THEGAYUK

Search results for: “ ”

  • Pegging 101: The New Sexual Trend Taking Over the Bedroom

    Pegging 101: The New Sexual Trend Taking Over the Bedroom

    Pegging is a sexual trend that has been gaining traction in recent years. It involves one partner wearing a strap-on dildo and penetrating a man anally. The man receiving the pleasure is known as the “peggee,” while the other partner is known as the “pegger.” While pegging can seem intimidating at first, it has become increasingly popular for couples who are looking to spice up their sex life and explore new sexual experiences. So if you’re curious about getting pegged or being the pegger and want to know more, read on to learn why it’s becoming so popular.

    What is pegging?

    Pegging is a type of anal play where one partner wears a strap-on and penetrates the other partner’s anus with it. This is usually done by a woman penetrating a man, but it can also be done with any gender combination. Pegging allows people to explore different sexual activities and can be incredibly pleasurable for both partners. It can also provide deeper psychological satisfaction, as it can be seen as a power exchange, where the receiving partner relinquishes control to the penetrating partner.
    The most common way to do pegging is with a butt plug or dildo attached to a harness that is strapped around the penetrating partner’s waist or hips. The harness helps to ensure that the strap-on stays securely in place, allowing for maximum pleasure and precision during the activity. Pegging can be an incredibly erotic experience for both partners, as it can provide intense pleasure for the receiver and a feeling of dominance for the giver.

    The history of pegging

    The art of the peg is a sexual practice that has become more popular in recent years. It involves a woman (or a man) using a strap-on dildo to penetrate their partner anally. The practice is thought to have originated in the gay community, where anal sex has been a part of sexual expression for centuries.

    The term “pegging” was coined in 2001 by sex columnist Dan Savage, who described it as “a kinky way of switching roles during sex and flipping traditional gender roles.” Since then, pegging has gained in popularity, both within the LGBTQ community and among heterosexual couples.

    In order to perform pegging, you will need a strap-on dildo, lube and a comfortable place to do it. It is important to go slow when trying out pegging, as the butt is not used to being penetrated and may require more time to adjust. Additionally, using lube can help reduce friction and make it more enjoyable for both partners. Some people may find that using a butt plug before pegging can help prepare the area and make it easier to penetrate.

    Pegging is becoming more mainstream and accepted as an enjoyable part of a healthy sex life. This trend reflects an increasing awareness that there are many different ways to experience pleasure and that everyone should be free to explore their sexuality without judgment.

    Why do men like pegging?

    Why do some men love pegging?

    This practice is a form of anal play that has become increasingly popular in the past few years. Pegging involves using a strap-on dildo to penetrate the anus of a man. This practice is not exclusive to gay men and can be enjoyed by heterosexual men too and nope, that doesn’t make them gay!

    The appeal of pegging can be attributed to the intense stimulation it provides. The prostate, or ‘male g-spot’, located just a few inches inside the anus, is highly sensitive and can provide a unique sensation when stimulated. Many men find that pegging can lead to powerful and enjoyable orgasms. Additionally, pegging can provide a feeling of surrendering power which many find liberating.

    For men who enjoy anal sex, pegging provides another way to enjoy bum fun. Pegging does not require a partner to perform oral sex or manual stimulation, so it can be an ideal way for men who are uncomfortable with those activities to enjoy anal pleasure. It can also be a great way to experience anal penetration without needing to use lubricant or wear a condom.

    In conclusion, there are many reasons why men like pegging. From the intense stimulation of the prostate, to the feeling of power and liberation it can provide, pegging has become a popular choice for men looking to spice up their sex lives. Whether you’re into anal play or just looking to try something new, pegging may be just the thing you’ve been looking for.

    How to peg your man

    Inserting a dildo or butt plug can be an incredibly pleasurable experience for both partners. There’s a lot going on during this activity, not just the physical actions, but the mental and emotional stuff that’s going on as well. Power play, dominance, submission.

    But before you get started, there are a few things you should know about how to peg your man.

    Our sexpert Patrick Devon tell us, “First, make sure you’ve got the right equipment. In addition to the strap-on dildo, you might need poppers to help relax the anal muscles and lube to reduce friction. You may also want to have a butt plug on hand as well.

    “Second, set the mood. This can involve anything from lighting candles to playing your favorite tunes. Whatever it is that helps your partner feel comfortable and relaxed is what you should go with.

    “Third, start slow. As with any type of sexual activity, it’s important to ease into it and let your partner take control of the pace. Start with manual stimulation and oral sex before introducing the strap-on dildo. Use plenty of lube and take your time.

