Day: 29 January 2019

  • Is it normal to have darkened skin around your anus?

    Is it normal to have darkened skin around your anus?

    But the guys in porn have “perfect” unblemished butts…

    Is it normal to have darkened skin around your asshole
    (C) BIGSTOCK

    In this day and age, where people are airbrushing everything into a smooth paste aren’t we forgetting that natural is beautiful?

    One of the problems with watching porn is that it can give you unrealistic expectations of your own body. Some guys in the porn industry have their bum holes bleached, which is an option if the brown skin around your anus is really bothering you. Also, don’t forget that bright lights can also help even out uneven skin tones.

    Also, there’s a case where some people maybe be embarrassed by the colour of their holes that they don’t actually take the plunge and appear in porn.

    It is completely normal for the skin around your asshole and in the perineum area to be darker, it doesn’t mean that the area isn’t clean and shouldn’t be thought of as shitty or dirty.

    In fact, many guys will find that their scrotum is a slightly different colour to the other parts of their body, it can be darker, lighter or redder than the skin around that area.

    Again this is completely normal.

    So what can you do about it?

    Well, firstly you don’t need to do anything about it. It’s natural… But if it’s really bothering you there a number of options. You can go down the root of anal bleaching.

    There are “at home” offerings although people but also there are saloons and beauty clinics that offer skin bleaching.

  • Milo just revealed what he does after his husband “f**ks” him

    Milo just revealed what he does after his husband “f**ks” him

    Is this normal? Is this what you guys do?

    who is Milo's boyfriend

    Apparently after a sesh, Milo Yiannopoulos and his husband, only known as “John” apparently go for a bite to eat, but not just any old food. But apparently, Milo takes him to Red Lobster.

    It’s so specific!

    Writing in an Instagram Story, the controversial journalist said that after his husband “fuck me good – I take his ass to Red Lobster”. Along with the sexy revelation, Milo posted a quick video of him holding his husband’s hand which was showcasing a very expensive looking wedding ring.

    Of course, he could also be referring to the lyrics in Beyoncé’s Lemonade, where the line is actually from.

    The couple got married in late 2017.

    So the next time you see Milo and John in a Red Lobster, you know what just happened back at their place.

    Milo reached out to THEGAYUK to say, “Do you not know that’s a Beyoncé lyric? Isn’t she supposed to be your queen? I guess you lost interest when she got too scary-black for you in Formation. FAKE FANS. TERRIBLE BOTTOMS. Hang your heads in shame”.

     

    *This article was updated to state that the quote was from a Beyoncé song and to add Milo’s response.


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  • Lloyd Daniels reveals his celebrity crushes

    Lloyd Daniels reveals his celebrity crushes

    In an ask me anything session the X Factor star revealed who he had a celebrity crush on.

    Speaking to his 41,000 fans on Instagram, the X Factor star, Lloyd Daniels revealed who is celebrity crushes are and we gotta say, he’s got taste.

    Answering one fan’s question on celebrity crushes, Lloyd, who recently revealed that he and his BF had spent the perfect Christmas together, revealed that he has two crushes – Fantastic Four‘s Jessica Alba and Deadpool star, Ryan Reynolds.

    He remarked, “I have a few so I’ll just leave you with those”.

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    The former X Factor recently posted a selfie picture with his BF Jack. The pair, who have been together for over a year shared the Christmasy snap on Instagram.

    In the picture, Lloyd wrote, “I hope your Christmas was as good as mine..”


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  • Jason Gardiner reunites feud with Gemma Collins after liking “Karma” tweets

    Jason Gardiner reunites feud with Gemma Collins after liking “Karma” tweets

    Jason Gardiner is in danger of reunited the feud between him and Dancing On Ice contestant Gemma Collins after liking a slew of negative tweets aimed at the TOWIE star.

    During last weekend’s episode, an audience of millions watched as Gemma Collins hit the decks during her performance in Dancing On Ice. The feud was first started when Jason launched a tirade against the TOWIE fave and seemed to call her “mediocre”.

    Gemma then swiped back during a live show, in which she said that he had been selling stories about her. Jason then allegedly threatened to sue the reality star.

    However, after her fall on the last show, things between the two had seemed to simmer down. With Gemma racking up a respectable 16.5 points from the judges.

    However, now, Jason has liked a number of comments which describe Gemma as “Vile” and that the fall had been a result of “karma”.

    One read: “Oh @officialJasonG how we all laughed. That’s what ya call karma. Just cannot believe shes still there!!! I no im [sic] evil.”

    Another said: “Keep going as u are, the likes of Gemma Collins makes me sick. She shouldn’t be In the show. Vile. Your [sic] a brilliant judge and know what your [sic] taking about (sic).”

    “Sometimes KARMA is there just staring at you straight in the face. When you fall on it. #honestjudge #myhonestopinion,” somebody else commented.

