As Northern Ireland continues toย reel from the recent collapse of Stormont and consequent election, many others quietly anticipate whatย possible changes will come should a newย power-sharing executive be formedย or getย pushed through by Westminster shouldย the currentย stalemate persist and direct rule be reinstated, one example being marriage equality.
While MLAs voted for marriage equality by a majority in the most recent motion it was blocked by NIs largest political party, theDemocratic Unionist Party (DUP), who used a petition of concern to effectively veto the vote. Petitions of concern were incorporated intoย Theย Good Friday Agreement,ย which ended years of bloodshed in the province, as a mechanism to preventย disagreementย if the vote would be on a cross-community basis, rather than a simple majority. This petition requires the signature of 30 executiveย members which previously the DUP hadย but with the loss of 10 seats in electionย 2017 comes the loss of their ability to use it if or when a new government is formed meaning the next motion put forward would almost definitely pass. If direct rule should be reinstated the DUP will no longer have a choice in the matter of marriage equality as well as the many other issues they continue to oppose, in spite ofย publicย opinions, such as reform on abortion laws.
“Living in Northern Ireland as a gay person can be a surreal experience, the civilisation of same-sex marriage has already been introducedย just a few miles down the roadย in Southernย Ireland as well as a few miles across the sea in Scotland, England and Wales, while we remain oppressed by a so called democratic party, it’s rather like being an outdated sandwich filling wedged between two slices of fresh modern bread”
However optimistic, most of the LGBT community in Northern Ireland remain reserved, fearful that hopes of achieving the equality we are wedged between will once again be dashed. Living in Northern Ireland as a gay person can be a surreal experience, the civilisation of same-sex marriage has already been introducedย just a few miles down the roadย in Southernย Ireland as well as a few miles across the sea in Scotland, England and Wales, while we remain oppressed by a so called democratic party, it’s rather like being an outdated sandwich filling wedged between two slices of fresh modern bread. On occasion I have felt like there is no place for me as aย gay man in this society andย considered leaving Belfast for pastures new where bigotry is not so engrained in politics, just like gay people have had to do for decades, when it occurs to me that this is not the 1960s or 70s anymore, this is 2017 and the majority of people in Northern Ireland along with politicians are in support of equality, understanding andย humanity towards the LGBT so why should I leave?
There is a place in society for the LGBT community whether it’s in Belfast or Baghdad, Grozny or Moscow, there is no place for the oppression inflicted on so many people around the world purely based on their sexual orientation.
With bars, support services and the gay scene as we know it gradually disappearing it’s more important than ever that we stand together as an international community offering support to our fellow brothers and sisters. This is not just a fight for equality or for us to feel accepted by society, it’sย a fight to belong and for us to accept society instead of rejecting it as being incomprehensible and lacking in compassion.
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