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  • Is the actor who plays Eric in Netflix’s Sex Education actually gay?

    Is the actor who plays Eric in Netflix’s Sex Education actually gay?

    Have you been watching the amazing new Netflix series, Sex Education – and has Ncuti Gatwa caught your eye?

    Is the actor who plays Eric in Netflix's Sex Education actually gay?

    Ncuti Gatwa is currently starring in the Netflix hit series, Sex Education as the openly gay character, Eric Effiong, who happens to be best friends with the main character Otis Milburn.

    For Ncuti, Sex Education is his first big break into television and he’s been universally acclaimed in his character as the POC gay-best-friend.

    The character that Ncuti plays is flamboyant, outgoing and not afraid to break from cisnormative behaviour, so is the actor anything like the character?

    Is Ncuti Gatwa gay?

    Speaking to Paper Magazine, he said that he wished that the show had been around when he was growing up because “it’s just important to see yourself represented”.

    Speaking about preparing for the role he said that he didn’t want the character of Eric to be a stereotype, he added, “We’ve seen the gay best friend caricature, and we’ve seen the black best friend caricature, and I really wanted to move away from that. Shout out to (creator) Laurie Nunn for writing such a well-rounded, fully-fleshed, gay black character, because you’re in danger of making him comedic relief. But he has such a beautiful and creative story arch in the show, so it was important to me that he wasn’t a stereotype.”

    Speaking about his own sexuality he revealed that he had a “thorough sex education from Scotland” because the Scottish government had introduced LGBT+ education into their curriculums, adding, “Everybody has to learn about LGBT history.”

    Is there a Season 2 of Sex Education?

    Netflix recently announced that it had ordered a second season of the popular series and it is expected that many of the original cast members will return for the second instalment. Netflix made the announcement on the 1st Feb, just weeks after the show’s debut on the streaming service.

    No date has been given for the start date of the second series, however, it is most likely to drop in 2020. Netflix tends to work in yearly cycles so it’s likely that the new series will be ready in January 2020.


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  • Tommy Dorfman lets Hari Nef expose a lot of skin

    Tommy Dorfman lets Hari Nef expose a lot of skin

    The 13 Reasons Why actor jokes around with Transparent star Hari Nef in their dressing room.

    Tommy Dorfman isn’t afraid to show some skin, as proven in previous posts on his Instagram, but this time he has Transparent star Hari Nef, who is fresh from appearing in the hit Netflix show, WHY and it seems she’s helping him out in his dressing room.

    The 13 Reasons Why actor is currently starring in a play with Hari, called Daddy, which also stars out actor Alan Cumming

    The pair posted a rather candid shot with Hari showcasing, well most of Tommy’s lower body, while Tommy used the post to showcase his tan lines.

    The actor had his trousers pulled down, revealing a very well manscaped pubic region.

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    The photo had a rather cryptic message attached to it, with Tommy writing, “the POWER that that has. the TAN LINE that that has. the CLEARANCE that that has. the TALENT that that has. the PROFILE that that has. the INTERNATIONAL IMPLICATIONS that that has”

    He had previously noted in a post that he was looking very pale.

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BtSPxcDFZ6n/

    Fans were quick to heap praise on the photo, with one user saying, “This is an amazing photo. Absolutely nothing wrong with it. You do you. Much love.” while another admitted that they were “horny” looking at the photo.

    Same. Same


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  • 17 signs that you are DONE AF with your current job

    17 signs that you are DONE AF with your current job

    You spend a huge amount of time at work… nearly 100,000 of them over your working life. So if you’re not into what you’re doing, maybe it’s time to move on!

    You arrive exactly at shift start and leave exactly at shift end.

    Time was when you arrived 15 minutes early and left way after the end of your shift. Now you’re like “nah”.

     

    Emails and calls are not read after 5:00 PM.

    That shiz can be left for another day. I don’t care if a report needs to be handed in at 9 AM tomorrow morning. It’ll have to wait until 9:15 AM when I’m in, at my desk and drinking my first cup of coffee.

    You don’t bother to put on your OOO…

    I’m outta here. Not spending another minute working out technical stuff.

    You do put on your OOO but direct people to someone who is also OOO.

    Annoying right? This is my life.