    “Finally, don’t forget about communication. Being pegged can be an intense experience and it’s important to make sure your partner is always comfortable and having a good time. Make sure to talk openly about what feels good, what doesn’t, and what you want to try next.”

    By following these simple steps, you and your partner can enjoy a fun, fulfilling ‘up the butt’ experience. With patience and a little creativity, it can be one of the most pleasurable activities you do together.

    Are there benefits of being pegged?

    As it involves stimulating the prostate, we’re gonna say yes!

    The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located about three inches inside the rectum, and can be incredibly pleasurable when stimulated. For men, pegging can result in intense orgasms, a sensation of fullness, and improved ejaculatory control. Additionally, some studies suggest that frequent prostate massage can help to reduce the risk of prostate cancer.

    Pegging can also improve communication between partners. As it requires a degree of trust and communication, partners will likely learn more about each other’s likes and dislikes during the experience. This can lead to a stronger connection between both partners and a more satisfying sex life overall.

    Finally, this whole peg thing can be incredibly fun and exciting for those who are open to experimenting with different forms of sexual pleasure. Couples who engage in it may find themselves feeling more connected, satisfied, and open to trying other things in the bedroom.

  • This guy wants all Bottoms to stop shaving their asses and the Internet has thoughts

    This guy wants all Bottoms to stop shaving their asses and the Internet has thoughts

    One Twitter user has called upon all bottoms to stop shaving their asses; well, as you might imagine people have thoughts. The viral Tweet, has now been viewed nearly 500k times and has over 200 comments from those who agree with the sentiment and those who are appalled by the idea of not shaving their bums.

    The Tweet reads, in all caps, “BOTTOMS PLEASE STOP SHAVING YOUR ASS”.

    https://twitter.com/thatsantanico/status/1614347599984615425

    One user noted that he waxed because it made him feel more confident, suggesting that having a tidy hole made bottoming easier and made them feel much more confident, while another added that he wasn’t shaving for no man.

    Another user wanted bottoms to shave because he was afraid that “berries” might be lurking we suspect he’s talking about what we like to call “chumber nuts.” Yep, that’s when a person gets poop or toilet paper stuck in the hairs around their butthole.

    Do tops actually like a hairy hole?

    Topless man lying on bed - Sensual, erotic and intimate portrait of a naked guy

    One man shared that he had never met anyone who liked his hairy butt and that he always gets asked to shave.

    But one person, perhaps the voice of reason within this whole (pardon the pun) said, “Bottoms should do whatever they want to and not listen to tops.”

    However, one Top, did suggest a compromise saying, “I like smooth. I like hairy. But if I can’t even see the skin of your crack because of the hair that’s too hairy for me. Trim it for me please? It’s also easy to keep yourself clean, doesn’t clog up my shower drain, and I don’t have to flush pubes out of my teeth.”

    Of course, we had to get to the bottom (this time the pun was intentional) of this trixy question. Do tops want hairy or non-hairy butts. We obviously went full scientistic on this and conducted a Twitter survey.

    You can see for yourself there’s a clear winner…

  • “DADDY at 29” These gay guys share the worst things they were called in bed

    “DADDY at 29” These gay guys share the worst things they were called in bed

    Even if you’re swinging from chandeliers or getting so freaky in bed that even Marilyn Manson wants out, there are still rules about what and what not to say to your partner.

    Madeinitaly / Pixabay

    These guys on Reddit have shared the funniest and worst things they’ve ever been called during sexytime. The post opens with a story from a guy who reveals that after a few hours (!!!!) of sex, the guy who was topping him calls him a “pillow-biting pufta”. The result was an immediate loss of erection and fits of laughter and coughing. It turns out he’d ever heard of the word pufta or the term “pillow biting”. Some of us lead such sheltered lives, don’t we?

    Well, the top also then snorted with laughter and what with the poppers and pot they had been taking – sex ended for the night.

    When he relayed the story to a friend, his friend told of an even worse moment, when the guy he was topping, looked at him directly in the eye (they were in missionary) and said “Aww yeah man! Pack that fudge!”

    … I mean WTF.

    This obviously got the boys on the thread talking. Here are some of the worse / funniest things that someone has said during sex.

