed guest listing announced it was to shut in September 2016.
    113. Skinners Arms: a Traditional gay pub in Oval.
    114. Soho’s Strippers
    115. Southopia: a lesbian bar in Kennington.
    116. The Spiral Staircase, a gay bar on Shoreditch Highstreet
    117. SW9: a stylish cafe bar in Brixton.
    118. The Stag
    119. Star And Garter: a traditional pub in Bromley. 2006 – 2014.
    120. Stokey Stop: a lesbian bar in Stoke Newington
    121. West Central
    122. White Horse: a mixed pub on the Westferry DLR.
    123. Woolwich Infant: Plumstead
    124. Y Bar: On Essex Road in Islington.
    125. 79CXR: manly bar on Tottenham Court Road. 1994 -2015

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    Gay Clubs Closed (43)

    1. Adams Club: In in Leicester Sq.
    2. Area: Dance club in Albert Embankment 2006 – 2014
    3. Atelier at The End: Weekly lounge-style event near Tottenham Court Road.
    4. Bangs Nightclub on Charing Cross Road in the 70s
    5. Benjy’s 2000: a Sunday night club night for gay men, near Mile End.
    6. The Block: A Bromley by Bow dress code, cruisy club night.
    7. Catacombs: A bar in Earl’s Court, which never sold alcohol. Read a story from the Catacombs.
    8. Coco Latte: every Friday night at the Chocolate Bar.
    9. Club V: a popular gay indie night every other Saturday in Islington.
    10. Club Kali: at the Dome, a bi-monthly Bhangra bash in N19.
    11. Club Tranvesties: A Stepney night for “TVs/ TSs” every Sunday near Aldgate East
    12. Chaguaramas Club: Neal St, closed in 1970
    13. Crash: late night club from 10.30 in Vauxhall. Closed in 2007. It now operates as Union, which is still a gay event.
    14. Dorian Club off Kings Road in Chelsea in the 70s
    15. DTPM
    16. El Sombrero: (Yours or Mine) Kensington High Street
    17. Extreme: Sunday afternoon clubbing from 1 PM till 9 PM.
    18. FF was at Turnmills
    19. Fist: described as a “sleaze pit” with a strictly enforced dress code.
    20. G-A-Y: at the Astoria: 1993 – 2008 Moved to Heaven.
    21. Gay Tea Dance: at the Limelight on Shaftesbury Ave.
    22. GhettoCult Soho dance club with a mixed clientele of club freaks, artists and international A-listers.  Legendary nights included NagNagNag, Misshapes and The Cock (thanks to LWellsted).  2001 – 2008
    23. Le Foyer: A club in Soho in 70s
    24. Long Yang Club: a gay night for Southeast Asians.
    25. The Masquerade club: On Earl’s Court Road
    26. Napoleon: A club on Bond street
    27. Off The Hook: at Velvet – mixed Monday night club.
    28. The Phoenix: clubbing on Saturdays near Oxford Circus.
    29. Popstarz: mixed club night which used to be held in Kings Cross closed in November 2014.
    30. Reflections: an intimate gay night in Stratford.
    31. Reflex: attitude-free clubbing in Kingston Upon Thames.
    32. Sadie Masie: at the now-defunct London lesbian and Gay Centre in Cow Cross Street, Farringdon. (Thanks to John)
    33. Shadow Lounge: A members club in the heart of Soho famous for its light-up dance floor and VIP sections. Closed 2016.
    34. Silks Club: A club in Shepherd’s Bush shopping centre
    35. Spats club in Oxford St.
    36. The Spiral: gay-friendly club near Old Street.
    37. Substation South: late night club, with different themes each night of the week in Brixton.
    38. Substation Sound-Shaft: on Hungerford Lane – cruisy late night club/bar – Thursday nights were called Twisted and Fridays were called SPUNK.
    39. Subway: Leicester Square
    40. The Lounge: described as a “gentleman’s” club with bar and restaurant.
    41. The Masquerade Club, In Earl’s Court
    42. Trade: Techno club night at Turnmills. 4 AM till 1 PM in Farringdon. Last night was held in October 2015.
    43. Trash Palace: In Soho, set over three floors down the road from Ku Bar.
    44. The Tube: Late night club and cruise bar on Saturdays was called Wigout.
    45. Turnmills: Clerkenwell
    46. Voltz: Was beneath the Roebuck in Lewisham.