    You give co-workers evils. Even when they are looking at you.

    I hate you. Even your breathing offends me.

    Work socials are out of the question.

    Why oh why would I spend another minute with you people.

    Time goes by so slowly… especially when your boss asks you to do something…

    Tick tock.

    You know how to just get by without being fired.

    Imma gonna do just the least I can do…

    You spend most of the day on Expedia planning the dream holiday.

    One way trips are looking mighty enticing

    Your mutual hatred of your boss keeps you in close company with other rebels at your work.

    You’re living on hate and the tank is full.

    You’ve stopped being polite at meetings.

    I mean what’s the point. You’re all going to ignore each other anyway.

    Cutting corners is the cornerstone of your work ethic.

    It saves time and heartache and who really cares anyway?

    Your job has basically become searching for other jobs.

    CVs written and rewritten and being sent as I type…

    Redundancy has become your main career goal.

    Please, please please.

    You watch Apprentice and dream oh you dream…

    Basically, I could do better and Lord Sugar looks like an easy boss compared to mine.

    Dressing for success is a made up 90’s fallacy that you no longer adhere to.

    Really Sarah Jessica Parker and Sex And The City can both go screw themselves with their impossible goals.

    Office politics and drama is all you live for now.

    and fight…

     


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  • Here’s the day of the week and month you’re likely to download a new dating app

    Here’s the day of the week and month you’re likely to download a new dating app

    For many, downloading a hook up / dating app is the best and most successful way of finding love. We’ve pinpointed which day you’re most likely to download a new app to find love

    which was the horniest day in 2018
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    Thanks to our analytics we’ve managed to pinpoint the day of the week which we received the most traffic for guys looking to download new dating apps.

    Winter blues or Summer horn?

    Overall we found that people searched our dating app review page on Sunday afternoons, with searches peaking throughout the months of June and July.

    That said, 28th January 2018 was apparently the horniest or loneliest day of the year (depending on how you look at it) with scores of people looking for new dating apps to try out.

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    Most people landed on our gay dating app review page at 8 PM in the evening, followed by another influx at around 10 PM in the evening.

    Interestingly every Sunday THEGAYUK.com sees a surge for dating app reviews or news. Searches for our gay app review page peaked in the Summer (June) but the lowest search was the last weeks of 2018 in December.

    However, searches for a more traditional gay chat site, a non-app site, remained pretty constant throughout the year, with June and July being the peak months but with an usual increase in searches in October.

    Do people actually find love on apps?

    We recently asked our readers about whether they’ve ever found love on a dating app. Only 36 percent of those who answered the poll, had found love and were still together from meeting on an app, with another 10 percent saying they had found love, but it didn’t last.

    The majority found that apps were only really good for hookups or one night stands.

    Don’t forget you can sign up to our very own social network and start chatting with guys across the UK.


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  • RESTAURANT REVIEW | BOWLS, London

    RESTAURANT REVIEW | BOWLS, London

    ★★★★ | BOWLS, Soho, London

    One of the tastiest, and fun, and coolest restaurants in Soho is not on the trendy streets of Old Compton Street or Dean Street, it’s on that walkway called St. Anne’s Court. Most people use St. Annes Court for easy and quick access to Wardour and Dean streets. But next time you pass through St. Annes Court, look for BOWLS – and go right in.

    Once you walk in you will be enveloped in warmth, with smells that you can’t quite put your fingers, and tastebuds, on. And once you are shown to your seat, you will feel like you’re in a friends house. All of this is due to owner and manager Zarifa Ragimova. Moscow born, she has really put her heart and soul into this restaurant, which is just over 2 months old. She trained at Le Cordon Bleu London, and her hard work here has paid off. Right next to the bar as you walk in there is a painting of her co-created by her boyfriend Will – it’s stunning. And further in you can see bowls on the main wall from all over the world, and heading downstairs there is a clever and stylish lit up guardrail, and downstairs the walls are painted in tropical style – beautiful! Oh, and let’s not forget the food.