    Whispering sweet nothings or something that’s a total turn off? Wavebreak-Media-Ltd-bigstock

    “Daddy, I was 29″ (Via)

    I have a big bootie and a guy once was topping me and he suddenly slapped my butt and said: “Look at the size of those baps! McDonald’s would be jealous! The worst part is that after sex he gave me 10 bucks and told me to get myself a sandwich or something” (via)

    “Daddy.” That fucking floored me. He was a young man I’d been dating/fucking for a few months, and out of nowhere he suddenly called me “Daddy” during sex one day. I was literally old enough to be his father, but there was no lead-up to this, and no indication that he had a daddy fetish. But, then: “Fuck me, Daddy!” That brought things to a crashing halt for me.”

    I lost the mood because of something a guy said during sex was many years earlier with another young man. I was in the middle of fucking him when he started saying “I wish I was a woman so I could have your baby.” Did THAT ever kill the mood! (via)

    What are some of yours? Use the comments below

  • Here’s how to find every gay movie on Netflix

    Here’s how to find every gay movie on Netflix

    There’s so much on Netflix that it can take an age just find something to watch. But what if you just wanted to watch something a bit gay?

    Trouble is, Netflix can feel like a bit of an iceberg, only a fraction of the available content is easy to find right there on the front page. The rest, the hidden 90 per cent, can feel like a taunting and neverending task of endless searching.

    Strangely enough using Netflix.com can be easier to find the content you’re looking for, rather than Fire TV or the dreaded Apple TV.

    Weirdly depending on what device you’re using, searching Netflix for that next great find can either be simple, potluck or, more often than not, hours of wasted time. We’ve used a number of devices ranging from the simplest (iPad) to the mediocre (Fire TV) to the downright unstable (Apple TV gen 2).

    For the record, using Netflix’s website to find content is always much easier. So you might want to log in there first using your laptop or iPad find something that looks good then go back to your browsing device and use the search to manually type in the title.

    However, there’s a super easy way to find what you’re looking for because everything on Netflix is given a genre code. Makes sense right? You’ll want to link all the Horrors together – and separately away from, say, Kids’ content.

    Luckily Netflix has tagged all of its content quite well. Even better, we’re happy to report that gay content has been divided into sub-genres to help you get the exact kind of content you’re in the mood for.

    Don’t spend hours and hours blindly searching. Use these links to find exactly what you’re looking for.

    Whether you’re looking for a great LGBT documentary, like The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson or a gay love movie, like Alex Strangelove Netflix does have you covered.

    Netflix has also added some blockbusters to its mix too, currently, you can find, Bohemian Rhapsody, Brokeback Mountain, Call Me By Your Name and Pride.

    So what are these secret links? Well, all gay films can be found on genre link 5977, while TV shows can be found on link 65263. If you were looking for a foreign language LGBT+ film you’d be able to find the full list of content on link 8243.

    Here are all the links to get you to exactly what you’re looking for

    Netflix Gay Content Genre Codes

    Gay & Lesbian Movies (5977)

    Gay & Lesbian Comedies (7120)

    Gay & Lesbian Dramas (500)

    Romantic Gay & Lesbian Movies (3329)

    Foreign Gay & Lesbian Movies (8243)

    Gay & Lesbian Documentaries (4720)

    Gay & Lesbian TV Shows (65263)

    There you have it… an easy-to-use way to find gay content on Netflix.

  • Tantric Euphoria – Gay massage London

    A warm welcome Tantric Euphoria. Your premier elite gay tantric massage company for refined gentlemen of all tastes and preferences. We pride ourselves on the provision of superior London Gay massage in London. We specialise in all variations of Deep tissue and Swedish massages as well as B2B, Tantric, erotic and Sensual. 

    You are welcome to visit one of our masseurs at his home or hotel residence. You may also request a gay massage at your home or hotel residence anywhere in Zone 1 or 2

    We cannot wait to delight and serve you. Welcome to EUPHORIA

  • Even Prince Harry appreciates the Naked Rugby Players

    Even Prince Harry appreciates the Naked Rugby Players

    The world-famous Naked Rugby Players are back hoping to raise even more money for cancer awareness and inclusive rugby.

    The Naked Rugby Players’ calendar one of the Top 5 Charity calendars in the UK is returning again for 2023 with nearly 50 naked guys. Now in its 5th year, the  Naked Rugby Players’ calendar returns with 13 brand-new daring and cheeky photographs as well as a set of festive Christmas cards.

    Five inclusive rugby clubs from around the UK stripped off earlier this year to raise awareness for both Inclusive Rugby and the importance for guys to check their tackle for lumps and bumps, in partnership with the Balls To Cancer charity. So far, the calendar has helped raise over £15,000 for good causes – and this year they want to smash their previous targets!

    From Glasgow to Northampton, Newcastle to Bristol to Nottingham 45 rugged players bravely stripped off in a bid to spread awareness on male cancer and the importance of Inclusive Rugby.