     

    Dancing On Ice is on ITV, Sunday at 6 pm 


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  • Toronto’s gay serial killer pleads guilty to eight murders

    Bruce McArthur has pleaded guilty to the murder of eight men in the city of Toronto.

    Bruce McArthur pleaded guilty on Tuesday (January 29) to the first-degree murders of eight men between 2010 and 2017. McArthur appeared at the Superior Court of Justice, in Toronto where he entered guilty pleas for the killings of Kirushna Kumar Kanagaratnam, Majeed Kayhan, Skandaraj (Skanda) Navaratnam and Abdulbasir Faizi, Selim Esen, Soroush Mahmudi, Dean Lisowick and Andrew Kinsman.

    Despite pleading his crime he did not answer as to why he had killed the men.

    During their investigations, detectives found dismembered human remains in some 20 planters at a property which was used by McArthur. Detectives on the case made an extensive search of more than 30 other properties that are linked to McArthur.

    Seven of McArthur’s victims were known to Toronto’s gay community, and some of them were also immigrants from South Asia or the Middle East.

    During the trial, the court heard how many of his victims were dismembered and buried in planters. McArthur was a self-employed landscape gardener.

    Toronto Police detective David Dickinson said, “We are pleased that McArthur has pleaded guilty, sparing the communities and families a lengthy trial.

    “This is the best outcome… I hope we can start bringing some closure to the families and the communities.”

    The police have not yet finished investigating cold cases with Dickinson adding, “It’s not ending any time soon.”

    When asked why McArthur committed the murders, the Detective added, “I don’t know if we will ever know why.”

    Arthur will be sentenced in early February.


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  • Zoe Ball’s son just came out as bisexual

    Woody Cook has come out as bisexual

    The 18-year-old son of broadcaster, Zoe Ball has come out as bisexual in an interview with US Magazine, Boys By Girls. Speaking to the magazine, he said that at first, his mum, didn’t believe that he could be bisexual, revealing that she said, “You can’t be, you like girls?”.
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  • Celebs who came out as LGBT in 2019

    Celebs who came out as LGBT in 2019

    Here are all the LGBT stars who came out in 2019.

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  • Why are so many sites now banning adult content?

    Why are so many sites now banning adult content?

    With the announcement of Facebook’s new sexual content policy, we look at other internet platforms that have banned adult content.

    It was revealed last month that Facebook’s new sexual solicitation policy was hitting right at the heart of sexual interactions between people. Many critics believe that the move will hurt the LGBT+ community the most with the shocking revelation that people will no longer be able to discuss their preferred sexual roles, such as whether they are tops or bottoms.
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    But Facebook isn’t the first.

    Scruff, the gay dating app has had to ban various photos from being shown as profile pictures, including any pictures of guys in jockstraps, pictures with pubic hair on show or pictures which are sexual in nature.

    Grindr, also operates a similar photo policy.

    Instagram Users have long blasted the service for deleting their content. In 2018 gay pin-up magazine Meat‘s account was deleted twice, various celebs have hit out saying that the Facebook-owned entity had banned or blocked content.

    Tumblr Earlier in December blogging site, Tumblr announced that it was going to remove all adult content. It is believed that Apple forced the company to make the policy when it temporarily kicked the blogging site from its app store.

    Starbucks Also in December coffeeshop chain, Starbucks said that it had “identified a solution to prevent” porn from being viewed on its WIFI systems. It said would start blocking all sites from 2019.

    Craigslist shut down its personals listings, 2018 after US Congress passed a Sex Trafficking Bill. The personals had run since 1995. The Bill could subject websites found to be unknowingly hosting ads for sex trafficking to criminal and civil liabilities. As a result, Craigslist made the decision to remove all the personals from its site, saying, “Any tool or service can be misused. We can’t take such risk without jeopardizing all our other services, so we are regretfully taking craigslist personals offline”.

    Google Drive Sex workers have allegedly seen files deleted or removed from their Google Drives. Numerous adult performers and sex workers have found that content hosted on Google Drive was no longer accessible. The service does have a policy which bans the hosting of “sexually explicit or pornographic images or videos”.

    Patreon, a payment collection site for content creators starting banning adult performers because its payment partners, Stripe and PayPal were refusing service.

    Reddit has banned all sex-work groups and in 2007 LiveJournal made headlines after removing a picture of a mother breastfeeding saying it went against their content policy. 