    BOWLS menu is a mix of Jamaican, South American, and Southeast Asian – a combination that really really works. Starting with the Painkiller Slush from their cocktail menu – it sure was a killer – deliciously so! With Gosling’s and Koko Kanu Original Jamaican Rums, orange, pineapple and coconut, this yellow looking drink, served in a coconut bowl, was ever so sweet and ever so delicious – the best drink I’ve had in a very very long time. My dining companion had the Bloody Marley – and while it was not an actual bloody mary, it was more of a cocktail, with white tequila botanical tea, bloody mary mix and lemon and tomato juice – and quite refreshing he said. Lots of other drinks to try, which I will on my next visit! £8.50 each.

    The food menu is nice and concise, and not overwhelming at all. From the choice of six starters, we had the BBQ Jerk Chicken Wings (3 very large pieces – at only £5.50), with mango and spring onions, which was assigned a hot chilli symbol on the menu but was not very spicy but was finger-lickin’ good. The BBQ glazed pork belly bao – two – were very large, but a bit on the dry side. Perhaps a bit more BBQ would’ve made them tastier.

    However, when it comes to the main portions – the Greedy Bowls – BOWLS excels. 5 mild choices, 2 medium choices, and 3 hot choices are on the menu. As I am a wimp, I had the mild Braised beef cheek. It sure was a cheek – a very large one at that, and was served with sweet potato mash (superb), sauerkraut and pickled carrots. The combination of all this was very clever, and wonderful. And while the beef was oh so tender and delicious, mild was just a bit too hot for me. I would’ve liked to have seen a non-chilli dish on the menu, but since Caribbean, South America and South East Asian foods are known for their spiciness – perhaps it’s not an option. My friend gobbled up his Laksa – a large soup dish with prawns, fish slices, tofu, and vermicelli noodles – which fell into the Hot category – but the hot spiciness level didn’t hinder him. He said this Singaporean dish was perfectly spicy.<

    And for dessert, we had to try two of their three items on the menu. The Chocolate Truffle Cake was just to die for. Warm, very rich, and not too big, it was a nice large finger slice with a bit a fruit on top. And The Churros were just divine. Served with a wonderful white chocolate & raspberry dip, the dozen or so were crispy, warm and luckily not drowning in sugar – for a perfect finish.

    Other dishes on the menu that might take your fancy include Tuna Poke, Zari- Pho- Braised Pork Belly, Homemade Broth, Soft Boiled Egg, Chilli, Thai Basil, Bean Sprouts, Spring Onion and Flat Rice Noodles, and Pan-fried Sea Bass or perhaps a Coconut Rundown Curry. Starters (Prawn Tostado, Butternut Squash croquettes, and Seared Tuna Salad) and sides (Cassava fries, fried plantains, kimchi and Truffled Courgette Fries) all sound oh so very good. Perhaps for the next visit.

    ‘BOWLS make dishes taste better’ – this is their tag line, and they are right. The food, from the starters to the main dishes, are served in varying designs and in bowls from large to small, and all pure comfort food. And the vibe is FUN! Having walked by the restaurant a few times in the past couple months, it’s constantly buzzing and busy – and with its central location, makes it a great place to meet friends after work as well as a nice weekend meal. You might also catch a night when the DJ is on the decks – all to make BOWLS extra spicy. I guarantee you will leave Bowls feeling satisfied, nourished and deeply contented, an experience that is good for the soul, and the tummy!

    https://bowlsrestaurants.co.uk

    27 St Anne’s Court,
    Soho, London W1F 0BN
    020 3146 0445

    soho@bowlsrestaurants.co.uk

    LUNCH
    Monday – Friday: 11:30 am – 3:30 pm (last reservations at 3 pm)
    Saturday: 11:30 am – 4:30 pm (last reservations at 4 pm)
    Sunday: closed

    DINNER
    Monday – Wednesday: 5 pm – 11 pm (last reservations at 10.30 pm)
    Thursday – Saturday: 5 pm – midnight (last reservations at 11:30 pm, Reduced menu available only between 10:45 pm – 11:30 pm)
    Sunday: closed

  • Is Rami Malek from Bohemian Rhapsody gay, bisexual or straight?

    Is Rami Malek from Bohemian Rhapsody gay, bisexual or straight?

    He’s an award-winning actor who is getting critical acclaim for his stunning portrayal of Freddie Mercury in Bohemian Rhapsody, but what do we know about the actor Rami Malek?