    Speaking about the 2023 calendar, Creative Director Jake Hook said, “It’s always a pleasure to get out in the open with rugby teams across the UK and this year we’ve managed to shoot the calendar in a variety of daring and exciting locations. I love how the players, always start a little shy, but within minutes of taking off their clothes, like magic, all their inhibitions have disappeared – sometimes it’s hard to get them to even put their clothes back on!

    “As always we’re privileged to team up with the incredible Balls To Cancer charity, who provide much-needed awareness, support and resources for people living with cancer and their families.”

    Fans of the calendar include Royalty, Prince Harry who greatly “appreciated” getting his copy and RuPaul’s Drag Race’s Baga Chipz who said, the calendar made her feel “Much Betta”.

    200,000 men are diagnosed with cancer every year. 80,000 of those will die from their cancer. One in two men will suffer cancer in the UK during their lifetimes. Cancers which are detected early, such as testicular cancer, are beatable – but only if the message gets through that men should check their equipment regularly, which is why the Calendar features a cheeky monthly reminder. 

    As with all Naked Rugby Players’ calendars, a proportion of money raised through the sale of the calendar is donated to Balls To Cancer Charity and to the Inclusive Rugby clubs involved. 

    BUY YOUR COPY TODAY

  • It’s cold outside, which means Cuffing Season is upon us

    It’s cold outside, which means Cuffing Season is upon us

    As the nights draw in a brand new Cuffing Season is upon us, but what exactly is “Cuffing Season”

    What is cuffing season and when does it start?
    (C) BIGSTOCK

    Cold days – Check, Dark Afternoons – Check, Rainy Weather – Check, Mariah Carey has come out of her annual retirement – Check. It can only mean one thing. The big C word is upon us. Nope not Christmas but Cuffing Season.

    Cuffing season; refers to the winter months, when people who are usually happily single start to seek a committed relationship.

    With the days getting shorter and the nights longer, the temperature dropping and the trees becoming bare, it’s the perfect time for cozy nights in with your loved one, building a relationship. It is the optimal time of year for past partners to creep up on you, too.

    Be on the lookout for your single exes!

    rawpixel / Pixabay

    Will you on be on your ex’s booty call list?

    One of the problems about Cuffing Season is that it might bring some of your exes out of the woodwork! If an ex-partner is single, they might try to come back to you to spend these cozy nights in with you – which might be nice in the short term but could be highly toxic if you’ve not managed to sort out the reasons you split in the first place!

    Clinical psychologist Seth Meyers explains that “our energy levels are lower during the colder weather and we are moodier’” so we have less motivation to organise interesting dates.

    “This, coupled with poor winter weather, means we have fewer places to go and things to do. This makes us seek out an easier option, such as a past partner.”

    So are you guilty of becoming a cuffer?

  • This week it’s Transgender Awareness Week – here’s why that matters

    This week it’s Transgender Awareness Week – here’s why that matters

    Every year Transgender Awareness Week takes place on or around the second week of November, which also happens to be Transgender Awareness Month. The dates are the 13th to the 19th of November.

    Trans Awareness Week takes place annually in November. It starts in the second week of November, this year it starts on the 13th / 14th depending on whether you’re in the US or UK. The week tries to help raise the visibility of transgender people within society and highlight some of the issues and discrimination that transgender people face.

    The week ends with the Transgender Day Of Remembrance. A solemn day of memorial for all the transgender people who have lost their lives to violence. The Transgender Day Of Remembrance takes place on the 20th of November.

    Transgender Awareness Week is an opportunity for Transgender people, their allies, and activists to share their stories and experiences with a wider audience.

    When did the first Transgender Awareness Week take place?

    The very first Transgender Awareness Week took place in

    It’s actually unknown when the first Transgender Awareness Week took place however we do know that the first Transgender Day of Remembrance took place in 1999, and was founded by a small group, including Gwendolyn Ann Smith, to memorialize the murder of a transgender woman Rita Hester in Allston, Massachusetts.

    The Transgender Day Of Visibility, which was founded in the US by transgender activist Rachel Crandall of Michigan in 2009 took place in 2009.

    How many people are transgender in the UK?

    There are approximately 200,000-500,000 trans people in the UK

    According to the UK Government

    There is very little data about how many people are transgender or non-binary or gender non-conforming in the UK. According to the government, “No robust data on the UK trans population exists. We tentatively estimate that there are approximately 200,000-500,000 trans people in the UK.”