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  • CAR REVIEW | The 2019 Skoda Fabia

    CAR REVIEW | The 2019 Skoda Fabia

    ★★★★☆ | 2019 Skoda Fabia

    What Have We Got
    The Fabia has been a mainstay of the ŠKODA range for nearly 20 years. It’s a very important model for the brand. We were lucky enough to get our mucky hands on a facelifted Fabia recently. The car comes in five trim grades & three engine options with hatch and estate variants. Interestingly, to push them along there is an all petrol, three- cylinder 1.0L engine range with outputs from 75PS to 110PS. No diesel for the new fabia. Our test car was one up from mid range, the SE L 5dr hatch with the 110PS engine, matched with a seven-speed DSG gearbox. No flappy paddles, just push the gear lever forward or backwards or better still, leave it in auto.

     

    Driving


    The Skoda Fabia looks subtle but classy. Outside it’s handsome but not eye catching. It’s very well built as you would expect and has that odd quality where you feel immediately at home, like it’s been yours for ages, familiar. The engine and gearbox are great. It’s hard to believe it’s only a 1.0L engine, it goes really well with plenty of torque, not laggy like you would expect from a small capacity turbocharged engine. Suspension is compliant but not soft. It rides very well and is way more fun than I expected.

    The gearbox is very good, smooth and better than most and you can change gear by pushing the lever forward or backwards if you prefer but i didn’t feel like i gained anything so left it in auto.

     

    Inside


    It’s a classy affair in here. If your familiar with any other modern Skoda’s such as Kodiaq or Superb, you’ll feel at home with the Fabia. The dash is straight from its bigger siblings, and very nice. Fabia has plenty of kit too; Multifunction trip computer, Radio Swing Plus touchscreen infotainment unit with SmartLink+ and lots more.

    You also have LED headlights, blind spot detection with Rear traffic alert, LED daytime running lights, rear parking sensors, alloy wheels, Amundsen satellite navigation, Cruise control, tyre pressure monitor and the list goes on. It’s a very well engineered and well appointed car.

     

    Living with it


    With 20 years of development under its belt, the Fabia was always going to be good. For those of us who mourn the passing of the Fabia vRS, there is no vRS in the new lineup. Saying that, it’s still loads of fun! The engine is surprisingly torquey and very tractable. The gearbox is very slick and the interior is in a different league from its competitors.

    The Fabia is so easy to drive. From the first drive, it felt like we’d been together for ages, very familiar. It’s fun but not unnecessarily sporty, maintaining a nice comfortable ride. There’s plenty of room for 4 or even 5, with plenty of boot space… to boot.

     

    The Verdict
    Skoda know their market and their customers very well and they build excellent cars. The Fabia isn’t trying to be a hot hatch or hipster, retro styled lifestyle accessory. It’s a well engineered, safe, pretty & fun car that’s packed with equipment. Our choice would be the 110ps with the DSG gearbox. It’s so smooth and drives very well, particularly around town. They offer something for everyone, funky Colour edition, sporty Monte Carlo edition the elegant SE L model plus S and SE.

     

    Love
    Engine – Torquey, responsive, smooth.
    DSG gearbox – Very smooth
    Styling – Elegant

    Loathe
    Economy – Couldn’t get anywhere near the recommended.
    No Diesel – I’d like a 1.2 diesel
    No vRS – I’d like a firebreathing version

    Lowdown
    Car – Skoda Fabia Hatch SE-L
    Price – £18,155 (ours with options £19,120)
    MPG – 60.1 mpg (combined)
    0-62 – 10.1 seconds
    Power – 110ps and 200nm torque
    Top Speed – 120 mph
    Co2 – 106 (g/km)

  • Tickets for Everybody’s Talking About Jamie are just £24, here’s where to get them from

    Tickets for Everybody’s Talking About Jamie are just £24, here’s where to get them from

    It’s the show that Everybody is talking about – and now the tickets are as low as £24, find out where and how you can get them from.

    Jamie’s fans can now get their hands on some really affordable tickets and those tickets are available to performances right away. The show, which has been running in London since 2018 has now lowered some of its prices to just £24 – even on a Saturday night. The show is just about to be refreshed as it welcomes new cast members including Layton Williams as Jamie New, Shane Richie as Hugo/Loco Channelle, Hayley Tamaddon as Miss Hedge, Sejal Keshwala as Ray and Sabrina Sandhu as Pritti Pasha.

    The show has just celebrated its 500th show in London.

    Everybody’s Talking About Jamie is a coming of age story which is more reflective of today’s society than most of the genre. Gone is the stigma of sexuality, and gone is the major struggle for acceptance by his peers. Jamie is embraced by his supportive mother and loved by his friends at school. The story is more about Jamie’s internal struggle and his relationships with family, rather than it being “him against the world”.

    This refreshing approach makes for a more intimate and focussed narrative and one which genuinely pulls you in. It has been a while since audiences get so much behind a show, with cheers of support echoing around the theatre at key points in the story, which can only be a testament to the quality of the production.

    There’s also a tour

    It was also announced that the show is about to embark on a UK wide tour from 2020. Look out for dates which will be announced shortly.

    Find out more and browse tickets by clicking here

     

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