    Is Rami Malek married
    (Photo by: Sarah Shatz/USA Network)

    Although Rami Malek has appeared in numerous films and TV series it is arguable that he first came to public awareness when Amazon Studios released their stunning and critically acclaimed tech drama, Mr Robot. Before that show he was pretty much unknown. However, since then his role as Freddie Mercury in the multi-award winning Queen biopic, Bohemian Rhapsody, he has been catapulted to household name status.

    Is Rami Malek gay, bisexual or straight?

    Rami Malek gay, bisexual or straight

    Of course, it goes without saying, in this day and age, it really shouldn’t matter what an actor’s sexuality is. However, Rami doesn’t identify as gay or bisexual but remains very private about his romantic life. Previously he revealed that he tends to shun questions about his private life wishing to remain “anonymous”.

    It has been reported that he is or has dated his BoRap co-star Lucy Boynton according to US Weekly magazine – with a source close to the pair saying Rami was “so into her”. The pair apparently met on the set of the Box Office breaking movie back in 2017. Lucy played Freddie’s girlfriend, Mary Austin.

    He was also reported that he dated another co-star, Portia Doubleday who appeared alongside Rami in Mr Robot. According to US Weekly, the couple split in 2017.

    Speaking about playing the iconic role of the bisexual Freddie Mercury Rami said that Freddie was “a gay icon and… an icon for all of us.”

    Is Rami Malek married?

    As far as we know for certain, Rami Melek is not married.

    What other shows has Rami Malek appeared in?

    Rami has appeared in countless TV series, including Gilmore Girls, 24, The Pacific and BoJack Horseman. In terms of films, he has starred in Night At The Museum, Battleship, The Twilight Saga and Need For Speed.

     

     


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  • TECH REVIEW |  Zumo 396 LMT-S Sat Nav

    TECH REVIEW | Zumo 396 LMT-S Sat Nav

    ★★★★★ | Zumo 396 LMT-S Sat Nav

    These days, most of the cars I drive have factory SatNav. If not, I’ll use my Google maps on my phone in a holder, simples.

    On the bike, I have persevered for ages, trying to strap my phone to a holder or, if it looks like rain, stopping regularly to check google maps on my phone then carrying on for a bit.

    On the bike, I had to say enough was enough. The phone doesn’t work in the sun, isn’t waterproof and just isn’t practical. Time for a dedicated SatNav.

    Garmin came to the rescue with the devices a rugged unit, comes complete with bar mounts (and suction mount for the car) and it has a glove-friendly, sunlight-readable 4.3″ display; resistant to fuel vapours, UV rays and harsh weather.

    It’s rammed with features like WiFi updating, adventurous routing (forget boring A road slogs), live traffic, speed cameras and weather, as well as on-screen notifications from your phone and hands-free calling if you connect it to your Bluetooth headset. You get free lifetime maps too.

    This Garmin is a genuinely clever bit of kit. To really turbocharge it you need to connect it to an app on your phone (doesn’t use much data at all) and then you get live traffic updates and re-routing options, notifications for sharp curves, speed cameras, rail and animal crossings, schools and slower traffic and even Incident notification (to alert the contact of your choice in the event of a crash by sending them a link to your location). Now that’s clever.

    The more I use it, the more features I discover, like the fatigue warning that flashes up after a couple of hours, offering you suggested stops nearby.

    There’s a TripAdvisor app for ratings of nearby restaurants, hotels etc and a Foursquare app for a list of restaurants and things to do nearby, I don’t really use that much but it’s a pretty good feature.

    You can mount the unit easily with the supplied bar mount and brackets.

    It has a decent battery: A full charge seems to last for about an hour and a half, then dims to 40% brightness and it’s around 3 hours in total until it turns off. You can, however, either hardwire it with the kit supplied (direct to battery or ignition) or plug it into a USB type 12v charging socket. The satnav simply clips to a spring-loaded holder so it’s really easy to unclip it from the bike when you’re at your destination.

    The sidebar is fully customisable. Smart notifications can include alerts of emails, missed calls, SMS, WhatsApp, social media and more. Even things like elevation, traffic and other items like fuel stops ahead, trip data, weather (it’ll show you the expected weather at three points along your planned route), phone and the media player.