    In 2021 the National Census included, for the first time, questions regarding a person’s sexuality and gender status. A clear sense of how many LGBT+ people who live in the UK will become available during 2022 and 2023.

    Since it was possible to legally change your gender in the UK in 2004 over 4,910 trans people have been issued a Gender Recognition Certificate. 

    12% of trans respondents to the National LGBT survey who had started or completed their transition had successfully obtained one, and 7% of those who knew about them but did not have or had not applied for one said they would not be interested in obtaining one.

  • 6 Trans people reveal what they’d tell their younger selves.

    6 Trans people reveal what they’d tell their younger selves.

    A powerful video, originally released in 2016, is just as powerful today as it was back then. Six trans people talk about the fears that they faced when they were younger.

    The six trans icons each took the opportunity to reveal what they would tell their younger selves if they had the chance.

    transgender stars give an insight into the advice they'd just to their younger selves
    transgender stars give an insight into the advice they’d just to their younger selves

    Speaking to GayStarNews back in 2016 filmmaker Jake Graf said,

    ‘We wanted to make this video to give hope to other people struggling with their identity, gender or even sexuality’

    ‘Just be yourself, there is light at the end of the tunnel!’

    The people involved in the video are models Laith Ashley and Keiran Moloney, British Army officer Hannah Winterbourne, blogger Evie Andrew, Munroe Bergdorf and Jake himself.

  • Do condoms protect you from every sexual infection?

    Do condoms protect you from every sexual infection?

    This week our specialists Jake Jenkins and Jenna Thomas from 56 Dean Street talk about condoms.

    do condoms protect you from every STIs
    Bigstock

    Dear TGUK & 56DS
    Everyone says that If you want a safer sex, you have to use condom. But can it prevent all diseases?
    Best Jimmie

    Dear Jimmie

    Having safer sex means having sex that has less risk of catching or passing on an STI.

    Using a condom is the best way to do this, however, it doesn’t completely prevent you from catching an STI. Lots of things can affect how likely you are to catch an STI such as a condom slipping or breaking during sex and contact during foreplay such as rubbing, masturbating each other, and oral sex.

    A few things that can help are ensuring a condom is used from start to finish during penetration, using latex condom-friendly lubricant (such as water or silicone-based), and regular screening for STIs.

    Do not use Vaseline or oil-based lubricants. Don’t forget one of the best ways to protect yourself is to know your status. Book a sexual health check regularly to make sure you’re always in the know.

    Even if you do everything right accidents can happen so it’s good to know about PEP, this is a course of medication you may be able to take if you have been at high risk of HIV. Or indeed check out your options surrounding PrEP.

  • Today is Intersex Remembrance Day and here’s why that matters

    Today is Intersex Remembrance Day and here’s why that matters

    Every 8th of November is Intersex Remembrance Day. Here’s why it exists and why it matters.

    Every year, Intersex Remembrance Day, which is also known as Intersex Solidarity Day strives to inform and educate people about intersex people, their human rights issues, and the discrimination they face in daily life, including the decision for many to “normalise” their own sex in their own time and if they want to. It takes place on the 8th of November, the same day as the birthday of Herculine Barbin, a French intersex person whose memoirs were later published by Michel Foucault.

    Many find the decision to determine their own sex is taken away from them at birth when parents and doctors make the determination upon the discovery that they are intersex.

    These surgeries can often lead to infertility, pain, and mental suffering.

    Is Intersex Remembrance day the same as Intersex Awareness Day?

    The Intersex Flag
    Photo by Katie Rainbow 🏳️‍🌈 on Pexels.com: The official Intersex Flag

    Essentially these two days are similar. Intersex Awareness Day takes place on the 26th of October and is mainly observed in English-speaking countries such as North America, Australia, the UK, and South Africa. Intersex Remembrance Day is mainly observed in Europe.

    What is Intersex?

    According to Intersexday.org, intersex people are “born with sex characteristics that don’t meet medical and social norms for female or male bodies”.

    It is thought that up to 1.7 percent of babies are intersex. Some are born with obvious intersex traits, whilst in others, it is not apparent until they reach puberty. Some may never exhibit variations in their chromosomes.

    What’s it like to be Intersex?

    The first Intersex Remembrance Day

    The first remembrance day seems to have begun on November 8, 2005, as Intersex Solidarity Day, following an invitation issued by Joëlle-Circé Laramée, then Canadian spokeswoman for Organisation Intersex International. The Organisation invited organisations and groups and individuals to show solidarity by marking: the life of Herculine Barbin, or discussing intersex genital mutilation.

    Need resources?

    InterAct
    IntersexDay.Org

More posts