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    Other gay venues closed

    Biograph: A cinema were gay men went, but didn’t spend much time watching films. Read a story about a young man’s first sexual encounter at Biograph.

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    Gay Saunas Closed

    Steamworks 309 – Sauna based in New Cross Closed 2014

    Chariots Shoreditch It was London’s largest sauna but was demolished in 2016 to make way for a new development.

    Chariots Streatham Was a sauna that was closed without warning in 2016.

    Chariots Waterloo – Was closed in 2017 to make way for a new development in the area.

    Holland Park Sauna – A sauna right in the middle of the shopping centre

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    #10 Annie Lennox OBE

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    #12 Joanna Lumley OBE

    Actor and activist

    #13 Russell T. Davies

    Writer and script writer

    #14 Alexander McQueen CBE (1969 – 2010)

    Clothing designer

    #15 Ben Cohen

    Sporting personality and activist

    #16 Paul O’Grady MBE

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    #17 Sue Perkins

    TV Personality/Presenter

    #18 Kenneth Williams (1926 – 1988)

    Actor

    #19 Jimmy Sommerville

    Musician

    #20 Cilla Black OBE (1943 – 2015)

    TV Personality / Singer

    #21 Kim Cattrall

    Actor

    #22 David Bowie

    Singer

    #23 Pet Shop Boys

    Singers

    #24 Mika

    Singer

    #25 Julie Walters

    Actor

    #26 Julian Clary

    Comedian / Novelist

    #27 Sam Smith

    Singer

    #28 Dusty Springfield OBE (1939 – 1999)

    Singer

    #29 Alan Carr

    TV Personality / Comedian

    #30 Sir Patrick Stewart

    Actor

    #31 Noel Coward (1899 – 1973)

    Playwrite/Composer/Director/Actor

    #32 Kate Bush

    Singer

    #33 Gareth Thomas

    Sports Personality / Writer

    #34 Katie Hopkins

    Writer/ TV Personality

    #35 Dame Joan Collins

    Actor

    #36 David Beckham

    Sports Personality

    #37 Peter Tatchell

    Activist

    #38 Sharon Osborne

    TV Personality

    #39 Boy George

    Singer

    #40 Marilyn

    Singer

    #41 Dame Maggie Smith

    Actor

    #42 Dame Judi Dench

    Actor

    #43 George Michael

    Singer

    #44 Quentin Crisp

    Writer

    #45 Queen Mother

    Royalty

    #46 Sir Elton John

    Singer

    #47 Andy Bell

    Singer

    #48 Lord Michael Cashman CBE

    Actor / Lord

    #49 Tony Blair

    Politician and former Prime Minster of UK

    #50 David Cameron

    Prime Minister

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    Gus Kenworthy

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    Liam Davis

    A high profile footballer, Liam Davis came out as gay in a newspaper interview in 2014. He said,

    ‘I personally hope that over the next 10 years I’m not the only gay footballer out there. Nobody wants to be forced out, but I hope they can look and see there is someone out there who has done it.

    Ian Thorpe

    Swimming champion Ian Thorpe came out as gay in 2014. The gold medal Olympian said, “I’m not straight. And this is only something that very recently – in the past two weeks – I’ve been comfortable telling the closest people around me exactly that.”

    John Fennell

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    Ian Matos

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    Thomas Hitzlsperger

    German born Thomas came out as gay in January 2014. He was a football player for Aston Villa and West Ham.

    Caitlyn Jenner

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    Sam Stanley

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    Keegan Hirst

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    David Benson

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