    You can select what categories of alerts are shown, or turn them off altogether vid the apps menu.

    The Zumo 396 LMT-S has car, motorcycle and off-road profiles. These affect the default route planning, map view, tools displayed, avoidances and off-route recalculation modes.

    Stopping to check my phone has been a massive pain in the arse. I have to keep taking a glove off to get the touch screen to work. One of my favourite things on the Garmin is the touch screen.  It works with a gloved hand… bliss. I’m sure others have it but it’s such a relief.

    The Garmin Zumo 369 LMT-S seems to be very well sealed from the weather, I haven’t had an issue yet and have been out in pretty heavy rain.

    Navigation is really good. That’s what this is about after all. The top bar shows information about the upcoming turn and distance, that kind of thing. There’s a clear map which you can change to suit you, and as you approach your exit, a clear illustration of your motorway junctions makes it easy to understand which lane to be in. Positioning accuracy is great and it doesn’t seem to lag much at all.

    I’ve been running the Garmin Zumo 369 LMT-S in my car next to Google maps on my phone as a comparison.

    I think Google Maps is slightly better when suggesting the best route and rerouting around traffic or issues. Google just seems to have slightly better information. Only slightly though and that’s more than offset by the myriad of awesome features on the Zumo.

    The other main benefit I find with Google Maps is the address search. I visit customers all week. That means I don’t always know their address. With Google, I search up the business name and usually just click ‘directions’, which ports that info into Maps. Most aftermarket SatNavs I’ve used, including this Zumo (unless I’m doing it wrong), don’t have a great business name or address directory function.

    In my opinion, this is a great unit. It’s bike specific, waterproof, touch screen you can use with a gloved hand and can see it in daylight and all the other cool features.

    I really like it. It’s made a massive difference to my riding.

    Available from Amazon for under £60


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  • The Good, The Bad and the Ugly: Volkswagen Polo 2002 – 2009

    The Good, The Bad and the Ugly: Volkswagen Polo 2002 – 2009

    The Good, The Bad and the Ugly: VW Polo

    An irrelevant look at a certain car.

    Volkswagen Polo 2002 – 2009

    VW’s Polo has just reached its Mk 6 status and the little Polo has gone from strength to strength, once being the smallest and cheapest way into VW. And then Polo became a proper VW and a new smaller car was available, thus pushing Polo to another stratosphere in VW ownership. It’s all gone well for Polo except.

    Back in 2002, the MK 4 Polo arrived. It was ALL NEW, all sparkly and dull as ditch water. Changing the front indicator was probably as exciting as it could get.

    It wasn’t a bad car, it didn’t necessarily achieve great showroom appeal, but it did sell in vast numbers with most being painted silver. The new colour for the millennium so I am lead to believe. And the Polo did what you needed it to be. It was a small car with large dimensions in as much as it just got fat as was typical of VW’s ethos back then. 

    Polo was well built. It carried the VW traditions quite well. Wasn’t know for falling apart, could take some serious bodily abuse and never see a welders torch. It was what Polo customers wanted. A quality car that stood for something even if it was lacking in entertainment on almost every level. You could also fool people by replacing the VW badge with one from Mercedes because it did look a little like the 2000 – 2007 Merc W203. 

    Sadly, the looks of Polo didn’t really change between model to model. To be honest, you’d have to do more than squint to spot the mild fire breathing 100PS 16v over the more humdrum three cylinder 1.2 with about half the power.

    And it’s this 1.2 engine that brings me here. The little 3 pot petrol was quite energetic in its power propulsion method and didn’t leave you with a strange feeling like that of sitting on a washing machine with a brick in it. It was quite smooth and liked revs. However, It was a ruddy awful engine and not one that I would, in its advancing years, recommend. EVER.

    Piston slap and burnt out exhaust valves are the main culprit and not always on engines with high mileages either. To get the good economy it ran weak and lean. The leaner they run, the hotter they get. The hotter they get, the likelihood is burnt broken bits. Find a Polo running rough and chances are it won’t be a coil pack for £20. It’ll be a new head for £700.

    The Polo 1.2, not a good car. Run for the hills, it’s that bad!  

  • The Good, The Bad and the Ugly. Ford Ka

    The Good, The Bad and the Ugly. Ford Ka

    The Good, The Bad and the Ugly – Ford Ka

    An irrelevant look at a certain car.

    Ford Ka 1996 – 2008

    If ever there was a small car that outstayed its welcome, it was the Ford Ka. K A or Ka which was probably short for khazi, was another word for toilet. 

    OK, so I might have been a bit mean to Ford’s city hopeful because when launched, it really wasn’t that bad. Oh hell, we all loved it and it sold in the millions. Ford made a lot of money from it.

    Handling of the little chunkster was quite entertaining too. It had the ability to be thrown around the streets with aplomb, helped greatly by Issigonis’s design philosophy of having a wheel at each corner. He was, in case you didn’t know, the father of the great Austin Mini. 

    Fitted with a decrepit old petrol engine in a youth hating 1.3cc capacity, meant that the young struggled to get insured on them for a reasonable price and this meant that many of them didn’t end up in ditches. The leisurely performance of the first generation models also contributed to this. It was vile. The 1.3 Endura engine that followed at least allowed for the cars handling to be more enjoyed easily. 

    That aside, the Ka was quite cute in its first incarnation. It was a hit with everyone. For three brief years later in its career, you could even get one with 2 seats, a fabric roof and to top it off, it was endorsed by queen Kylie Minogue. You couldn’t get much cuter or gayer if you tried. 

    That cuteness also had a plus side. Fitted with massive bits of plastic, it effectively made it a city dodgem. You could drive it at shopping trolleys, walls and even other cars and you still wouldn’t damage the plastic. It was special plastic. Overly engineered They contained a substance to prevent damage from UV rays. They literally outlive the car. Anyway, all this added to never needing to worry about the paintwork.

    What you did need to worry about however was the rear end dissolving quicker than an Alka-seltzer and just as noisy too. With the newest ones available being 10 years old, chances are the rear wheel arches would have let go and front sub-frame mounting areas rapidly following suit. 

    As a secondhand proposition, they really are bloody awful now. Rust is the main killer of many followed by those pesky young kids finally getting them and driving them into trees. 

    Trouble is, they are entertaining to drive. Give good mileage to a drop of petrol and they are easy to both fix and bodge or both and for that alone, I’m saying it’s a good car. If you can find one that is. 

     


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  • FILM REVIEW | Boy Erased

    FILM REVIEW | Boy Erased

    ★★★★ | Boy Erased

    In 2004, at the age of 19, American Garrard Conley was sent by his parents to a conversion therapy program to rid him of his homosexual feelings. This true story is now a film called Boy Erased.

    The amazing Lucas Hedges (Lady Bird, Manchester by the Sea) plays Garrard. He is a young man growing up in a small bible belt community in Arkansas. His father Marshall (Russell Crowe) is a respected pastor in the local church while his mother Nancy (Nicole Kidman) believes in everything her husband says. But Garrard is given a choice by his parents when he tells them he is gay: either agree to attend the church-support conversion therapy program where he will have to go to a camp with similar young adults or risk losing his family, a family that he is quite close to. Garrard has no choice but to go through therapy. Garrard is happy being gay – even entering into a relationship with a fellow student at college – but it is his religious upbringing (and a stern father) which helps him make the decision to go to therapy.

    Once he is at the Love in Action gay conversion therapy assessment program, he meets fellow young men like himself (including director and actor Xavier Dolan, and Joe Alwyn – at the time of this writing Taylor Swift’s boyfriend). They all struggle to not come to terms with the way they are, meanwhile all the time guided by the chief therapist Victor Sykes (writer and director of the film Joel Edgerton). But of course, Garrard has urges that he can’t control, while his parents feel that for him to lead a happy life is to lead the life of a straight man.

    The real Garrard Conley, of course, luckily survived his time in the therapy program to write the book which is now this film, and it’s a very good film. Hedges, as always, is fantastic. One never knows what he’s thinking because of his inquisitive facial expressions, and he steals the movie from the two heavyweight actors who are playing his parents. Crowe is excellent as the self-righteous father but Kidman is both warm and tender as the mother who loves her husband but perhaps loves her son a bit more. Boy Erased is at times heartbreaking, but for the most part, it’s triumphant.

    Boy Erased is out now and available to order from Amazon

  • People are more likely to do all these things first in front of partner before they share their Netflix account

    People are more likely to do all these things first in front of partner before they share their Netflix account

    Sex, passing gas – even going on holiday are more likely to happen before a partner decides to share their Netflix account!

    (C) BIGSTOCK

    New research shows it takes months and months before you reach the “the comfort zone” with a new partner.

    A new study of 2,000 coupled up people found that the biggest signs you’ve entered the comfort zone are allowing your significant other to take care of you when you’re sick, not wearing make-up and not shaving your legs or face.

    According to the research, it takes an average of seven months for couples to have their first talk about marriage/kids and about six months to introduce a significant other to their parents.

    Milestones such as crying in front of your partner, as well as feeling comfortable enough to snore while sleeping next to your partner, also proved to be big tells that your relationship has reached that next level.

    The study, conducted by OnePoll on behalf of Mattress Firm, also revealed it takes nearly five months before they’re comfortable showering at the other’s place, nearly six months to get to the point where sitting in silence isn’t awkward and nearly seven months to feel comfortable using the bathroom with the door open.

    Sex, passing gas, sharing a bed all come before Netflix!

    Sharing shows like House Of Cards will have to wait until at least 7 months according to research! (C) NETFLIX

    Surprisingly, the research also found that it takes eight months to share a Netflix account, which is, amusingly, three months longer than it takes the average couple to shower at their significant other’s house.

    The results revealed that four in five people say they prefer to sleep in bed with their partner and it takes nearly five months before couples are comfortable doing so.

    According to the results, conversation in the bedroom may be a lost art though as only 39 percent of couples say they engage in pillow talk after sex.

    And despite annoying habits like snoring and fidgeting, more than half of the couples surveyed report their sleep quality actually improves when sleeping with their partner.

    “If you snore, gravity is not your friend, but a slight elevation to your neck and head alleviates some of gravity’s pull and allows for a more open airway,” said Dr. Sujay Kansagra, pediatric neurologist and Mattress Firm sleep health consultant.

    Still, most people are happier once the relationship hits the comfort zone as 65 percent of couples sleep in the same bed every night and 70 percent of respondents say they don’t miss sleeping alone.

    “While it’s no surprise that more couples sleep better when in bed with their partner, a restful night’s sleep can be a challenge – especially if your partner snores like a freight train, like mine. With an adjustable base, I’m able to elevate his head and quiet his snoring, which has improved sleep quality for us both,” said Michelle Stokely, National Retail Merchandising Manager, Mattress Firm.

    Top 10 things couples are most comfortable doing in front of each other

    1. Letting their partner see them/take care of them when they’re ill (73 percent/1,468)
    2. Not wearing make-up (63 percent/1,266)
    3. Crying (63 percent/1,252)
    4. Snoring in their sleep (60 percent/1,208)
    5. Showering at their place (59 percent/1,186)
    6. Leaving the door open while using the bathroom (56 percent/1,117)
    7. Not shaving (55 percent/1,103)
    8. Being naked around the house (55 percent/1,092)
    9. Sleeping in a hair wrap or bonnet (40 percent/804)
    10. Wearing a retainer to bed (34 percent/680)

     

    How long into a relationship it takes on average to first experience things (shortest to longest)

    1. Sex (4 months and 17 days)
    2. Sleep in same bed (4 months and 21 days)
    3. Shower at the other’s place (4 months and 29 days)
    4. Cry in front of partner (5 months and 24 days)
    5. Sit in silence without it being awkward (5 months and 27 days)
    6. Talk about your/her period (6 months and 13 days)
    7. Be naked around the house (6 months and 18 days)
    8. Share a deep secret (6 months and 19 days)
    9. Let your partner take care/see you when you’re sick (6 months and 21 days)
    10. Use the bathroom with the door open (6 months and 24 days)
    11. Pass gas in front of partner (6 months and 25 days)
    12. Talk about marriage/kids (7 months and 1 day)
    13. Go on vacation together (7 months and 7 days)
    14. Share a password (7 months and 17 days)
    15. Share a Netflix/Hulu account (7 months and 24 days)

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